VirgoSun/TaurusMoon woman & TaurusSun/AriesMoon Man

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TCakes
@TCakes
9 Years

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Halp!

We are both closed off and quiet when we are apart, but when we are together, strangers walk up to us and ask how long we've been married (first time it happened was the 2nd time we had met & hung out)

We have been back and forth for over a year, and it seems the more time & attention I give him (which is hard for me), the more responsive he is IN PERSON. I want more time together because when we connect, it's like the world stops turning. It's like meeting my own spirit when we make eye contact. He's in a comfortable position in life that he doesn't want to change, but he's unhappy.. now how to get this stubborn man to spend more time??
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SissyD
@Diddybop
9 Years

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I'm kinda in the same boat with a Virgo man. Been like over a year and we're pretty quiet and polite when we're separate but dynamite when we're together. People assume we've been together for years. Went on a date last week after a long time and it was the same electric dynamic; a couple asked us for advice cuz we seemed so "together" lol.

In my case I don't hang out with my Virgo as much as he asks me to because things seem to be only on his terms and it's just too inconsistent for my sensitive heart. Like he might not respond to my text for an entire day or change plans last minute and I'll note that and be okay but can't help being a little distant the next time he wants to see me bc I'm questioning his intentions. I usually make him wait a while.

I dk if the situation is the same because I'd expect ur guy wld do more of the leading but maybe there's some inconsistency that makes him hesitate? I won't invest too much time where I see that. I think when In person some gesture of your commitment to him or desire for that would do a lot to soothe any hesitations he might have or at least convince him to do what he has to do to solidify that - like spending more time with u 🙂
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LostPisces
@LostPisces
19 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by TCakes
Halp!

We are both closed off and quiet when we are apart, but when we are together, strangers walk up to us and ask how long we've been married (first time it happened was the 2nd time we had met & hung out)

We have been back and forth for over a year, and it seems the more time & attention I give him (which is hard for me), the more responsive he is IN PERSON. I want more time together because when we connect, it's like the world stops turning. It's like meeting my own spirit when we make eye contact. He's in a comfortable position in life that he doesn't want to change, but he's unhappy.. now how to get this stubborn man to spend more time??
Its Intense when together, people see that and think you are married.



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