Confronted my friend about cheating

So I've had a suspicion that my friend was cheating and saw them talking intimately after work. I talked with him and he blew up at me, saying that he wasn't cheating. And he walked off, saying he was done with the conversation.

Is that classic sign of guilt of a cheater to get so defensive and angry?

They were going to go out with a group of friends to play pool. His gf doesn't go because she hates bars. He's been going out with this group more frequently, like every week for the past 2 months.

And he's cheated in the past, 6 years ago. But he's always talking how being faithful is important to him. But it seems that she may like him, by the way she looks at him.

Should I say anything to his gf? No right? Mind my own business??

She gets anxiety attacks in loud places. But yeah, risk it right?

Posted by P10
So I've had a suspicion that my friend was cheating and saw them talking intimately after work. I talked with him and he blew up at me, saying that he wasn't cheating. And he walked off, saying he was done with the conversation.

Is that classic sign of guilt of a cheater to get so defensive and angry?

I have been through that type situation meh. It could be very much some red flag behavior.

If the trust is not there then it's time to talk and see what's going on.

And if I am with someone I want them to have fun and go out with out me worrying about if you some player or not that's happened too.either you trust or dont. Or find someone who is introverted like yourself.

I would stay out of it...personally.
I've been there, it all comes out in the wash eventually. Best thing you can do is stay drama-free 😎

@libraqueen They have talked outside of work by themselves. He likes to help girls with their problems and most of the time either he or the girl develop feelings.

They could hook up after the bar?

What I was wondering though is if his reaction is typical of one who has cheated? I was taken aback by his anger.

@libraqueen When he cheated on the past he carried on 2 relationships. Then he confessed. Then, 6 months later, he cheated with his gf's roommate. That was 6 years ago, and since then his gfs have actually cheated on him. Now, it seems like he's back in it.

So much cheating, ugh!

He is Aries with Gemini moon, Mars and Mercury Pisces, and I think Venus Aries

Posted by libraqueen
Alright so here's my take. He isn't cheating, but might eventually. Force your friend to start going to the bar with them. She has to.

I was going to suggest she go and bring earplugs and take her anxiety meds...

Posted by libraqueen
Actually why not you go with her?

Yeah I could that. I always wonder why she doesn't go when she knows these girls like him.

Posted by P10
@libraqueen When he cheated on the past he carried on 2 relationships. Then he confessed. Then, 6 months later, he cheated with his gf's roommate. That was 6 years ago, and since then his gfs have actually cheated on him. Now, it seems like he's back in it.

So much cheating, ugh!

He is Aries with Gemini moon, Mars and Mercury Pisces, and I think Venus Aries

So far my ex bff was an aries April 9, he was a cheater. Ten years later another Aries but I thought he was a Gemini now he has both in his blood line. So he's fire and air, his moon is Taurus I think. Both of them have the same traits I saw 10 years ago. I can't do it no matter the attraction. Can't and he's unavailable though. Damn such an amazing attraction such red flags thrown to kingdom come.

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Posted by libraqueen
Actually why not you go with her?

Yeah I could that. I always wonder why she doesn't go when she knows these girls like him.

Wtf? Owhy does he go with these girls that like him? He shouldn't do that??

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No, he shouldn't but he does. They know he has a gf. With one of the girls, he told her that they would be just friends, but the new one...he seems like he may like her back? They talk to him about their problems, etc.

Why are you in your friends business??

Posted by lnana04
Why are you in your friends business??

Because they are my friends. And all I have done is talk to one friend. Do you have any friends that you care about?