@ConsiderableMyth
8 YearsLibra
He’s in love with me but I don’t see him romantically
Understanding His Feelings and Intentions
This man's actions suggest he cares deeply and may have romantic feelings, even if you do not see him that way. His spending and gifts could be signs of affection rather than just friendship. Recognizing his intentions requires observing his behavior over time and considering open communication to clarify feelings.
Posted by JadeAlexander
You should feel bad because you’re aware of how he feels. I have a Taurus friend who is hinting he’s in love with me. I feel nothing... I’ve warned him several times but it’s becoming obvious that being his friend is only hurting him.So it’s time to give the guy space, let him be. Because if I continue to engage him it’s false hope and only striking my ego.
Yeah I should do the same. My first instinct was to feel bad. Always go with my gut.
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
This guy I’ve been hanging out with, strictly as friends, never even slept with... he spends all his money on me. Has given me hundreds before, pays for all our meals, and buys me gifts. But he knows how I feel about him... is he seriously just being friendly or is he trying to buy me? Should I feel bad?
don't feel bad
only feel bad if you don't care about him at all
if you love him as a friend then enjoy him and his efforts
i've been in your friend shoes......
gift giving is how i show love
i wasn't trying to buy her...it just made me really happy that i could fully be myself around her which meant doing special things for her...especially when i missed her
in short we had a really beautiful relationship
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
yes and no
Posted by JadeAlexander
The guy is an adult and you don’t have to feel guilty. But if you’re really his friend you’d do what’s best for him.
but that's subjective
And as a Libra I sit here and I see both sides to it... indecisive is my name, and making no solid decision is my game. And forget putting a large menu in front of me. I’ll end up just not eating. The older I get, the worse it is.
Posted by Arielle83
Wow I'd feel totally uncomfortable letting some guy pay for me, knowing he's romantically interested.I probably wouldn't even spend any time with him.
Libra chicks get off on this shit.
Maybe you're happy getting resources without doing anything.
That’s pretty assumpive. Character isn’t based on zodiacs, personalities are. If I got off on it, I would keep it to myself... because part of our personality is being calculating. Furthermore - I enjoy hanging out with him. I can enjoy someone’s company genuinely without having romantic feelings.
This is a pretty passive aggressive approach towards venting your frustrations on a subject I’ve narrowed down to a couple things:
1. You have had someone take advantage of your generosity before, thus leaving you sensitive towards anything that even remotely resembles the possibility, not probability, of someone else ending up in your shoes.
OR
2. You have been burned by an unevolved Libra female, or “chick”, in your terms, sometime in the past.
BUT
judging by the immediately harsh response, it could most definitely be a culmination of the two.
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
And as a Libra I sit here and I see both sides to it... indecisive is my name, and making no solid decision is my game. And forget putting a large menu in front of me. I’ll end up just not eating. The older I get, the worse it is.1. Both sides
You as a human being can never understand someone's side. They are in a first person relationship with themselves and you with yourself. When he is thirsty do you know how much he should drink?
Do you feel his thirst? No.
You don't feel his feelings. And he doesn't feel yours. You both only see one side. That is what it is to be human. You see his feelings through you own perception.
But you will never see someone's feelings from their point of view. You don't see his side.
It's no use to pretend you can.
If you want us to narrow down the menus ....it's simple you let it continue or tell him to stop ...
Why not tell him to stop ..unless you enjoy the money ?? if it's no loss to you why worry about losing it?
I would wager he just likes spending time on you. Do that...
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Because I really do like hanging out with him.
Oh I see what you’re saying. Make him stop the finding part of it. I’ll go that route first. I really don’t want to completely cut him out of my life.
Posted by Arielle83
I guess someone giving an alternate opinion is "harsh" to you too.
Whoaaaaaa, touché touché. I always learn something about myself from others. Sorry for being harsh. I need to work on that.
Posted by Toti
Typical Libra behavior. First they will take all the money and gifts they can and then play nice by asking a bunch of strangers on the internet if they should have accepted it. And then they will blame it on being indecisive. At age of 7 we know what is right and what is wrong. One simple no would do the trick with Taurus or any other man. You keeping him on a short leash is called taking advantage and probably killing your time until something better comes along. Poor guy. Living in hope, expecting you to be someone you aren't. I have no intention of insulting you, but I just can't stand such behavior. Especially in women.
I can appreciate your perspective.
I'm a Libra and I've never done this. Yes I've been in your situation before but I would never allow them to give/do anything for me because I know they're EXPECTING something back. I really don't know why you're asking this question. You're 31. You know what you're supposed to do.
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
yes and no
Which part do you say no to?
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not giving up hope
and no to expectation
one can hope without expectation.
as i said i've been in this tricky situation before
i never hoped to be with her...just that things would resolve themselves in a way in which we could still remain best friends
when you really love someone ...most of all you want them to be happy even if the person that makes them happy isn't you
i think that's how you truly know that you really love them
Sounds like your leading him on by accepting all of his advances.
Posted by JadeAlexander
You should feel bad because you’re aware of how he feels. I have a Taurus friend who is hinting he’s in love with me. I feel nothing... I’ve warned him several times but it’s becoming obvious that being his friend is only hurting him.So it’s time to give the guy space, let him be. Because if I continue to engage him it’s false hope and only striking my ego.
Don’t you wish our aquas would do this if they felt that way...
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
yes and no
Which part do you say no to?
not giving up hope
and no to expectation
one can hope without expectation.
as i said i've been in this tricky situation before
i never hoped to be with her...just that things would resolve themselves in a way in which we could still remain best friends
when you really love someone ...most of all you want them to be happy even if the person that makes them happy isn't you
i think that's how you truly know that you really love them
I understand ....but really the only way to remain friends ...is to build a normal ..friendship ..like your other friendships .
If you can't you won't.
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it was a bit more complicated in my case
but in the end i got exactly what i wanted 🙂
i think she misses the extra attention i used to give to her though
in fact i know she does
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
And as a Libra I sit here and I see both sides to it... indecisive is my name, and making no solid decision is my game. And forget putting a large menu in front of me. I’ll end up just not eating. The older I get, the worse it is.
You're not indecisive.
Subconsciously you've already made a decision but consciously you're just delaying the inevitable.
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
yes and no
Which part do you say no to?
not giving up hope
and no to expectation
one can hope without expectation.
as i said i've been in this tricky situation before
i never hoped to be with her...just that things would resolve themselves in a way in which we could still remain best friends
when you really love someone ...most of all you want them to be happy even if the person that makes them happy isn't you
i think that's how you truly know that you really love them
Yea I get what you're saying and I agree with that. I think my situation had a lot more naivety and less substance because it was like ... the 3rd guy I ever dated (started out dating, ended friends) in a serious manner. I think I was 23 and he was 20 lol. I think dudes who invest a lot of time and money into a woman at that age certainly expect something.
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aww
he's a baby
i was about the same age in the case i was referencing
i bought her Chanel earrings randomly
she was having a bad day.lol
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
i think she misses the extra attention i used to give to her thoughin fact i know she does
Maybe she fancied you..
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maybe she did
she did try to sleep with me several times
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
yes and no
Which part do you say no to?
not giving up hope
and no to expectation
one can hope without expectation.
as i said i've been in this tricky situation before
i never hoped to be with her...just that things would resolve themselves in a way in which we could still remain best friends
when you really love someone ...most of all you want them to be happy even if the person that makes them happy isn't you
i think that's how you truly know that you really love them
Yea I get what you're saying and I agree with that. I think my situation had a lot more naivety and less substance because it was like ... the 3rd guy I ever dated (started out dating, ended friends) in a serious manner. I think I was 23 and he was 20 lol. I think dudes who invest a lot of time and money into a woman at that age certainly expect something.
aww
he's a baby
i was about the same age in the case i was referencing
i bought her Chanel earrings randomly
she was having a bad day.lol
This guy spent like every cent on me. Like constant flowers, candles, perfumes, and other gifts. It was very sweet but yes, it made me feel uncomfortable because I could never reciprocate those kinds of feelings. And he was a baby... practically a virgin. Had sex 1 time before me. I felt like I ruined him.
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lol you didn't
it's puppy love
everyone goes through that phase
he'll be fine
don't worry
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
yes and no
Which part do you say no to?
not giving up hope
and no to expectation
one can hope without expectation.
as i said i've been in this tricky situation before
i never hoped to be with her...just that things would resolve themselves in a way in which we could still remain best friends
when you really love someone ...most of all you want them to be happy even if the person that makes them happy isn't you
i think that's how you truly know that you really love them
Yea I get what you're saying and I agree with that. I think my situation had a lot more naivety and less substance because it was like ... the 3rd guy I ever dated (started out dating, ended friends) in a serious manner. I think I was 23 and he was 20 lol. I think dudes who invest a lot of time and money into a woman at that age certainly expect something.
aww
he's a baby
i was about the same age in the case i was referencing
i bought her Chanel earrings randomly
she was having a bad day.lol
-_-
I clean my mates house for her when she is having a bad day!
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she cleans in general when she is stressed and having a bad day
i didn't know she was at the time
i just surprised her at her bf's flat who lived right above us actually as she was my suite mate at the time
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
yes and no
Which part do you say no to?
not giving up hope
and no to expectation
one can hope without expectation.
as i said i've been in this tricky situation before
i never hoped to be with her...just that things would resolve themselves in a way in which we could still remain best friends
when you really love someone ...most of all you want them to be happy even if the person that makes them happy isn't you
i think that's how you truly know that you really love them
Yea I get what you're saying and I agree with that. I think my situation had a lot more naivety and less substance because it was like ... the 3rd guy I ever dated (started out dating, ended friends) in a serious manner. I think I was 23 and he was 20 lol. I think dudes who invest a lot of time and money into a woman at that age certainly expect something.
aww
he's a baby
i was about the same age in the case i was referencing
i bought her Chanel earrings randomly
she was having a bad day.lol
This guy spent like every cent on me. Like constant flowers, candles, perfumes, and other gifts. It was very sweet but yes, it made me feel uncomfortable because I could never reciprocate those kinds of feelings. And he was a baby... practically a virgin. Had sex 1 time before me. I felt like I ruined him.
lol you didn't
it's puppy love
everyone goes through that phase
Good! Lol I notice on Facebook that he still adds me and deletes me though. Weird af. Like keep me added or leave me deleted.
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lol conflicting feelings
there will be a time in which he'll look back laugh and be okay with everything
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
yes and no
Which part do you say no to?
not giving up hope
and no to expectation
one can hope without expectation.
as i said i've been in this tricky situation before
i never hoped to be with her...just that things would resolve themselves in a way in which we could still remain best friends
when you really love someone ...most of all you want them to be happy even if the person that makes them happy isn't you
i think that's how you truly know that you really love them
Yea I get what you're saying and I agree with that. I think my situation had a lot more naivety and less substance because it was like ... the 3rd guy I ever dated (started out dating, ended friends) in a serious manner. I think I was 23 and he was 20 lol. I think dudes who invest a lot of time and money into a woman at that age certainly expect something.
aww
he's a baby
i was about the same age in the case i was referencing
i bought her Chanel earrings randomly
she was having a bad day.lol
This guy spent like every cent on me. Like constant flowers, candles, perfumes, and other gifts. It was very sweet but yes, it made me feel uncomfortable because I could never reciprocate those kinds of feelings. And he was a baby... practically a virgin. Had sex 1 time before me. I felt like I ruined him.
lol you didn't
it's puppy love
everyone goes through that phase
Good! Lol I notice on Facebook that he still adds me and deletes me though. Weird af. Like keep me added or leave me deleted.
lol conflicting feelings
there will be a time in which he'll look back laugh and be okay with everything
I hope so. He was a really nice guy and deserves to meet a woman who feels the same way about him as he does for her.
Love sucks ehh
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it doesn't suck
and he will
turns out the girl i was referencing earlier...i wasn't even sexually attracted to.
like she's hot...really hot
but i never felt what others describe when i was around her.......
i didn't meet someone like that until 8 years later
I’ve been in this situation before .. it’s nice to get treated so special , had a great time with him when we hung out , but, I felt guilty letting him do these things for me even though I told him my feelings were only platonic .. he told me he enjoys seeing me happy , that it makes him happy .. I let it continue for a little while longer then had to end it, it was weighing heavy on me
Posted by SpaceBird
I would HATE if someone did this to me.
The same someone that told you they didn’t have romantic feelings for you? Like I said,
He knows how I feel, or DONT feel, for that matter. This is all him.
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
This guy I’ve been hanging out with, strictly as friends, never even slept with... he spends all his money on me. Has given me hundreds before, pays for all our meals, and buys me gifts. But he knows how I feel about him... is he seriously just being friendly or is he trying to buy me? Should I feel bad?
Depends.
If he knows how you feel and that you won’t change it, I don’t think you should feel bad.
But like you said trust your instincts.
Some men would just feel happy being your friend and taking care of you without you having to reciprocate.
They get pleasure of making you happy and providing for you.
I don’t know if he expects more from you.
If he does and you know it’s not going to happen then it’s your responsibility to let him know and do the best you can in that circumstances.
I actually didn’t expect this big of a response to this experience, to be honest. Haha... like I really thought maybe a couple people would respond, but y’all have proven me wrong.
Posted by Lala1393
Wait. What ?Why are you accepting his gifts if you know that it's because he's hoping for more in your "friendship" ? Unless he's the type of guy that spoils all his close female friends because he loves them as friends. Which sounds very unlikely. Seems like he's singled you out.
Hmmmmmm
Sounds very user-y to me.
Even if he KNOWS.
When did I ever say I know he’s hoping for more? In fact, I’m pretty sure in my OP I asked if he’s just being nice.
I think a lot of people on here like to jump to conclusions while the original content gets muddied by other self-imposed opinions.
Yes I would feel bad if anyone was spending all their money on me
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
I actually didn’t expect this big of a response to this experience, to be honest. Haha... like I really thought maybe a couple people would respond, but y’all have proven me wrong.
So why ask?
Posted by Arielle83
Wow I'd feel totally uncomfortable letting some guy pay for me, knowing he's romantically interested.I probably wouldn't even spend any time with him.
Libra chicks get off on this shit.
Maybe you're happy getting resources without doing anything.
Right! Gifts are gifts but ‘hundreds’? Like cash? Smh
Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes I would feel bad if anyone was spending all their money on me
Same. Unless I don’t give a fk about them...lol...no, not even then...I don’t think so. I don’t hang out with people I don’t give a fuck about...
I've been here before (as the guy). Do him a huge favor if you really are a real friend and decline his efforts to pay for things. If he still continues to do so, stop seeing him for a while. The more you allow him to pay for you, the more you'll lead him on. Trust me.
Posted by Arielle83
Wow I'd feel totally uncomfortable letting some guy pay for me, knowing he's romantically interested.I probably wouldn't even spend any time with him.
Libra chicks get off on this shit.
Maybe you're happy getting resources without doing anything.
Right! Gifts are gifts but ‘hundreds’? Like cash? Smh
I mean it's so weird...
And she accepts it all even though she doesn't like him like that.
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Agree...how does it go?
Here is $ 200...
Ok, thanks...
WTF—
Posted by Arielle83
Wow I'd feel totally uncomfortable letting some guy pay for me, knowing he's romantically interested.I probably wouldn't even spend any time with him.
Libra chicks get off on this shit.
Maybe you're happy getting resources without doing anything.
Right! Gifts are gifts but ‘hundreds’? Like cash? Smh
I mean it's so weird...
And she accepts it all even though she doesn't like him like that.
Agree...how does it go?
Here is $ 200...
Ok, thanks...
WTF—
**Puts the bills in purse then bag**
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...goes to men strip club...lol
Posted by Lala1393
Wait. What ?Why are you accepting his gifts if you know that it's because he's hoping for more in your "friendship" ? Unless he's the type of guy that spoils all his close female friends because he loves them as friends. Which sounds very unlikely. Seems like he's singled you out.
Hmmmmmm
Sounds very user-y to me.
Even if he KNOWS.
When did I ever say I know he’s hoping for more? In fact, I’m pretty sure in my OP I asked if he’s just being nice.
I think a lot of people on here like to jump to conclusions while the original content gets muddied by other self-imposed opinions.
Look at your title?
"He's in love with me..."
Play dumb when you get your integrity challenged.
The poor guy. It's not hard to imagine him thinking of her all day, falsely dreaming of being with her, having his babies etc, liking/fapping to pics on instawhore or whatever. We are talking about a Taurus man.
This gonna get ugly.
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He straight up told me he didn’t want kids... before I even brought it up. Lmao.
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
Not true, i do shit for free for loads of people, sure not for everyone, but i do. I help with relationships, help them understand and overcome themselves and become better version of themselves, i also help random people i don't even know for free when i feel like it on training and nutritions, sometimes i even train people for free even tho i'm personal trainer and i should be paid for every single thing like that. 😄 I think there are people who give freely without expectations, sure we might not receive anything, but we get something in return, that feeling inside and makes you happy because you did something good or helped someone not because you were asked to do it or were hoping for something in return, but because you're a kind person. I believe what you do for people , the good energy you put out there, the good things you do, they return full circle, sure they might not come as material things, money, house, opportuninty or somth, sometimes it might even that, but most of the time it brings refreshment to your life, being happy with yourself and your life, having a peace of mind and i believe what returns full circle is the energy that you need to grow. I believe this bullshit and it works for me, i've done plenty of good things for people, i've received good energy, happiness, peace of mind, even received some amazing opportunities in my life, the things you do, the decisions you make puts where you are right now, makes you what you are right now, so far i can say this shit is working for me and i'm happy and satisfied with my life because of it . 😄
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You know what? I’m gonna go with what you said. Only because you strike me as different and I’ve always been told I was different. I don’t fuck people over and I don’t use people. I can post things all I want, but no one will see it for what it is because they’re not here. I’ve been open with him about everything and he wants to do what he’s doing.
It’s easy to judge when you’re not the subject. Now I’m the subject. As usual.
I’ve spent tons of money on people that were just friends, because I loved them. But I won’t even try telling the people here that. They’d crucify me and my actions. No thanks.
But THANK YOU for being you. You’re amazing.
Posted by nano
I had this happen to me with a Taurus. I was upfront with him about my feelings, or rather lack thereof. I had just went through a pretty shattering breakup, and I was broken. I moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone and he approached me, and I admit that the attention was nice. Some guys won't give up either.They may be nice guys but you should know that they ARE expecting and hoping for more. Nothing is ever free in this life.
Not true, i do shit for free for loads of people, sure not for everyone, but i do. I help with relationships, help them understand and overcome themselves and become better version of themselves, i also help random people i don't even know for free when i feel like it on training and nutritions, sometimes i even train people for free even tho i'm personal trainer and i should be paid for every single thing like that. 😄 I think there are people who give freely without expectations, sure we might not receive anything, but we get something in return, that feeling inside and makes you happy because you did something good or helped someone not because you were asked to do it or were hoping for something in return, but because you're a kind person. I believe what you do for people , the good energy you put out there, the good things you do, they return full circle, sure they might not come as material things, money, house, opportuninty or somth, sometimes it might even that, but most of the time it brings refreshment to your life, being happy with yourself and your life, having a peace of mind and i believe what returns full circle is the energy that you need to grow. I believe this bullshit and it works for me, i've done plenty of good things for people, i've received good energy, happiness, peace of mind, even received some amazing opportunities in my life, the things you do, the decisions you make puts where you are right now, makes you what you are right now, so far i can say this shit is working for me and i'm happy and satisfied with my life because of it . 😄
You know what? I’m gonna go with what you said. Only because you strike me as different and I’ve always been told I was different. I don’t fuck people over and I don’t use people. I can post things all I want, but no one will see it for what it is because they’re not here. I’ve been open with him about everything and he wants to do what he’s doing.
It’s easy to judge when you’re not the subject. Now I’m the subject. As usual.
I’ve spent tons of money on people that were just friends, because I loved them. But I won’t even try telling the people here that. They’d crucify me and my actions. No thanks.
But THANK YOU for being you. You’re amazing.
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you just said you feel bad though,
so if you feel bad, you're human and you know something is wrong. lol
i dont think it's a libra thing though, i've seen libra suns very self sufficient with or without a partner,
many single. and if they are married they are also self sufficient.'
'
but you started back peddling cause you got frustrated. lol
Posted by Arielle83
Cool, so you ask for advice...Ppl give it to you based on how they see the situation - looking at it from both perspectives...
You get defensive when you feel you're seen in an opportunistic light...
You backpeddle...
Then you go with cognitive dissonance and keep taking the free stuff...
Even though your title claims "he's in love with you"...
But, you're concluding posts self reflects how you're generous to your friends...
Doesn't mention men you are in an unrequited situation with...that you are generous with. You claim FRIENDS...
Basically you're going to keep getting the free lunches...
But there's no such thing as a free lunch..,
You came here for validation.
THIS !!
👌👌
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Women who do sh. It like this and break innocent guys hearts just to get what they can from them, ruin these nice guys for the rest of us.
She was just gloating.
Ya she posted on the front page about her chiro checking her out.
She hustling for that dolla dolla.
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I love this too much 🤣🤣🤣
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
And as a Libra I sit here and I see both sides to it... indecisive is my name, and making no solid decision is my game. And forget putting a large menu in front of me. I’ll end up just not eating. The older I get, the worse it is.
Libra moon here and I completely empathize. Especially about the menu part smh.
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This guy I’ve been hanging out with, strictly as friends, never even slept with... he spends all his money on me. Has given me hundreds before, pays for all our meals, and buys me gifts. But he knows how I feel about him... is he seriously just being friendly or is he trying to buy me? Should I feel bad?