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Posted by RainDancerPosted by starloverOr make me feel like I am his moon, and all the rest are stars compared to me.
They need to reach up into the sky and bring the moon down to me
....on a silver platter
oh and a couple of stars too
😛click to expand
feel you..
Posted by AgentP911It totally is. 😄Posted by FleshpotAwww love that, so cute!!Posted by saweetz1988It's a quote from one of my favorite books.Posted by Fleshpot
Love is like a spring bear.
Please explain deeper
“I really like you, Midori. A lot.”
“How much is a lot?”
“Like a spring bear,” I said.
“A spring bear?” Midori looked up again. “What’s that all about? A spring bear.”
“You’re walking through a field all by yourself one day in spring, and this sweet little bear cub with velvet fur and shiny little eyes comes walking along. And he says to you, “Hi, there, little lady. Want to tumble with me?’ So you and the bear cub spend the whole day in each other’s arms, tumbling down this clover-covered hill. Nice, huh?”
“Yeah. Really nice.”
“That’s how much I like you.”
”• Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood
Love is uplifting, calm, and secure, like a spring bear. A feeling of familiarity, and living for one another's dreams, while not forgetting our own.
Posted by degenerate_ingenueYeah, when said too frequently, it just gets watered down. Like a "How are you?" that you say to your coworkers out of habit.
I think love is just a word people throw around with no meaning anymore. I don't take anyone seriously when they tell me they love me. If you love me you will show me you love me. These days, saying "I love you" is just like saying "I'm sorry". Just empty words that may or may not hold meaning to the speaker. Actions are what speak louder than words.click to expand
But that's just me, and everyone's different.
Do you chase the one you love if you know you are NOT good for them? or do you let them go, fly and be free? ...
Define "not good for them".
Is this a natal Cancer moon I smell on you?
Is this a natal Cancer moon I smell on you?
Posted by RamOfPeace
Define "not good for them".
Is this a natal Cancer moon I smell on you?
Not good I mean.... You have addictions... Insecurity... Deep issues.... Etc...... no I have Aqua moon.
Every living person I know has some sort of insecurities. And perhaps deep issues as well.
Addiction is different tho, you gotta specify.
Addiction is different tho, you gotta specify.
Posted by RamOfPeace
Every living person I know has some sort of insecurities. And perhaps deep issues as well.
Addiction is different tho, you gotta specify.
Drugs addiction....
are you implying that most venus scorpios have drug addiction
Posted by fauxfuchsia
are you implying that most venus scorpios have drug addiction
NO NOT AT ALL .. His moon in cap might play a big part.. I just wonder if you chase the one you love or let go of them if you know you are no good for each other in some way but very good in another... do you let them go completely if you know you are no good for them or do you secretly not MOVE ON in the hope of change that one day you will cross path with them again... would seeing your love one happy makes you happy ?...even if its not with you....
Posted by saweetz1988The one I was with chased.. until he didnt.
Do you chase the one you love if you know you are NOT good for them? or do you let them go, fly and be free? ...
Posted by saweetz1988Like? There are many different ones. Some consider cocaine mild, and some consider trips to hashish bars a reason for breakup.Posted by RamOfPeace
Every living person I know has some sort of insecurities. And perhaps deep issues as well.
Addiction is different tho, you gotta specify.
Drugs addiction....click to expand
I was with one who use to chase everyone we argued or broke up. Then one day she just stopped, cut all contact. Won't talk to me. So yeah. I agree with Andalusia.
You still chasing him Saweets—?
When I was dating i did have a tendency to be persistent. Once I was completely over the person I genuinely couldn't feel any type of attraction to them. I saw them strictly as friends. But yea I was a chaser
Posted by saweetz1988I know a cap moon, cap ascendant Aquarius. he is deep in his drug addiction. it's very sad.Posted by fauxfuchsia
are you implying that most venus scorpios have drug addiction
NO NOT AT ALL .. His moon in cap might play a big part.. I just wonder if you chase the one you love or let go of them if you know you are no good for each other in some way but very good in another... do you let them go completely if you know you are no good for them or do you secretly not MOVE ON in the hope of change that one day you will cross path with them again... would seeing your love one happy makes you happy ?...even if its not with you....click to expand
his moon is in the 12th. he has no Scorpio placements except Pluto.
Capricorn moons sometimes bury emotions and pain in drugs. especially 12th house moons too. not all, but some. especially if they are not "built" for emotion.
I feel like they play out to be this big tough, unemotional/rational person, but their emotions are exploding inside. drugs are the escape.
I think young VinS will continue to chase until they feel the love isn't there.
IMO and experience, love is one of the most powerful motivators in the universe to this sign. It really truly is part and parcel of their life's blood.
But just because the love exists doesn't mean it's healthy or beneficial, or - as painful as this is - worth pursuing.
That is probably the hardest lesson for some of them to learn. So yes, some of them will continue to chase regardless of the destruction or consequences.
But learning when to say enough is enough and forming boundaries, whilst still allowing themselves to be open and vulnerable, is probably also potentially the most freeing and important lesson for them in addition to being the most painful.
IMO and experience, love is one of the most powerful motivators in the universe to this sign. It really truly is part and parcel of their life's blood.
But just because the love exists doesn't mean it's healthy or beneficial, or - as painful as this is - worth pursuing.
That is probably the hardest lesson for some of them to learn. So yes, some of them will continue to chase regardless of the destruction or consequences.
But learning when to say enough is enough and forming boundaries, whilst still allowing themselves to be open and vulnerable, is probably also potentially the most freeing and important lesson for them in addition to being the most painful.
Posted by FrostAndBiteIt's such a beautiful Venus though. Probably one of my favorites. (I don't have too much experience with many of the others though). My first ex/first BF has this placement. TBH, looking back, I can pinpoint that period with him as "... yep. This is when I first learned how to love."Posted by AndalusiaTruer words never spoken about VinS.
I think young VinS will continue to chase until they feel the love isn't there.
IMO and experience, love is one of the most powerful motivators in the universe to this sign. It really truly is part and parcel of their life's blood.
But just because the love exists doesn't mean it's healthy or beneficial, or - as painful as this is - worth pursuing.
That is probably the hardest lesson for some of them to learn. So yes, some of them will continue to chase regardless of the destruction or consequences.
But learning when to say enough is enough and forming boundaries, whilst still allowing themselves to be open and vulnerable, is probably also potentially the most freeing and important lesson for them in addition to being the most painful.
It's an ongoing lesson too. Pain of a detrimental Venus I think. No matter what lesson you've learned, how far you've grown, certain compulsions and instincts brim underneath.
Probably why addiction can loom heavily in the background for a few. God forbid there's Neptune anywhere near their Venus.click to expand
It crashed and burned spectacularly; but I wouldn't trade it for the world. And I will always love him.
However I will totally set him on fire if I ever see him again.
Posted by busyeyes88Ha! You love us Scorps really. Stop denying it...Posted by AgentP911I was just about to ask the same question....
You still chasing him Saweets—?
This is where a taurus "obsession " with something or someone can get out of control... And once again, it's a scorp placement!!!!click to expand
I don't 'chase' anymore. I'm too old for that shit these days. That's been a long time coming so it's still a new concept. Perhaps I mean 'I no longer put more effort in than the other person is putting in'rather than chase but it's pretty much the same thing. I don't mind doing the first initiate if I have to. Let them know I'm interested. After that if they haven't picked up the bait or cottoned on then I move on, quickly, to the next one. There's always another one round the corner.
I've taken a leaf out the Taurus book and I'm more contented to sit on my arse more these days and be reactive and receptive. It's just less work!
These dudes who want you to chase or who don't put the effort in and who want it all gift wrapped on a plate for free are just tiring and not worth it. I don't mean that arrogantly but if what you put it isn't worth what you get out then what's the point? You wouldn't want to invest your money into something only to have half of it returned, would you?
I've taken a leaf out the Taurus book and I'm more contented to sit on my arse more these days and be reactive and receptive. It's just less work!
These dudes who want you to chase or who don't put the effort in and who want it all gift wrapped on a plate for free are just tiring and not worth it. I don't mean that arrogantly but if what you put it isn't worth what you get out then what's the point? You wouldn't want to invest your money into something only to have half of it returned, would you?
Thank you all for your responses... Mine is complicated... We had a big fight as he's not ready to be the father of my child and seeing him involved with drugs totally killed it for me even knowing he's becoming a father soon... It was hurting me deeply . We faught and said some nasty words... Then I am doing what is best for me and the child... Staying strong and being the best mum I could be.... He's aware now that I am with someone new and I told him letting him know if he's ok with that.... At first he didn't accept the child completely but then he messaged saying * do what you got to do, I just wanna see photos of the child from time to time if that's ok *.... Then nothing much from that... Then I went on to his page.. and he writes.... And this is what he wrote ... https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/can-someone-please-interpret-this-poem-properly-esp-scorpio-placements-thank-you-5951894/ The last time we met he said to me I am his drugs... Like I'm his slave or something .. He hates me one day and really want me the next.. It's really bad.. I feel the same... The way we make love is incredible unforgettable... Now that I moved on to someone else... My soul is still with him.... I don't chase him no more as I am doing what's best for the child and me.... I am accepting that we will not work out together unless he's stopped his drugs behaviour and grow up... As bluntly as that sound... But hearing the poem touched my soul deeply... I cried each and every word...... I just want to know what he truly is thinking..... I still love him and always will deeply.... But I can't force soemone who's not ready to be ready..... 4 months and the baby will be born... People say things will change once he sees the Bub but I don't expect for that.. I'm just being strong for myself and if the new guy is going to be part of the baby's life. I think it's the best thing I could do for the child... thoughts?
No offense but damn this is a clusterfuck.
Youre in a relationship while pregnant by another guy who youre really in love with?
This is alot to deal with especially while pregnant.
Why not just be by yourself?
Whats up with this new guy? Odd
Youre in a relationship while pregnant by another guy who youre really in love with?
This is alot to deal with especially while pregnant.
Why not just be by yourself?
Whats up with this new guy? Odd
Things may indeed change when the baby is born.
Posted by Andalusiano truer words. this truly happened, in real life with my husband's cousin, She is a Scorpio sun, Cancer moon, and has a Scorpio venus. We were discussing family memories after Christmas dinner, and the subject of his Scorpio female cousin came up, where she met this guy (this happened a long time ago and they dated, and moved in together) but he felt after awhile that it just wasn't working for him, so he was very honest with her, told her no, i dont think this is going to work and i dont want to keep our relationship going. She was deeply hurt. But she was determined, so very very determined that she would PROVE her love to him. He lived in Austrailia, so he moved back there, but she followed him all the way to Austrailia. Got a job there, and lived in a nice apartment for over five years there. She would come back only to visit family and each time they told her, why are you doing this to yourself? She said, she was determined to show him that his new girlfriend wasn't for him and that she was the one for him. Bear in mind she was only in her early twenties. and perhaps her first real relationshp (she had dated or gone out in high school but never so intense for her)
I think young VinS will continue to chase until they feel the love isn't there.
IMO and experience, love is one of the most powerful motivators in the universe to this sign. It really truly is part and parcel of their life's blood.
But just because the love exists doesn't mean it's healthy or beneficial, or - as painful as this is - worth pursuing.
That is probably the hardest lesson for some of them to learn. So yes, some of them will continue to chase regardless of the destruction or consequences.
But learning when to say enough is enough and forming boundaries, whilst still allowing themselves to be open and vulnerable, is probably also potentially the most freeing and important lesson for them in addition to being the most painful.
Her step mother, aunts, her grandma, and my mother in law all said, you áre stalking the poor guy! stop doing this to yourself. But gave up after awhile telling her this. She would have to learn her own lesson alone. It finally came, after 5 long years. He never showed any indication that he wanted her, and her family Always thought that he was too damned nice to her and that he had a hard time too. Her family said, maybe if he had told her harshly and cruelly no, never she would have packed up OR never even bothered going there in the first place. It was a harsh lesson for her. but ultimately in the end, she met another man, who reciprocated her feelings deeply and married her. she is now very very happy. Just wanted to share this since it was so true about venus in Scorpio, although i bet that cancer moon played a huge role! (super tenacious) she's also leo mars.
@Lisa wow what a story lol. I truly think the cancer placement played a big part in that. I know cancers have a tendency to drop eveything for the one they love where cap moon wil struggle with his own emotion.! Great story though...
Posted by DMV
No offense but damn this is a clusterfuck.
Youre in a relationship while pregnant by another guy who youre really in love with?
This is alot to deal with especially while pregnant.
Why not just be by yourself?
Whats up with this new guy? Odd
I guess things got carried away. After a huge fight and a month of pain .. This guy I'm with was chasing me for a while and I see a ( potential) in us working out great as a couple and plus he wanted to be part of the baby's life.... He keeps me from being mentally sad about the real father of the child... I'm not a depressed or sad person and I'm well happy... but I thought it was the best thing to do..... I do hope things will change when the baby is born but my hope isn't high... Unless he's off drugs .. Nothing will change... it's just sad ....
Posted by saweetz1988thanks! It's a true story, so yes, it's coincidental since we were discussng this earlier this evening and i remembered her placements as i did my husband's family's charts.
@Lisa wow what a story lol. I truly think the cancer placement played a big part in that. I know cancers have a tendency to drop eveything for the one they love where cap moon wil struggle with his own emotion.! Great story though...
we're all glad that she found a man who loved her back, and is a good man! So even through that suffering for love, it wasn't all in vain. It's the lessons.
I don't chase I stalk.
oh yeah, the cancer moon really played a huge part.
I stalk the hell out of them.. Never a good idea.
You always end up discovering stuff you don't like.
You always end up discovering stuff you don't like.
Posted by saweetz1988Ok. Keep smilingPosted by DMV
No offense but damn this is a clusterfuck.
Youre in a relationship while pregnant by another guy who youre really in love with?
This is alot to deal with especially while pregnant.
Why not just be by yourself?
Whats up with this new guy? Odd
I guess things got carried away. After a huge fight and a month of pain .. This guy I'm with was chasing me for a while and I see a ( potential) in us working out great as a couple and plus he wanted to be part of the baby's life.... He keeps me from being mentally sad about the real father of the child... I'm not a depressed or sad person and I'm well happy... but I thought it was the best thing to do..... I do hope things will change when the baby is born but my hope isn't high... Unless he's off drugs .. Nothing will change... it's just sad ....click to expand
That poem was written by him... ( Venus in Scorpio)
Posted by heartlocket
I stalk the hell out of them.. Never a good idea.
You always end up discovering stuff you don't like.
Stalk and chasing is a two different things
Posted by heartlocket
I don't chase I stalk.
What's your moon sign?
Moon is scorp
I think youre a great girl OP. But this new guy. Idk.
What kind of man invites this drama into his life.
What kind of man invites this drama into his life.
Posted by heartlocketTrue that
I don't chase I stalk.
My Venus is in Scorpio and I have to say about myself that it makes me very complicated!
I never chase in the beginning, but require the other person to chase me. Then once they pass a few tests and earn their way into my heart I find it very, very, very difficult to let go. Even if something is bad for me. That is not to say i would chase after someone on drugs or who was treating me like shit BUT if I feel I loved the person and believed they loved me but we were not "right" together, I would find it very hard to think with my head instead of heart.
All of that said, I don't "chase", I stalk as previous poster said. I can sit there and be literally in total anguish missing him and won't admit it. At most he might get a friendly text. I am just too scared of rejection to take that risk.
I also have a Scorpio Sun, Pisces moon in 7th House. I think I am prone to being quite emotional and mayeb a little sad.
As a general rule, if I REALLY like someone, I pretend I don't like them at all!
I have just dated my first venus in scorpio (sun also in Scorpio and also a cappy moon) and he was impossible to read. Very difficult, and it caused me a lot of anguish
I never chase in the beginning, but require the other person to chase me. Then once they pass a few tests and earn their way into my heart I find it very, very, very difficult to let go. Even if something is bad for me. That is not to say i would chase after someone on drugs or who was treating me like shit BUT if I feel I loved the person and believed they loved me but we were not "right" together, I would find it very hard to think with my head instead of heart.
All of that said, I don't "chase", I stalk as previous poster said. I can sit there and be literally in total anguish missing him and won't admit it. At most he might get a friendly text. I am just too scared of rejection to take that risk.
I also have a Scorpio Sun, Pisces moon in 7th House. I think I am prone to being quite emotional and mayeb a little sad.
As a general rule, if I REALLY like someone, I pretend I don't like them at all!
I have just dated my first venus in scorpio (sun also in Scorpio and also a cappy moon) and he was impossible to read. Very difficult, and it caused me a lot of anguish
Posted by heartlocketLol I do this too and I don't have a Venus in Scorpio.
I stalk the hell out of them.. Never a good idea.
You always end up discovering stuff you don't like.
Maybe it's just a psychopath thing.
I never chased anyone. I let the do the chasing.. Maybe it's my cancer moon. I don't like to push myself one anyone. Ill analyze the situation and talk to others about it, but I won't chase behind you. I guess it's pride.
After a breakup, I'm usually open minded to the fact that they will eventually pop back up again. If I still have feelings for that person or if the still have my heart, I'll still wait until they come back. When they've been gone for a long period time. I eventually move on and forget that they exist. At that point there's no looking back. When I love someone one, it's all about that person. I have tunnel vision when it comes to that individual. Nothing else matters, but when I'm done... I'm done.
After a breakup, I'm usually open minded to the fact that they will eventually pop back up again. If I still have feelings for that person or if the still have my heart, I'll still wait until they come back. When they've been gone for a long period time. I eventually move on and forget that they exist. At that point there's no looking back. When I love someone one, it's all about that person. I have tunnel vision when it comes to that individual. Nothing else matters, but when I'm done... I'm done.
Them, they*
Posted by SassyKiwiLOL! I am not even attempting to mask it anymore, I KNOW I am crazy.Posted by heartlocketLol I do this too and I don't have a Venus in Scorpio.
I stalk the hell out of them.. Never a good idea.
You always end up discovering stuff you don't like.
Maybe it's just a psychopath thing.click to expand
But I have begun to bury the bad habits.
Posted by saweetz1988
@Lisa wow what a story lol. I truly think the cancer placement played a big part in that. I know cancers have a tendency to drop eveything for the one they love where cap moon wil struggle with his own emotion.! Great story though...
It's not the cancer placement. I have the same placements and I will never follow or force a man to be with me. I have Mars in cap, though. This person has Mars in Leo. Mars is suppose to be the planet of actions, isn't it? So, it could be the Mars. I know cancer Suns that wouldn't drop everything to be with someone.
Posted by lisabethur8No, it didn't. Sorry.
oh yeah, the cancer moon really played a huge part.
He posted the poem on his singing page and finally a get a response for Christmas wishing me a healthy birth etc etc.. and now he's having an opinion with the baby's name I have named him.. So god knows where he's leading... or what he's truly deeply thinking.... But I was overwhelmed with his reply today.. 2 months of disagreements hopefully we will finally come clean and take us to better parenthood... now we are in good terms again and I want that to last.... Venus in Scorpio is impossible to read but I think it's meantly led with the heart and passion.... I thought he truly truly cut me off for good permanently but that's not the case... I'm glad but not sure what he's truly thinking.... Very difficult in expressing true feelings just like what you guys have mentioned....
OP,
Why did you get yourself pregnant with this guy?
Why did you get yourself pregnant with this guy?
Posted by heartlocketSimilar placements to you. I used to stalk but now I'm less crazy about it.Posted by SassyKiwiLOL! I am not even attempting to mask it anymore, I KNOW I am crazy.Posted by heartlocketLol I do this too and I don't have a Venus in Scorpio.
I stalk the hell out of them.. Never a good idea.
You always end up discovering stuff you don't like.
Maybe it's just a psychopath thing.
But I have begun to bury the bad habits.click to expand
Posted by AgentP911
OP,
Why did you get yourself pregnant with this guy?
It happened and yes, I never ever will regret it...the baby is eveything to me.. .. he's now back having opinions about the baby's name ...
Posted by saweetz1988Hmmmm it doesn't 'just happen'... you make it happen. You've been after 'securing' this guy for a long time. Congratulations, you have created the 'tie' between you. Don't younger people want more out of life than getting themselves pregnant to 'keep' a man? All attempts at being in a secure relationship with this guy have failed. I know what I'll do, I get pregnant then he will have no choice. He should have put something on before putting it in. Of course, I could be wrong and it was a conscious decision between you to bring a life into this world. Together. Into a stable environment...Posted by AgentP911
OP,
Why did you get yourself pregnant with this guy?
It happened and yes, I never ever will regret it...the baby is eveything to me.. .. he's now back having opinions about the baby's name ...click to expand
The least of your worries is choosing a name for this kid. It's just kinda disappointing to read I guess.
I hope it works out for you.
Yeah. No use crying over spilled milk.
Whats done is done.
The time has come to make better decisions.
Like getting rid of this new guy.
Whats done is done.
The time has come to make better decisions.
Like getting rid of this new guy.
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