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I saw a post today so funny it said: “Maybe the reason why I haven’t found my soulmate is because I need to be licking pussies and instead I’m out here sucking dick!” 😭

I’ve often entertained this thought myself as someone who is just sick of trying with these men! If I were to ever go there it would have to be a lipstick lesbian I don’t think I can do the butchies.

Anyone else on here been pushed into feeling this way and have you actually acted on it and how did it work out did you just find yourself going back to guys anyway?

what a weird thought to change your sexual orientation just because you think you get along better with same-sex. You think that because with females there is no pressure sexually so it's very casual. If you stopped thinking of sex as a manipulation factor or an ASSET, then you can focus more on the person which should take stress off from the relationship and may be better connection.

If what you're saying is true then most lesbians and gay people would have very few relationships but let's find out... I bet they have just as many fucked up scenarios and issues as straight people.

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what a weird thought to change your sexual orientation just because you think you get along better with same-sex. You think that because with females there is no pressure sexually so it's very casual. If you stopped thinking of sex as a manipulation factor or an ASSET, then you can focus more on the person which should take stress off from the relationship and may be better connection.

If what you're saying is true then most lesbians and gay people would have very few relationships but let's find out... I bet they have just as many fucked up scenarios and issues as straight people.

I mean I don’t know it’s new for me but I always find myself gazing at beautiful women and I think I am attracted to them and I’ve kissed one before I just don’t know if I could totally pursue it as an actual relationship. I was just more so wondering if anyone here has felt this way after dealing with so many shitty men?

I mean if I ever did I know I would be bisexual I couldn’t completely leave the opposite sex alone and be one of those girls that is just 100% gay nothing against it just saying.

Posted by stillstillwater

what a weird thought to change your sexual orientation just because you think you get along better with same-sex. You think that because with females there is no pressure sexually so it's very casual. If you stopped thinking of sex as a manipulation factor or an ASSET, then you can focus more on the person which should take stress off from the relationship and may be better connection.

If what you're saying is true then most lesbians and gay people would have very few relationships but let's find out... I bet they have just as many fucked up scenarios and issues as straight people.

well.... 😅 is funny that you say that, but I wouldn't generalize by mixing gay and lesbian together.

lesbian have almost as many partner as a straight man (higher than straight women) and have a higher average length of RS in years, compared to straight people 4.9 vs 4 (gay is 6.9)

also interesting to note, 91% of lesbian couples are monogamous compare that to 63% for gay couples, while 90% of those lesbian couples respected that agreement only 63% of the gay couples did 😆

lesbian make less money in general, and share less in general too, and have less sex per month.

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Posted by stillstillwater

what a weird thought to change your sexual orientation just because you think you get along better with same-sex. You think that because with females there is no pressure sexually so it's very casual. If you stopped thinking of sex as a manipulation factor or an ASSET, then you can focus more on the person which should take stress off from the relationship and may be better connection.

If what you're saying is true then most lesbians and gay people would have very few relationships but let's find out... I bet they have just as many fucked up scenarios and issues as straight people.

well.... 😅 is funny that you say that, but I wouldn't generalize by mixing gay and lesbian together.

lesbian have almost as many partner as a straight man (higher than straight women) and have a higher average length of RS in years, compared to straight people 4.9 vs 4 (gay is 6.9)

also interesting to note, 91% of lesbian couples are monogamous compare that to 63% for gay couples, while 90% of those lesbian couples respected that agreement only 63% of the gay couples did 😆

lesbian make less money in general, and share less in general too, and have less sex per month.

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Someone did his research 😋

Um yeah! Women are amazing of course but in a way some are almost more crazy than men. Lots more game playing and none directness. From my experience.

I also think I prefer heterosexual sex? But that could just be out of comfort. I never had a serious girlfriend to get more deeply intimate with it. But the sex I had was pretty good and hot.

If your curious definitely explore it!

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Posted by stillstillwater

what a weird thought to change your sexual orientation just because you think you get along better with same-sex. You think that because with females there is no pressure sexually so it's very casual. If you stopped thinking of sex as a manipulation factor or an ASSET, then you can focus more on the person which should take stress off from the relationship and may be better connection.

If what you're saying is true then most lesbians and gay people would have very few relationships but let's find out... I bet they have just as many fucked up scenarios and issues as straight people.

well.... 😅 is funny that you say that, but I wouldn't generalize by mixing gay and lesbian together.

lesbian have almost as many partner as a straight man (higher than straight women) and have a higher average length of RS in years, compared to straight people 4.9 vs 4 (gay is 6.9)

also interesting to note, 91% of lesbian couples are monogamous compare that to 63% for gay couples, while 90% of those lesbian couples respected that agreement only 63% of the gay couples did 😆

lesbian make less money in general, and share less in general too, and have less sex per month.

Someone did his research 😋

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I think, I actually have an old post that was way more detailed than this one 😆 but I'm more casual now LMAO

@scorpiotruth

you know, I think some people actually fight it for that long, I doubt they didn't "knew" or something, but late on life, they're like ah, fuck this, I want pussy LoL

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No I can’t say that I have. All of that is very confusing to me. Not the people who realize that they are gay or bisexual early on in life, but the people who realize it late AF like in their 40s. There was a girl I went to college with that was married when we were in nursing school and she was trying so hard to have a baby with her husband. They seemed to be best friends. Then she left her husband for another female nurse that she works with and I’m just like WTF?! How does that happen?? Lol no judgment at all I’m just confused about how someone turns like that. It’s alsays been said that people who are gay are born gay, so I always believed that. Idk I guess it doesn’t matter it just baffles me. I’ve never had even a slight attraction to women but I recognize beauty in other women everyday.

Nothing to be confused about - it just happens. Human nature is very unpredictable.

I know of someone who met and settled down with a woman when she was 55 (her 34 year old daughter was a colleague of mine). When the daughter asked her how it happened, she simply said, "It just did."

I have a long lost friend who was straight, as far as I knew. She was in a loving relationship with a guy who treated her very well and respected her. He was a very good change from the string of assholes she dated. But then one day she broke up with him, after 4 years together. Her reason? She was bored and he wanted to get married (which she didn't want). 2 years after the breakup she met someone at a belly dancing class (her female dance instructor) and both women have been together ever since (it's been 15 years I think since they met).

So yeah, humans are unpredictable.

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No I can’t say that I have. All of that is very confusing to me. Not the people who realize that they are gay or bisexual early on in life, but the people who realize it late AF like in their 40s. There was a girl I went to college with that was married when we were in nursing school and she was trying so hard to have a baby with her husband. They seemed to be best friends. Then she left her husband for another female nurse that she works with and I’m just like WTF?! How does that happen?? Lol no judgment at all I’m just confused about how someone turns like that. It’s alsays been said that people who are gay are born gay, so I always believed that. Idk I guess it doesn’t matter it just baffles me. I’ve never had even a slight attraction to women but I recognize beauty in other women everyday.

It's really not that strange. Many men and women pretend to be heterosexual because of societally pressure. I've seen it a lot. One instance I remember in high school one of my girlfriend's father came out and just got up and left her family to be in California with some man.

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No I can’t say that I have. All of that is very confusing to me. Not the people who realize that they are gay or bisexual early on in life, but the people who realize it late AF like in their 40s. There was a girl I went to college with that was married when we were in nursing school and she was trying so hard to have a baby with her husband. They seemed to be best friends. Then she left her husband for another female nurse that she works with and I’m just like WTF?! How does that happen?? Lol no judgment at all I’m just confused about how someone turns like that. It’s alsays been said that people who are gay are born gay, so I always believed that. Idk I guess it doesn’t matter it just baffles me. I’ve never had even a slight attraction to women but I recognize beauty in other women everyday.

It's really not that strange. Many men and women pretend to be heterosexual because of societally pressure. I've seen it a lot. One instance I remember in high school one of my girlfriend's father came out and just got up and left her family to be in California with some man.

I can definitely understand it in that case. I can understand that a lot of people don’t feel safe with coming out so they hide who they really are and that’s sad to me.. but there are others who literally change their minds/hearts in the middle of their life and people who have never loved the same sex before suddenly start loving the same sex.. that’s the only part that’s weird to me because it’s a drastic change.

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Why is it weird?

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Yeah do it, you will realize that it's not 100% to do with "dealing with so many shitty men" and that you might have to actually change your own behavior.

What’s your problem with me? You act like you know me to pass judgement this way... 🙄

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No I can’t say that I have. All of that is very confusing to me. Not the people who realize that they are gay or bisexual early on in life, but the people who realize it late AF like in their 40s. There was a girl I went to college with that was married when we were in nursing school and she was trying so hard to have a baby with her husband. They seemed to be best friends. Then she left her husband for another female nurse that she works with and I’m just like WTF?! How does that happen?? Lol no judgment at all I’m just confused about how someone turns like that. It’s alsays been said that people who are gay are born gay, so I always believed that. Idk I guess it doesn’t matter it just baffles me. I’ve never had even a slight attraction to women but I recognize beauty in other women everyday.

It's really not that strange. Many men and women pretend to be heterosexual because of societally pressure. I've seen it a lot. One instance I remember in high school one of my girlfriend's father came out and just got up and left her family to be in California with some man.

I can definitely understand it in that case. I can understand that a lot of people don’t feel safe with coming out so they hide who they really are and that’s sad to me.. but there are others who literally change their minds/hearts in the middle of their life and people who have never loved the same sex before suddenly start loving the same sex.. that’s the only part that’s weird to me because it’s a drastic change.

Why is it weird?

It’s just weird to me the same way that changing religions would be weird to me. It’s just that drastic change .. again, it might be because I’m a fixed sign, idk. That’s just one hell of a life change.

I mean they’re changing their whole sexual orientation overnight. Its one thing to desire women all your life but to just wake up one day like “oh I’m tired of dick, let me go suck on some pussy even though I’ve never had a taste for it before..” like WTF lmao

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Maybe it was their sexual orientation all their life but they didn't ever have a chance to act on it. I mean sexuality is complex.

Well I'm bi with a preference for women so I can't personally relate but I feel for all the straight ladies. Good guys are out there but you have to dig through a lot of crap sometimes or be lucky lol

I've also met plenty of "straight" women who were tired of men or just wanting to try something new, come on to me. So it's a thing...

You should try it out, explore a little. Make sure you let them know you're experimenting and have fun.

😉

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*adjusts hair*

Hi.

Lol

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Has anyone noticed that, when a straight guy 'comes out of the closet', he stays out of the closet (i.e. remains gay). With 'straight' women, they tend to flip-flop - straight... then gay... then straight again...

Seriously, fucking sort it out!

*rolls eyes*

Those women are called pseudolesbians.

Posted by Cappadonna



I saw a post today so funny it said: “Maybe the reason why I haven’t found my soulmate is because I need to be licking pussies and instead I’m out here sucking dick!” 😭

I’ve often entertained this thought myself as someone who is just sick of trying with these men! If I were to ever go there it would have to be a lipstick lesbian I don’t think I can do the butchies.

Anyone else on here been pushed into feeling this way and have you actually acted on it and how did it work out did you just find yourself going back to guys anyway?

I am not sure the right reason to turn into a lesbian, gay or bisexual is "as someone who is just sick of trying with these men! "

why do you think it will be easier with woman? why do you think they would be interested in you? interested in having a relationship with you? 🙂

I mean is "Anyone else on here BEEN PUSHED into feeling this way" the right way to start with girls?

Edit: list your qualities what would be attractive for girls and were not attractive for the men you tried to get?

🙂

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Has anyone noticed that, when a straight guy 'comes out of the closet', he stays out of the closet (i.e. remains gay). With 'straight' women, they tend to flip-flop - straight... then gay... then straight again...

Seriously, fucking sort it out!

*rolls eyes*

Those women are called pseudolesbians.

LOL! Gotcha! But still, these women do a disservice to women, both gay and straight...

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Man I do love when straight peeps talk about gay people like their fucking experts lol

You do realize theres an in between gay and straight right?

Don't listen to these people op, you said you've stared at woman before and kissed one, so you find them attractive. You just need to figure out what that means exactly. I should've added before, it's fine if you're trying things out with women but focus on your sexual discovery rather than the failed attempts with men.

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Um yeah! Women are amazing of course but in a way some are almost more crazy than men. Lots more game playing and none directness. From my experience.

I also think I prefer heterosexual sex? But that could just be out of comfort. I never had a serious girlfriend to get more deeply intimate with it. But the sex I had was pretty good and hot.

You're the only woman I've ever seen state that women are almost more crazy than men.

Lolwut.

Men are the stupid ones, women are the crazy ones.

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Posted by Cappadonna



I saw a post today so funny it said: “Maybe the reason why I haven’t found my soulmate is because I need to be licking pussies and instead I’m out here sucking dick!” 😭

I’ve often entertained this thought myself as someone who is just sick of trying with these men! If I were to ever go there it would have to be a lipstick lesbian I don’t think I can do the butchies.

Anyone else on here been pushed into feeling this way and have you actually acted on it and how did it work out did you just find yourself going back to guys anyway?

nope. i have always liked men and men have always liked me lol ;p



i love being female and heterosexual!!



and people should love who they wanna be, het, bi, gay, lesbian!! it's all good!!

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Posted by ScorpioTruth

No I can’t say that I have. All of that is very confusing to me. Not the people who realize that they are gay or bisexual early on in life, but the people who realize it late AF like in their 40s. There was a girl I went to college with that was married when we were in nursing school and she was trying so hard to have a baby with her husband. They seemed to be best friends. Then she left her husband for another female nurse that she works with and I’m just like WTF?! How does that happen?? Lol no judgment at all I’m just confused about how someone turns like that. It’s alsays been said that people who are gay are born gay, so I always believed that. Idk I guess it doesn’t matter it just baffles me. I’ve never had even a slight attraction to women but I recognize beauty in other women everyday.

It's really not that strange. Many

men and women pretend to be heterosexual because of societally pressure. I've seen it a lot. One instance I remember in high school one of my girlfriend's father came out and just got up and left her family to be in California with some man.

Ok that's a great spin

Look if the animal kingdom is only 1 to 2 percent gay why do you assume humans are more gay

How about having the gay agenda forced down our throats every fuking minute

By 2030 this whole country is going to be gay

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I don’t know that anyone is more gay than straight.

I’m not saying that.

I’m just saying I’ve seen a lot of people hide their sexual desires or maybe even orientation.

Yes America is very pro gay I guess

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Posted by ScorpioTruth

No I can’t say that I have. All of that is very confusing to me. Not the people who realize that they are gay or bisexual early on in life, but the people who realize it late AF like in their 40s. There was a girl I went to college with that was married when we were in nursing school and she was trying so hard to have a baby with her husband. They seemed to be best friends. Then she left her husband for another female nurse that she works with and I’m just like WTF?! How does that happen?? Lol no judgment at all I’m just confused about how someone turns like that. It’s alsays been said that people who are gay are born gay, so I always believed that. Idk I guess it doesn’t matter it just baffles me. I’ve never had even a slight attraction to women but I recognize beauty in other women everyday.

It's really not that strange. Many men and women pretend to be heterosexual because of societally pressure. I've seen it a lot. One instance I remember in high school one of my girlfriend's father came out and just got up and left her family to be in California with some man.

I can definitely understand it in that case. I can understand that a lot of people don’t feel safe with coming out so they hide who they really are and that’s sad to me.. but there are others who literally change their minds/hearts in the middle of their life and people who have never loved the same sex before suddenly start loving the same sex.. that’s the only part that’s weird to me because it’s a drastic change.

Why is it weird?

It’s just weird to me the same way that changing religions would be weird to me. It’s just that drastic change .. again, it might be because I’m a fixed sign, idk. That’s just one hell of a life change.

I mean they’re changing their whole sexual orientation overnight. Its one thing to desire women all your life but to just wake up one day like “oh I’m tired of dick, let me go suck on some pussy even though I’ve never had a taste for it before..” like WTF lmao

Maybe it was their sexual orientation all their life but they didn't ever have a chance to act on it. I mean sexuality is complex.

Cope post of the year

Or maybe ppl are somewhat self oriented and do what they want to do without it being a spectrum thing

I think individualistic society's create circumstances for choice thus ppl choose to sexualize how they prefer

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What’s “ cope “ mean?

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Has anyone noticed that, when a straight guy 'comes out of the closet', he stays out of the closet (i.e. remains gay). With 'straight' women, they tend to flip-flop - straight... then gay... then straight again...

Seriously, fucking sort it out!

*rolls eyes*

Those women are called pseudolesbians.

LOL! Gotcha! But still, these women do a disservice to women, both gay and straight...

Man I do love when straight peeps talk about gay people like their fucking experts lol

You do realize theres an in between gay and straight right?

Don't listen to these people op, you said you've stared at woman before and kissed one, so you find them attractive. You just need to figure out what that means exactly. I should've added before, it's fine if you're trying things out with women but focus on your sexual discovery rather than the failed attempts with men.

I would like to think that those who read my posts are aware that (genuine) bisexuals have been excluded...

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From your post in this topic only? Wasn't gathered, no. What do mean by genuine though? Bisexuality is a big spectrum. You got people who can have sex and a relationship with either gender equally. Some who can do one or the other and some who like to dabble. All are technically bi (I'd personally call the latter bicurious) and all are valid

And ya there's people who say they're gay for attention or the women who say they're tired of men and wish they could be gay. But if you've fooled around with the same gender more than once and you liked it...you may not be gay but hun I doubt you're straight lol

Also I didn't quote you to single you out. I have an issue with this kind of language in general. Nothing personal.

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I saw a post today so funny it said: “Maybe the reason why I haven’t found my soulmate is because I need to be licking pussies and instead I’m out here sucking dick!” 😭

I’ve often entertained this thought myself as someone who is just sick of trying with these men! If I were to ever go there it would have to be a lipstick lesbian I don’t think I can do the butchies.

Anyone else on here been pushed into feeling this way and have you actually acted on it and how did it work out did you just find yourself going back to guys anyway?

I am not sure the right reason to turn into a lesbian, gay or bisexual is "as someone who is just sick of trying with these men! "

why do you think it will be easier with woman? why do you think they would be interested in you? interested in having a relationship with you? 🙂

I mean is "Anyone else on here BEEN PUSHED into feeling this way" the right way to start with girls?

Edit: list your qualities what would be attractive for girls and were not attractive for the men you tried to get?

🙂

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Ummm my boobs and butt are nice and squishy! 🙂

Haha jk! I don’t know sometimes I feel like girls can relate better to one another and its the emotional factor that appeals to me. We just get what we want in a relationship but it’s also been said that that doesn’t mean there aren’t immature kitties out there. Somebody mentioned that it’s just because I get along better with the same sex actually I get along better with the opposite sex never had many chicks as friends? I think I’m just bi-curious and might be having a midlife crisis 🤣

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Posted by ScorpioTruth

No I can’t say that I have. All of that is very confusing to me. Not the people who realize that they are gay or bisexual early on in life, but the people who realize it late AF like in their 40s. There was a girl I went to college with that was married when we were in nursing school and she was trying so hard to have a baby with her husband. They seemed to be best friends. Then she left her husband for another female nurse that she works with and I’m just like WTF?! How does that happen?? Lol no judgment at all I’m just confused about how someone turns like that. It’s alsays been said that people who are gay are born gay, so I always believed that. Idk I guess it doesn’t matter it just baffles me. I’ve never had even a slight attraction to women but I recognize beauty in other women everyday.

It's really not that strange. Many

men and women pretend to be heterosexual because of societally pressure. I've seen it a lot. One instance I remember in high school one of my girlfriend's father came out and just got up and left her family to be in California with some man.

Ok that's a great spin

Look if the animal kingdom is only 1 to 2 percent gay why do you assume humans are more gay

How about having the gay agenda forced down our throats every fuking minute

By 2030 this whole country is going to be gay

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Oh no they're on to us! Better call the gay militia and tell them we need more rainbow banners, rum, and C-4's lol