Do men call women asshole?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by AriesinLuuuv on Tuesday, March 19, 2013 and has 11 replies.

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@AriesinLuuuv
13 Years

In what circumstance would a man call a woman that he's intimate with an asshole when txt fighting? Seems like an odd choice for a man...

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13 Years25,000+ Posts

For me an asshole just means you are acting like a jerk. Now if he called you a biotch, that would be a different story. I use asshole all the time but I also use it when I am joking. In an argument though, if I said asshole, it would be cause you were annoying me and I wanted you to leave me alone. It all depends on if the person curses a lot, I have a potty mouth so it is no big deal.

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To be honest, I stopped calling women names...bad ones anyway. Seriously, I have. I haven't calked a woman the "b" word in years and I find it odd to call a woman an a-hole. Well, there's your equality ladies. Next up, expect to be calked a douche or a dick!

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@AriesinLuuuv
13 Years

Posted by TigerCap

Maybe women are pink?

Never really got the term when people used them around here. :/

You can change your settings to show the actual cuss words...took me a bit to figure that out with all the treetrunking. lol

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@AriesinLuuuv
13 Years

Posted by saggurl88
For me an asshole just means you are acting like a jerk. Now if he called you a biotch, that would be a different story. I use asshole all the time but I also use it when I am joking. In an argument though, if I said asshole, it would be cause you were annoying me and I wanted you to leave me alone. It all depends on if the person curses a lot, I have a potty mouth so it is no big deal.

Good point about biotch and the like. That would be a very bad sign.

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13 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

I hate things like that on forums, but around here it seems people have even adopted it in some cases.
Threads like "My ex is a marker" and then people still call him an a'hole.
Makes it all the more confusing. 😛

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treetrunking, marker, chickeny. at first i didn't get how everyone was speaking this language and i was not getting anything. then learnt these are filtered words. so confusing. so is a marker a decent word for a'hole? and butter, keep seeing that in every other post. guess that is original though, now not sure hahahah

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im not at all proud of this, but i've called guys bitches and i've been called an asshole more than once. if you bitch, you're a bitch. if you behave like a jerk, you are being an asshole. i've bitched, and can tolerate being called such. I've behaved like a stupid and have been called an asshole. i can't exactly argue with it... i'm not perfect.

it's the 21st century too. if the shoe fits... let's not get archaic.

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Posted by geminicandlelight

Posted by CreepyPants
im not at all proud of this, but i've called guys bitches and i've been called an asshole more than once. if you bitch, you're a bitch. if you behave like a jerk, you are being an asshole. i've bitched, and can tolerate being called such. I've behaved like a stupid and have been called an asshole. i can't exactly argue with it... i'm not perfect.

it's the 21st century too. if the shoe fits... let's not get archaic.

Very true. My scorpio ex called me a ''dick'' once, lol. I must have made him pretty mad.
But none of my other guys called me names, ever.

And how are you doing miss creepy?🙂

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*siigh* i'm good. 🙂 thanks love. scorp and i talked a couple nights ago. i got him to unblock my number LMAO. i just told him that if he wants to cut off communication then he should put his money where his mouth is and really cut things off. none of this inconsistent bull... blocking my number one day then emailing me how much he loves me, misses me and thinks of me all the time the next day. i can't deal. i said he either needs to unblock my number and let us behave like adults or then let's do this with the space and distance like we mean it.

i'm very happy he decided to keep in touch.