Why have I been surrounded by Scorps all my life?!

Actually I always try to dismiss the significance of just looking at one's sun sign because I think I'm not so "Aries" despite both my sun and moon are in Aries (ha...) and I think horoscopes are a bit too generalized (each person is very different).

But I recently found it too eerie a coincidence that over the 3 decades of my life I have been "with"/ "under HEAVY influences of"/ "close" to ---- scorpios ( or November people?)

I grew up living with my dad and granny (scorp, they are petty liars, two faced and horribly selfish)

My closest childhood friend throughout elementary school was a scorp.

My first job that I stayed for 5 years, I work under a scorp boss.

OK, almost right after I left that job, I got into a ldr with a scorp guy.

That scorp... was not 100% honest , I tried putting all my effort to hold on but eventually had my heart ran over and over and gound to powder.

My sister's bf (about to be fiance) of more than 9 years has always been loyal and truthful to her, babys her (not that I want that) and stayed by her side when she's in very difficult times. ( Man I do envy, this is a rare find scor ~ perhaps it's because he's born in Oct not Nov ? LOL) ---- so he's going to be my in law.

Now I'm falling for a Scorp guy, hard... he does have feelings for me deeply...

When I first knew he's born in Nov I thought "RUNNN" but I just couldn't... he's caring, but nukes when he gets upset/ pissed off, I feel some kinda psychic connection with him...

Well... idk... these venomous stinging insects just keep coming! My liking of meerkats doesnt help.

I wonder what is the (planetary) / karmic, etc force that brings/ attracts them into my life ?

That's funny, this is how I feel about Gemini's and I attract the crap out of them and they can't ever seem to get enough of me and as soon as I find out someone's a Gemini, I run but they run right behind me. —?