cheating/affairs/taboo

it has been awhile in participating in the posts......anyway-has anyone cheated, thought about it, what reasons did you have......

I was close for a long time when I was in a relationship, but only in my mind. And I had enough respect for her to tell her about my feelings so we could discuss about what should be done. Why? Because I wanted to be with more than one woman. I wasn't satisfied with the amount of freedom you have in a relationship, and I needed the freedom to explore myself and/with other women.

Well, yeah ... fantasies run through my head often. I think a person is actually dead if they no longer do this. Even my grandfather who died at 94, and couldn't even get it up anylonger ... still had a roving eye, and talked about getting laid.

For a person to fantasize about sex with someone who isn't your partner is a very healthy thing to do.

Ash, LOL !

OFA, I like your miscommunication - so basically, you cheated? 😛