Lunabee
@Lunabee
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How important are looks to the one you're attracted to?
Your idiosyncrasies they know like the back of your hand...
What. Like wtf
What. Like wtf
Then I question, if I'm only liked because of my looks. Do I get a pass because I exude sexuality?
Posted by andswho
Looks and Loyalty
The rest is negotiable
So looks do play a role? But if you like someone you can learn to love their appearance. Right?
Posted by andswhoI thought I was too. But when I sought after what I thought I found attractive I have been turned off. It's these random men whom seduce me to thinking things I shouldn't be thinking.Posted by LunabeeNot me but I'm shallow afPosted by andswho
Looks and Loyalty
The rest is negotiable
So looks do play a role? But if you like someone you can learn to love their appearance. Right?
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Posted by youngaliSag mentality!!! FTW
looks can only grab my attention, personality keeps it.
As potato one can only surmise my partner loves meh for the flava and not my looks 😏
Posted by PVJamzPosted by LunabeeChemistry and personality for me. I prefer sexy over hot. Plus "hot" guys are unbelievably boring as fuck because they've never had to hone a personality. Better the average sexy guy that will tickle my air dominant chart with intrigue.
Does personality Trump looks? Vice versa?
Is it in love making..the little things.
What makes me question this!click to expand
That's fair.
Ever find yourself attracted to an unattractive man/woman because they are so amazing?
Posted by wagtailSome say "po-ta-toe" some say "po-ta-to"
As potato one can only surmise my partner loves meh for the flava and not my looks 😏
Same thing in my book 🙂
How long have you been with yours? What's the story?
Posted by LovingSeraphina
I dunno...
God will choose what I need he knows best. I will know him when i see him.
Right?!
But I totally don't trust myself. I'm feelings things.
Posted by andswhoPosted by LunabeeAh they turned out to be dbags I seePosted by andswhoI thought I was too. But when I sought after what I thought I found attractive I have been turned off. It's these random men whom seduce me to thinking things I shouldn't be thinking.Posted by LunabeeNot me but I'm shallow afPosted by andswho
Looks and Loyalty
The rest is negotiable
So looks do play a role? But if you like someone you can learn to love their appearance. Right?
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Same look but different mentality.
Posted by LovingSeraphinaExactly!Posted by LunabeeBy that time i consider them attractive though 🙂Posted by PVJamzPosted by LunabeeChemistry and personality for me. I prefer sexy over hot. Plus "hot" guys are unbelievably boring as fuck because they've never had to hone a personality. Better the average sexy guy that will tickle my air dominant chart with intrigue.
Does personality Trump looks? Vice versa?
Is it in love making..the little things.
What makes me question this!
That's fair.
Ever find yourself attracted to an unattractive man/woman because they are so amazing?
click to expand
Posted by PVJamzPosted by LunabeePosted by PVJamzPosted by LunabeeChemistry and personality for me. I prefer sexy over hot. Plus "hot" guys are unbelievably boring as fuck because they've never had to hone a personality. Better the average sexy guy that will tickle my air dominant chart with intrigue.
Does personality Trump looks? Vice versa?
Is it in love making..the little things.
What makes me question this!
That's fair.
Ever find yourself attracted to an unattractive man/woman because they are so amazing?
Yeah. And my friends had to tell me they were ugly. ? LOL. My libra mars is drawn to charm. It's a curse
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The ugliest person can charm off those panties lol
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXAgreed, ?
Not nearly as important as personality.
I could endlessly write about an expressive face. He talks. Through his eyes. Through his smile. Through every wrinkle of his face. Through that stare that speaks millions. We have our own language. My Aqua!
Posted by LunabeeNot long, he is Virgo spud with Scorp moon...Some say "po-ta-toe" some say "po-ta-to"
Same thing in my book 🙂
How long have you been with yours? What's the story?click to expand
overall probs just not superficial peeps in general - we have 12year age gap and since Eh am old potato I assume it is not about looks
Posted by Oakhaaaaiiiiiiii 🤗Posted by wagtailPosted by LunabeeNot long, he is Virgo spud with Scorp moon...Some say "po-ta-toe" some say "po-ta-to"
Same thing in my book 🙂
How long have you been with yours? What's the story?
overall probs just not superficial peeps in general - we have 12year age gap and since Eh am old potato I assume it is not about looks
Whit are you talking about missus? You're smokin'.
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As potato
Looks are important but only to a certain extent , I like different, unique, intelligence -catch my attention in a different way other than your looks
Posted by Oak😘 thank yeh meh sweet, & congrats to ya mum on her wedding!
Ma maw is with a younger spud. #gettingmarriednextyear.
Happy for you xx ma wee leo sunshine. ?
is good to see you posting again btw xox
It just has to be that something that attracts me. I don't need a Chris Brown but I do have to want to be able to wake up to your face in the morning.
Sex appeal matters more to me than looks.
Posted by LiteofMindChris brown is sexy lol I like his music too
It just has to be that something that attracts me. I don't need a Chris Brown but I do have to want to be able to wake up to your face in the morning.
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