Which Sign?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by CancerianGoddess on Thursday, January 7, 2010 and has 36 replies.

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@cappiebelle
19 Years

i am a cap.
best: virgo/libra cusp - meeting of the minds, everything was a dream
worst: cancer - boring. thoughtful and sweet, but boring

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@curious visitor
16 Years500+ PostsLibra

i'm a libra. and it totally depends. but roughly

best: other libras!!!!, virgos, female capricorns, and also pisces and geminis but only as friends
worst: most sagittarians, male leos, most cancers, male capricorns

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@prettyladii
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by curious visitor
i'm a libra. and it totally depends. but roughly

best: other libras!!!!, virgos, female capricorns, and also pisces and geminis but only as friends
worst: most sagittarians, male leos, most cancers, male capricorns

Capricorn and Libra.. I can't even imagine that combination. As cold and harsh, and critical as Capricorn can be I can picture Libra running away.

I would've thought Libra and Sagittarians would get on great.
I agree with Libra and Cancer, I can't stand most Libras. NOT ALL but most I end up arguing with.

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@curious visitor
16 Years500+ PostsLibra

Posted by prettyladii

Posted by curious visitor
i'm a libra. and it totally depends. but roughly

best: other libras!!!!, virgos, female capricorns, and also pisces and geminis but only as friends
worst: most sagittarians, male leos, most cancers, male capricorns

Capricorn and Libra.. I can't even imagine that combination. As cold and harsh, and critical as Capricorn can be I can picture Libra running away.

I would've thought Libra and Sagittarians would get on great.
I agree with Libra and Cancer, I can't stand most Libras. NOT ALL but most I end up arguing with.

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my mars is in capricorn. and i've definitely got to admit that i've been attracted to my fair share of cap men before. i just hate them.

my sag problem...they are obnoxious. they are fake. they don't stick to anything. ugh. i get along with some, but never more than casually. they aren't good for anything more. (i'm guessing this problem is due to my strong scorpio influences)

cancers...i usually start off liking them. but the guys are usually nuts. the females seem very damned if i do, damned if i don't. if i try, they don't want me to try. if i don't try, they get pissed off as me for it. i think they just like to get mad.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Best: Libra (B/c we both had lots in common & both had alot of the same morals (loyalty, intellectual stimulation & security being the most important in the relationship for example)

Worst: Libra! LOL..(B/c when times got rough and/or when it was over, Libra is pretty good for dragging everything out. All the indecisiveness & all the emotional rollercoasters that go back & forth all the time drive me nuts! By the time the emotional rollercoasters was over, I was outdone & mentally drained.

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@lildol
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Cap

Worst: Cancer - too selfish, egotistical and negative

Best: IDK - still searching 😉 but the following would come close:

*Pisces - loves me the way I want to be loved (very attentive; but wants to mold me - I'm in training as he keeps saying. I do, however, fail miserably on a weekly basis)

*Virgo - has told me things I want to hear (of undying love, so to speak; gets repetitive though and I standoffish)

*Leo - good conversationalist - talks a lot so I don't have to (LOL; but I enjoy moments of silence to myself so it gets rather irritating)

So, maybe I need a Pisces w/ a Virgo moon and a Leo rising... (as long as they don't want to mold me, constantly tell me how much they love me, and won't quit talking).

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@Lunamistress
18 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

I am a cap/sag cusper

Worst: Scorpio. There is intense attraction on my side to them probably because of my mars in scorp, moon in taurus and sun in cap. But once we get in a relationship, its hell. I love my freedom and doing my own thing, scorpio would literally sufforcate me, could be due to my sag stellium.

I have to say a close second worst would be cancer, they are just very unstable for me.

Best: I have to say libra, the relationship is almost perfect in my eyes. We get along great. We do have arguments but we always get over them. He is caring and supportive and quite the talker, he has his own thing and I do mines. We both have venus in sag so we love the same way, ample freedom and loads of love 🙂

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@pink_bull
16 Years

I'm a Taurus...

I get on so well with Cancerian males ... I find them sexy, sensual and very funny.

Aquarian males don't seem to do much for me, I just can't relate.

Sexual wise ... Scorpio was the best match for me - he bought out a totally different side to me and I had no inhibitions with him.

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@lovelyleo
16 Years

Currently my worst by my standards was a Libra. I find them boring but they are very sweet. Another bad one was with another leo. The male leo's are very interesting to me, but they do nothing for me. Most chemistry has been with pisces/aries cusp. But the most interesting and so far the one that I want the most is with a virgo. My longest was with a cancer. I am a leo.

I am all over the place but I would like to try the signs that I am supposed to be the best with. I have never dated a sag or an aries.

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@MsKnowItAll
16 Years

Libras are very difficult to deal with..I would haft to say my worst so far...they are good ppl...but ver wishy washy..they are all over the place..gotta please EVERYBODY..in they are very easy to influence.. I am a capricorn

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@MsKnowItAll
16 Years

Get this ..im pregnant by a libra..and he he shows no interest of me being pregnant more less support..his thng is..the baby is not here yet..but b4 I got pregnant ..he was always around me..this really sucks..im a lost capricorn and I dnt know what to do..should I give him a chance when the baby arrives..or put his ass on child support...im hurt,mad,dissappointed,confused, and 7 mnths pregnant all at the same time..T.N.T .. Aint gotn nothn on me right now!!

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

^^ Whether he is involved or not put him on child support. You were not alone in the making of that babe, and he has a responsibility to his child. Do not let emotion get in the way of this vital and necessary action.

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@MsKnowItAll
16 Years

Yea..I know..and Im not feeling him right now AT ALL...but I know he is a good father to his 2 gurls..so here's my question...woud I be wrong to put him on chld spprt because im fed up n would just rather receive a check cause I dnt wanna deal with him..when there is a possibility he will do his part when the baby is born..im a firm believer n..its the small thngs tht count..n he hasn't supported me n 7 mnths..I dnt need him to hold my hand..just a lil supprt..he doesn't call me,he text..he hasn't been to any doc appts with me..he doesn't shw emotion about me being pregnant..unfortunately for him.. I've already been in ths situation b4..I have one child already..he's 8yrs old..his father is a libra..SAME SHIT..new toilet..only diffrn is..I was with my first for 7 yrs..he's doing 6mnths right now due to the same broken promises..libras r full of shit..because I knw I played my position..the just want their cake n eat it 2..they are suppose to be fair ppl..but faaaaar from it..like I said im a capricorn..we can be ur best friend ..or the worst enemy..I guess he'll just haft to learn the hard way!!!!

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Don't look at this as revenge. Look at this as a business arrangement. You invested in this man with your emotions, your care. The pay off was minimal to your personal well being. CUT YOUR LOSSES. I know right now, at this moment things are shaky, uncertain and you are angry. And you have every right to be all of those things. But you have a small being under your heart that needs you to push all that BS aside and do right. Ultimately he will be the loser in all of this. If he is not active in the childs life then he is the poorer for it. To dismiss a joy in your life, a part of yourself, is just ludicrous. However, that choice is on him. Not on you. He has a fiscal responsibility for his offspring. Straight up. Focus on the little one, and yourself. The other can take a flying leap.

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@MsKnowItAll
16 Years

Yea u right..im praying on this situation..unfortunately, I hold my pride on my shoulders..I hate to feel played n takn advantage of..I dnt consider this revenge..but enuff is enuff..im a analyst..n the way I see it is..ppl dnt chnge ova night..im only human ,im not perfect, so if he can't support me thru the storm.. I dnt see me nowhere around when the smoke clears.."figuretively speakn" I am 30 ..n my whole life..I've always treated ppl the way I wanna be treated..u can't just do me any kind of way ..I can't handle it..but thru it all..I will always be the best mother I knw 2 be with of without him..I've celebrated mother n fathers day for the last 8 yrs..im mommy n daddy..so im fully equipped to do it again if need be..its sad I let this bother me..when I got a line of dudes beatn down my door to take this dudes position..

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

I hear you lady, ohhh do I hear you. Pride? You better believe it. Wanting someone to pay? Yep, got that one covered too. Being a good mother? Yes, there again. Single mother? Yes again. Had my first just shy of 20, the other 2 in marriage and divorced now. Single mother here. I know exactly what you're going through. Perfect? Not this woman. Lord knows I've got flaws.
I'm on the other side though, the pain of that is behind me. And I've got the best gifts ever, my children. But I completely empathize and know where you are right now. Because I've walked the path. Didn't want you thinking I was blowing smoke up your rear end, wanted you to know I've been there. And you'll be alright lady, you will. You have strength. And if a man isn't worth having, he isn't. Keep that head high woman. Hold those children tight.
Be beautiful, be you. Heaven knows we have to do right by us.

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@MsKnowItAll
16 Years

Thanks for all ur inspiration venusianbull...ur children r lucky to have a strong mother as urself..I hope u 2 will find true love..it seems we always pick the bad ones...but that's ok..what doesn't kill us ..makes us that much stronger...much luv for ur honesty!!!

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@sorti-fantastic poney
16 Years1,000+ Posts

No real best relationship here... I\'m cursed to serve the helpless women.

I choose rape victims as girlfriends and all three of my ex\'s were somewhat twisted because they never sought psychological help, but I the idiot (virgo), thought I could help them by protecting them, but they always forced me to fail, so i had to break it off and had them seek help...

Ah well.

Yet, my recent gal had a great life so its going very well, and she\'s the first to show me things that \"normal\" healthy relationships are about, so i feel honored to stand by her side. 😄

I guess you can say, the recent pisces, but i have to give it another year to know if it isn\'t fake. been together for a year...

but the woman who took my heart was an aqua because of her overall persona, but she never accepted, so my pisces is in favor of it.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Any time MsKnowItAll, your children are lucky to have you as a Momma too. 🙂 As to finding true love, ahhh, that is my hope. Can't ever squash that one in me. My honesty is freely given. Take all you like. And if you'd like to 'talk more', I'd like that. 🙂 Stay strong, and give that little one a tummy rub for me, your elder a hug. Much luv to you.

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@heroic_guy
16 Years500+ PostsAries

Me: Aries, I am a laidback/chill but passionate.

Best: I wish I was still with my Gemini.

Worst: Taurus I have been in a couple long relationships that drove me absolutely nuts. So right now I have to say I don't know how to be near a Taurus, and claim them as my worst.

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@MsKnowItAll
16 Years

I am a cappie woman..mostly all of my relationships have been with libra men..not tht great of a match..but great sex 2gether!!

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@LibraSid
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Me: Libra

Best & Worst: My Aquarius stbx-wife. When it was good it was good, but damn, it is ending ugly.

Could have been the best: A Libra friend... neither of us could make the first move so we stayed friends until I married the Aquarius.

Most of the others haven't been that memorable.

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@theonly764hero
16 YearsVirgo

Posted by lildol
Cap

Worst: Cancer - too selfish, egotistical and negative

Best: IDK - still searching 😉 but the following would come close:

*Pisces - loves me the way I want to be loved (very attentive; but wants to mold me - I'm in training as he keeps saying. I do, however, fail miserably on a weekly basis)

*Virgo - has told me things I want to hear (of undying love, so to speak; gets repetitive though and I standoffish)

*Leo - good conversationalist - talks a lot so I don't have to (LOL; but I enjoy moments of silence to myself so it gets rather irritating)

So, maybe I need a Pisces w/ a Virgo moon and a Leo rising... (as long as they don't want to mold me, constantly tell me how much they love me, and won't quit talking).

I'm a virgo and I know exaclty what you mean about Piceans trying to mold you. I was 21 when I started dating a 28 y/o Picean woman, who was very compassionate, seductive and wild, yet she claimed she knew me more than I knew myself and tried to change me. In the end I smelled bullshit and deemed her as crazy and moved onto a scorpio who was more traditional, more down to earth and less controlling (a smaller ego too 🙂. I can be myself around her and she brings out the best in me and we've been together happily for 7 months without any real problems.