4reefer2man0
@4reefer2man0
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Are women even worth the commitment?
So she break up with you? What is her sign?
What’s wrong with banging other guys if you aren’t official? You expect commitment without committing?
Can't have your cake and eat it
Women are now doing what men have been doing for ever
Women are now doing what men have been doing for ever
Posted by MyStarsShineRight! It’s a beautiful thing too. We know we have options, and don’t have to settle.
Can't have your cake and eat it
Women are now doing what men have been doing for ever
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollWhat’s wrong with that?
I bet OP only approaches women based on their looks who have men flocking over them.
ETA: You know what scratch that. I know what’s wrong with that now.
Posted by bkbella86Yes ma'amPosted by MyStarsShineRight! It’s a beautiful thing too. We know we have options, and don’t have to settle.
Can't have your cake and eat it
Women are now doing what men have been doing for ever
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A long time to manifest, but got there in the end
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Posted by AliensusedourbogrollLol I said I couldPosted by bkbella86Posted by AliensusedourbogrollWhat’s wrong with that?
I bet OP only approaches women based on their looks who have men flocking over them.
Seriously? You can’t see something wrong with approaching a women solely based on her looks for commitment?
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Let me tell you all this happens cause people rate their standards to 0. Noone can hold themselves of sex and now we live in an oversexualized society. Teens today consider normal age of starting to be sexually active 13!!! Yes sure your body could be ready.... Even though it isn't. Your emotions just get fuck up.
The more casual sex is the norm... Human relationships become more and more shallow.... The ones who like it that way can have it that way.
Also every relationship requires a risk. If you are not willing to take the risk to get to know the other person then yes your hand can be your partner.
Plus I don't know exactly what you mean by commitment. The real commitment is your genuine presence and interest. No papers, no rings, no words.
The more casual sex is the norm... Human relationships become more and more shallow.... The ones who like it that way can have it that way.
Also every relationship requires a risk. If you are not willing to take the risk to get to know the other person then yes your hand can be your partner.
Plus I don't know exactly what you mean by commitment. The real commitment is your genuine presence and interest. No papers, no rings, no words.
Posted by ChocolateHazelnutBest thing I read today
Plus I don't know exactly what you mean by commitment. The real commitment is your genuine presence and interest. No papers, no rings, no words.
Im pisces, she is pisces, good looking lil thing. But crazy as shiz. I kicked her to the curb, its not just her, its all the crazy biatches Ive dated. They only care about money and feeding their huge ego. Even the ugly fat biatches think they are hot and deserve free stuff. The religious zealots, hasnt worked for me yet, they are even more brainwashed and crazy, and I have to listen about some fake ass god...fuk that. I know 3 men in their late 60's. All 3 been married and divorced more than once, all 3 say they can look back and see the signs they missed that she was only there for the money. 1admits he knew he was being used, but she was hot and he knew he would never get anything as hot as her. All 3 are broke, living in camper trailers, all 3 had 6 figure incomes while married. The women got everything.
Im 40, divorced 2 times....yep, the biatches got everything.
I think our society is so fuked that everyone is out to use who they can. Women use their body to get where they want, then the legal system to get what they want.
I think its time to call it quits and resign to the fact we are better off single. If I quit women now I will have a very good retirement. Find a like minded NON HOMOSEXUAL man and go travel the world. Getting rid of women eliminates lots of trouble. Me and my left hand live happily ever after. The end
Im 40, divorced 2 times....yep, the biatches got everything.
I think our society is so fuked that everyone is out to use who they can. Women use their body to get where they want, then the legal system to get what they want.
I think its time to call it quits and resign to the fact we are better off single. If I quit women now I will have a very good retirement. Find a like minded NON HOMOSEXUAL man and go travel the world. Getting rid of women eliminates lots of trouble. Me and my left hand live happily ever after. The end
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollWhere’s the confusion? If you go back and read my original comment I edited it and said I could see something wrong with going after women based on looks only.Posted by bkbella86Posted by AliensusedourbogrollLol I said I couldPosted by bkbella86Posted by AliensusedourbogrollWhat’s wrong with that?
I bet OP only approaches women based on their looks who have men flocking over them.
Seriously? You can’t see something wrong with approaching a women solely based on her looks for commitment?
Wut?
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Posted by 4reefer2man0Lol. You’re mad becaUse you don’t gave anything that can get you what you want??
Im pisces, she is pisces, good looking lil thing. But crazy as shiz. I kicked her to the curb, its not just her, its all the crazy biatches Ive dated. They only care about money and feeding their huge ego. Even the ugly fat biatches think they are hot and deserve free stuff. The religious zealots, hasnt worked for me yet, they are even more brainwashed and crazy, and I have to listen about some fake ass god...fuk that. I know 3 men in their late 60's. All 3 been married and divorced more than once, all 3 say they can look back and see the signs they missed that she was only there for the money. 1admits he knew he was being used, but she was hot and he knew he would never get anything as hot as her. All 3 are broke, living in camper trailers, all 3 had 6 figure incomes while married. The women got everything.
Im 40, divorced 2 times....yep, the biatches got everything.
I think our society is so fuked that everyone is out to use who they can. Women use their body to get where they want, then the legal system to get what they want.
I think its time to call it quits and resign to the fact we are better off single. If I quit women now I will have a very good retirement. Find a like minded NON HOMOSEXUAL man and go travel the world. Getting rid of women eliminates lots of trouble. Me and my left hand live happily ever after. The end
Posted by CreativeCapThank you!Posted by ChocolateHazelnutBest thing I read today
Plus I don't know exactly what you mean by commitment. The real commitment is your genuine presence and interest. No papers, no rings, no words.click to expand
I dont think Im playing the victim here. Look at it logically. 95 percent of people only think of themselves. We are all a bunch of greedy scum, our society reinforces that. The law sides with the woman most of the time. Laws reinforce that the woman deserves more than the man. I can look at divorce statistics and see that chances are, If I marry again, it will end in divorce. I can look around myself and find several good men who are broke and alone because they couldnt give up women. Humans are like wild animals. If you give them something, they will always come back for more. And they bring their friends with them.
I know Im not perfect, but honestly, all the good ones are already married and probably in good, loving, stable relationships. That leaves very few good mates out there to find.
And im a pisces man, were pretty well known for picking the wrong women.
I know Im not perfect, but honestly, all the good ones are already married and probably in good, loving, stable relationships. That leaves very few good mates out there to find.
And im a pisces man, were pretty well known for picking the wrong women.
So, Ive never cheated, never done the friends with benefits, never went out man whoring. Been thinking of trying it out. Is it worth it? Take her out for a nice dinner, take her home, get what you want, and send her home. Repeat next week. Is this the norm now? Its like legalized prostitution.
Posted by 4reefer2man0When I got divorced I didn’t take anything that I didn’t pay for. Also, we didn’t even have lawyers. He wasn’t a bad guy and I wasn’t a bad woman, we just didn’t work. I took ownership of my downfalls and so did he.
I dont think Im playing the victim here. Look at it logically. 95 percent of people only think of themselves. We are all a bunch of greedy scum, our society reinforces that. The law sides with the woman most of the time. Laws reinforce that the woman deserves more than the man. I can look at divorce statistics and see that chances are, If I marry again, it will end in divorce. I can look around myself and find several good men who are broke and alone because they couldnt give up women. Humans are like wild animals. If you give them something, they will always come back for more. And they bring their friends with them.
I know Im not perfect, but honestly, all the good ones are already married and probably in good, loving, stable relationships. That leaves very few good mates out there to find.
And im a pisces man, were pretty well known for picking the wrong women.
Now I’m just out here, floating around. There are still amazing people out there, who are on a forum asking where all the good people are.
Posted by SpaceBirdMen become broke when they use their life savings to pay for 2 very expensive divorce lawyers (his and hers in the end) and lose everything to some female playing victim to the judge because she cannot take care of herself, or her useless 25 year old kid.Posted by 4reefer2man0You are a whiny little bitch. You are a misogynist .and a sexist ....and weak minded.
I dont think Im playing the victim here. Look at it logically. 95 percent of people only think of themselves. We are all a bunch of greedy scum, our society reinforces that. The law sides with the woman most of the time. Laws reinforce that the woman deserves more than the man. I can look at divorce statistics and see that chances are, If I marry again, it will end in divorce. I can look around myself and find several good men who are broke and alone because they couldnt give up women. Humans are like wild animals. If you give them something, they will always come back for more. And they bring their friends with them.
I know Im not perfect, but honestly, all the good ones are already married and probably in good, loving, stable relationships. That leaves very few good mates out there to find.
And im a pisces man, were pretty well known for picking the wrong women.
you want to blame everyone else for your unhappiness. The system ..the law ...
It's no one's fault ....it's no one's responsibility but yours.
And you don't get to blame women or the system or law ..because THAT is claiming you are a victim.
Men don't become broke because of anyone but themselves. They have only themselves to blame.
And if they did ..well it's no one's responsibility to get out of that ..but themselves.
No one is going to HELP you ..but you...if you think being single and being a lovely good kind single person to every man and woman you meet and never being bitter is going to make you happy ..go for it ..
But that is not your mindset. And you know it.
But whatever you choose ...it's your choice. You can't blame society or women or your parents etc
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I never said I was unhappy, just I doubt commitment and marriage.
When did I ask for help?
I do blame society for our greed
Posted by 4reefer2man0Don’t do that. Ask yourself if you’re only worth just a one night stand or not?
So, Ive never cheated, never done the friends with benefits, never went out man whoring. Been thinking of trying it out. Is it worth it? Take her out for a nice dinner, take her home, get what you want, and send her home. Repeat next week. Is this the norm now? Its like legalized prostitution.
People that have random hookups have no self-worth. Nah. Don’t be that guy. Don’t become the dude form of the women you dislike.
PS - if you wanna chat, message me. 😉
Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by 4reefer2man0When I got divorced I didn’t take anything that I didn’t pay for. Also, we didn’t even have lawyers. He wasn’t a bad guy and I wasn’t a bad woman, we just didn’t work. I took ownership of my downfalls and so did he.
I dont think Im playing the victim here. Look at it logically. 95 percent of people only think of themselves. We are all a bunch of greedy scum, our society reinforces that. The law sides with the woman most of the time. Laws reinforce that the woman deserves more than the man. I can look at divorce statistics and see that chances are, If I marry again, it will end in divorce. I can look around myself and find several good men who are broke and alone because they couldnt give up women. Humans are like wild animals. If you give them something, they will always come back for more. And they bring their friends with them.
I know Im not perfect, but honestly, all the good ones are already married and probably in good, loving, stable relationships. That leaves very few good mates out there to find.
And im a pisces man, were pretty well known for picking the wrong women.
Now I’m just out here, floating around. There are still amazing people out there, who are on a forum asking where all the good people are.
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Your lucky, both my divorces were hell.
Posted by 4reefer2man0Not to pry, but typically the characteristics of the other person show themselves love before even marriage comes into play. I would never someone I feel would try to f me over if sh it hit the fan. Did they not showcase these traits to you beforehand?Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by 4reefer2man0When I got divorced I didn’t take anything that I didn’t pay for. Also, we didn’t even have lawyers. He wasn’t a bad guy and I wasn’t a bad woman, we just didn’t work. I took ownership of my downfalls and so did he.
I dont think Im playing the victim here. Look at it logically. 95 percent of people only think of themselves. We are all a bunch of greedy scum, our society reinforces that. The law sides with the woman most of the time. Laws reinforce that the woman deserves more than the man. I can look at divorce statistics and see that chances are, If I marry again, it will end in divorce. I can look around myself and find several good men who are broke and alone because they couldnt give up women. Humans are like wild animals. If you give them something, they will always come back for more. And they bring their friends with them.
I know Im not perfect, but honestly, all the good ones are already married and probably in good, loving, stable relationships. That leaves very few good mates out there to find.
And im a pisces man, were pretty well known for picking the wrong women.
Now I’m just out here, floating around. There are still amazing people out there, who are on a forum asking where all the good people are.
Your lucky, both my divorces were hell.
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Posted by ConsiderableMythYou are right, and it seems that most of the women I have dated recently are only after money, not love. This is why I doubt commitment nowdays.Posted by 4reefer2man0Not to pry, but typically the characteristics of the other person show themselves love before even marriage comes into play. I would never someone I feel would try to f me over if sh it hit the fan. Did they not showcase these traits to you beforehand?Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by 4reefer2man0When I got divorced I didn’t take anything that I didn’t pay for. Also, we didn’t even have lawyers. He wasn’t a bad guy and I wasn’t a bad woman, we just didn’t work. I took ownership of my downfalls and so did he.
I dont think Im playing the victim here. Look at it logically. 95 percent of people only think of themselves. We are all a bunch of greedy scum, our society reinforces that. The law sides with the woman most of the time. Laws reinforce that the woman deserves more than the man. I can look at divorce statistics and see that chances are, If I marry again, it will end in divorce. I can look around myself and find several good men who are broke and alone because they couldnt give up women. Humans are like wild animals. If you give them something, they will always come back for more. And they bring their friends with them.
I know Im not perfect, but honestly, all the good ones are already married and probably in good, loving, stable relationships. That leaves very few good mates out there to find.
And im a pisces man, were pretty well known for picking the wrong women.
Now I’m just out here, floating around. There are still amazing people out there, who are on a forum asking where all the good people are.
Your lucky, both my divorces were hell.
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'Most ladies will be out banging other guys while your dating because your not "official" and they see no problem with that.'
That's basically what a lot of females come to this site to complain about. So it's not just you, or men. People are often unclear or simply under-deliver, then you expect something you don't get in return, feelings get hurt, and you end up making harsh statements about a whole group.
'Something like 25 percent of men are raising kids that are not their own, the woman dont care about you, so long as her needs are met.'
You should ask fathers why they are not raising their own children. If you don't want to get involved with kids just don't date people with them.
You give off quite selfish vibes, emotionally and materially, so I don't know how you can't understand of accept the same in others. Is not whether they are worth it, is being prepared or willing to give it yourself, when you have to question yourself whether people are worth your commitment, you are in a defensive position very prone to get disappointed. When you expect shit you end up seeing shit everywhere.
That's basically what a lot of females come to this site to complain about. So it's not just you, or men. People are often unclear or simply under-deliver, then you expect something you don't get in return, feelings get hurt, and you end up making harsh statements about a whole group.
'Something like 25 percent of men are raising kids that are not their own, the woman dont care about you, so long as her needs are met.'
You should ask fathers why they are not raising their own children. If you don't want to get involved with kids just don't date people with them.
You give off quite selfish vibes, emotionally and materially, so I don't know how you can't understand of accept the same in others. Is not whether they are worth it, is being prepared or willing to give it yourself, when you have to question yourself whether people are worth your commitment, you are in a defensive position very prone to get disappointed. When you expect shit you end up seeing shit everywhere.
Posted by SpaceBirdOnly takes 1 to file divorce papers sweetheart. I am an assPosted by _ggI think he is torn between 1 wanting to vent his wrath on the world for some perceived chip on his shoulder 2 wanting to find himself and 3 his need for sex.Posted by 4reefer2man0Lol bro i was with you until the very end. You lost me at the end
Im pisces, she is pisces, good looking lil thing. But crazy as shiz. I kicked her to the curb, its not just her, its all the crazy biatches Ive dated. They only care about money and feeding their huge ego. Even the ugly fat biatches think they are hot and deserve free stuff. The religious zealots, hasnt worked for me yet, they are even more brainwashed and crazy, and I have to listen about some fake ass god...fuk that. I know 3 men in their late 60's. All 3 been married and divorced more than once, all 3 say they can look back and see the signs they missed that she was only there for the money. 1admits he knew he was being used, but she was hot and he knew he would never get anything as hot as her. All 3 are broke, living in camper trailers, all 3 had 6 figure incomes while married. The women got everything.
Im 40, divorced 2 times....yep, the biatches got everything.
I think our society is so fuked that everyone is out to use who they can. Women use their body to get where they want, then the legal system to get what they want.
I think its time to call it quits and resign to the fact we are better off single. If I quit women now I will have a very good retirement. Find a like minded NON HOMOSEXUAL man and go travel the world. Getting rid of women eliminates lots of trouble. Me and my left hand live happily ever after. The end
1 No one cares about the chip on your shoulder.
2. Go travel ...be good for you.
But dude get some platonic female friends ok ....don't define women from you sense of victimhood
Divorce takes 2! Break ups take 2. And the common demoninator in 2 divorces is YOU!
So maybe they were your fault ...you seem like an ass.
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Posted by 4reefer2man0Money doesn’t impress me at all. What impresses me is staying up all night talking about life and all the things we can’t see. If I have a few hours to talk to someone and my soul isn’t on fire afterwards, it never will be. Everything else is is fixable. A true burning connection, or lack there of, isn’t.Posted by ConsiderableMythYou are right, and it seems that most of the women I have dated recently are only after money, not love. This is why I doubt commitment nowdays.Posted by 4reefer2man0Not to pry, but typically the characteristics of the other person show themselves love before even marriage comes into play. I would never someone I feel would try to f me over if sh it hit the fan. Did they not showcase these traits to you beforehand?Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by 4reefer2man0When I got divorced I didn’t take anything that I didn’t pay for. Also, we didn’t even have lawyers. He wasn’t a bad guy and I wasn’t a bad woman, we just didn’t work. I took ownership of my downfalls and so did he.
I dont think Im playing the victim here. Look at it logically. 95 percent of people only think of themselves. We are all a bunch of greedy scum, our society reinforces that. The law sides with the woman most of the time. Laws reinforce that the woman deserves more than the man. I can look at divorce statistics and see that chances are, If I marry again, it will end in divorce. I can look around myself and find several good men who are broke and alone because they couldnt give up women. Humans are like wild animals. If you give them something, they will always come back for more. And they bring their friends with them.
I know Im not perfect, but honestly, all the good ones are already married and probably in good, loving, stable relationships. That leaves very few good mates out there to find.
And im a pisces man, were pretty well known for picking the wrong women.
Now I’m just out here, floating around. There are still amazing people out there, who are on a forum asking where all the good people are.
Your lucky, both my divorces were hell.
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Posted by BlackburnI AM BEING SELFISH, IM SICK OF BEING USED!!!!
'Most ladies will be out banging other guys while your dating because your not "official" and they see no problem with that.'
That's basically what a lot of females come to this site to complain about. So it's not just you, or men. People are often unclear or simply under-deliver, then you expect something you don't get in return, feelings get hurt, and you end up making harsh statements about a whole group.
'Something like 25 percent of men are raising kids that are not their own, the woman dont care about you, so long as her needs are met.'
You should ask fathers why they are not raising their own children. If you don't want to get involved with kids just don't date people with them.
You give off quite selfish vibes, emotionally and materially, so I don't know how you can't understand of accept the same in others. Is not whether they are worth it, is being prepared or willing to give it yourself, when you have to question yourself whether people are worth your commitment, you are in a defensive position very prone to get disappointed. When you expect shit you end up seeing shit everywhere.
The women that I have been around lately only come around when they want something from me. The 25 percent of men are raising others kids because she went behind his back and cheated, he doesnt know. I take good care of my children. I said upfront that that my question could apply to men also.
Posted by _ggPosted by 4reefer2man0Lol bro i was with you until the very end. You lost me at the end
Im pisces, she is pisces, good looking lil thing. But crazy as shiz. I kicked her to the curb, its not just her, its all the crazy biatches Ive dated. They only care about money and feeding their huge ego. Even the ugly fat biatches think they are hot and deserve free stuff. The religious zealots, hasnt worked for me yet, they are even more brainwashed and crazy, and I have to listen about some fake ass god...fuk that. I know 3 men in their late 60's. All 3 been married and divorced more than once, all 3 say they can look back and see the signs they missed that she was only there for the money. 1admits he knew he was being used, but she was hot and he knew he would never get anything as hot as her. All 3 are broke, living in camper trailers, all 3 had 6 figure incomes while married. The women got everything.
Im 40, divorced 2 times....yep, the biatches got everything.
I think our society is so fuked that everyone is out to use who they can. Women use their body to get where they want, then the legal system to get what they want.
I think its time to call it quits and resign to the fact we are better off single. If I quit women now I will have a very good retirement. Find a like minded NON HOMOSEXUAL man and go travel the world. Getting rid of women eliminates lots of trouble. Me and my left hand live happily ever after. The endclick to expand
Me and my hand.... I was trying to be funny
Posted by 4reefer2man0Posted by BlackburnI AM BEING SELFISH, IM SICK OF BEING USED!!!!
'Most ladies will be out banging other guys while your dating because your not "official" and they see no problem with that.'
That's basically what a lot of females come to this site to complain about. So it's not just you, or men. People are often unclear or simply under-deliver, then you expect something you don't get in return, feelings get hurt, and you end up making harsh statements about a whole group.
'Something like 25 percent of men are raising kids that are not their own, the woman dont care about you, so long as her needs are met.'
You should ask fathers why they are not raising their own children. If you don't want to get involved with kids just don't date people with them.
You give off quite selfish vibes, emotionally and materially, so I don't know how you can't understand of accept the same in others. Is not whether they are worth it, is being prepared or willing to give it yourself, when you have to question yourself whether people are worth your commitment, you are in a defensive position very prone to get disappointed. When you expect shit you end up seeing shit everywhere.
The women that I have been around lately only come around when they want something from me. The 25 percent of men are raising others kids because she went behind his back and cheated, he doesnt know. I take good care of my children. I said upfront that that my question could apply to men also.click to expand
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You don't need to shout. I'm not saying you are like that just now, by how you express yourself I doubt you suddenly became a selfish man, when you focus on something you get surrounded by that issue. That percentage is based on some legit study I hope. Yeah, is good you take care of your kids.
What I say is the less you focus on selfishness the less you will encounter people like that, stop looking where and what you usually look for. Analyze past patterns.
Edit: I don't think selfishness is wrong per se, but keeping score of everything isn't the same as keeping boundaries.
Im pisces, been very giving my whole life. Guess people expect it from me now. I like helping people to a fault, but it has its downside too.
Maybe its time to pack it up and move somewhere new where no one knows me....fresh start.
Maybe its time to pack it up and move somewhere new where no one knows me....fresh start.
Posted by SpaceBirdExactly what im trying to avoid. I think I have been too nice and giving. No im realizing its ok to tell people to f offPosted by ImpulsvHe won't punish women ..he will get fucked over again ...i know his type ..they never learn...Posted by SpaceBirdTHATS FINe but I hope he doesn’t punish the wrong womenPosted by ellesbelleshe is selfish.
This makes me sad. It's like I'm reading a post from my Pisces son 15 years from now.
I will tell you what I tell him every time he complains about the Leo douchebag he is with now.....you picked her (them).
Stop trying to save broken people.
Build some boundaries.
Stop dating/marrying crazy....no matter how tempting it is.
Learn to be selfish....there is NOTHING wrong with it.
He needs to learn to discern which one are even worthy of his time
Maybe meet freinds that are lady’s
Only by really getting to know them
he will punish the general company around him though....and random women he doesn't even know ..because of what his current gf does ..and we all have listen to it..
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Oh my fellow pisces, don't drown and wallow in the dissapointment. You're that 40 yr old pisces that was with a 20-something yr old pisces, no? I remember because I could kind of identify with the age gap-- i love me some older men, saturn in the seventh house, tend to mother guys my age, also probably most likely but not confirming daddy-issues. Joking aside, it seems like you are just attracting the wrong type of women-- wrong for you I mean, there's someone for everybody. If the problem has been pervasive enough to be part of most of your intimate life (which two prior divorces say yeah, most likely) then it's not a problem of who's out there that is left, but who you are. It's like trying to fit your square peg into a bunch of round holes then throwing a fit and lamenting no one is good enough for your peg (as a pisces I expect you to understand my out of shape metaphor lol).
Relationships are a give and take, we want the moon but never wonder if we are good enough to be handed the moon. It's one of the reasons I'm not looking for a relationship right now, not ready to give as much as I would be expecting. You have to be willing to be what you are requiring in your partner. And if all you are giving is material stuffs, don't be so surprised your pool is filled with materialistic bishes. Especially if you are financially set, you cannot throw a material-stability hook and expect emotional-stability to bite.
If you are really truly and honestly looking for the one person that will not be taking advantage of you, then some serious introspection and self-analysis is in order before you go off into another relationship, the kind where you don't play the victim. There are an insane amount of people in the world, so no, women are not all like the failed relationships you've had. Unless, of course that is what you're expecting, in which case, yeah, the women you meet will all be like that.
Relationships are a give and take, we want the moon but never wonder if we are good enough to be handed the moon. It's one of the reasons I'm not looking for a relationship right now, not ready to give as much as I would be expecting. You have to be willing to be what you are requiring in your partner. And if all you are giving is material stuffs, don't be so surprised your pool is filled with materialistic bishes. Especially if you are financially set, you cannot throw a material-stability hook and expect emotional-stability to bite.
If you are really truly and honestly looking for the one person that will not be taking advantage of you, then some serious introspection and self-analysis is in order before you go off into another relationship, the kind where you don't play the victim. There are an insane amount of people in the world, so no, women are not all like the failed relationships you've had. Unless, of course that is what you're expecting, in which case, yeah, the women you meet will all be like that.
Posted by ellesbelleshere's to hoping he listens and gives himself a chance.Posted by fire_underwaterBeautiful. Best advice. +100000
Oh my fellow pisces, don't drown and wallow in the dissapointment. You're that 40 yr old pisces that was with a 20-something yr old pisces, no? I remember because I could kind of identify with the age gap-- i love me some older men, saturn in the seventh house, tend to mother guys my age, also probably most likely but not confirming daddy-issues. Joking aside, it seems like you are just attracting the wrong type of women-- wrong for you I mean, there's someone for everybody. If the problem has been pervasive enough to be part of most of your intimate life (which two prior divorces say yeah, most likely) then it's not a problem of who's out there that is left, but who you are. It's like trying to fit your square peg into a bunch of round holes then throwing a fit and lamenting no one is good enough for your peg (as a pisces I expect you to understand my out of shape metaphor lol).
Relationships are a give and take, we want the moon but never wonder if we are good enough to be handed the moon. It's one of the reasons I'm not looking for a relationship right now, not ready to give as much as I would be expecting. You have to be willing to be what you are requiring in your partner. And if all you are giving is material stuffs, don't be so surprised your pool is filled with materialistic bishes. Especially if you are financially set, you cannot throw a material-stability hook and expect emotional-stability to bite.
If you are really truly and honestly looking for the one person that will not be taking advantage of you, then some serious introspection and self-analysis is in order before you go off into another relationship, the kind where you don't play the victim. There are an insane amount of people in the world, so no, women are not all like the failed relationships you've had. Unless, of course that is what you're expecting, in which case, yeah, the women you meet will all be like that.
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The easiest thing in the world to do is BLAME OTHER PEOPLE. Take this as an opportunity to ANALYZE YOURSELF. I know, it sounds cheesy
but it’s true.
Raise your standards
Elevate your mind to a higher plane
Have a little faith
Discern quality women from non quality women
Be the role model you seek. An upstanding man usually attracts an upstanding woman and does whatever it takes to keep her., and that also means commiting to her before she gives up hope.
but it’s true.
Raise your standards
Elevate your mind to a higher plane
Have a little faith
Discern quality women from non quality women
Be the role model you seek. An upstanding man usually attracts an upstanding woman and does whatever it takes to keep her., and that also means commiting to her before she gives up hope.
Posted by fire_underwaterYep, thats me. Just turned 41, she turned 24.
Oh my fellow pisces, don't drown and wallow in the dissapointment. You're that 40 yr old pisces that was with a 20-something yr old pisces, no? I remember because I could kind of identify with the age gap-- i love me some older men, saturn in the seventh house, tend to mother guys my age, also probably most likely but not confirming daddy-issues. Joking aside, it seems like you are just attracting the wrong type of women-- wrong for you I mean, there's someone for everybody. If the problem has been pervasive enough to be part of most of your intimate life (which two prior divorces say yeah, most likely) then it's not a problem of who's out there that is left, but who you are. It's like trying to fit your square peg into a bunch of round holes then throwing a fit and lamenting no one is good enough for your peg (as a pisces I expect you to understand my out of shape metaphor lol).
Relationships are a give and take, we want the moon but never wonder if we are good enough to be handed the moon. It's one of the reasons I'm not looking for a relationship right now, not ready to give as much as I would be expecting. You have to be willing to be what you are requiring in your partner. And if all you are giving is material stuffs, don't be so surprised your pool is filled with materialistic bishes. Especially if you are financially set, you cannot throw a material-stability hook and expect emotional-stability to bite.
If you are really truly and honestly looking for the one person that will not be taking advantage of you, then some serious introspection and self-analysis is in order before you go off into another relationship, the kind where you don't play the victim. There are an insane amount of people in the world, so no, women are not all like the failed relationships you've had. Unless, of course that is what you're expecting, in which case, yeah, the women you meet will all be like that.
Hadnt seen her for 6 months. She shows up, first thing out of her mouth was about money. I walked away after a few minutes. As a fellow pisces, you probably know what I mean when I say, Im the kind of guy who spends what I make. Sometimes ill save a little, but if i make a million, i spend a million. Lots go to charities, I help out friends and family, ill give to the needy, I realised at a young age that I dont need material things or money to be happy. Money is easy to make. The people who I have surrounded myself with know this, and word spreads. Soon you have mother fuckers youve never met asking for a handout. Only the past year or so have I told people to go f off. I dont have the fancy job anymore, it didnt make me happy. But the lack of cash has shown me the greed in people. Friends I havent talked to in years showing up, expecting me to give them what I dont have, and believing for some magical reason they earned it. This includes my crazy ass first wife.
My first wifes father warned me about her and her mother while we were dating. Straight up, told me she was crazy and I should go elsewhere. But in my youth and ignorance, I didnt know what he meant. My parents are still together after 45 years, I thought the same would happen to me. But no, dad was right, his daughter and her mother are crazy. Divorced.Faught like hell and lost. She took everthing. I dont feel this divorce was my fault. I was 17, she was 19 when we wed. Walking fucking stupity.
Second wife, Damn good aries woman. Water eventually puts fire out. Divorced because I was an out of control alcoholic. This divorce was my fault. I didnt fight her, gave her everthing I had, Still paying to this day.
Started dating women out of that group of friends I was talking about. These girls know my background. Dated lots and spoiled them. Found the 24 year old I liked. We were set up by her mother, who's husband is 22 years older than her. She tells me she wants her daughter to be with someone "good". We have the same interests and get along good. At one point I think she did like me judging by her kisses and wanting to hold me. She went to college and it all changed But I know how a woman acts when shes into you. Shes not buying me things, texting me, calling me, telling her friends about me, wanting to spend time with me.No hug, no kiss, just wanted money.
It got me thinking about the old guys I know. Ex wives got most everything. I refuse to be in that position at their age.
I really think im going to move where no one knows me and give it another go
Posted by bkbella86Yeah...he wants her to be exclusive while he is never called her his gf!
What’s wrong with banging other guys if you aren’t official? You expect commitment without committing?
Good job, man! 👌
And when she takes you for all you worth - remember that she was there for you while you were making your worth or make prenup!
I hate these whiny asses...
Posted by merakiNo, I meant it's okay for women to choose, to have freedom, as men havePosted by MyStarsShineIf it's out of spite, why is it okay?
Can't have your cake and eat it
Women are now doing what men have been doing for ever
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Spite is never good and always backfires
Posted by Superman77Regardless of gender, class, race etc....we all have a right to choosePosted by MyStarsShineJust because Peter does it don’t mean it’s right for Paul.
Can't have your cake and eat it
Women are now doing what men have been doing for ever
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Posted by merakiI was referring to women having the same choices as men, if it's done for revenge or oneupmanship, yes I agree with you. We need to do unto others as we would have done to ourselvesPosted by MyStarsShineIt's just my opinion, but I don't think it works the same both ways. Nd it for some cases it does it come off as spiteful, childish even.Posted by merakiNo, I meant it's okay for women to choose, to have freedom, as men havePosted by MyStarsShineIf it's out of spite, why is it okay?
Can't have your cake and eat it
Women are now doing what men have been doing for ever
Spite is never good and always backfires
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A relationship outside of sex? An emotional commitment?
Nope.
Nope.
Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by 4reefer2man0Holy cow😳
Im pisces, she is pisces, good looking lil thing. But crazy as shiz. I kicked her to the curb, its not just her, its all the crazy biatches Ive dated. They only care about money and feeding their huge ego. Even the ugly fat biatches think they are hot and deserve free stuff. The religious zealots, hasnt worked for me yet, they are even more brainwashed and crazy, and I have to listen about some fake ass god...fuk that. I know 3 men in their late 60's. All 3 been married and divorced more than once, all 3 say they can look back and see the signs they missed that she was only there for the money. 1admits he knew he was being used, but she was hot and he knew he would never get anything as hot as her. All 3 are broke, living in camper trailers, all 3 had 6 figure incomes while married. The women got everything.
Im 40, divorced 2 times....yep, the biatches got everything.
I think our society is so fuked that everyone is out to use who they can. Women use their body to get where they want, then the legal system to get what they want.
I think its time to call it quits and resign to the fact we are better off single. If I quit women now I will have a very good retirement. Find a like minded NON HOMOSEXUAL man and go travel the world. Getting rid of women eliminates lots of trouble. Me and my left hand live happily ever after. The end
Never seen bitter man talk irl
So let me guess - your 2 FAILED marriages are all the woman’s fault smh
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Did yoi even read? or just come to talk shit? blow me
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