Virgo Woman and Aquarian Man

I have been on and off with an aquariun man now for about a month and a half and where us Virgo's need the Security and the feeling of safeness and contentment in a relationship the Aquarius man seems to be quite Aloof and distant which is hard for me, he can go days without contacting me. In those days I drive myself nuts thinking he just isn't that into me.... Then he pops up again like nothing ever happened. Although I am fine with giving him space, but just keep me in the loop thats all I ask.
I wonder if there is any other Virgo Woman - Aquarius Man relationships out there.... some advise would be great!