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How To Get Your Man Sexually Addicted To You
2. Look better every day and be more sexual.
Women that don't hide their sexuality are attractive. Really attractive. I'm not saying you should run around naked or flirt with every guy you like - I'm saying that you should let go and be free. Stop caring about what society thinks. In bed with your guy, let go and do all the crazy stuff you want, but don't want to do out of fear that he'll think you are a slut.
Bite, lick, grasp, have sex all around the house, outside, in the car, the elevator, wherever you can. Work on being more sexually open to him and spicing up your sex life as much as possible. Take care of yourself always and be "tight" physically. It's incredible what kind of a difference it makes when a woman works out regularly and takes care of herself physically. Always smell good, use body lotion to make your body soft and silky. All this adds to your attractiveness.
When your man grabs you and feels soft, sexy, silky skin he'll go insane and, if on top of that your muscles are tight, you are flexible and easy for him to pick up and carry around the house and easily "manoeuver" you in the bedroom, almost effortlessly, he will go completely insane from the pleasure you can give him.
You'll be a lot more sexually appealing to him this way. Men want you to be "dirty" and "kinky" in bed, that's a fact. So be that. You should be a lady on the streets and a porn star between the sheets. Make him feel that you behave like that only with him and for him as he awakes this side of you.
It may sound shallow, but it's reality. Let me tell you a big truth: the way to a man's heart is through his penis. That's the cold hard truth. So either you'll use this fact to your advantage or you'll complain that life isn't fair. It's your choice.
Women that don't hide their sexuality are attractive. Really attractive. I'm not saying you should run around naked or flirt with every guy you like - I'm saying that you should let go and be free. Stop caring about what society thinks. In bed with your guy, let go and do all the crazy stuff you want, but don't want to do out of fear that he'll think you are a slut.
Bite, lick, grasp, have sex all around the house, outside, in the car, the elevator, wherever you can. Work on being more sexually open to him and spicing up your sex life as much as possible. Take care of yourself always and be "tight" physically. It's incredible what kind of a difference it makes when a woman works out regularly and takes care of herself physically. Always smell good, use body lotion to make your body soft and silky. All this adds to your attractiveness.
When your man grabs you and feels soft, sexy, silky skin he'll go insane and, if on top of that your muscles are tight, you are flexible and easy for him to pick up and carry around the house and easily "manoeuver" you in the bedroom, almost effortlessly, he will go completely insane from the pleasure you can give him.
You'll be a lot more sexually appealing to him this way. Men want you to be "dirty" and "kinky" in bed, that's a fact. So be that. You should be a lady on the streets and a porn star between the sheets. Make him feel that you behave like that only with him and for him as he awakes this side of you.
It may sound shallow, but it's reality. Let me tell you a big truth: the way to a man's heart is through his penis. That's the cold hard truth. So either you'll use this fact to your advantage or you'll complain that life isn't fair. It's your choice.
3. Give him the best oral sex of his life.
You can't imagine how many women out there are clueless (or completely not interested) when it comes to giving their man oral sex. On the other hand, men crave it more than anything in bed. If you can give him the best oral sex of his life, you'll be a rarity in his past and future sex life alike.
Giving him great oral can easily get a guy sexually addicted to you. Learn the fine art of oral sex and he'll be yours. Believe me ladies, this works like a charm. Make it your goal to give better oral than the Porn Stars he has been watching all his life. If you can please your man in ways that other women before never could he'll give his best to keep you with him, and give you back heaps of pleasure.
Countless marriages and relationships have been saved when women mastered the art of blow jobs.
I'll just give you one tip when it comes to giving your man oral. You have to worship his penis and be fascinated by it as if it was the most amazing thing you've ever seen in your life. Look at it as if it was the source of eternal youth.
There you go ladies, do these 3 simple things and you'll easily get your man sexually addicted to you and having a rock hard erection whenever he thinks about you. Men are not as complicated as you think.
You can't imagine how many women out there are clueless (or completely not interested) when it comes to giving their man oral sex. On the other hand, men crave it more than anything in bed. If you can give him the best oral sex of his life, you'll be a rarity in his past and future sex life alike.
Giving him great oral can easily get a guy sexually addicted to you. Learn the fine art of oral sex and he'll be yours. Believe me ladies, this works like a charm. Make it your goal to give better oral than the Porn Stars he has been watching all his life. If you can please your man in ways that other women before never could he'll give his best to keep you with him, and give you back heaps of pleasure.
Countless marriages and relationships have been saved when women mastered the art of blow jobs.
I'll just give you one tip when it comes to giving your man oral. You have to worship his penis and be fascinated by it as if it was the most amazing thing you've ever seen in your life. Look at it as if it was the source of eternal youth.
There you go ladies, do these 3 simple things and you'll easily get your man sexually addicted to you and having a rock hard erection whenever he thinks about you. Men are not as complicated as you think.
"You have to worship his penis and be fascinated by it as if it was the most amazing thing you've ever seen in your life. Look at it as if it was the source of eternal youth."
LMAO!!!
LMAO!!!
Wow that's awesome...but what kind of woman would want to do that? lol
Posted by grayid2
Wow that's awesome...but what kind of woman would want to do that? lol
One who's crazy about her man 😉
Posted by LillyBlossom
I don't know. I think these things genuinely don't matter. Perhaps these are just perceived wants from a man who doesn't truly know what it is to truly be in love with a woman.
See, this is what women do a lot. Never listen to what a man actually wants when he's telling you loud and clear what makes him happy.
Rationalizing from a woman's point of view instead of listening to what men really want?!
Posted by busyeyes88
Once you have mastered the art of 'deep throat' you will have a man wrapped around your finger....
LOL.
I don't understand why a lot of women don't seem to get this. Keeping your man happy in the bedroom makes an already existing relationship stronger.
If women didn't get so frigid after marriage, hookers would be out of jobs.
I agree with all 3 of those points because I've experienced it.
damn im really missing out then...i need me a taurus woman...
Too bad I'm married...to a Leo...she works hard and does everything, but....
Well I think it's pretty obvious....🙂
They have a good heart, they're pure..really...and so funny, entertaining...fun to be around...their humor is just deadly...they can be SO FUNNY....but....
Bwahahaha!!!
It's all in the chemistry, not the mechanics.
no, she gives head...lol she just...not a freak 😉
what's a sex show? where do you go to see that—
Undine : "It's all in the chemistry, not the mechanics."
Exactly.
Undine : "It's all in the chemistry, not the mechanics."
Exactly.
A scorpio...in Amsterdam? Watching a sex show? Get outta here 🙂...
"you either can or can't" I agree
"you either can or can't" I agree
Posted by DonJohnson
but...... but.......
You realize, that is not normal behavior, Its INSANELY RUDE, You are antisocial, borderline psychopath...
My Virgo brother was describing to me a chemical attraction and hoe he is ruled by it.
He described scent... unique sent that he has experienced twice. A scent that makes him smell her, sniff. Dirty or clean, her natural scent is alluring.
He described fit, a certain proportion that he prefers for his body. He used, as an example, how her legs fit between his.
Everything else is secondary to him. I was intrigued and an still thinking about it.
He has never told his partners.
I've been married most of my life... needs, desires, and wants may change. They have for us. What keeps it together is whether you are able to adjust.
My Virgo husband told me simply and directly, "I mate for life." It's me or no one. He knows what that did to me. As a Venus in Aqua, we care about the person as a whole, as an individual.
He described scent... unique sent that he has experienced twice. A scent that makes him smell her, sniff. Dirty or clean, her natural scent is alluring.
He described fit, a certain proportion that he prefers for his body. He used, as an example, how her legs fit between his.
Everything else is secondary to him. I was intrigued and an still thinking about it.
He has never told his partners.
I've been married most of my life... needs, desires, and wants may change. They have for us. What keeps it together is whether you are able to adjust.
My Virgo husband told me simply and directly, "I mate for life." It's me or no one. He knows what that did to me. As a Venus in Aqua, we care about the person as a whole, as an individual.
What's with all these silly bitches going online to brag about their sexual "prowess?"
You have to go online, of all places, to tell the world you rock in the bedroom...
*slow clap*
This article made me lol though. This guy has never had a real relationship, apparently. I hear this from single dudes not looking to settle down at all. As someone else said, it all boils down to communication. You keep those lines open and you're going to have a happier, healthier, sexual relationship. This bullshit where it's basically "you should just let me use your body in whatever fashion I choose to get off with if you want me to stay around" mentality sounds immature and un-evolved. It's really one sided and says a lot about the author, and any guy, who thinks like this in regard to sexual relationships.
However, first impulse response to the title- "suck his dick" haha. I have known way too many guys who stuck around (when they shouldn't have) all because she gave good head. It was kind of sad, actually...
You have to go online, of all places, to tell the world you rock in the bedroom...
*slow clap*
This article made me lol though. This guy has never had a real relationship, apparently. I hear this from single dudes not looking to settle down at all. As someone else said, it all boils down to communication. You keep those lines open and you're going to have a happier, healthier, sexual relationship. This bullshit where it's basically "you should just let me use your body in whatever fashion I choose to get off with if you want me to stay around" mentality sounds immature and un-evolved. It's really one sided and says a lot about the author, and any guy, who thinks like this in regard to sexual relationships.
However, first impulse response to the title- "suck his dick" haha. I have known way too many guys who stuck around (when they shouldn't have) all because she gave good head. It was kind of sad, actually...
Posted by Undine
It's all in the chemistry, not the mechanics.
OMG I just can't.
How old are you people?
Chemistry is what gets you hot and heavy. Chemistry does not an orgasm give.
Mechanics aka technique is what gets you to high heaven.
There's such a thing as having great chemistry resulting in "mediocre to crap" sex.
Nobody's born with the natural ability to give a great blowjob.
The planetary signs you were born under won't even come to your aid.
It has to be learned, like everything else in life.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
What's with all these silly bitches going online to brag about their sexual "prowess?"
You have to go online, of all places, to tell the world you rock in the bedroom...
*slow clap*
Nobody is bragging here. If you're reading this as bragging then honey, the problem is within. Yourself.
Read and learn or - the door's over there.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
As someone else said, it all boils down to communication. You keep those lines open and you're going to have a happier, healthier, sexual relationship.click to expand
Except when he does communicate then you start rationalizing.
OMG...he wants a blowjob...what does he take me for? I'm not licking that thing....
OMG...he wants to fuck my brains out at the neighbor's party (in the bathroom). Hell no...he doesn't respect me
OMG...did he just spank me while doing it doggy style? That's it...we're gonna have to talk about this.
etc etc
Posted by tiziani
Lol
It's kind of a rock and a hard place for people to not bullshit when talking about sex, you rarely find honest conversation around it, because as you said like anything else in life practice makes perfect, but then of course some will fear that it begs the question where have you been getting all that practice hmmmmm?
As for the original article, I don't know - it mostly seems like snail oil to me. But he did say "your man" as in heavily implying people who are already in a happy, committed relationship... so no harm, no foul. More power to them.
Yes, definitely the fear factor.
LOL @ where have you been getting all that practice.
Posted by starloverPosted by busyeyes88
@Starlover. I saw two shows in Amsterdam and one in Bangkok
One of my bosses years back saw one in Bangkok and the woman was bent over a chair when the door at the end of the stage opnened and a naked guy on roller skates shot across the stage and into the woman. I totally cracked up when he told me that. 😆click to expand
OMG...LOL
Don is a f@g, he shows private messages to the world because he's scared- I'm still waiting on that address, cvnt.
Posted by CaiaPosted by rockyroadicecream
What's with all these silly bitches going online to brag about their sexual "prowess?"
You have to go online, of all places, to tell the world you rock in the bedroom...
*slow clap*
Nobody is bragging here. If you're reading this as bragging then honey, the problem is within. Yourself.
Read and learn or - the door's over there.
click to expand
That wasn't directed at you, you silly twat. Calm the fuck down.
Posted by LillyBlossom
So I was right about him not being in a stable relationship, and I agree with what you said, RR. Personally, I hate it when women try to impose on others what they should or shouldn't do. The idea that the woman should discover for herself what her man would like never crosses their minds because they're too preoccupied with trying to control and manufacture results. Let me discover for myself whether or not my future hubby would like it when I mix it up and wear pj's. Neither you nor that writer is an expert.
I don't know if it's for fact, but it sure as hell sounds like he is. Like I said, I hear talk like this from single dudes playing the field. You know how some women bitch about their guys watching porn? You know what the reaction is from guys? "I watch porn because it can be dirtier and go beyond what I'd ever do to her because I wouldn't want to use her like that."
Of course, if they really want to try some kink, they should discuss it with her, but I don't hear guys in solid relationships talk about sex like this.
And agreed on the individual basis- lists like this are stupid. Sure, this may apply to a lot of guys, but everyone has their own thing. To use this cookie cutter bs list is ignorant. Each couple is different and they need to find what works for them.
"BUT AN ARTICLE SAYS I SHOULD LET YOU USE ME HOWEVER YOU WANT AND I SHOULD CRAM YOUR DICK DOWN MY THROAT IF I DON'T WANT YOU TO LEAVE!!"
Yeah. No wonder our country is so full of sexual dysfunction.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by CaiaPosted by rockyroadicecream
What's with all these silly bitches going online to brag about their sexual "prowess?"
You have to go online, of all places, to tell the world you rock in the bedroom...
*slow clap*
Nobody is bragging here. If you're reading this as bragging then honey, the problem is within. Yourself.
Read and learn or - the door's over there.
That wasn't directed at you, you silly twat. Calm the fuck down.click to expand
Calm down? I'm not the one throwing around tacky insults.
I agree with the article in some ways. Being a female (Taurus btw) & talking to other female friends, I know plenty that won't give head or will but act like it's a disgusting chore (spitters), aren't sexually adventurous, etc... Most of them are in LTR's
I, on the other hand, have had several men who I can say for certain are sexually addicted to me. But a man being sexually addicted to you does not = a relationship. What it equals is a man committed to fucking you. The last guy I was dating told me that he wanted to marry me while I was giving him head, but couldn't/wouldn't be exclusive with me. So UNLESS you're already in a committed relationship, getting a man sexually addicted to you is over rated. Sure, he will stick around, for YEARS, even when you don't want to deal with him anymore. But that doesn't mean you're going to "keep him" or get any kind of exclusivity, if that's what you're after. I don't care if you suck like a hoover & fuck like a porn star, telling women that this is the way to initially GET a man is not true if that's not what he wants. You can't dangle blow jobs in front of a man like it's a carrot on a string to get a commitment.
I, on the other hand, have had several men who I can say for certain are sexually addicted to me. But a man being sexually addicted to you does not = a relationship. What it equals is a man committed to fucking you. The last guy I was dating told me that he wanted to marry me while I was giving him head, but couldn't/wouldn't be exclusive with me. So UNLESS you're already in a committed relationship, getting a man sexually addicted to you is over rated. Sure, he will stick around, for YEARS, even when you don't want to deal with him anymore. But that doesn't mean you're going to "keep him" or get any kind of exclusivity, if that's what you're after. I don't care if you suck like a hoover & fuck like a porn star, telling women that this is the way to initially GET a man is not true if that's not what he wants. You can't dangle blow jobs in front of a man like it's a carrot on a string to get a commitment.
Truth. I actually lose myself when it comes to that. Maybe it's because I'm a freak?... Hmmm... I don't know... Only for the man that I love and care for though. Lol..@ my thoughts right now. So, I actually have to make love to the penis using my mouth....ok.
Katana, you were referring to me...but anyway, if you have natural respect for others, and strangers, then we have no problem 🙂
It's funny how this thread turned out. Smh. he isn't saying that sex is what you're suppose to use or is the only way to keep a man around. It's just stating some things that you can do to please your significant other and keep him coming back....for more. I would hope that no one would think that relationships are all about sex.
But... i thought that all I had to have is good pussy.....ijs.
Posted by Noreallynow
It's funny how this thread turned out. Smh. he isn't saying that sex is what you're suppose to use or is the only way to keep a man around. It's just stating some things that you can do to please your significant other and keep him coming back....for more.
THANK YOU!!!
It seems a lot of people lack basic skills in comprehension.
Posted by CaiaPosted by Noreallynow
It's funny how this thread turned out. Smh. he isn't saying that sex is what you're suppose to use or is the only way to keep a man around. It's just stating some things that you can do to please your significant other and keep him coming back....for more.
THANK YOU!!!
It seems a lot of people lack basic skills in comprehension.click to expand
Nah, just that they're trained to think:
Topic about men's sexuality + relationship = All men want is sex and that's it. 😐
Could drop more demand on the table outright and try to be MORE picky then the women, but yeah...that's a turn off to everybody.
"It's just stating some things that you can do to please your significant other"
For real?
"Do you really, want to make that guy addicted to you sexually or do you just want him to "kind of like you"? I bet it's the first one.
This way you'll be "unbeatable" in bed, and any other woman he might end up with later on won't be a match for you. If he's with her, he'll be thinking about you. Actually, he'll never want to leave you."
^^^^^ actually my reading comprehension skills are on point. 😄 This is not directed at someone who already has the man, is in an exclusive committed relationship. This is directed at women as a way to "win" a man. If you're already in a committed relationship I don't think you should be questioning if he "kind of likes you" that should be established. And telling women to fuck his brains out so that you'll be unbeatable or unforgettable when he's off fucking some other woman is also not a piece of advice a woman in a COMMITTED relationship who already has the significant other, would need to know. "If he's with her he'll be thinking about you"
For real?
"Do you really, want to make that guy addicted to you sexually or do you just want him to "kind of like you"? I bet it's the first one.
This way you'll be "unbeatable" in bed, and any other woman he might end up with later on won't be a match for you. If he's with her, he'll be thinking about you. Actually, he'll never want to leave you."
^^^^^ actually my reading comprehension skills are on point. 😄 This is not directed at someone who already has the man, is in an exclusive committed relationship. This is directed at women as a way to "win" a man. If you're already in a committed relationship I don't think you should be questioning if he "kind of likes you" that should be established. And telling women to fuck his brains out so that you'll be unbeatable or unforgettable when he's off fucking some other woman is also not a piece of advice a woman in a COMMITTED relationship who already has the significant other, would need to know. "If he's with her he'll be thinking about you"
Posted by clooneyyearsPosted by Noreallynow
But... i thought that all I had to have is good pussy.....ijs.
lmao when i read this i realize that IRL if i overheard this at a restaurant it would make me stand up and leave!click to expand
Lolllllllllll..... Someone caught it!
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If you want to make that guy go insane for you and feel like a sexual addict whenever he's around you (or even just hears your voice over the phone) then keep on reading. Here are my 3 tips.
1. Fulfill all of his sexual fantasies
Men, just like you ladies, have fantasies. And many of them can be "sick" and kinky. A woman that's completely devoted and in love with her man is ready to do anything for him in bed. And when I say anything - I mean Anything with a Capital "A."
If he knows that you are there for him and 100% ready to satisfy his every desire - he'll appreciate you more than you can imagine. Total devotion and submissiveness is what naturally turns most men on. Of course, you can scream out "we have rights!" and "I don't "submit" to anyone" etc. But are you looking for real results or not? Do you really, want to make that guy addicted to you sexually or do you just want him to "kind of like you"? I bet it's the first one.
I'm going to tell you the truth and what works: total sexual devotion and submissiveness is what works. You have your pleasure if your guy gets pleasure. If you can change your attitude you can become his only desire in bed.
What is for sure is that your guy has fantasies. Find out what they are and do it as much as you can. Giving is caring, so the more you give him sexually, the more his satisfaction becomes your satisfaction, the more appreciated he'll feel and of course, the better your sex will be.
This way you'll be "unbeatable" in bed, and any other woman he might end up with later on won't be a match for you. If he's with her, he'll be thinking about you. Actually, he'll never want to leave you.