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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:
U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
I feel people that are familiar with obsession versus infatuation versus real soul mate. Is hard to be determined with properly taking the time not to move in and just learn about each other you just don't know people up front. Take time and effort.
Maybe you have a lot of Pluto aspects in your synastry and composite charts.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Maybe you have a lot of Pluto aspects in your synastry and composite charts.
^^^This
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
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Sorry I meant not really interested.
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
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Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:Is he kinda weird?
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in what way do you mean. personality he is funny and weird.
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
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I love him.
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
I love him.
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What are his placements ?
Posted by narayana
If by astrology alone, it's Sun square Pluto, double whammy,also Venus conj Uranus- if you're the Venus, it's a strong infatuation on your side
what is double whammy again? thank you. we have sun square pluto not sure if its double whammy and m the venus in conjunct with his uranus.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Maybe you have a lot of Pluto aspects in your synastry and composite charts.
synastry
sun square pluto
jupiter opposition pluto
pluto square sun
pluto square mercury
pluto conjunction pluto
these?
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
I love him.
What are his placements ?
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http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
I love him.
What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.
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I'm confused, I thought that was your chart
Posted by tear
He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me.why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:
This is due to your aqua venus. Aquas get attached and obsess over people that don't show much interest. Maybe it's curiosity?
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
I love him.
What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.
I'm confused, I thought that was your chart
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Sorry see the labels. I labeled them.
Posted by Ophiuchus
Posted by tear
He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me.why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:
This is due to your aqua venus. Aquas get attached and obsess over people that don't show much interest. Maybe it's curiosity?
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cx A lot of time I find myself liking people who don't like me back. Hm I'm quite curious.
Posted by narayana
Posted by tear
Posted by narayana
If by astrology alone, it's Sun square Pluto, double whammy,also Venus conj Uranus- if you're the Venus, it's a strong infatuation on your side
what is double whammy again? thank you. we have sun square pluto not sure if its double whammy and m the venus in conjunct with his uranus.
It's when the aspect doubles in both charts, your Sun square his Pluto and his Sun square your Pluto in your case.
Yeah, so you got the sudden hardcore attraction, and he's the Uranus, who might be pulling away bc of feeling overwhelmed.
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Yes we have that cx Thank you Nara. yeah ;-;
You need some pride and self steem .
Life's too short to obsess about people who don't give a damn about you ( or don't show the same level of interest that you do to them ).
How old are you if you don't mind me asking ?
Posted by tear
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Maybe you have a lot of Pluto aspects in your synastry and composite charts.
synastry
sun square pluto
jupiter opposition pluto
pluto square sun
pluto square mercury
pluto conjunction pluto
these?
click to expand
Yup! Who's the Pluto person and who's the planet person here?
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:
You are attracted to him because:
You Vs Him
Self-Ego Intense Self-Grow
Self-Emotion Intense Self-Ego
Self-Grow Intense Self-Emotion
But
Self-Ego Opposite Self-Ego
Self-Emotion Opposite Self-Grow
Self-Grow Opposite Self-Best
Posted by Seraphlight
Anyone miss the old days when two peeps just fancied each other or didn't and didn't analyze shit...just went with it?
Yeah but it's too hard now..
You kind of have to know what you're dealing with.
And you have Aqua Venus..
We can obsess over people, you'll learn that's what comes with it.. every other week a NEW infatuation for real.
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:
Astrologically speaking... think Cancer rising, makes one very slow... we open up and desire attraction as time passes, 4 months is just too soon... and.. we need time and get better with time, it's that 7th house Cappy and 5th house Scorpio. Added, to that he is Virgo sun/Cap moon.
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Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Maybe you have a lot of Pluto aspects in your synastry and composite charts.
^^^This
Whaaaaa — That's a thing?
*looks up chart*
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A pretty big thing.
What did you find out?
*I love him*
Does that mean you will accept any kind of treatment/behaviour from him?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by RumiL
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:Astrologically speaking... think Cancer rising, makes one very slow... we open up and desire attraction as time passes, 4 months is just too soon... and.. we need time and get better with time, it's that 7th house Cappy and 5th house Scorpio. Added, to that he is Virgo sun/Cap moon.
I have that Cancer rising, 7th Capricorn and 5th house Scorpio, and air moon. Water and earth elements and I can just wait and see how it goes or move on to something that holds my attention span....usually fun, humour people, people that have common interests as I do, and a spark if attraction. Its Simple really..
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Posted by Virgoscent
You need some pride and self steem .Life's too short to obsess about people who don't give a damn about you ( or don't show the same level of interest that you do to them ).
How old are you if you don't mind me asking ?
20
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Posted by tear
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Maybe you have a lot of Pluto aspects in your synastry and composite charts.
synastry
sun square pluto
jupiter opposition pluto
pluto square sun
pluto square mercury
pluto conjunction pluto
these?
Yup! Who's the Pluto person and who's the planet person here?
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1. double whammy
2. me
3. double whammy
4. double whammy
5. double whammy
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
You mean low sex drive ?
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Not that but emotionally.
Posted by arose32
And you have Aqua Venus..We can obsess over people, you'll learn that's what comes with it.. every other week a NEW infatuation for real.
Kind of but if we really like someone we fixed on just them. That's what happen to me when I find someone I feel something for.
Posted by RumiL
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:Astrologically speaking... think Cancer rising, makes one very slow... we open up and desire attraction as time passes, 4 months is just too soon... and.. we need time and get better with time, it's that 7th house Cappy and 5th house Scorpio. Added, to that he is Virgo sun/Cap moon.
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Ohh thank you c:
Posted by AUniqueAndSpecialSnowflake
I'm an aqua venus and i dated a libra venus. There energy is very light and not flashy. Is he there a lot? If so he's interested. He is also a cap moon, not very emotive. I see no major water placements in his chart either. It's possible he is feeling it, but not expressing it in a way that is recognizable.
He is there quite a lot. That may be a point thanks c:
Posted by MyStarsShine
*I love him*Does that mean you will accept any kind of treatment/behaviour from him?
What do you mean?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by RumiL
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:Astrologically speaking... think Cancer rising, makes one very slow... we open up and desire attraction as time passes, 4 months is just too soon... and.. we need time and get better with time, it's that 7th house Cappy and 5th house Scorpio. Added, to that he is Virgo sun/Cap moon.
I have that Cancer rising, 7th Capricorn and 5th house Scorpio, and air moon. Water and earth elements and I can just wait and see how it goes or move on to something that holds my attention span....usually fun, humour people, people that have common interests as I do, and a spark if attraction. Its Simple really..
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Wow, I asked him what do you look for in a girl he said the same thing: funny and same interests.
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
I love him.
What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.
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Your venus and his mars as well as his venus and your mars
are opposites.
Your sun and his sun are also opposites as well .
Opposing signs in primary placements
such as the sun moon venus and mars usually, account for crazy magnetism.
The fact that you too have the same moon sign is the cherry on top the sundae.
Good for you!!
I hope I can meet someone that would have this kind of synastry with me.
Posted by tear
Posted by MyStarsShine
*I love him*Does that mean you will accept any kind of treatment/behaviour from him?
What do you mean?
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Are you prepared to carry on with your feelings in the hope he will change his feelings towards you?
I have heard so many women say *oh but i love him* ~ women that have been shunned, ignored, degraded, cheated on etc
The only relationship we need to carry on loving someone regardless of their behaviour is children
Please don't waste your life with your love for someone that may never be interested...it is such a waste of a life
Posted by AUniqueAndSpecialSnowflake
Posted by tear
Posted by AUniqueAndSpecialSnowflake
I'm an aqua venus and i dated a libra venus. There energy is very light and not flashy. Is he there a lot? If so he's interested. He is also a cap moon, not very emotive. I see no major water placements in his chart either. It's possible he is feeling it, but not expressing it in a way that is recognizable.
He is there quite a lot. That may be a point thanks c:
Libra venus show their love with quality time. I'm an aqua venus as well. When I was much younger, I didn't know how to receive libra venus love. I was looking for simmering passion. Found that with sag venus, cheating bastards lol. I now appreciate the subtlety of another air venus. And yes, we do get tunnel vision when in love. I feel it's one of our best attributes though, we are focused only on one person at a time, contrary to what astrology says. And once we lock in, oh man.click to expand
Wow. Your interpretation is so true. I didn't fit in when I was younger too. The lock in damn. Btw is it maybe we are fixed signs once we fixed we can't be moved and we don't give up easily? How's your experience with your Libra Venus?
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
I love him.
What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.
Your venus and his mars as well as his venus and your mars
are opposites.
Your sun and his sun are also opposites as well .
Opposing signs in primary placements
such as the sun moon venus and mars usually, account for crazy magnetism.
The fact that you too have the same moon sign is the cherry on top the sundae.
Good for you!!
I hope I can meet someone that would have this kind of synastry with me.
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c: thank you. best wishes.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by tear
Posted by MyStarsShine
*I love him*Does that mean you will accept any kind of treatment/behaviour from him?
What do you mean?
Are you prepared to carry on with your feelings in the hope he will change his feelings towards you?
I have heard so many women say *oh but i love him* ~ women that have been shunned, ignored, degraded, cheated on etc
The only relationship we need to carry on loving someone regardless of their behaviour is children
Please don't waste your life with your love for someone that may never be interested...it is such a waste of a life
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Love has no restriction so yes. Thank you I will take your thoughts.
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
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How do you know he's not interested and what's his sun sign....I'm infatuated/obsessed at the moment as well trying not to think of mine
Posted by narayana
If by astrology alone, it's Sun square Pluto, double whammy,also Venus conj Uranus- if you're the Venus, it's a strong infatuation on your side
How do u know which is which to interpret
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
I love him.
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Lol pisces I swear I sound like u I think from my experience it's lust luv or sum freak-ish
Posted by Ophiuchus
Posted by tear
He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me.why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:
This is due to your aqua venus. Aquas get attached and obsess over people that don't show much interest. Maybe it's curiosity?
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—....rising in aqua smh
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
I love him.
What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.
I'm confused, I thought that was your chart
Sorry see the labels. I labeled them.
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Virgo trait lol
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Posted by tear
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Maybe you have a lot of Pluto aspects in your synastry and composite charts.
synastry
sun square pluto
jupiter opposition pluto
pluto square sun
pluto square mercury
pluto conjunction pluto
these?
Yup! Who's the Pluto person and who's the planet person here?
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How can u tell who's who
Posted by AUniqueAndSpecialSnowflake
Posted by tear
Posted by AUniqueAndSpecialSnowflake
I'm an aqua venus and i dated a libra venus. There energy is very light and not flashy. Is he there a lot? If so he's interested. He is also a cap moon, not very emotive. I see no major water placements in his chart either. It's possible he is feeling it, but not expressing it in a way that is recognizable.
He is there quite a lot. That may be a point thanks c:
Libra venus show their love with quality time. I'm an aqua venus as well. When I was much younger, I didn't know how to receive libra venus love. I was looking for simmering passion. Found that with sag venus, cheating bastards lol. I now appreciate the subtlety of another air venus. And yes, we do get tunnel vision when in love. I feel it's one of our best attributes though, we are focused only on one person at a time, contrary to what astrology says. And once we lock in, oh man.click to expand
Wow my Scorpio has a venus in sag ?
Posted by AUniqueAndSpecialSnowflake
Posted by P3n3lop3
Posted by AUniqueAndSpecialSnowflake
Posted by tear
Posted by AUniqueAndSpecialSnowflake
I'm an aqua venus and i dated a libra venus. There energy is very light and not flashy. Is he there a lot? If so he's interested. He is also a cap moon, not very emotive. I see no major water placements in his chart either. It's possible he is feeling it, but not expressing it in a way that is recognizable.
He is there quite a lot. That may be a point thanks c:
Libra venus show their love with quality time. I'm an aqua venus as well. When I was much younger, I didn't know how to receive libra venus love. I was looking for simmering passion. Found that with sag venus, cheating bastards lol. I now appreciate the subtlety of another air venus. And yes, we do get tunnel vision when in love. I feel it's one of our best attributes though, we are focused only on one person at a time, contrary to what astrology says. And once we lock in, oh man.Wow my Scorpio has a venus in sag ?
Results can vary. ?
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? u have venus in sag?
Posted by P3n3lop3
Posted by tear
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.
How do you know he's not interested and what's his sun sign....I'm infatuated/obsessed at the moment as well trying not to think of mine
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Well he doesn't look interested and express much. Virgo.
Posted by P3n3lop3
Posted by narayana
If by astrology alone, it's Sun square Pluto, double whammy,also Venus conj Uranus- if you're the Venus, it's a strong infatuation on your side
How do u know which is which to interpret
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look at your signs in the planet and match them to their sign in the same planet.
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Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K