what energies

would grow to resent someone they have grown overly-dependent on? at first, they appreciate their behavior (cooking, constantly checking up through calls and even being very codependent) but then after a while, grow to resent/hate the following 'fussy' behavior and want to assert their independence? and why is it gemini?

If anything, Geminis are thankful for not being shouldered with the responsibility and you taking over graciously. The key to it is, graciously, without nagging about it.

Make their lives easier and don't complain about it! 😆

We can appreciate something at first, but then it become overwhelming and suffocating when it becomes habit, if that’s what you mean. As for being overly dependent though… only on a cold day in hell!! I don’t know any overly dependent gems or gems who want to be dependent on another person period. Thats personally my biggest nightmare

Posted by Kachi
Idk if it's a Gemini trait but it's can't relate.

Who doesn't want free service?

What I grow to resent is someone who doesn't reciprocate the level and quality of services I provide.

I went for a massage today and thought, I need to find someone who would be willing to provide deep massages. I need it.

lately, i've been craving a deep tissue massage too but i'm so engrossed on something else that i forget. and i'm not saying they're not 'appreciative' but it's just that they get sick of it. like they're overly disgusted with the situation.

Posted by nanochip
We can appreciate something at first, but then it become overwhelming and suffocating when it becomes habit, if that’s what you mean. As for being overly dependent though… only on a cold day in hell!! I don’t know any overly dependent gems or gems who want to be dependent on another person period. Thats personally my biggest nightmare

yeah love independence as much as sags i noticed

Any introverted energy in a close relationship with an extroverted one.

Hmm let me ask my Gemini uncle who’s never left home.

Haha I don’t even talk to him, but I don’t see how this is only Gemini behavior.

Between Mutable Suns and Fixed Suns. The latter are late bloomers.

Earth Signs

They hate being coddled when they’re going through something.

It seems they like to go through things alone

Posted by nanochip
We can appreciate something at first, but then it become overwhelming and suffocating when it becomes habit, if that’s what you mean. As for being overly dependent though… only on a cold day in hell!! I don’t know any overly dependent gems or gems who want to be dependent on another person period. Thats personally my biggest nightmare

Word! That's my biggest nightmare too.

This sounds like my daughters gf lol.. Gemini/Scorpio relationship what a nightmare seriously. You must take care of me, get away from me I’m independent & don’t need anyone 😂😂😂😂 Scorpio is complaining she has too many emotions while trying to help the Gemini.

Gem-Sag axis. Both signs hate it and being codependent for a while would certainly bother them both but there could be a reason why they were stuck for a period of time that way. Once they break free it's get out of my way, stop smothering me