Could use some girl advice

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by theskaboss on Thursday, March 29, 2007 and has 5 replies.

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@theskaboss
19 Years

Anyone wanna help me. There is this girl at my high school at the beginning of school she walked in my latin class i saw her and it was like my heart just melted. I want to talk to her I really do but everytime I get a chance something or someone interupts it. Oh and I need help with what to say like what to ask etc. to get to know her. Don't wanna mess this up I mean half the freshman class know I like her she even does but still.

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@LilMermaid
19 Years500+ PostsPisces

wing it kid! what have you got to lose? worst case scenario: she rejects you and some other cutie thinks you were brave for trying to pursue her and then gives you her number instead. you cant lose!

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

that was so inspirational that I am now going out to buy a or many lottery tickets!
thx

DK 😉

I agree with DK - move that ego out of the way and "just do it!" do it for the fun of it and nothing else got it? only for FUN!

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@fieryearth
19 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

LOL..@ DK

but yeah I agree, just do it, do not think so hard.

Just start off with average everyday conversation, ask about the classwork, when you see her in the halls or w/e say hello...

Everyday just start making more and more conversation...
Make her laugh (that works)...

awww you are a freshmen in high school 🙂 how sweet.

I was kind of in this predicament before, except I was the girl lol. The guy just constantly made me laugh, and would just randomly talk to me. But I did not mind, he later asked for my screen name so we could talk online.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Seeing that we're talking about an Aries girl .. I don't know that I would be so bold as to ask her out, or chase her in any way .. that is the Ram's territory, and if you are the one making the moves, she'll likely back off.

Make sure she KNOWS that you pay attention to her .. they love attention. Do something bold, or dare-devilish to someone else (like DK's suggestion) .. make sure she sees you. However, if you tease an underdog .. you've lost her. If someone upsets her, or hurts her feelings, be the one who makes a stand for her honour.

It's tricky with Aries ..

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

....or do something very FUNNY - Aries women love funny men.

I remember when my ex Virgo ran into a glass door because he was soooo discombulated after kissing me - I laughed so hard! he got me right there and I told him so! 😉

*he is still one of my bestest friends and continues to make me laugh* how lucky am I?