Aquarius female friend selfish?

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7 Years

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Have you guys experienced Aqua female friends? I had her for 4 years and while it was ok to be around her within a group's setting as we were a group of female friends, once the group dissolved, and I found myself one-on-one with her, I started dreading inside to hang out with her. Don't get me wrong, she isn't always horrible, but even back in the days when we were a group, her negative behavior was very much evident once in a while, so it's not like I discovered her true self recently...not at all. I suppose it's not a good idea to be a friend to someone when you don't feel like getting up to get dressed to hang out with her and would rather enjoy your room than see her lol. That's exactly how I'm feeling. I must say that she's the one who is making the effort, so I am guilty of not investing any more in our friendship. I was feeling kind of guilty, but somehow I am starting not to care. She is an Aqua sun (born on the cusp to Pisces actually), her Moon in cancer in her 1st house, she is also has venus in Aqua. She could be moody sometimes. Also, what I don't like is that she can sometimes put you in your place, so to speak, yet there's tons of times when she said stuff that I would have loved to put her in her place but i'm too polite to do that. She lacks tact sometimes, which annoys me a great deal. Her major issue for me is her selfish behavior. She would never lift a finger for you, but she expects you to do her a favor (which I never do). Once I asked her to call a salon and make a simple appointment for me, because I had canceled my appt 3 times and was embarassed to call them lol, she couldn't care less actually, BUT she has no problem asking me to pick her up from downtown LA when she can call uber and then drive her back to work becuase one day her contacts got messed up. The bottom line is that the person can't be bothered to pick up a phone and spend a second making an appointment for me, yet I ahev to drop everything for ehr and drive around 1 hour back and forth to downtown LA . I really don't mind doing that but when you know a person can't even make a call for you to get a appt for her for me to take voer that appt for hair cut, i lose my interest in going over the hill for her.

Another thing that annoys me, and this has been voiced by other people too, not just me from the group in the past, is that she never offers to drive the group to hang out. One of us always picks up the group then we head somewhere as we live close by, and we sometimes tend to argue who will piack up next time, yet she never ever offers by saying "hey girls you always pick me up so this time im picking u guys up." Her highness feels so special that it's expected that she is going to get picked up. This comes from her selfish behavior. Been her designated uber driver when we are going out for 4 years now. She has also made some comments that totally killed any desire to be around her. I feel like inside her, she can't stand me and I sense some jealousy, but she hates me in her little private world. She also is very self absorbed and I get so annoyed when she contacts me or when we meet up, she goes on and on about ehr colleagues. I understand talking about them 5 minutes although I don't know anyone, but when someone spends an hour blah blah blahng about her work life, it gets boring. What I love is when I try to change the topic to me, for example, she changes right back to her 🙂)))) SHe doesn't seem to be too interested in what's going on with me and likes to talk about herself.

Once my other friends who met her first time (unrelated to our group) later on were surprised that she's just an administrative assistant at an accounting firm because the way she spent 2 hours talking about her work, my other friends thought she's some type of a CEO 🙂)) when I told my other friend wait what? no she's just an admin, my friends started laughing like 'wtf she was talking about her career in such a way that without saying she's an ceo, that's the feeling he had.' Also, some other people complained that she kept going on and on about her medical insurance and benefits from work and she had met those people that day lol. The grils form our own group, though, told me in private that she tends to repel people like there's something about her and I agree. I honestly was trying to understand what my issue is with her, then when one of the friends mentioned the word 'repel' i was like that's it!!! That's exactly how I feel like she repels me from her. She seems detached yet moody sometimes.

Anyways, had u guys had a negative experience with aqua female friends? Oh, before new years eve, she contacted asking me what I was doing and whether I had plans, the yya she asked me it was obvious that she wanted to be with me that evening, so I said what my plans were and that she can join, thinking she was going to agree, then she told me "ok thanks hun, I'm not sure yet, will let you know" so she lured me into disclosing my plans and sending her invitation (i know exactly what she wanted) so then she was sneeky enough not to agree to keep her options open so basically if she didn't find anything better to do, she would join me 🙂)) Once i realized what she was doing, i promised myself that when she realizes that nothing better comes up for her, she will contact and i will just tell her that my plans changed and thats why i did. I feel like if she really wanted to spend new years eve together she would accept my inivtation sicne she told me that she doesn't have plans yet, but she reserved her invitation with me while taking a few days to find other opportunities by keeping me on the hook. This type of behavior annoys me.

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LoveNLuck
@LoveNLuck21
6 Years

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If we’re going by sun alone signs fixed signs have a loyalty to themselves first and then you from what I have observed. On the flip side it is usually fixed signs will continue to have your back when other signs wouldn’t...4 Aqua friends 2 close.. Others coworkers. When matured these are one of the sweetest women I find... Otherwise they can be very overbearing lol.