After a fight why would a guy snapchat instead of text?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Caliscorpio on Wednesday, March 15, 2017 and has 15 replies.

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@Caliscorpio
9 Years

If it matters to you hes a cancer and im a scorpio. We got in a "fight" a week ago. He got jealous over nothing and instead of talking about it he didnt reply to me. Then a couple days later he spammed my snapchat. I never replied because i want a text. Over the next couple days he keeps snapchatting me but still no text. So i finally send him a snap back and he doesnt even reply? Is he just seeking validation? This is realy hurting me and idk if i should cut him off or take this as his slow indirect way of trying to warm back up?

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@Caliscorpio
9 Years

I havnt told him i want to text because when i replied to his snapchat he never replied back. I would love to talk to him in person about it but im not about to stalk him. (Since he wont communicate with me)

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Caliscorpio
I havnt told him i want to text because when i replied to his snapchat he never replied back. I would love to talk to him in person about it but im not about to stalk him. (Since he wont communicate with me)

What is your relationship with him. Maybe he just wants to communicate by snapchat.

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@Caliscorpio
9 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Caliscorpio
I havnt told him i want to text because when i replied to his snapchat he never replied back. I would love to talk to him in person about it but im not about to stalk him. (Since he wont communicate with me)

What is your relationship with him. Maybe he just wants to communicate by snapchat.

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We were still in the "talking" couple dates phase for about 3 months. We were taking it slow and realy getting to know eachother. No talks about commitment or anything. Thats why i dont understand why he got so mad and jealous.

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@Bricks195
9 Years

Posted by Caliscorpio
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Caliscorpio
I havnt told him i want to text because when i replied to his snapchat he never replied back. I would love to talk to him in person about it but im not about to stalk him. (Since he wont communicate with me)

What is your relationship with him. Maybe he just wants to communicate by snapchat.

We were still in the "talking" couple dates phase for about 3 months. We were taking it slow and realy getting to know eachother. No talks about commitment or anything. Thats why i dont understand why he got so mad and jealous.

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Maybe you guys were taking the relationship slow, but he already decided you were his. The relationship may not have caught up with how he felt about you.

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@Caliscorpio
9 Years

Posted by Bricks195
Posted by Caliscorpio
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Caliscorpio
I havnt told him i want to text because when i replied to his snapchat he never replied back. I would love to talk to him in person about it but im not about to stalk him. (Since he wont communicate with me)

What is your relationship with him. Maybe he just wants to communicate by snapchat.

We were still in the "talking" couple dates phase for about 3 months. We were taking it slow and realy getting to know eachother. No talks about commitment or anything. Thats why i dont understand why he got so mad and jealous.

Maybe you guys were taking the relationship slow, but he already decided you were his. The relationship may not have caught up with how he felt about you.

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I would like to think that. But then i dont understand that if he liked me-how could he just drop me like this? No explanation. Nothing. Just petty snapchats.

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@AbbyNormal
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Posted by Caliscorpio
I havnt told him i want to text because when i replied to his snapchat he never replied back. I would love to talk to him in person about it but im not about to stalk him. (Since he wont communicate with me)

does this sound silly to anyone else or is it just me? ? face to face or it's. not. real.