
Grumpycamper
@777
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Posted by virgoOPPP
you sound really manipulative
hooked her up with him when you know he liked her
"To avoid making the situation rocky, I hooked my pisces friend with my casual date."
yeah coz that's LOGICAL
you're the one that got that ball rolling

Posted by Phantom_Dangus
What's it like being such a giant asshole?

Posted by 777Posted by virgoOPPP
you sound really manipulative
hooked her up with him when you know he liked her
"To avoid making the situation rocky, I hooked my pisces friend with my casual date."
yeah coz that's LOGICAL
you're the one that got that ball rolling
I'm sorry if I like women with strong will & principle. On top of that I was like 17 at the time. That other post just brought back old memories. I'm too old to play games like this anymore *sighclick to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by 777Posted by virgoOPPP
you sound really manipulative
hooked her up with him when you know he liked her
"To avoid making the situation rocky, I hooked my pisces friend with my casual date."
yeah coz that's LOGICAL
you're the one that got that ball rolling
I'm sorry if I like women with strong will & principle. On top of that I was like 17 at the time. That other post just brought back old memories. I'm too old to play games like this anymore *sigh
pathetic
imagine banging someone who likes your friend better
you did it coz you're petty and insecure
i sure as hell won't bang a guy who likes my friend better than me
you're like every teenage drama show villain everclick to expand

Posted by blvckphvse
"Dont ever get involved in serious romantic relationship with friends leftovers. It's just desperate & fucking pitiful. It doesn't matter how u slice it"
That should be a given :/

Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by 777Posted by Phantom_Dangus
What's it like being such a giant asshole?
I can see ur definitely the emotional type. Pick ur panties out of ur ass
I am sometimes but in this instance I kind of assumed you were looking to get called an asshole. Why confess your villainy? 😂click to expand


Posted by 777Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by 777Posted by Phantom_Dangus
What's it like being such a giant asshole?
I can see ur definitely the emotional type. Pick ur panties out of ur ass
I am sometimes but in this instance I kind of assumed you were looking to get called an asshole. Why confess your villainy? 😂
I just want people to be wary of this type of dating. It's more fulfilling & surprising when u get out in the world on you own terms and experience other people's personalities.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by 777Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by 777Posted by Phantom_Dangus
What's it like being such a giant asshole?
I can see ur definitely the emotional type. Pick ur panties out of ur ass
I am sometimes but in this instance I kind of assumed you were looking to get called an asshole. Why confess your villainy? 😂
I just want people to be wary of this type of dating. It's more fulfilling & surprising when u get out in the world on you own terms and experience other people's personalities.
Fulfilling for who?click to expand



Posted by saggurl88
“I dated this girl off & on for years.”
“Until I decided everyone in this situation was taking this whole thing too seriously.”
“The friend basically fell in love with me over short period of time”
“Deep down I couldnt understand how any of them took this scenario seriously, and why would u even get into this kind of heart “
The story contradicts itself-
You dated someone on and off for years and your wondering how she fell in love with you?
Then YOU decided that it was being taken too seriously AFTER you’ve been fucking her for years? 🧐😏
The whole story sounds like the way Sag do things.
Denying and deflecting to avoid heartbreak. But years into something? 😰
What’s the point in casually fucking the same girl for years, even though feelings never developed?

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
“I dated this girl off & on for years.”
“Until I decided everyone in this situation was taking this whole thing too seriously.”
“The friend basically fell in love with me over short period of time”
“Deep down I couldnt understand how any of them took this scenario seriously, and why would u even get into this kind of heart “
The story contradicts itself-
You dated someone on and off for years and your wondering how she fell in love with you?
Then YOU decided that it was being taken too seriously AFTER you’ve been fucking her for years? 🧐😏
The whole story sounds like the way Sag do things.
Denying and deflecting to avoid heartbreak. But years into something? 😰
What’s the point in casually fucking the same girl for years, even though feelings never developed?
I think ur mind creates realities that are totally non existent for ur own convenience.
1. I never said we fucked on and off for years
2. The girl who fell in love fast was her friend
3. U always talk about not having relationship expectations, but clearly u use long term sex as a trick to secure relationship.click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
“I dated this girl off & on for years.”
“Until I decided everyone in this situation was taking this whole thing too seriously.”
“The friend basically fell in love with me over short period of time”
“Deep down I couldnt understand how any of them took this scenario seriously, and why would u even get into this kind of heart “
The story contradicts itself-
You dated someone on and off for years and your wondering how she fell in love with you?
Then YOU decided that it was being taken too seriously AFTER you’ve been fucking her for years? 🧐😏
The whole story sounds like the way Sag do things.
Denying and deflecting to avoid heartbreak. But years into something? 😰
What’s the point in casually fucking the same girl for years, even though feelings never developed?
I think ur mind creates realities that are totally non existent for ur own convenience.
1. I never said we fucked on and off for years
2. The girl who fell in love fast was her friend
3. U always talk about not having relationship expectations, but clearly u use long term sex as a trick to secure relationship.
"I think ur mind creates realities that are totally non existent for ur own convenience."
Is it my convenience that I'm trying to make sense of what you said and why it's contradicting to me?
1. I never said we fucked on and off for years-You were doing this at 17 and "dating" but not fucking?
Your story was a little bit interesting until you just admitted this bit of info-Now I see why the situation was to be taken lightly. Do you call friendship dating?
2. The girl who fell in love fast was her friend- how was I supposed to be able to tell who was who when you started off the story that way?
3. U always talk about not having relationship expectations, but clearly u use long term sex as a trick to secure relationship. I don't have relationship expectations and I don't use sex as a trick to secure anything. If that was so, I would've put up with the last Virgo I was dating, just to have a relationship with him. It's not about me though, so I won't explain further on this.click to expand

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
“I dated this girl off & on for years.”
“Until I decided everyone in this situation was taking this whole thing too seriously.”
“The friend basically fell in love with me over short period of time”
“Deep down I couldnt understand how any of them took this scenario seriously, and why would u even get into this kind of heart “
The story contradicts itself-
You dated someone on and off for years and your wondering how she fell in love with you?
Then YOU decided that it was being taken too seriously AFTER you’ve been fucking her for years? 🧐😏
The whole story sounds like the way Sag do things.
Denying and deflecting to avoid heartbreak. But years into something? 😰
What’s the point in casually fucking the same girl for years, even though feelings never developed?
I think ur mind creates realities that are totally non existent for ur own convenience.
1. I never said we fucked on and off for years
2. The girl who fell in love fast was her friend
3. U always talk about not having relationship expectations, but clearly u use long term sex as a trick to secure relationship.
"I think ur mind creates realities that are totally non existent for ur own convenience."
Is it my convenience that I'm trying to make sense of what you said and why it's contradicting to me?
1. I never said we fucked on and off for years-You were doing this at 17 and "dating" but not fucking?
Your story was a little bit interesting until you just admitted this bit of info-Now I see why the situation was to be taken lightly. Do you call friendship dating?
2. The girl who fell in love fast was her friend- how was I supposed to be able to tell who was who when you started off the story that way?
3. U always talk about not having relationship expectations, but clearly u use long term sex as a trick to secure relationship. I don't have relationship expectations and I don't use sex as a trick to secure anything. If that was so, I would've put up with the last Virgo I was dating, just to have a relationship with him. It's not about me though, so I won't explain further on this.
I'm sorry to disappoint you by not fucking at 14. I guess you've never had friendship that turned into bf/gf stuff when younger.
Take ur time and read, bcuz you seem to lack deductive reasoning.
R u slow?click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
“I dated this girl off & on for years.”
“Until I decided everyone in this situation was taking this whole thing too seriously.”
“The friend basically fell in love with me over short period of time”
“Deep down I couldnt understand how any of them took this scenario seriously, and why would u even get into this kind of heart “
The story contradicts itself-
You dated someone on and off for years and your wondering how she fell in love with you?
Then YOU decided that it was being taken too seriously AFTER you’ve been fucking her for years? 🧐😏
The whole story sounds like the way Sag do things.
Denying and deflecting to avoid heartbreak. But years into something? 😰
What’s the point in casually fucking the same girl for years, even though feelings never developed?
I think ur mind creates realities that are totally non existent for ur own convenience.
1. I never said we fucked on and off for years
2. The girl who fell in love fast was her friend
3. U always talk about not having relationship expectations, but clearly u use long term sex as a trick to secure relationship.
"I think ur mind creates realities that are totally non existent for ur own convenience."
Is it my convenience that I'm trying to make sense of what you said and why it's contradicting to me?
1. I never said we fucked on and off for years-You were doing this at 17 and "dating" but not fucking?
Your story was a little bit interesting until you just admitted this bit of info-Now I see why the situation was to be taken lightly. Do you call friendship dating?
2. The girl who fell in love fast was her friend- how was I supposed to be able to tell who was who when you started off the story that way?
3. U always talk about not having relationship expectations, but clearly u use long term sex as a trick to secure relationship. I don't have relationship expectations and I don't use sex as a trick to secure anything. If that was so, I would've put up with the last Virgo I was dating, just to have a relationship with him. It's not about me though, so I won't explain further on this.
I'm sorry to disappoint you by not fucking at 14. I guess you've never had friendship that turned into bf/gf stuff when younger.
Take ur time and read, bcuz you seem to lack deductive reasoning.
R u slow?
Yes I'm slow- Especially when it has to do with a person telling a story about kids playing on the play ground and playing spin the bottle then getting teased about having their first kiss in front of everyone.
Were you 14 or 17? What age are you now that you bring up a pre-pubescent story like this?
I can see how you've contemplated dating life now, based of you telling this story.click to expand

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
“I dated this girl off & on for years.”
“Until I decided everyone in this situation was taking this whole thing too seriously.”
“The friend basically fell in love with me over short period of time”
“Deep down I couldnt understand how any of them took this scenario seriously, and why would u even get into this kind of heart “
The story contradicts itself-
You dated someone on and off for years and your wondering how she fell in love with you?
Then YOU decided that it was being taken too seriously AFTER you’ve been fucking her for years? 🧐😏
The whole story sounds like the way Sag do things.
Denying and deflecting to avoid heartbreak. But years into something? 😰
What’s the point in casually fucking the same girl for years, even though feelings never developed?
I think ur mind creates realities that are totally non existent for ur own convenience.
1. I never said we fucked on and off for years
2. The girl who fell in love fast was her friend
3. U always talk about not having relationship expectations, but clearly u use long term sex as a trick to secure relationship.
"I think ur mind creates realities that are totally non existent for ur own convenience."
Is it my convenience that I'm trying to make sense of what you said and why it's contradicting to me?
1. I never said we fucked on and off for years-You were doing this at 17 and "dating" but not fucking?
Your story was a little bit interesting until you just admitted this bit of info-Now I see why the situation was to be taken lightly. Do you call friendship dating?
2. The girl who fell in love fast was her friend- how was I supposed to be able to tell who was who when you started off the story that way?
3. U always talk about not having relationship expectations, but clearly u use long term sex as a trick to secure relationship. I don't have relationship expectations and I don't use sex as a trick to secure anything. If that was so, I would've put up with the last Virgo I was dating, just to have a relationship with him. It's not about me though, so I won't explain further on this.
I'm sorry to disappoint you by not fucking at 14. I guess you've never had friendship that turned into bf/gf stuff when younger.
Take ur time and read, bcuz you seem to lack deductive reasoning.
R u slow?
Yes I'm slow- Especially when it has to do with a person telling a story about kids playing on the play ground and playing spin the bottle then getting teased about having their first kiss in front of everyone.
Were you 14 or 17? What age are you now that you bring up a pre-pubescent story like this?
I can see how you've contemplated dating life now, based of you telling this story.
@black-mamba come & get ur sisterclick to expand


Posted by but_didyoudie
well i think this situation became a problem because you had a problem with it... as in yes, it was your fault.... BUT also the rest of the people involved your friend, the other one and her friend had terrible defense mechanisms with you... they trusted you i suppose and you screwed them over.
the way you make it sound at the end that what you did was ultimately beneficial is bs... but again all our f - ed situations do tend to make us into a better person than before bc we got f - ed over.
anyway, i will hook up my friends and/or acquaintances in a hearth beat... doesn't mean i will f any of them 😄 so i can be a match maker all day long

Posted by but_didyoudiePosted by 777Posted by but_didyoudie
well i think this situation became a problem because you had a problem with it... as in yes, it was your fault.... BUT also the rest of the people involved your friend, the other one and her friend had terrible defense mechanisms with you... they trusted you i suppose and you screwed them over.
the way you make it sound at the end that what you did was ultimately beneficial is bs... but again all our f - ed situations do tend to make us into a better person than before bc we got f - ed over.
anyway, i will hook up my friends and/or acquaintances in a hearth beat... doesn't mean i will f any of them 😄 so i can be a match maker all day long
Sometimes the hardest lessons are the most valuable. I was raised by older people, so many of the generation "whatever" parents traits didn't rub off on me. & boy aren't I glad. All of the irrelevant unessary confusion
What do your parents have go do with the way you juggled your friends around?click to expand

Posted by but_didyoudiePosted by 777Posted by but_didyoudiePosted by 777Posted by but_didyoudie
well i think this situation became a problem because you had a problem with it... as in yes, it was your fault.... BUT also the rest of the people involved your friend, the other one and her friend had terrible defense mechanisms with you... they trusted you i suppose and you screwed them over.
the way you make it sound at the end that what you did was ultimately beneficial is bs... but again all our f - ed situations do tend to make us into a better person than before bc we got f - ed over.
anyway, i will hook up my friends and/or acquaintances in a hearth beat... doesn't mean i will f any of them 😄 so i can be a match maker all day long
Sometimes the hardest lessons are the most valuable. I was raised by older people, so many of the generation "whatever" parents traits didn't rub off on me. & boy aren't I glad. All of the irrelevant unessary confusion
What do your parents have go do with the way you juggled your friends around?
I would have never thought a situation like that could possibly be sustainable
Im sorry im not understanding... so you learned that from your parents?click to expand

Posted by 777
To avoid making the situation rocky, I hooked my pisces friend with my casual date & all was going well.
Dont ever get involved in serious romantic relationship with friends leftovers. It's just desperate & fucking pitiful. It doesn't matter how u slice it


Posted by 777
My pisces friend forever had a crush on this girl. I hooked my pisces friend with my casual date & all was going well.
Posted by 777Posted by Arielle83
You all should of just fucked.
I dont shareclick to expand



Posted by Black-Mamba
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I dated this girl off & on for years. We never had an official title so it was pretty much extended casual dating. My pisces friend forever had a crush on this girl. Anyway, one day I was out I randomly and saw a friend of my casual date. We flirted exchange numbers & decided to hang out. To avoid making the situation rocky, I hooked my pisces friend with my casual date & all was going well. Until I decided everyone in this situation was taking this whole thing too seriously. The friend basically fell in love with me over short period of time, my pisces friend was falling in love with my casual date, & my casual date I guess was just going along for the ride. Deep down I couldnt understand how any of them took this scenario seriously, and why would u even get into this kind of heart swapping affair. So, what I did was go back and have sex with my casual date & told my pisces friend about it. He was so heartbroken even though he tried not to show lol. My casual date went back & told her homegirl what happend & she started crying and almost ruined their relationship. Basically the whole match making game was over. Me & pisces are still good friends. Me & casual date are still kool, even though she's moved on in her life (boyfriend etc.) The only difference is the girl who liked me hates my guts 🤷♂️ whatever
In the end, I think it was the right thing to do. The bond between the two girls grew stronger from what I've heard. I dont think either one of them would do that again. The pisces friend is more wise about who he chooses to date seriously. Even though I was the one who seemed to be least affected in this scenario it taught everyone a valuable lesson.
Dont ever get involved in serious romantic relationship with friends leftovers. It's just desperate & fucking pitiful. It doesn't matter how u slice it