Will Venus in Capricorn man come back to me?

Met this guy online through ps3 (again no judgements I never in a million years expected this) everything was perfect it was literally like he embodied every quality I could have wanted in a man and I every quality he wanted in a girl. The connection was magnetic. After texting and talking everyday we finally said I love you. He'd talk about how much he was in love with me and we talk about kids and we were so.in tune with each other. Weeks and weeks down the line we decided to meet and we did. We had amazing sex, but it wasn't as fun as I think we both envisioned. But none the less we still had an amazing time. Now let me say through all of this there have been struggles this guy lost his job, has and kid and court stuff to deal with. I know this just makes everything sounds pathetic, but the wonderful emotional funny man who's inside that stuff didn't matter. After we met I just felt a complete emotional distance from him in felt it prior to meeting but I tried to keep it under wraps. BecauseI know hlac going through so much. He has cried to me before about how he doesn't get to see his daughter enough. And how the mother of his child is such a *****. About a week after we meet he told me that he had to sell his PlayStation because he needs money to pay for things because of his lack of money. Already feeling distant I just though it was an excuse so I said you might as well break up with me and he freaked out and was like really?! Really?! Really?! And said fine and then deleted me of everything. I tried begging him back the first day because in realized how serious he was. I apologized and told him it was because I thought he was just trying to spare my feelings and leave me. At first I got no response then he just said I'm done talking were done. And then I begged more making myself look sad. Then I told him in a short version I would do anything for him. And he said I just have so much going on right now I can't handle a relationship that stresses me out than I already am. He also said with all that is going on I just can't put you through it. Then I told him I wanted to be there for him no matter what. And he said that I am truly an amazing person and that he hopes I find someone special. After that first day of me begging I realizhhed that's not what I'm supposed to do I just freaked out because it was so sudden. He told me how upset he was because I didn't even ask him what was wrong i just said break up with me. So after a day I told him that I l

Met this guy online through ps3 (again no judgements I never in a million years expected this) everything was perfect it was literally like he embodied every quality I could have wanted in a man and I every quality he wanted in a girl. The connection was magnetic. After texting and talking everyday we finally said I love you. He'd talk about how much he was in love with me and we talk about kids and we were so.in tune with each other. Weeks and weeks down the line we decided to meet and we did. We had amazing sex, but it wasn't as fun as I think we both envisioned. But none the less we still had an amazing time. Now let me say through all of this there have been struggles this guy lost his job, has and kid and court stuff to deal with. I know this just makes everything sounds pathetic, but the wonderful emotional funny man who's inside that stuff didn't matter. After we met I just felt a complete emotional distance from him in felt it prior to meeting but I tried to keep it under wraps. BecauseI know hlac going through so much. He has cried to me before about how he doesn't get to see his daughter enough. And how the mother of his child is such a *****. About a week after we meet he told me that he had to sell his PlayStation because he needs money to pay for things because of his lack of money. Already feeling distant I just though it was an excuse so I said you might as well break up with me and he freaked out and was like really?! Really?! Really?! And said fine and then deleted me of everything. I tried begging him back the first day because in realized how serious he was. I apologized and told him it was because I thought he was just trying to spare my feelings and leave me. At first I got no response then he just said I'm done talking were done. And then I begged more making myself look sad. Then I told him in a short version I would do anything for him. And he said I just have so much going on right now I can't handle a relationship that stresses me out than I already am. He also said with all that is going on I just can't put you through it. Then I told him I wanted to be there for him no matter what. And he said that I am truly an amazing person and that he hopes I find someone special. After that first day of me begging I realizhhed that's not what I'm supposed to do I just freaked out because it was so sudden. He told me how upset he was because I didn't even ask him what was wrong i just said break up with me. So after a day I told him that I l

Met this guy online through ps3 (again no judgements I never in a million years expected this) everything was perfect it was literally like he embodied every quality I could have wanted in a man and I every quality he wanted in a girl. The connection was magnetic. After texting and talking everyday we finally said I love you. He'd talk about how much he was in love with me and we talk about kids and we were so.in tune with each other. Weeks and weeks down the line we decided to meet and we did. We had amazing sex, but it wasn't as fun as I think we both envisioned. But none the less we still had an amazing time. Now let me say through all of this there have been struggles this guy lost his job, has and kid and court stuff to deal with. I know this just makes everything sounds pathetic, but the wonderful emotional funny man who's inside that stuff didn't matter. After we met I just felt a complete emotional distance from him in felt it prior to meeting but I tried to keep it under wraps. BecauseI know hlac going through so much. He has cried to me before about how he doesn't get to see his daughter enough. And how the mother of his child is such a *****. About a week after we meet he told me that he had to sell his PlayStation because he needs money to pay for things because of his lack of money. Already feeling distant I just though it was an excuse so I said you might as well break up with me and he freaked out and was like really?! Really?! Really?! And said fine and then deleted me of everything. I tried begging him back the first day because in realized how serious he was. I apologized and told him it was because I thought he was just trying to spare my feelings and leave me. At first I got no response then he just said I'm done talking were done. And then I begged more making myself look sad. Then I told him in a short version I would do anything for him. And he said I just have so much going on right now I can't handle a relationship that stresses me out than I already am. He also said with all that is going on I just can't put you through it. Then I told him I wanted to be there for him no matter what. And he said that I am truly an amazing person and that he hopes I find someone special. After that first day of me begging I realizhhed that's not what I'm supposed to do I just freaked out because it was so sudden. He told me how upset he was because I didn't even ask him what was wrong i just said break up with me. So after a day I told him that I l

Add on after a day I told him that I love him and I will respect his wishes and that if he ever needs anything I will be there for him. He didn't respond. After a week I texted him saying something light like hey just seeing if things got better for you. And he replied immediately saying no things got worse his moms transmission went out and she was crying so I then looked up car part number tobtry and help him out. He seemed to cheer up through text and so I tried to keep it short and not overwhelme him so after I helped him I said goodnight and sweet dreams and he said the same. It has been almost 2 weeks now and text from him. I think about him everyday. My life feels so empty without him.I have tried meeting new people but everyone I meet I have almost no interest or I fake and interest to be friendly. As soon as I'm alone I feel as if I have lost a part of myself. Like I'm gone. I want him in my life so badly it kills me, but I'm trying to remain patiently on the sidelines because I can't believe that a love like that is just done. His Venus is in Capricorn, mars in cancer, moon in aries and sun in sag. Will he ever contact me? Sometimes I feel I should continue to be the one to contacf him just so he knows I still love him, but at the same I time i dont because I dont want to drive him away more. Please help I'm so lost and in need of any guidance.

You met in person once and it's love?

Cap venus is sllllooooowwww in love. Cap venus is a cold placement and they are a little detached. A little over cautious and they are not romantic in the least. They need reassurance and security and if you told him to break up that soon over something that simple, then he doesn't feel the security he needs from you. You have to be patient with cap venus. They will let you know where things stand, but they will take their sweet time getting there.

Seems like words of love were a little too fast for him. Sex was probably too soon (first in person meeting?).

You seem a little dramatic and cap venus likes stable and confident. Seems like you were a little dramatic with breaking up. So he did what you told him to do. Then you went back on that and wanted him back. That doesn't sound stable nor does it sound like someone who will give him the security he needs. Sounds a little flaky.

Cap venus means what they say and say what they mean. They expect others to be the same.

He probably really does have a lot going on right now. Give him some space. Don't freak out on him again, if you get the chance.

Has he been divorced long? Or is he going through one now? How long since the relationship with the child's mother ended? That may have a role to play too. He may not be ready for a relationship.

And use paragraphs in the future. I usually don't read walls of text like that. Hurts my eyes.

Also cap venus needs a lady. Someone with class and can handle herself in social situations. Someone who handles her emotions with dignity.

Can you be that person?

this guys sounds like a passive aggressive gold digger.

Posted by DMV
this guys sounds like a passive aggressive gold digger.

Maybe the reason he's not responding is because she didn't offer to give him any money to help him out. lol!!!

Reading this again, I have a different perspective.

He doesn't seem to have his act together. Caps don't cope well with free falling and chaos and his life seems pretty chaotic. He's flailing financially, emotionally, and career-wise.

Who wants to be with a man who doesn't have his sh*t together? You are better off moving on.

yeah, i think he expected her to help him $ $ and maybe she has a lil bit.

but tbh, why would you want to be in a relationship with a man who cant support himself? he shouldnt even put himself out there.

I did offer, but he declined. I tried to help anyway possible. He definitely was passive-agressive. To those who asked why I'd want to be with someone like is simple. Despite his financial downfalls. The person he was was amazing to me. He was the first guy I ever thought about marrying and having kids with.


That stuff normally gives me a pit of stomach awful feeling, but with him the thought of being with him forever felt comforting. The way he understood me and I him was like no one I felt with before. I thought he felt the same, I truly did. Its been almost 3 weeks and there is a day that goes by that I dont think of him. Even tho we are not together thinking of his face still makes me smile.

I truly hope one day we could be together. Which is why I was on here looking for hope and possibly insight. Now that he is not I'm my life I feel as if something that is missing, almost like a part of me. That I never knew was missing, if that makes any sense.

No matter how hard I pretend like im happy and laugh with others, which at the moment I am. The minute I stop laughing and talking to my friends the minute that utterly empty feeling comes back. I often wonder if it is only me who felt our love was great and only I who misses him to the extent I do.

@truecap

My apologies for the non-spacing.

Also, he was the one who said it first.he was always the one to say he wanted to spend his life with me. He said I was pefect and amazing for him.


Even when we broke up he called me a truly amazing person. He said he just needs to get his crap together. Which somewhat gives me hope that someday hell return, but at the same time i feel he never will because he'd never want to put me in his drama. Which i honestly wouldn't care, because of my love for him.

Sorry, but this was too difficult to read on my phone.

Its quite alright. Were you able to read any of it @BlueSandCacoon?

No, but hopefully I'll be able to when I get on my laptop at home.

Truecap
Also, this was the first time I have ever freaked. I was always the emotionally strong one. I also tried my best to cheer him up and make his day easier and better. The only reason I freaked is because I felt a slight distance from him and although I calmly confronted is the day before, he said theres just a lot going on. I'm the type of person who needs to know what is going on so I can truly understand and give the person what they require. If I'm left in the dust with little to no details I start to worry that it might be something I have done, even tho I act like it doesn't and dont show it. Deep dow it just slightly messes with my emotions alittle. I know that it is not right to feel like that, I just prefer knowledge and open communication.

And I also felt that it was just a polite way to break up with me. Although he said I hope we can still text, I took it as it was just a slower and kinder way to cut me lose. Which is why I took it to that level. Because the thought of not having him in my life made me mentally unsound.

I apologize for all the detailed responses I just wanted to touch bases with all points of discussion.

@BlueSandCacoon Thank you I realize that it is a lot of information, but any advice is welcome 🙂

Posted by lovelylauren007
I did offer, but he declined. I tried to help anyway possible. He definitely was passive-agressive. To those who asked why I'd want to be with someone like is simple. Despite his financial downfalls. The person he was was amazing to me. He was the first guy I ever thought about marrying and having kids with.

he definitely knows deep down inside, he's not in a position to be in a relationship and really wine n dine you because that is what venus in caps do.

love is not simply about being an amazing person but being able to provide for your mate. love is duty for a venus in cap. because his $ $ aint right, he doesnt believe that you really like him. him being told that he is an amazing person isnt enough for him to believe and trust. takes time for a venus in cap to realize that their partners DO like them.

venus in caps are rocks of love. thats the feeling our mates get.

@Dmv

That makes total sense. I actually used to think he thought he wasn't good enough for me. Which in a sense I understood, but at the same time I wanted him to know that I loved him for him and not his assets and belongs.Do you think he might ever try to rekindle what we had once his life is more prioritized? And I haven't contacted him since the last time. Should I wait for him to text me? Or send him a kindly hope things are going better text? I'm leaning towards no contact, but at the same time I want him to know I still care, but dont want to make myself look like a fool. Ya know?

Posted by lovelylauren007
@Dmv

That makes total sense. I actually used to think he thought he wasn't good enough for me. Which in a sense I understood, but at the same time I wanted him to know that I loved him for him and not his assets and belongs.Do you think he might ever try to rekindle what we had once his life is more prioritized? And I haven't contacted him since the last time. Should I wait for him to text me? Or send him a kindly hope things are going better text? I'm leaning towards no contact, but at the same time I want him to know I still care, but dont want to make myself look like a fool. Ya know?

sometimes venus in caps need to leave their partner to finally realize they they do in fact like them and believe them. sometimes when they come back, its too damn late.

i wouldnt initiate any more contact.

id go on living my life and just liking him from afar.

men with venus in caps are hard on themselves. very. it can be a pessimistic love placement. he may never feel like he is enough ya know?! similar to cancers; victims of their own success.

Well I sure hope if he does decide to come back it won't be too late lol. I agree completely with them being so hard on themselves, being a gemini Venus it was foreign to me at first, but my water signs in my chart helped me understand a bit better 🙂

Posted by lovelylauren007
Truecap
Also, this was the first time I have ever freaked. I was always the emotionally strong one. I also tried my best to cheer him up and make his day easier and better. The only reason I freaked is because I felt a slight distance from him and although I calmly confronted is the day before, he said theres just a lot going on. I'm the type of person who needs to know what is going on so I can truly understand and give the person what they require. If I'm left in the dust with little to no details I start to worry that it might be something I have done, even tho I act like it doesn't and dont show it. Deep dow it just slightly messes with my emotions alittle. I know that it is not right to feel like that, I just prefer knowledge and open communication.

I think we're all like that. 🙂

I didn't mean to make assumptions, just exploring some possibilities.

@Truecap
Of course, I understand 🙂 I would most likely ask the same questions.Do you have experience with Venus in Capricorns? I'm not sure if it helps, but his Moon is in Aries and Mars in Cancer.

Posted by lovelylauren007
@Truecap
Of course, I understand 🙂 I would most likely ask the same questions.Do you have experience with Venus in Capricorns? I'm not sure if it helps, but his Moon is in Aries and Mars in Cancer.

My BF of two years is venus in capricorn.

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Posted by truecap
You met in person once and it's love?

Cap venus is sllllooooowwww in love. Cap venus is a cold placement and they are a little detached.

LOL! I have a cap venus and I'm the exact opposite. Idk if it's my pisces sun or something, but I love REALLY quickly, I was talking to this girl. In the beginning she was so into me and eventually we met up and kissed and stuff. She then said it all went too fast for her, and seriously she ended it all because I was too clingy, more clingy than her (She said she didn't feel anything for me yet while I was insanely in love) . It's damn fked up to have that as a male. I'm always like that, but next time I'll do it differently. It may have been her body, idk lol.

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Well, yeah, you move fast in LUST, but what about falling in love? There is a difference.

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You met in person once and it's love?

Cap venus is sllllooooowwww in love. Cap venus is a cold placement and they are a little detached.

LOL! I have a cap venus and I'm the exact opposite. Idk if it's my pisces sun or something, but I love REALLY quickly, I was talking to this girl. In the beginning she was so into me and eventually we met up and kissed and stuff. She then said it all went too fast for her, and seriously she ended it all because I was too clingy, more clingy than her (She said she didn't feel anything for me yet while I was insanely in love) . It's damn fked up to have that as a male. I'm always like that, but next time I'll do it differently. It may have been her body, idk lol.

Well, yeah, you move fast in LUST, but what about falling in love? There is a difference.

Mars in Pisces for him.

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My bf has venus in cap and mars in pisces, he isn't a fast mover. Very cautious and moves very slowly in the relationship. Mars in pisces isn't very aggressive.

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You met in person once and it's love?

Cap venus is sllllooooowwww in love. Cap venus is a cold placement and they are a little detached.

LOL! I have a cap venus and I'm the exact opposite. Idk if it's my pisces sun or something, but I love REALLY quickly, I was talking to this girl. In the beginning she was so into me and eventually we met up and kissed and stuff. She then said it all went too fast for her, and seriously she ended it all because I was too clingy, more clingy than her (She said she didn't feel anything for me yet while I was insanely in love) . It's damn fked up to have that as a male. I'm always like that, but next time I'll do it differently. It may have been her body, idk lol.

Well, yeah, you move fast in LUST, but what about falling in love? There is a difference.

Mars in Pisces for him.

My bf has venus in cap and mars in pisces, he isn't a fast mover. Very cautious and moves very slowly in the relationship. Mars in pisces isn't very aggressive.

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Oh wait. It's the pisces SUN!!!

Yes Lauren so u were lying u. Did have sex with him this girl such a liar I'm her ex .when she was talking to this guy we were still living together wow lauren !!!

Dun, dun, dunnnn.

As Paul Harvey says, "and now the REST of the story"...

Posted by blueiscool
Yes Lauren so u were lying u. Did have sex with him this girl such a liar I'm her ex .when she was talking to this guy we were still living together wow lauren !!!

venus in gemini strikes again