Why Do I have an attraction to him?

I will link the birth charts down below. I was just wondering where the attraction comes from since he is heavily air and water influenced while i'm mostly earth predominance. And I heard that you look at the moon for relationships and our moons aren't compatible.

His birth chart

Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Cancer 28??58'
Moon Aquarius 20??40'
Mercury Leo 22??42'
Venus Leo 27??47'
Mars Libra 16??10'
Jupiter Aquarius 19??21' R
Saturn Aries 20??15'
Uranus Aquarius 7??01' R
Neptune Capricorn 28??34' R
Pluto Sagittarius 2??59' R
Lilith Virgo 13??47'
Asc node Virgo 20??55'


My Chart

Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Virgo 26??31'
Moon Virgo 14??54'
Mercury Virgo 21??13'
Venus Virgo 15??57'
Mars Leo 18??58'
Jupiter Pisces 22??36' R
Saturn Taurus 2??36' R
Uranus Aquarius 9??09' R
Neptune Capricorn 29??32' R
Pluto Sagittarius 5??39'
Lilith Scorpio 1??07'
Asc node Virgo 1??09'