lisabeth
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How honest are you test
i also sound like a pussy with that description.
anyway,
what would you do too, if you were in this situation—
you buy plane tickets and you order it online then only to realize your credit card didn't go and pay for it...
BUT the airline computers were glitched somehow and they said you PAID IN FULL ...so basically you got FREE plane ticket ...but see, it's NOT FREE because your credit card didn't pick it up or your debit card didn't say anything on it.
would you be sneaky and say NOTHING??
or would you do the RIGHT THING and tell the people there that they made a computer error.
what's it gonna be??
are you gonna be HONEST?? or would you in your mind, think, OH those dumb asses, they glitched so it's not my fault.
let's hear some moral truths.
edit - I think this is a very good Saturn in Sagitarius theme.
anyway,
what would you do too, if you were in this situation—
you buy plane tickets and you order it online then only to realize your credit card didn't go and pay for it...
BUT the airline computers were glitched somehow and they said you PAID IN FULL ...so basically you got FREE plane ticket ...but see, it's NOT FREE because your credit card didn't pick it up or your debit card didn't say anything on it.
would you be sneaky and say NOTHING??
or would you do the RIGHT THING and tell the people there that they made a computer error.
what's it gonna be??
are you gonna be HONEST?? or would you in your mind, think, OH those dumb asses, they glitched so it's not my fault.
let's hear some moral truths.
edit - I think this is a very good Saturn in Sagitarius theme.
Also this tests people's METTLE
in situations where they are given a 100 dollars, (an example)
when in truth you're supposed to get 10 dollars back.
Ok OK that's overkill and I don't think many cashiers or bank tellers or whatever business deals would NOT see how much , especially that AMOUNT....
but it tests the mettle of honesty in people. How corrupt are you willing to go?
would you just keep quiet and not say anything about the money—
and you think you won the jackpot that day?
starbucks woman who copied the credit card and the woman in the car CAUGHT her.
in situations where they are given a 100 dollars, (an example)
when in truth you're supposed to get 10 dollars back.
Ok OK that's overkill and I don't think many cashiers or bank tellers or whatever business deals would NOT see how much , especially that AMOUNT....
but it tests the mettle of honesty in people. How corrupt are you willing to go?
would you just keep quiet and not say anything about the money—
and you think you won the jackpot that day?
starbucks woman who copied the credit card and the woman in the car CAUGHT her.
I figured some of you would get the same results. lol
i was hoping for more results from others to see if they got something different.
really??
i wonder if other people feel the same way.
i was hoping for more results from others to see if they got something different.
Posted by ElleDuMonde
....if that happened to me wit the plane ticket....I wouldn't say a damn thing. They rake you over the coals with all the extra fees....they deserve it. It's not as if someone's job is on the line.
really??
i wonder if other people feel the same way.
Posted by ElleDuMonde
Yes, really.
If I was driving on the side of the road and a farmer was offering six stalks of corn for a dollar and I got back to my car and counted seven.....I would walk one back to him.
That's taking from someone else. I can't do that. That could directly affect him and his family.
But huge corporations?
Nope. Fuckem feedem beans. (Like my libra grandmother used to say)
More than half of the cost of an airline ticket goes to nonsensical bullshit made up fees that ends up some corporate figure heads inflated bonus......They can eat me.....the greedy bastards.
I've had it happen where I had made arrangements for a trip but cancelled because couldn't get days off or had to work, this happened years ago and there was NO REFUNDS. for the trip and the airline tickets, but I didn't get it "insured" so lost out less than a 1000 euros. that was just DUMB. I was realy young, in my 2nd serious job though.
my husband said it happened to him as well. when he was in this teens. he did cancel early but the FINE PRINT says no refunds, and if there is an advance, like cancellation that day or next day, you only get less than half % back.
a lot of corporations are very bad.
but it still don't make it right.
those people will lose their jobs if they aren't doing their jobs right.
I agree that people should take sick leave if they are sick. or super emergencies but here in Europe if you need an EMERGENCY, you don't need to use your sick day. but I heard in the U.S, you do, because it's so strict and cheap in some employment offers?/benefits?
not sure about that I guess it depends on the company you work for.
but your mother was probably a single mother with children and that's a very very HARD LIFE....
and she didn't even do it on purpose,
the only purpose she did was just walking out. lmao
IF I did that, my husband would be PISSED OFF! "No wife of mine better be doing shit like that." kind of spiel. lol
but a single mother, they usually have a very very hard life with children. and can barely afford commodities without scrimping. so I can see that.
not sure about that I guess it depends on the company you work for.
Posted by ElleDuMondelol
lol....one time my mother (gemini/pisces moon) went to buy a new vacuum cleaner.....the clerk put the vacuum cleaner and moved it to the other side of the register....where you put things that are paid for, but she forgot to scan it.
my brother (taurus with a cancer moon) was with her.....he was only half paying attention.
my mom paid for the rest of her items and they collected everything, including the vacuum cleaner and headed towards the exit.
my brother stopped halfway to the exit and said..."Mom, I don't think she scanned the vacuum cleaner."
my mom said...."Shut up and keep walking."
LOL
to this day....when he gets mad, he calls her a thief. She gets so pissed. 😛
but your mother was probably a single mother with children and that's a very very HARD LIFE....
and she didn't even do it on purpose,
the only purpose she did was just walking out. lmao
IF I did that, my husband would be PISSED OFF! "No wife of mine better be doing shit like that." kind of spiel. lol
but a single mother, they usually have a very very hard life with children. and can barely afford commodities without scrimping. so I can see that.
anyway, no judgement, as single mothers really have it rough.
even if they are professional career women, they have no time with their children and they pay a lot of money for babysitters, nursemaids, ect.
my mother in law told us she is firing her housemaid that comes to clean her house because her housemaid SUCKS at cleaning. lol
look at this mother, so FRUGAL...lol
but she has a boyfriend? or a husband. but the guy in the video said that he's DATING her..so that's a boyfriend.
even if they are professional career women, they have no time with their children and they pay a lot of money for babysitters, nursemaids, ect.
my mother in law told us she is firing her housemaid that comes to clean her house because her housemaid SUCKS at cleaning. lol
look at this mother, so FRUGAL...lol
but she has a boyfriend? or a husband. but the guy in the video said that he's DATING her..so that's a boyfriend.
ohh it's HER husband. lol. haha
oh my gosh!!!
this cheapskate mother goes to the thrift store and puts on lingerie, out in the open.
haha
is she putting on a show for the youtubers? and for entertainment tonight? her husband doesn't seem to mind.
2 dollars and 99 cents is out of her price range. heehee. 😄
I would say single mothers UNITE, but she's married.
i'm gonna make a topic on cheapskates or something.
this cheapskate mother goes to the thrift store and puts on lingerie, out in the open.
haha
is she putting on a show for the youtubers? and for entertainment tonight? her husband doesn't seem to mind.
2 dollars and 99 cents is out of her price range. heehee. 😄
I would say single mothers UNITE, but she's married.
i'm gonna make a topic on cheapskates or something.
You hate to lie
People who are good liars frighten you. You don’t admire them and you would even go as far as to say they’re dangerous. Their lack of morals shocks and worries you. You are the opposite. Your watch words are transparency and truth. You try to prove as often as possible that you are completely trustworthy. You reserve the right to say whatever you need to say, whether or not it pleases others. It’s courageous of you to be as honest as you are, but your quest for authenticity can sometimes come across as intransigence. You tend to be stubborn and demand that others share your values. Diplomacy is a good quality to have, and it demands a certain attitude to the truth – one that you have difficulty with. You fear lies because you don’t like the idea of someone lying to you. Are you afraid of being led down the garden path? Perhaps it brings back experiences from your past that you would rather forget. Lying is certainly not a positive thing, but perhaps lies could add nuance to your arguments or dress up reality when you want to be humane and not cause too much pain.
Posted by ElleDuMondelol oh jeez. well, what would YOU do in that situation?Posted by lisabethur8lol...my mother was never a single mother.
I agree that people should take sick leave if they are sick. or super emergencies but here in Europe if you need an EMERGENCY, you don't need to use your sick day. but I heard in the U.S, you do, because it's so strict and cheap in some employment offers?/benefits?
not sure about that I guess it depends on the company you work for.Posted by ElleDuMondelol
lol....one time my mother (gemini/pisces moon) went to buy a new vacuum cleaner.....the clerk put the vacuum cleaner and moved it to the other side of the register....where you put things that are paid for, but she forgot to scan it.
my brother (taurus with a cancer moon) was with her.....he was only half paying attention.
my mom paid for the rest of her items and they collected everything, including the vacuum cleaner and headed towards the exit.
my brother stopped halfway to the exit and said..."Mom, I don't think she scanned the vacuum cleaner."
my mom said...."Shut up and keep walking."
LOL
to this day....when he gets mad, he calls her a thief. She gets so pissed. 😛
but your mother was probably a single mother with children and that's a very very HARD LIFE....
and she didn't even do it on purpose,
the only purpose she did was just walking out. lmao
IF I did that, my husband would be PISSED OFF! "No wife of mine better be doing shit like that." kind of spiel. lol
but a single mother, they usually have a very very hard life with children. and can barely afford commodities without scrimping. so I can see that.
...and this happened when my brother was in his thirties.click to expand
I love to lie. But where is the test?
Posted by ElleDuMondeshopping stores have cameras and security guards and beepers before you leave the store.
I have walked out of a store without paying for somethimg before but didn't realise it until I got home.....in that case I wouldn't drive back and make a spectacle of myself.
However, if I knew I didn't pay for a $ 150 sweeper....I would be too fucking afraid of going to jail for shoplifting. I would have said something right away....and my brother would have too.
Thank goodness for my dad and him putting the fear of death by karma in us when it came to lying and stealing.
Scorpio dads FTW!
how she did that is just insane.
she must be really hard up with money. $ $ $ no offense.
but then again, why get a 150 $ vacuum sweeper if you are broke??
get a cheaper one, they have them for less than 60 $ $ if you are broke, or go find a used vacuum cleaner on the for sale used ads.
there's always ways around to get what you need if you are broke, just be smart and look for used items online or on newpapers ads, and some used vacuums can cost 20 dollars or cheaper.
and yes, karma indeed.
Posted by ElleDuMondePosted by lisabethur8Lol....she had every intention of paying the $ 150....she is just an opportunist.Posted by ElleDuMondeshopping stores have cameras and security guards and beepers before you leave the store.
I have walked out of a store without paying for somethimg before but didn't realise it until I got home.....in that case I wouldn't drive back and make a spectacle of myself.
However, if I knew I didn't pay for a $ 150 sweeper....I would be too fucking afraid of going to jail for shoplifting. I would have said something right away....and my brother would have too.
Thank goodness for my dad and him putting the fear of death by karma in us when it came to lying and stealing.
Scorpio dads FTW!
how she did that is just insane.
she must be really hard up with money. $ $ $ no offense.
but then again, why get a 150 $ vacuum sweeper if you are broke??
get a cheaper one, they have them for less than 60 $ $ if you are broke, or go find a used vacuum cleaner on the for sale used ads.
there's always ways around to get what you need if you are broke, just be smart and look for used items online or on newpapers ads, and some used vacuums can cost 20 dollars or cheaper.
She would never pick out and buy something she couldn't afford....but if the opportunity strikes her...she will ride it all the way until she is caught red handed....then she will use the innocent pisces moon..."I am so sorry....I didn't know" crap.
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I don't think that her placements have anything to do with it. lol it sounds like you're blaming her placements.
she has money. it doesn't make any sense.
usually poor people do stuff crazily because they are starving for something.
it's lack of having anything that you're desperate from what I notice. but not necessarily immoral.
I mean all these cheapskates people on youtube, they don't steal, they are cheap yes,but you can tell they aren't wealthy, so they try really hard to find ways to make life easier and find cheap items and be practical, find ways to make things/life easier. so if you're poor, that doesn't necessarily mean you will steal ect.
Posted by LeDominoeswhat would you say then?
Questions are dumb and the answers don't reflect what I would actually say.
Posted by ElleDuMonde
Take the placements away then.
Some people are just opportunistic and don't care unless they get caught...and then try to back peddle or lie when they do get caught.
That's her....I grew up with her doing crazy shit like that....for no logical reason at all....my father worked hard to give her everything she wanted.
She just knew she could get away with it by claiming she didn't know what she was doing....and that worked for 90% of the time....the other 10% she deflected the blame on someone else and that worked too.
that is crazy.
it sounds like she has everything but is not satisfied with what she had.
but you said she's not a single mother, they are not together are they? Your scorpio father and Gemini mother?
sounds like so many couples I've googled, lol
scorpio man/ Gemini woman.
1) Dylan McDermott with Maggie Q.
2) Jonny Lee Miller and his Gemini wife,
3) Ethan Hawke and his babysitter wife,
4) Ben Hansen (puppeteer) with Gemini wife.
those couples sound really good, though.
I don't think they are like your mother.
edit - ohh one more,
Ruth Graham/Billy Graham
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruth_Graham
You lie through gritted teeth
Of course you lie, like anyone else, but you don’t feel at ease with deceiving people, even when you are only disguising the truth very slightly. You begin to feel guilty almost straightaway. Telling lies, whether large or small, is not something you’re proud of. You are convinced someone is going to discover your lies and that you won’t be able to dig yourself out, which is far from being ideal. This makes you feel guilty and at the same time the idea of being caught red-handed is terrifying. Is this because of your upbringing? It’s possible, because you seem sometimes to judge other people quite severely and fear the judgment of others. Try to get things into perspective. Be a bit more relaxed and tolerant about what you expect of yourself. You can sometimes tell playful fibs that harm nobody.
Of course you lie, like anyone else, but you don’t feel at ease with deceiving people, even when you are only disguising the truth very slightly. You begin to feel guilty almost straightaway. Telling lies, whether large or small, is not something you’re proud of. You are convinced someone is going to discover your lies and that you won’t be able to dig yourself out, which is far from being ideal. This makes you feel guilty and at the same time the idea of being caught red-handed is terrifying. Is this because of your upbringing? It’s possible, because you seem sometimes to judge other people quite severely and fear the judgment of others. Try to get things into perspective. Be a bit more relaxed and tolerant about what you expect of yourself. You can sometimes tell playful fibs that harm nobody.
Pretty spot on, I'd say
I did ruth graham's chart.
she is Gemini sun/Gemini venus/Pisces moon/libra mars/mercury cancer/Jupiter leo.
she has a lot of AIR.
but then billy graham (scorpio sun) has a lot of FIRE.
she is Gemini sun/Gemini venus/Pisces moon/libra mars/mercury cancer/Jupiter leo.
she has a lot of AIR.
but then billy graham (scorpio sun) has a lot of FIRE.
Posted by Wynterdo you like keeping the peace?? more like you lie because you don't want upsets?
You lie through gritted teeth
Of course you lie, like anyone else, but you don’t feel at ease with deceiving people, even when you are only disguising the truth very slightly. You begin to feel guilty almost straightaway. Telling lies, whether large or small, is not something you’re proud of. You are convinced someone is going to discover your lies and that you won’t be able to dig yourself out, which is far from being ideal. This makes you feel guilty and at the same time the idea of being caught red-handed is terrifying. Is this because of your upbringing? It’s possible, because you seem sometimes to judge other people quite severely and fear the judgment of others. Try to get things into perspective. Be a bit more relaxed and tolerant about what you expect of yourself. You can sometimes tell playful fibs that harm nobody.
some of those questions are like that.
Posted by ElleDuMondeand Elle sometimes it feels like you hate and despise your mother.
Take the placements away then.
Some people are just opportunistic and don't care unless they get caught...and then try to back peddle or lie when they do get caught.
That's her....I grew up with her doing crazy shit like that....for no logical reason at all....my father worked hard to give her everything she wanted.
She just knew she could get away with it by claiming she didn't know what she was doing....and that worked for 90% of the time....the other 10% she deflected the blame on someone else and that worked too.
I get this strong feeling she did a lot of wrong to you.
just that one incident alone wouldn't make you hate her, or her actions.
it has to be more.
Posted by lisabethur8Yeah, most of the time. The wedding dress question was different, I would certainly let my bestie know they look terrible in it, lol.Posted by Wynterdo you like keeping the peace?? more like you lie because you don't want upsets?
You lie through gritted teeth
Of course you lie, like anyone else, but you don’t feel at ease with deceiving people, even when you are only disguising the truth very slightly. You begin to feel guilty almost straightaway. Telling lies, whether large or small, is not something you’re proud of. You are convinced someone is going to discover your lies and that you won’t be able to dig yourself out, which is far from being ideal. This makes you feel guilty and at the same time the idea of being caught red-handed is terrifying. Is this because of your upbringing? It’s possible, because you seem sometimes to judge other people quite severely and fear the judgment of others. Try to get things into perspective. Be a bit more relaxed and tolerant about what you expect of yourself. You can sometimes tell playful fibs that harm nobody.
some of those questions are like that.click to expand
@Elle, I thought your brother lives with your mother because he enjoys staying with mother and doesn't want to leave?
for someone who is very scorpionic, scorpio rising/scorpio sun and scorpio mars, scorpio liltih, ect
you don't seem very forgiving about her situation.
maybe she went through abuse? and couldn't handle taking care of you and your brother.
only abused women who go through break-downs and suffering cannot cope with taking care of children.
This happened to my mother's college friend.
many people BLAMED her because she left her children still minors, at 5- 6 years old, or baby stage when the husband left.
the husband left her and took ALL the money and he was an abusive jerk too and hit her a lot.
she suffered, and in that suffering she broke down, trauma.
still, people BLAME her a lot, because now her children are grown and hate her.
for someone who is very scorpionic, scorpio rising/scorpio sun and scorpio mars, scorpio liltih, ect
you don't seem very forgiving about her situation.
maybe she went through abuse? and couldn't handle taking care of you and your brother.
only abused women who go through break-downs and suffering cannot cope with taking care of children.
This happened to my mother's college friend.
many people BLAMED her because she left her children still minors, at 5- 6 years old, or baby stage when the husband left.
the husband left her and took ALL the money and he was an abusive jerk too and hit her a lot.
she suffered, and in that suffering she broke down, trauma.
still, people BLAME her a lot, because now her children are grown and hate her.
the mistakes that she did, yes it's her fault she left her children,
but she was suffering,
although I don't know about your mother's situation, but it sounds like she couldn't cope.
a child who doesn't love their mother and sees their suffering isn't a child who is understanding and loving either.
edit -
unless of course the mother really did just abandon the children.
then I don't know what to say.
but she was suffering,
although I don't know about your mother's situation, but it sounds like she couldn't cope.
a child who doesn't love their mother and sees their suffering isn't a child who is understanding and loving either.
edit -
unless of course the mother really did just abandon the children.
then I don't know what to say.
i'll give you another story,
true story.
about one of my relatives who know this guy, one of his best friends,
my family member told me that this guy HATES his mother, despises her...
his mother is the type of woman who marries WEALTHY men, and now the husband has died, because the husband is super old and she married him when she was really young, 20s and he was I think 60s. so when the child from the old man grew up, the father already died.
but he left her a lot of money and wealth, and also she made her way to getting a career in beautician school so she can do make up and cut hair.
the son, now has so much going for him because of the wealth that the mother married into.
but many times the mother couldn't cope with the child growing up after the father died so she had other family members take care of the boy.
and now the boy, grown up adult, went through college, a good school and is now a doctor.
he stil hates his mother for her not being there.
but he is so blind to see all the other things she had done for him, sacrificed for him. maybe she isn't the IDEAL mother, but she was still there for him in many ways, taking care of his upbringing and having a good school and paved a way for his life. My family member said that she sometimes has his friends over to eat dinner there.
so I don't understand why he is so hateful. This boy who is hateful to his mother is a leo sun. but I don't know his placements. I should go find out.
true story.
about one of my relatives who know this guy, one of his best friends,
my family member told me that this guy HATES his mother, despises her...
his mother is the type of woman who marries WEALTHY men, and now the husband has died, because the husband is super old and she married him when she was really young, 20s and he was I think 60s. so when the child from the old man grew up, the father already died.
but he left her a lot of money and wealth, and also she made her way to getting a career in beautician school so she can do make up and cut hair.
the son, now has so much going for him because of the wealth that the mother married into.
but many times the mother couldn't cope with the child growing up after the father died so she had other family members take care of the boy.
and now the boy, grown up adult, went through college, a good school and is now a doctor.
he stil hates his mother for her not being there.
but he is so blind to see all the other things she had done for him, sacrificed for him. maybe she isn't the IDEAL mother, but she was still there for him in many ways, taking care of his upbringing and having a good school and paved a way for his life. My family member said that she sometimes has his friends over to eat dinner there.
so I don't understand why he is so hateful. This boy who is hateful to his mother is a leo sun. but I don't know his placements. I should go find out.
My results
"You hate to lie
People who are good liars frighten you. You don’t admire them and you would even go as far as to say they’re dangerous. Their lack of morals shocks and worries you. You are the opposite. Your watch words are transparency and truth. You try to prove as often as possible that you are completely trustworthy. You reserve the right to say whatever you need to say, whether or not it pleases others. It’s courageous of you to be as honest as you are, but your quest for authenticity can sometimes come across as intransigence. You tend to be stubborn and demand that others share your values. Diplomacy is a good quality to have, and it demands a certain attitude to the truth – one that you have difficulty with. You fear lies because you don’t like the idea of someone lying to you. Are you afraid of being led down the garden path? Perhaps it brings back experiences from your past that you would rather forget. Lying is certainly not a positive thing, but perhaps lies could add nuance to your arguments or dress up reality when you want to be humane and not cause too much pain."
I agree... 100%
"You hate to lie
People who are good liars frighten you. You don’t admire them and you would even go as far as to say they’re dangerous. Their lack of morals shocks and worries you. You are the opposite. Your watch words are transparency and truth. You try to prove as often as possible that you are completely trustworthy. You reserve the right to say whatever you need to say, whether or not it pleases others. It’s courageous of you to be as honest as you are, but your quest for authenticity can sometimes come across as intransigence. You tend to be stubborn and demand that others share your values. Diplomacy is a good quality to have, and it demands a certain attitude to the truth – one that you have difficulty with. You fear lies because you don’t like the idea of someone lying to you. Are you afraid of being led down the garden path? Perhaps it brings back experiences from your past that you would rather forget. Lying is certainly not a positive thing, but perhaps lies could add nuance to your arguments or dress up reality when you want to be humane and not cause too much pain."
I agree... 100%
oh and the mother came from POOR.
she was a poor Cuban woman or something, from the poorest neighborhood.
but she was a beautiful woman with a curvy body. My family member told me she looks like this woman
she was a poor Cuban woman or something, from the poorest neighborhood.
but she was a beautiful woman with a curvy body. My family member told me she looks like this woman
I tried looking up Charo's chart.
and two places say, Pisces sun,
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0004819/
from Spain.
the other,
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Charo_(actress)
Capricorn sun.
*smh*
and two places say, Pisces sun,
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0004819/
from Spain.
the other,
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Charo_(actress)
Capricorn sun.
*smh*
My results:
You hate to lie
People who are good liars frighten you. You don’t admire them and you would even go as far as to say they’re dangerous. Their lack of morals shocks and worries you. You are the opposite. Your watch words are transparency and truth. You try to prove as often as possible that you are completely trustworthy. You reserve the right to say whatever you need to say, whether or not it pleases others. It’s courageous of you to be as honest as you are, but your quest for authenticity can sometimes come across as intransigence. You tend to be stubborn and demand that others share your values. Diplomacy is a good quality to have, and it demands a certain attitude to the truth – one that you have difficulty with. You fear lies because you don’t like the idea of someone lying to you. Are you afraid of being led down the garden path? Perhaps it brings back experiences from your past that you would rather forget. Lying is certainly not a positive thing, but perhaps lies could add nuance to your arguments or dress up reality when you want to be humane and not cause too much pain.
You hate to lie
People who are good liars frighten you. You don’t admire them and you would even go as far as to say they’re dangerous. Their lack of morals shocks and worries you. You are the opposite. Your watch words are transparency and truth. You try to prove as often as possible that you are completely trustworthy. You reserve the right to say whatever you need to say, whether or not it pleases others. It’s courageous of you to be as honest as you are, but your quest for authenticity can sometimes come across as intransigence. You tend to be stubborn and demand that others share your values. Diplomacy is a good quality to have, and it demands a certain attitude to the truth – one that you have difficulty with. You fear lies because you don’t like the idea of someone lying to you. Are you afraid of being led down the garden path? Perhaps it brings back experiences from your past that you would rather forget. Lying is certainly not a positive thing, but perhaps lies could add nuance to your arguments or dress up reality when you want to be humane and not cause too much pain.
Posted by ElleDuMondethe Taurus sun/cancer moon— 😕Posted by lisabethur8LOL
@Elle, I thought your brother lives with your mother because he enjoys staying with mother and doesn't want to leave?
Nope.
My brother is a mooch and she likes him codependent.
It works for both of them.
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he's so not Pierce Brosnan. (same combo) lol
Posted by ElleDuMondegosh then, I don't know.
My father wasn't abusive towards my mother. My father wasn't abusive at all.
If he would have had a choice, he would have never divorced her....he just couldn't keep up with her whims and moving us all over the place because she got bored.
He finally said he wasn't moving any longer....after building and buying home after home for her....and she said...fine...I am divorcing you then.
The reason she didn't take either of us was because she could never keep a job and floated to family members for help...they got tired of her antics and she had no place to live.
I tried living with her for about two weeks before she pawned me off to another sister of hers...then I got smart and emancipated myself.
There are ten siblings in that family.....she is the only one like that. She makes up stuff to get them all to fight...even during my grandmother's funeral in February of this year.
I just can't feel any empathy. I would feel shame if I acted that way.
I can't understand that kind of lack of instability and chaotic-ness. she is NOT Ruth Graham (Gemini sun/Pisces moon combo) type.
i'm glad your father wasn't abusive though.
I feel for you, Elle.
well at least your brother is enjoying living with her.
she had a good thing with your father, responsible, good father, good morals, and wants stability, gives her everything, and puts up with her antics for awhile. and he's not abusive.
maybe there is something chemically wrong with her? sometimes some people have autism or some kind of mental disorder? 😕
Posted by ElleDuMondethanks for sharing anyway, Elle.
I don't know, Lisa. I haven't tried figuring her out for a long time. She is just who she is. The road to acceptance is easier than hatred.
I am not looking for sympathy or even understanding.
The combo of my moon, mercury and neptune...I recite memories like stories....but I am just recounting them....I am not feeling them.....so, please don't waste any empathy on me...it's not that serious 🙂
You lie through gritted teeth
Of course you lie, like anyone else, but you don’t feel at ease with deceiving people, even when you are only disguising the truth very slightly. You begin to feel guilty almost straightaway. Telling lies, whether large or small, is not something you’re proud of. You are convinced someone is going to discover your lies and that you won’t be able to dig yourself out, which is far from being ideal. This makes you feel guilty and at the same time the idea of being caught red-handed is terrifying. Is this because of your upbringing? It’s possible, because you seem sometimes to judge other people quite severely and fear the judgment of others. Try to get things into perspective. Be a bit more relaxed and tolerant about what you expect of yourself. You can sometimes tell playful fibs that harm nobody.
Of course you lie, like anyone else, but you don’t feel at ease with deceiving people, even when you are only disguising the truth very slightly. You begin to feel guilty almost straightaway. Telling lies, whether large or small, is not something you’re proud of. You are convinced someone is going to discover your lies and that you won’t be able to dig yourself out, which is far from being ideal. This makes you feel guilty and at the same time the idea of being caught red-handed is terrifying. Is this because of your upbringing? It’s possible, because you seem sometimes to judge other people quite severely and fear the judgment of others. Try to get things into perspective. Be a bit more relaxed and tolerant about what you expect of yourself. You can sometimes tell playful fibs that harm nobody.
I'm a Talent Liar
You’re a quick thinker, so you don’t lose face, and you bounce back quickly when you have resorted to telling a lie, even if you feel a bit unsettled. It’s not that you enjoy deceiving people, but over time you have learned to get out of complicated situations by using your imagination and rearranging reality. Also…you probably have a problem with yourself 😢
…damn.
You’re a quick thinker, so you don’t lose face, and you bounce back quickly when you have resorted to telling a lie, even if you feel a bit unsettled. It’s not that you enjoy deceiving people, but over time you have learned to get out of complicated situations by using your imagination and rearranging reality. Also…you probably have a problem with yourself 😢
…damn.
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