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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
How do you know he's not interested and what's his sun sign....I'm infatuated/obsessed at the moment as well trying not to think of mine
Well he doesn't look interested and express much. Virgo.
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Yeah mine has been that way a lil
Posted by narayana
If by astrology alone, it's Sun square Pluto, double whammy,also Venus conj Uranus- if you're the Venus, it's a strong infatuation on your side
How do u know which is which to interpret
look at your signs in the planet and match them to their sign in the same planet.
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Like if you both have Uranus in capricorn & if you have some like that that's the same what does that mean
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:
https://cafeastrology.com/lovehoroscopes.html
(Read under Pisces)
Posted by Seraphlight
Anyone miss the old days when two peeps just fancied each other or didn't and didn't analyze shit...just went with it?Yeah but it's too hard now..
You kind of have to know what you're dealing with.
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So true!
Posted by narayana
If by astrology alone, it's Sun square Pluto, double whammy,also Venus conj Uranus- if you're the Venus, it's a strong infatuation on your side
How do u know which is which to interpret
look at your signs in the planet and match them to their sign in the same planet.
Like if you both have Uranus in capricorn & if you have some like that that's the same what does that mean
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Means your Uranus is conjunct his Uranus. What do you mean?
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
How do you know he's not interested and what's his sun sign....I'm infatuated/obsessed at the moment as well trying not to think of mine
Well he doesn't look interested and express much. Virgo.
He must be interested if you're dating? 😕
You most likely express feelings / interest differently and that can be an issue...
What do you mean by obsessed? Like scary obsessive?
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😆 No like addicted a bit.
I Dream Intense with feel to Grow
Feel to do intense with I build
Grow Building Intense with feel to DO
But
I Dream opposite to I Build
Feel to do Opposite to Breed
Grow Building Opposite to Best in Dreams
Nice one, I usually dont like pictures dpxnet because they are usually nonsense.
You have nailed it 🙂
Posted by narayana
If by astrology alone, it's Sun square Pluto, double whammy,also Venus conj Uranus- if you're the Venus, it's a strong infatuation on your side
How do u know which is which to interpret
look at your signs in the planet and match them to their sign in the same planet.
Like if you both have Uranus in capricorn & if you have some like that that's the same what does that mean
Means your Uranus is conjunct his Uranus. What do you mean?
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Oh ok what does that mean
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Maybe you have a lot of Pluto aspects in your synastry and composite charts.^^^This
Whaaaaa — That's a thing?
*looks up chart*
A pretty big thing.
What did you find out?
I misunderstood... I read it as a lot of pluto in individual birth charts meant some obsession of some sort ... But you you were talking about synastry / composite
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Actually, I can't speak for the composite chart, but from personal experience, I can speak about the synastry. When there are multiple hard aspects (square, opposition, conjunction) between Pluto and major planets... look out!
Posted by MyStarsShine
*I love him*Does that mean you will accept any kind of treatment/behaviour from him?
What do you mean?
Are you prepared to carry on with your feelings in the hope he will change his feelings towards you?
I have heard so many women say *oh but i love him* ~ women that have been shunned, ignored, degraded, cheated on etc
The only relationship we need to carry on loving someone regardless of their behaviour is children
Please don't waste your life with your love for someone that may never be interested...it is such a waste of a life
^^^ Was like you were speaking directly to me. Thank you for your words.
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
How do you know he's not interested and what's his sun sign....I'm infatuated/obsessed at the moment as well trying not to think of mine
Actions trump words every time. If he's interested, he would show you. IMO.
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