What is up with October?

Its like.....everything changed?

A chick (Capicorn) who used to be completely walled off to me (libra) started talking to me. We talk over the phone or texting a lot almost every day since the beginning of this month

I feel like there is something there like it can't be a just friends thing

One day though I feel like was trying to try to talk about sexy things with me but really have been shy about that and didn't respond.

Im hoping I didn't just friendzone myself because of that (I hate using that word cause its not about sex that I want, I believe its important but whats more important is intimacy.)

But I donno I haven't seen her since she has been divorced over a year or two.

Im really hoping this isn't a just friends thing what so ever. She does use the friend word a lot but has done things with friends before so........

We're supposed to go eat sushi w/friends then to a haunted house next week.

Jupiters return. It is currently in opposition.

The 11.85 year cycle where the earth's magnetic field is being tugged from both sides by the giant planet and the sun.

So our neurons are more or less firing like cray right now.

I feel like im smothering her....

Im really worried that im contacting her too much

This happens all the time. I get over hyped about that person and then I dont leave them alone 😢

Its like I want to do whatever their doing all the time and loose myself

First of all: This is super cute! “We're supposed to go eat sushi w/friends then to a haunted house next week.”

Second of all: The eclipse is effecting all cardinal signs(Cap, Lib, Can, Ari)

Third of all: You should just have fun with it.

Posted by GC69_
First of all: This is super cute! “We're supposed to go eat sushi w/friends then to a haunted house next week.”

Second of all: The eclipse is effecting all cardinal signs(Cap, Lib, Can, Ari)

Third of all: You should just have fun with it.

When does the effects of the eclipse ends

Posted by Pancake_Blues
What’s going on in October? Nothing. Absolutely nothing. It is just a bone dry humdrum month of nothingness. But I’d like to know why I am forced to keep talking to others or have some form of communication going on with anyone. You answer that and I may give you a winning lottery ticket.

October is amazing man! The sights leaves changing colors the smells!

If youre outgoing the drunken halloween parties (not my thing)

Go get with a chick and run thru a corn maze! Live life

Don't hold your breath with a cappy.

Women come & go all the time. If you let them be without ending things harshly, most circle back at some point. Granted there was enough rapport there in the first place.

She's not circling back if you only had one date or the sex was trash for example. Read between the lines of why she left in the first place. If she ghosted you for another man then it'll happen again.

Posted by LuckyLibra7
Don't hold your breath with a cappy.

Women come & go all the time. If you let them be without ending things harshly, most circle back at some point. Granted there was enough rapport there in the first place.

She's not circling back if you only had one date or the sex was trash for example. Read between the lines of why she left in the first place. If she ghosted you for another man then it'll happen again.

Okay will take that advice if things go sour

I might of overly freaked out over a text and took something the wrong way.

I can't wait for Saturday (date changed earlier was more continent for her)

There is a LOT of tension lol

Update

So the plan was to:

Saturday- Go to a hibachi restaurant with friends, go to the haunted house afterwards. She also wanted to go see my husky at my house

Sunday- Go rollerblading in her town 1HR away

Plans changed

Saturday- Instead we went over to friends house, had walking tacos talked a lot, attempted to go to haunted house but no parking what so ever and it was super busy so turned back to house to watch a really terrible "Scream" like movie. She was also doing a lot of gossip with her friends at her house.

We cuddled thru it, then at the end asked me to chat with her in the kitchen cause she was planning on crashing at either house (Since next day we were going to her city for a date and it was really late) She also wanted to see my dog that night.

Told me to "don't make it weird, keep it PG-13, this is our first date and she will stay at my house"

Said okay and she did. It was a lot of cuddling and kissing. And she slept in my bed with me....And my husky not knowing manners and had to put him in the cage to sleep over night cause he wouldn't leave us alone.

Also really wasn't prepared for her to stay at my house wasn't sure what I was expecting from this

Sunday- Woke up, went to her apartment to see her cats and the place. Plus she wanted to change clothes. Planned to go to rollerskating but when we got there it was packed and she never went before and didn't want to make a fool of herself in front of a bunch of people. Plus her kneecap kept popping out. Instead went to a nature walk shes been to before and spent a 1hr 30mins walikng thru it all. It was a very nice fall day to go thru that and really enjoyed it.

On the drive back to her apartment (We were comming up with more things to come up in the future throughout these days)

I said I hope we have many more fun times like this, but she said shes floaty (AKA just filed her divorce papers September and is kinda taking things how they go)

So I think it went good lol?