Stihl46
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I guess we will never be just friends
Why are you talking and getting physically close to her?? :p
Being friends with someone who clearly wants more than just friendship is a recipe for heartbreak.. But then you don't even know for sure if she's attracted to you? Don't jump to conclusions just yet. Perhaps you are just invading her personal space when getting close to her or she's just not that comfortable around you anymore (for whatever reason, it doesn't have to be romantic interest).
I'm not getting physically close to her but I'm talking to her being friendly of course. Here's the thing the Scorpio woman that was in my life she was the same as this girl I'm talking too now she was loud and outgoing with everybody even total strangers. With me she got all shy and quiet she too would fidget with things she would be preening herself. Things turned to PURE shit for me when I said I think we should just be friends, I'm not going down that road again.
If this woman can be open and outgoing with others why can't she be the same with me? I know the Scorpio never did after saying lets just be friends well that didn't end well she started to sting the living crap out of me.
If this woman can be open and outgoing with others why can't she be the same with me? I know the Scorpio never did after saying lets just be friends well that didn't end well she started to sting the living crap out of me.
Posted by Stihl46can you try to only be around her in the presence of the others you speak of where she might get more comfortable ? just don't single her out so to speak so you won't have to be one on one ...
I'm not getting physically close to her but I'm talking to her being friendly of course. Here's the thing the Scorpio woman that was in my life she was the same as this girl I'm talking too now she was loud and outgoing with everybody even total strangers. With me she got all shy and quiet she too would fidget with things she would be preening herself. Things turned to PURE shit for me when I said I think we should just be friends, I'm not going down that road again.
If this woman can be open and outgoing with others why can't she be the same with me? I know the Scorpio never did after saying lets just be friends well that didn't end well she started to sting the living crap out of me.
It always doesn't happen to have somebody else around when I talk to her when she has a co-worker friend with her she's still shy, when she has a couple co-worker friends with her she's a little more relaxed.
If she was a woman I wanted to date I wouldn't worry about her shyness but I don't want to repeat the past as this current woman is acting very similar to the Scorpio and that didn't end well when I said we should just be friends. This woman is very out going with other guys she's not quiet as a church mouse as she is with me.
I usually don't have problems with women this is my second woman I've had this issue with most women I encounter its fine. The Scorpio she was quiet with me even in groups she would be quiet with me most of the time if she talked to somebody else while she was with me she would be loud.
If she was a woman I wanted to date I wouldn't worry about her shyness but I don't want to repeat the past as this current woman is acting very similar to the Scorpio and that didn't end well when I said we should just be friends. This woman is very out going with other guys she's not quiet as a church mouse as she is with me.
I usually don't have problems with women this is my second woman I've had this issue with most women I encounter its fine. The Scorpio she was quiet with me even in groups she would be quiet with me most of the time if she talked to somebody else while she was with me she would be loud.
Posted by Stihl46You think?
This woman I've been talking too wants more than just a friendship or its what I'm assuming
WTF is it with women that are hot and cold? as I said I'm not looking at a relationship with this woman why is she giving me the hot and cold treatment? Hell it changes through out the day, friendly in the morning the afternoon she's not I think to myself WTF is with you. Glad I'm not wanting to pursue her she's probably not easy to deal with.
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