@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
if someone is going to cheat they will find a way to do it - LDR or right under your noseit's not the fact that it is long distance - it's a problem with one or both of the people
Distance means nothing if your heart is true
*two thumbs up*
It can def. work IF 1:
*Both people have already established a good foundation/bond (that bond will keep them together when times get tough)
*Both people don't have trust issues or major insecurities. (If it's hard for ya to trust someone when they live 5 minutes from ya, the person you're dating is screwed if they live any further than that)
*Both people have acknowledged AND accepted the extra challenges that come with long distance BEFORE they commit (I hate when people get in LDR & then wake up 1 day realizing they "can't handle" the distance. It's like duh! That's why it's called a ldr)
*Both people plan on or atleast agree to move closer to another (lds should be temporary, not permament...at 1st the distance may not be a big deal but if 5 years later you're still in 2 different states, I doubt it'll last much longer)
I think LDR's work best/the longest when 1 or both people in it have had experience with long distance. First timers who actually end up together forever is rare
Posted by venusianbull
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Could be Telly Savalas pre-lolli ( and tanning bed ) too, one never knows. 🙂OMG Telly Savalas...LOL. I haven't heard that name in agesssss. funny
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LOL Oh yeh, bringing it back.
Who loves ya baby?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Chill, it's why it's affectionally named stalkbook 🙂
Lol! true true, my bad!
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if someone is going to cheat they will find a way to do it - LDR or right under your nose
it's not the fact that it is long distance - it's a problem with one or both of the people
Distance means nothing if your heart is true