
muffdivingvirgo
@muffdivingvirgo
14 YearsVirgo
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Posted by size zero superhero
I don't want this to happen again
The solution is to avoid getting hitched with a self-serving, traitorous partner similar to your first spouse.
Besides, (at least)two sources of skilled input is necessary in order for optimal enjoyment, as opposed to having just one partner bear the burden.
I don't mean to come off as dismissive, however there will always be individuals out there, whom you are sexually incompatible with. In other words, their technique doesn't appeal to you and vice-versa.
IMO your best bet is asking your fiancee how you could improve, if at all. She's a Sag, therefore she'll probably give an honest answer if she feels improvements are needed on your behalf.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
You should've posted this thread in the Sagittarius forum.

Posted by LigeiaPosted by muffdivingvirgoPosted by happykitsunePosted by DMV
i think with your venus in cappy...you should try dating older men.
I'd gladly date older men. I don't get presented with older men tho. I'm a senior in college already so the pool of older man has grown smaller. Especially in a christian school where the older men are nearly all married. Aside from that I really don't know where to find older men. Bars are out and parties are really no better. If I'm not at school I'm usually working and if I'm doing neither of those things I'll get out drinking with my friends (haven't been in over a month cus I've been so busy)
So it's not that I don't know this. I've known this for a while :/ Just can't find the older men.
I'm an older Virgo, I met my Sag girl online. I'm four years older, and she's the best. She's fun, exciting, witty, sexy, very sexual, off balance, I love this girl.
We get along so well. She's quirky like me. She'll say things out of the blue, does things like dance in the middle of the grocery isle. Then I??d chime in with her.
Two weeks ago, we walked the beach naked together at midnight, full moon shining, the ocean water roared wetting out feet. Made love, got tired, and we slept on the beach, naked ! Clothed couples walked by us like it was nothing. It was so sensual, and off beat.
When you find your true soul mate, it's an incredible feeling. The love and sex energy surges through your body and tingles your heart.
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Posted by P-Angel
And not because the Virgo doesn't know the routine, rather ... because they know the routine.
A good lover is one who doesn't have to ask ... a good lover is intuitively able to respond/react to the nuances during the heat of the moment ... a good lover instinctively knows how/what to do according to the responses garnered from/during sensuality.
Now, with your situation .... you are asking how to be a good lover? For the fact that you have to even ask what it is to be a good lover is evidence that you know nothing about making love at all .. no matter how many times you've eaten pussy.

Posted by muffdivingvirgoPosted by P-Angel
And not because the Virgo doesn't know the routine, rather ... because they know the routine.
A good lover is one who doesn't have to ask ... a good lover is intuitively able to respond/react to the nuances during the heat of the moment ... a good lover instinctively knows how/what to do according to the responses garnered from/during sensuality.
Now, with your situation .... you are asking how to be a good lover? For the fact that you have to even ask what it is to be a good lover is evidence that you know nothing about making love at all .. no matter how many times you've eaten pussy.
I am man enough to ask. I am man enough to ask I what I don't know.
I'm sure there are many things you don't know. And I'm sure you'd ask. It's the mature thing to do.
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Posted by muffdivingvirgo
I'm very good when it comes to oral .....







Posted by P-AngelPosted by muffdivingvirgoPosted by P-Angel
And not because the Virgo doesn't know the routine, rather ... because they know the routine.
A good lover is one who doesn't have to ask ... a good lover is intuitively able to respond/react to the nuances during the heat of the moment ... a good lover instinctively knows how/what to do according to the responses garnered from/during sensuality.
Now, with your situation .... you are asking how to be a good lover? For the fact that you have to even ask what it is to be a good lover is evidence that you know nothing about making love at all .. no matter how many times you've eaten pussy.
I am man enough to ask. I am man enough to ask I what I don't know.
I'm sure there are many things you don't know. And I'm sure you'd ask. It's the mature thing to do.
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Dude, you're 48 years old ... if you haven't figured out how to make love to a woman by now ... then are you saying that you're just NOW interested in learning how to do the mature thing?
P-Angel: Which makes you a good lover?
This isn't about things I don't know, or know how to do ..... you made this thread about you. Perhaps, during all those years that you were failing in learning how to make love to your woman, and she was trying to tell you how to do it .... your responses to her were pointing your finger at her, telling her what she doesn't get.
YOu suck in bed ... or else you wouldn't be in here asking how to do something you should have mastered by the time you reached 24 years old. So, the fact that I don't know how to do something isn't relevant at all, and the obvious reason why you don't know and haven't learnt is because when someone, like me, tells you the truth, you get a corn cob up your ass, and say, "I'm sure there are many things you don't know" ... which means ...
... you aren't receptive to knowing, to learning, to growing ... because if someone tells you, you can't take the truth.
You're 48 years old .. and have to ask how to make love to a woman !!!
I told you the only thing you need to hear .... and it flew right over your head, and I'd be willing to wager that there were many women who tried to


Posted by dimitri
P-Angel: Which makes you a good lover?

Posted by R24
Oh and I have a sag moon... I would suggest being a bit aggressive. Dominate her, or at least try and don't freak if she wants to dominate you. Bite her neck if you are missionary. Pound her hard from behind. Dig your fingers in her flesh.. feel the animal inside you yet? If so, listen to it... Oh and making sex noises isn't just for girls. We like hearing primal, guttural, groaning, etc., noises too

Posted by muffdivingvirgo
The only way I've found to make myself better is to start asking questions. Then practice by putting words into action.
We are all adults here, let's start by being constructive with your comments. What you are saying is not helping.
If mankind had your idea of thinking, we'd still be in the stone ages. We all want to be better.

Posted by muffdivingvirgo
.... I'm getting married to a Sagittarius woman this April (2013), how do I please a Sagittarius woman?

Posted by muffdivingvirgo
Here's some background, my ex-wife divorced me because I was routine (I think). I know this because, as I look back. I did nothing but the same thing in bed. Eventually, she cheated and left me.
I don't want this to happen again.
Posted by muffdivingvirgo
I should have explained I was married for 14 years, so all I know is vanilla sex. I tried to talk to the ex about sex, but she never wanted to talk about it. She thought it was private and personal. WHAT? But she told me she was happy the way our sex lives was. It became boring and routine.
So when we finally divorced and I met my fianc?e, a Sagittarius, my world was turned up-side down. I never knew what sex was about. I??ve been so blinded to the world of sex.
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You're so full of shit ....
So, because you never cared to know any more than just how to eat her out .... it's her fault. At any time, you could have cared to know how to make love to a woman.
It's not because you were married that you didn't care to learn.


Posted by muffdivingvirgo
Beginning of this year, she wants to hold back on sex until we get married. That's April 20th 2013!!! WHAT!!? But you know what I love her that much, I??ll do it. It's only 3 months.
So in the meantime, I want to learn more. Learn about sex.


Posted by muffdivingvirgo
Here's some background, my ex-wife divorced me because I was routine (I think). I know this because, as I look back. I did nothing but the same thing in bed. Eventually, she cheated and left me.
But I feel that I'm mechanical. A dead fish. Yuck!
Any ideas on how to sexually please a woman?
Posted by muffdivingvirgo
And for P-Angel to label me as —lousy lover??, yes it hurts.
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Posted by muffdivingvirgo
I??ve recently read this somewhere:
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Any guys reading this take my advice- explore her ENTIRE BODY. Don't worry about coming. Explore her deliberately. Should work really well. If not, go get some how-to porn.
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This got me thinking. But is there more I should be doing?


Posted by P-Angel
What is it you want to learn?
You want some secret trick, or maneuver?
You think that being a good lover is about perfecting a move?

Posted by muffdivingvirgoPosted by R24
Oh and I have a sag moon... I would suggest being a bit aggressive. Dominate her, or at least try and don't freak if she wants to dominate you. Bite her neck if you are missionary. Pound her hard from behind. Dig your fingers in her flesh.. feel the animal inside you yet? If so, listen to it... Oh and making sex noises isn't just for girls. We like hearing primal, guttural, groaning, etc., noises too
Thank you, thank you thank you R24!
Now THAT??S HELPFUL!!!
Posted by R24
To be a good lover you must desire her. I mean really desire her and want to become one with her. Stop thinking about the mechanical aspects. They really don't matter. Stop thinking about if you do action "a" for this long, you will get response "b." That is mechanical.
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by muffdivingvirgo
I??ve recently read this somewhere:
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Any guys reading this take my advice- explore her ENTIRE BODY. Don't worry about coming. Explore her deliberately. Should work really well. If not, go get some how-to porn.
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This got me thinking. But is there more I should be doing?
So, you had to read ..... that you should explore her entire body. This didn't dawn on you automatically because you had a desire to want her to feel wanted?
And if that doesnt' work really well, then go get some how-to porn? If what doesnt' work really well?
do you even realize that doing anything ((((( deliberately ))))) during a love-making session is what makes you a lousy fuck?
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Posted by muffdivingvirgo
But don't kill my thrill of a lifetime.

Posted by muffdivingvirgo
..... you are not helping.

Posted by P-AngelPosted by muffdivingvirgo
..... you are not helping.
By helping, you mean .... telling you a secret that will make you a great lover.
Yes, I told you that ... but, you're too busy thinking in terms of the end result, rather than the journey along the way.
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Posted by muffdivingvirgo
Please don't put all Virgos in the same category. We are all not the same.
I'm a male Virgo. And in the 5 Love Languages I crave physical contact. I'm dating a Sag and she's fantastic. And she's the same way, she craves physical contact.
According to the 5 love language, his may be different. You just have to find out what it is.
The 5 Love Languages are the following:
1. Words of Affirmation,
2. Quality Time,
3. Receiving Gifts,
4. Acts of Service,
5. and Physical Touch.
My Sag and I took the test for fun and we measured up pretty much the same.
I'm all fired up, she's given me the love of life.
Her zest for life is amazing. I love her mellow craziness. And we can talk, we communicate very well. We talk about everything and anything. Every day is a new exciting day with her.


Posted by muffdivingvirgo
..... allow people who have constructive comments to post.


Posted by muffdivingvirgo
She wants to wait for marriage, because she wishes for God to bless our union, our marriage.
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Here's some background, my ex-wife divorced me because I was routine (I think). I know this because, as I look back. I did nothing but the same thing in bed. Eventually, she cheated and left me.
I don't want this to happen again.
I'm very good when it comes to oral, even the ex-wife told me (I think that's why the marriage lasted as long as it did). And my Sagittarius fianc?e says, —You??re better than a vibrator.?? Great, but I want to completely please her. I don't want to be the nice guy in bed, that boring, routine, vanilla sex.
I love pleasing my woman, I love giving her total pleasure. But I feel that I'm mechanical. A dead fish. Yuck!
Any ideas on how to sexually please a woman?
Thanks help would be greatly appreciated.