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Drunk Texts
Are Drunk Texts Honest or Regretful
Drunk texts can reveal genuine feelings or lead to regretful messages. Alcohol reduces inhibitions, making people more likely to share thoughts they might suppress when sober. Whether to trust a drunk text depends on the context and the individual. It's often best to consider it as a reflection of momentary emotion rather than a fully accurate message.
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Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
Why do you hate it?
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?
Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
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How do u know what part is true?
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
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Your gut tells you that answer
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
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He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
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Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
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What does your instinct tell you ?
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
Why do you hate it?
Because if you're that fucked up, loaded on whatever, to tell me how you really feel...you should have the rocks to say those things sober.
In every case, they lacked the stones to say these things face to face.
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I agreeee. I'm guilty of this. Too afraid to say it sober. Say it drunk and then regret it.
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
What does your instinct tell you ?
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I'd say he's being honest, but I'm still skeptical. Our situation is on the fence and I've never been in a situation like this. I'm just going Day by day trying to process things.
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
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Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
What does your instinct tell you ?
I'd say he's being honest, but I'm still skeptical. Our situation is on the fence and I've never been in a situation like this. I'm just going Day by day trying to process things.
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You just answered you own question I hope your happy to know the truth now
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
Poor shmuck!
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?
I can screw up drunk. By calling. But I never say crap I don't mean sober!
It doesn't make it ok to call drunk but I don't make up drunk drama. It's all real. Just more intense! ?
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
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So basically he almost got caught a few times and he's just being cautious now...
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
What does your instinct tell you ?
I'd say he's being honest, but I'm still skeptical. Our situation is on the fence and I've never been in a situation like this. I'm just going Day by day trying to process things.
You just answered you own question I hope your happy to know the truth now
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Lol thank you.
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
What does your instinct tell you ?
I'd say he's being honest, but I'm still skeptical. Our situation is on the fence and I've never been in a situation like this. I'm just going Day by day trying to process things.
You just answered you own question I hope your happy to know the truth now
Lol thank you.
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Most men are simple
We say what we mean : )
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
So basically he almost got caught a few times and he's just being cautious now...
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Yep! And I know I can be a mess so I agree because I am very protective of him.
When sober! Lol
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
What does your instinct tell you ?
I'd say he's being honest, but I'm still skeptical. Our situation is on the fence and I've never been in a situation like this. I'm just going Day by day trying to process things.
You just answered you own question I hope your happy to know the truth now
Lol thank you.
Most men are simple
We say what we mean : )
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I also haven't talked to him in a week so that should be considered as a factor. A lot of sweet talk to me while he was at a BBQ with friends. But still, I am skeptical
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
So basically he almost got caught a few times and he's just being cautious now...
Yep! And I know I can be a mess so I agree because I am very protective of him.
When sober! Lol
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Lol r u still drunk
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
So basically he almost got caught a few times and he's just being cautious now...
Yep! And I know I can be a mess so I agree because I am very protective of him.
When sober! Lol
Lol r u still drunk
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Compare to whom?
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
So basically he almost got caught a few times and he's just being cautious now...
Yep! And I know I can be a mess so I agree because I am very protective of him.
When sober! Lol
Lol r u still drunk
Compare to whom?
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The drunk you were earlier ?
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
So basically he almost got caught a few times and he's just being cautious now...
Yep! And I know I can be a mess so I agree because I am very protective of him.
When sober! Lol
Lol r u still drunk
Compare to whom?
The drunk you were earlier ?
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No! I am ok now. I am actually never drunk as you imagine drunk.
But I can dial and talk and people wouldn't know I am calling drunk...
However calling at 2am my lover is Kind of unacceptable. So he kindly stopped it...lol
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
So basically he almost got caught a few times and he's just being cautious now...
Yep! And I know I can be a mess so I agree because I am very protective of him.
When sober! Lol
Lol r u still drunk
Compare to whom?
The drunk you were earlier ?
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No! I am ok now. I am actually never drunk as you imagine drunk.
But I can dial and talk and people wouldn't know I am calling drunk...
However calling at 2am my lover is Kind of unacceptable. So he kindly stopped it...lol
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
So basically he almost got caught a few times and he's just being cautious now...
Yep! And I know I can be a mess so I agree because I am very protective of him.
When sober! Lol
Lol r u still drunk
Compare to whom?
The drunk you were earlier ?
No! I am ok now. I am actually never drunk as you imagine drunk.
But I can dial and talk and people wouldn't know I am calling drunk...
However calling at 2am my lover is Kind of unacceptable. So he kindly stopped it...lol
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lol you're so giddy today
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?
void
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
No! You right! That's why I am totally ok with my Scorp having me blocked from contacting him. Otherwise we both would be dead by now!
He blocks you from reaching him ?
It doesn't make you feel bad ?
Naah...
He is calling me every day.
I can call his work.
I can't call or text on his phone because of the nature of the business...men come grab the phone to call their businesses and they all know me so if I text or call - he better have me under name 'Jack' - but he isn't like that! He has me under my name and once we've talked - his wife horn into the car and my name faded just as she put herself down and he was expecting...questioning!
I once called at 2am drunk and it was like 'let's not do it anymore' and I've agreed!
?
So basically he almost got caught a few times and he's just being cautious now...
Yep! And I know I can be a mess so I agree because I am very protective of him.
When sober! Lol
Lol r u still drunk
Compare to whom?
The drunk you were earlier ?
No! I am ok now. I am actually never drunk as you imagine drunk.
But I can dial and talk and people wouldn't know I am calling drunk...
However calling at 2am my lover is Kind of unacceptable. So he kindly stopped it...lol
lol you're so giddy today
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Happens...
?
?
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
What does your instinct tell you ?
I'd say he's being honest, but I'm still skeptical. Our situation is on the fence and I've never been in a situation like this. I'm just going Day by day trying to process things.
You just answered you own question I hope your happy to know the truth now
Lol thank you.
Most men are simple
We say what we mean : )
I also haven't talked to him in a week so that should be considered as a factor. A lot of sweet talk to me while he was at a BBQ with friends. But still, I am skeptical
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Men need time to miss their women and men also need time to reflect and be with their boys.
I do what's convenient.
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
What does your instinct tell you ?
I'd say he's being honest, but I'm still skeptical. Our situation is on the fence and I've never been in a situation like this. I'm just going Day by day trying to process things.
You just answered you own question I hope your happy to know the truth now
Lol thank you.
Most men are simple
We say what we mean : )
I also haven't talked to him in a week so that should be considered as a factor. A lot of sweet talk to me while he was at a BBQ with friends. But still, I am skeptical
Men need time to miss their women and men also need time to reflect and be with their boys.
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Yes, I'm wondering if he missed me. Perhaps I'll continue to give this amount of space. I think I think too much. Need to find an off switch for my brain.
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
What does your instinct tell you ?
I'd say he's being honest, but I'm still skeptical. Our situation is on the fence and I've never been in a situation like this. I'm just going Day by day trying to process things.
You just answered you own question I hope your happy to know the truth now
Lol thank you.
Most men are simple
We say what we mean : )
I also haven't talked to him in a week so that should be considered as a factor. A lot of sweet talk to me while he was at a BBQ with friends. But still, I am skeptical
Men need time to miss their women and men also need time to reflect and be with their boys.
Yes, I'm wondering if he missed me. Perhaps I'll continue to give this amount of space. I think I think too much. Need to find an off switch for my brain.
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Don't over think
Follow your instinct
Posted by LovingSeraphina
No one has ever drunk texted me. Shrug.
Aww. You need to find yourself a cutie.
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?Dunk texting drunk calling calls for regrets
Some of what they say is partly true
How do u know what part is true?
Your gut tells you that answer
Ohhh lol well I'd like to hope certain things were true, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Guess I'll be left with a mystery.
What does your instinct tell you ?
I'd say he's being honest, but I'm still skeptical. Our situation is on the fence and I've never been in a situation like this. I'm just going Day by day trying to process things.
You just answered you own question I hope your happy to know the truth now
Lol thank you.
Most men are simple
We say what we mean : )
I also haven't talked to him in a week so that should be considered as a factor. A lot of sweet talk to me while he was at a BBQ with friends. But still, I am skeptical
Men need time to miss their women and men also need time to reflect and be with their boys.
Yes, I'm wondering if he missed me. Perhaps I'll continue to give this amount of space. I think I think too much. Need to find an off switch for my brain.
Don't over think
Follow your instinct
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I'm torn in the middle
I believe some of what ppl say when they are drunk is true, not all
Posted by LovingSeraphina
No one has ever drunk texted me. Shrug.Aww. You need to find yourself a cutie.
No ..I don't like drunk people. Are all men drunks? Like is this something all men do 😢?? Cuz i was not aware of that! Do not want.
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Theres very few guys that don't drink at all. I only know 2.
Posted by SofiaV87
I believe some of what ppl say when they are drunk is true, not all
How do you know what's true and what's not?
Does level of drunkenness factor in?
Posted by tiziani
Don't react, let it slide. Null and void.
Do you not respond to the drunk texts at all?
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.
Posted by Palerio
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.
What kind of truths? What kind of insight can you gain?
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Yes. Vino and veritas and all that. The question is, Does it matter? How a person feels is one thing, whether or not they're willing to act on it (while sober) is another. That's the part that counts.
This is true. But I haven't talked to this guy in a week so that may have had something to do with it. I distance me myself because he wasn't giving me what I wanted. So we shall see how the next few days go. If there's any action or not.
Posted by Palerio
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.What kind of truths? What kind of insight can you gain?
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It depends on what the text said. The type of relationship you have with him. Last time you've spoke with him. Last you've seen him. The time he sent it.Take into account every variable you can think of and draw conclusions based on much their text differs from their normal way of behaving with you.
Ultimately just believe what you see. It makes no sense to read between the lines of a text that it's in your face already.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Yes. Vino and veritas and all that. The question is, Does it matter? How a person feels is one thing, whether or not they're willing to act on it (while sober) is another. That's the part that counts.
Based on the Latin saying, we coined a new one recently: "In vino veritas, in vodka figuriamocis". Which translated means "there's truth in wine, let alone in vodka".
I can see that, but only if the quality of the vodka was great ...😄
Posted by pinkbird03
Do you believe what people say when they've been drinking or do you void it?idk if it's a matter of believing.
drunk texts are an odd mixture of anger/frustration/cowardice and of course non-sense with a few truths thrown in.
tell me how you really feel is my usual thought.
depends on what the nature of your relationship is though.
but in general, i don't appreciate them.
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Yes, I think what the relationship is makes some difference for me any ways.
At least they're thinking about you and not some other dude. Drunk texts are fun but people take them WAYYYYYY too seriously.
Posted by Palerio
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.What kind of truths? What kind of insight can you gain?
It depends on what the text said. The type of relationship you have with him. Last time you've spoke with him. Last you've seen him. The time he sent it.Take into account every variable you can think of and draw conclusions based on much their text differs from their normal way of behaving with you.
Ultimately just believe what you see. It makes no sense to read between the lines of a text that it's in your face already.
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We've only dated for a month. I want commitment, but he's not ready for that. He's a great looking guy who has had girls handed to him his whole life. I'm not throwing myself at him and will not sleep with him unless we are exclusive. That's why I walked away. It's only been a week though. He said he doesn't want me to give up on him. I'm torn. I've started talking to other guys and have plans to do things with them when the weather conditions are best for what we are planning. But it's hard because I like him the most. Ugh I hate dating.
Posted by Ssuperman
At least they're thinking about you and not some other dude. Drunk texts are fun but people take them WAYYYYYY too seriously.
It sounds sweet, especially when you know they are busy with their friends
Posted by Ssuperman
At least they're thinking about you and not some other dude. Drunk texts are fun but people take them WAYYYYYY too seriously.It sounds sweet, especially when you know they are busy with their friends
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That's my thoughts on it. I don't read that much into it. Some people act like it's your true feelings. It's not. You're inebriated and your thoughts are altered. But, still cute
Posted by WarAngel1
Every woman that's ever drunk dialed, I've dumped the next day.I'm either a genius or an evil bastard. Jury is still out on that one.
I HATE it!
I did it once and I wasn't sure at what moment I sent the messages! ?
Sometimes honestly I do send "drunk messages" when I'm not drunk. like unexpected messages from me about something good that they did.
Posted by Palerio
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.What kind of truths? What kind of insight can you gain?
It depends on what the text said. The type of relationship you have with him. Last time you've spoke with him. Last you've seen him. The time he sent it.Take into account every variable you can think of and draw conclusions based on much their text differs from their normal way of behaving with you.
Ultimately just believe what you see. It makes no sense to read between the lines of a text that it's in your face already.
We've only dated for a month. I want commitment, but he's not ready for that. He's a great looking guy who has had girls handed to him his whole life. I'm not throwing myself at him and will not sleep with him unless we are exclusive. That's why I walked away. It's only been a week though. He said he doesn't want me to give up on him. I'm torn. I've started talking to other guys and have plans to do things with them when the weather conditions are best for what we are planning. But it's hard because I like him the most. Ugh I hate dating.
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Has he told you directly he doesn't want commitment or it's just something you're assuming? Are his actions contradicting his words? Because from a guy's standpoint, when one's good-looking and only wants sex, it's not that complex to just go to a bar, pick up a random stranger and have it the very same day.
Same for attractive women, unless they are passive-aggressive types that love attention, it's hard to imagine them investing a month of their life dating a guy towards whom they have no genuine interest. They normally just say bye.
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