passionate sex

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by shonsho on Thursday, October 5, 2006 and has 23 replies.

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@shonsho
20 Years

hey sex they say is the sweetest thing on the basic of enjoyment..anyway how do someone start a passionate sex with lover,girlfirend or in married issues?thanks

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@shonsho
20 Years

HEY I STILL DONT UNDERSTAND ALL THIS....CAN IT BE WITH FULL PASSION B4 SEX ORSEX WITH PASION...THERE IS A MIX UP HERE....

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@shonsho
20 Years

WELL ARCHER...WHAT EVER U THINK IS WAT U THINK...IT DEPEND ON HOW U TAKE SEX...SOME TAKE IT HAS A CHESS GAME ND SOME TAKE IT LIKE A GAME OF FOOTBALL...ND THAT IS WHAT WE R HERE FOR ON EARTH,IF NOT EVERYTHING WILL BE VERY BORING WITH GOOD SEX ND WOMAN AND MAN..OK?

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@houstonpeach74
20 Years5,000+ Posts

so choco, you're saying that you would break up with someone if the sex wasn't passionate? what if the guy had other wonderful qualities?

Archer, yes, sex is over rated to a degree.

That could be because I'm going through a dryspell...i don't know.

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm not Choco (she sounds like an awesome woman) but I most certaintly would end a relationship if the sex was not passionate - YOU BET! If the sex is not passionate, this means that there is something in the relationship that is also lacking passion.

Been there, done that - won't do it again!

Freebird out......
(I think that is sooooo cute!)๐Ÿ˜‰

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@BigD56
20 Years500+ PostsAquarius

I'd like to commemorate all people who has the patience to (I guess it's called) "make love". I've tried, but I get wild and I be WAY too exited to "make love". I have to have it soo rough it'll start poking out of her mouth!! I guess I don't have that much passion in my blood, probably having something to do with aquarius in it...

For me...rough sex then sleep.

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@BigD56
20 Years500+ PostsAquarius

Well...I guess that's just me being a young man...huh? It can take hours, but I don't have really serious feelings for this woman, I just want her body in certain positions...

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@shonsho
20 Years

yeh i think little sparrow....why not if not,sex is like 45percent of a relationship...if u r not getting wht u want ,u tend to look for another good sex,which will make u to cheat..uget me?passionate sex...will take passion if not with good feeling...some have sex like a prescibe drug..nd some like take sex for exercise...well i think good sex nd passionate sex will go along when u have good feeling in it

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@shonsho
20 Years

yeh i think little sparrow....why not if not,sex is like 45percent of a relationship...if u r not getting wht u want ,u tend to look for another good sex,which will make u to cheat..uget me?passionate sex...will take passion if not with good feeling...some have sex like a prescibe drug..nd some like take sex for exercise...well i think good sex nd passionate sex will go along when u have good feeling in it

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@shonsho
20 Years

yeh i think little sparrow....why not if not,sex is like 45percent of a relationship...if u r not getting wht u want ,u tend to look for another good sex,which will make u to cheat..uget me?passionate sex...will take passion if not with good feeling...some have sex like a prescibe drug..nd some like take sex for exercise...well i think good sex nd passionate sex will go along when u have good feeling in it

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@leo/virgo75
20 Years

I don't know how you *start* passionate sex.
For me it's all about chemistry. If it's not there, no matter how good a guy is, it's not gonna be passionate.

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@sweethearts_1969
20 Years500+ Posts

I have had very passionate sex with men that I have nothing in common with and then there are the men that sex is ok but, we have so much and common that it makes up for the sex not being so good. By the way, you only get better with practice and when I'm with someone who needs some work well, I'm willing to work on that.... ๐Ÿ˜‰

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@Sola
20 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

I prefer hard and fast..end of story. I cant stand romantic sex..it makes me feel weird! There's nothing worse (for me personally), than a man being all sweet and sensual before or after sex. Men: take control and dominate your bitch(es)!

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@BigD56
20 Years500+ PostsAquarius

Sola "Men: take control and dominate"

Exactly! I think sex pave the way for the WHOLE relationship, so...if you take control of your girl in bed, that shows her that she can feel safe and secure that she's with a MAN that can TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS!!! I mean, I do like to kiss and things, and maybe ALLOW my woman to be dominant at times...but when it comes down to it, she knows that I am in control.

Chocolate "dame..........so does your sign name stand for BigDog"

Close...very close...it all depends on what you mean by "Dog". This name hasn't been dubbed by me, it came from a woman I was messing with years back. She swore she thought she could "break my back" showing off in front of her friends, so I told her "don't be fooled by my age, I handle mines..." So, ever since I put it on her, she reffered to me as "Big-D" and I kinda took it and stated myself as that.

This reminds me, more than most of you women are all talk. You say how you can "do this" and "Make me scream your name", but when it's time to show and prove, you really ain't nuthin but my little play thing that needs a good beating!

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@Sola
20 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Dont be so sure of that BigD!! I had a man from New York swearing he would bring me to my knees. It took all my strength just to stay awake, and there he was, going at it with his life!! Lol!! I cant believe women talk like that either..'scream my name'..who the f*** wants to hear that? And when its the wrong name, well.....!

I mean it..as soon as a guy gets all lovey-dovey..im out that damn door! Im not dominant..im lazy, typical Libra! I like to be dominated in all areas though..like a good woman should!

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@BigD56
20 Years500+ PostsAquarius

Hey...maybe that's why my libra loved me soo much... she WAS lazy, and I never knew libras in general were lazy, so that explains everything! But Sola, I understand that men are about big talk, but I mean ladies! Us men have a big reputation on speaking loud and working with little, but now ladies are doing the same thing. I've had to let a lot of women know where I was at, maybe that's why I never talk trash about anything...I know what I'm good at, so I'd rather show than talk.

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@bon bon
19 YearsSagittarius

Thats a serious issue for me... me and my boyfriend broke up because my sexdrive was out of control... ya he had alot of great qualitys the sex was great when we had it. He only wanted it 2x per month and i wanted it 2x per day... if your not compatible in that area i dont beleive you can be totally happy in a relationship.

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@Sola
20 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Well, im not sure its a good thing for either sex to 'big' themselves up in a sexual manner BigD..those tend to be the ones that are the biggest let-downs!! The New Yorker i was referring to, was Aquaurius and all he spoke about was his obsession with women, how many he'd had, all the ethnicity blah, blah. I couldnt believe it when we finally got down to the 'action'..ok, he's was a fair enough size, but i agree with what my friends say..that 'its not package..it's performance'!! Lol..he's still convinced he's a God. Its cool to just be yourself..that's important for me personally.

Now, when i say lazy, what i really mean is that i appear physically lazy in the sack, but that's not strictly true. I just want the full experience, and tend to focus on smell, taste, sounds etc, rather than just concentrating on the actual motion of what's going on. I love being lazy Libra!!