I need advice 😥

So I met this man about a yr ago online. We chatted for a few days and had an instant connection. We decided to hangout and see if we really vibe together and we most definitely did. Our first date, we slept together and we’ve been inseparable ever since. We live about 2 hours away from each other and both work crazy hours but he makes sure he comes visit me and my kids as often as he can. Never longer than 2 weeks before we see each other. We’re pretty much dating without the commitment. So fast fwd to the beginning of last month. He and I took a vacation together. We get back and I told him I’ll be posting our pic on FB and asked if that was ok. He was fine with it but he blocked me. Mind u, we weren’t even friends on FB prior too our trip. I feel like he blocked me so I couldn’t tag him in our pics... a.m. I over thinking it? Should I even be mad because I am extremely pissed?! I feel slighted by that? Am I tripping? My trust issues are starting to resurface and I feel like he’s trying to hide something.

Gurlll. You know what it is. That’s exactly why he blocked you. But why are you doing all of this with someone who hasn’t committed to you. You’re being a gf without the title. What would be the incentive to make you his gf?

Sounds like you gave him all of you already. But since he blocked you on FB I would block him in real life.

Sounds like he thought it was FWB all along. 😢

Posted by Meowpie
Sounds like he thought it was FWB all along. 😢

I guess I got confused when we started meeting each other’s family and kids.

Posted by bkbella86
Gurlll. You know what it is. That’s exactly why he blocked you. But why are you doing all of this with someone who hasn’t committed to you. You’re being a gf without the title. What would be the incentive to make you his gf?

Sounds like you gave him all of you already. But since he blocked you on FB I would block him in real life.

Stupidly I thought that maybe down the line things would change. Ik... I’m kicking my own a** now because my feelings are so deeply involved. I figured since I met his mom, he brings his kids around, Hell he even pays a bill or 2 without me asking that it was evolving into more. He could’ve told me no, not to post the pics instead of acting ok with it and blocking me. Smh.

Posted by PatuniaBroussard
So I met this man about a yr ago online. We chatted for a few days and had an instant connection. We decided to hangout and see if we really vibe together and we most definitely did. Our first date, we slept together and we’ve been inseparable ever since. We live about 2 hours away from each other and both work crazy hours but he makes sure he comes visit me and my kids as often as he can. Never longer than 2 weeks before we see each other. We’re pretty much dating without the commitment. So fast fwd to the beginning of last month. He and I took a vacation together. We get back and I told him I’ll be posting our pic on FB and asked if that was ok. He was fine with it but he blocked me. Mind u, we weren’t even friends on FB prior too our trip. I feel like he blocked me so I couldn’t tag him in our pics... a.m. I over thinking it? Should I even be mad because I am extremely pissed?! I feel slighted by that? Am I tripping? My trust issues are starting to resurface and I feel like he’s trying to hide something.

sorry - seems like it's about time for that discussion

Posted by tctao

Posted by PatuniaBroussard
So I met this man about a yr ago online. We chatted for a few days and had an instant connection. We decided to hangout and see if we really vibe together and we most definitely did. Our first date, we slept together and we’ve been inseparable ever since. We live about 2 hours away from each other and both work crazy hours but he makes sure he comes visit me and my kids as often as he can. Never longer than 2 weeks before we see each other. We’re pretty much dating without the commitment. So fast fwd to the beginning of last month. He and I took a vacation together. We get back and I told him I’ll be posting our pic on FB and asked if that was ok. He was fine with it but he blocked me. Mind u, we weren’t even friends on FB prior too our trip. I feel like he blocked me so I couldn’t tag him in our pics... a.m. I over thinking it? Should I even be mad because I am extremely pissed?! I feel slighted by that? Am I tripping? My trust issues are starting to resurface and I feel like he’s trying to hide something.

sorry - seems like it's about time for that discussion

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Idk how to even start that conversation without coming off aggressive.

Posted by PatuniaBroussard

Posted by tctao

Posted by PatuniaBroussard
So I met this man about a yr ago online. We chatted for a few days and had an instant connection. We decided to hangout and see if we really vibe together and we most definitely did. Our first date, we slept together and we’ve been inseparable ever since. We live about 2 hours away from each other and both work crazy hours but he makes sure he comes visit me and my kids as often as he can. Never longer than 2 weeks before we see each other. We’re pretty much dating without the commitment. So fast fwd to the beginning of last month. He and I took a vacation together. We get back and I told him I’ll be posting our pic on FB and asked if that was ok. He was fine with it but he blocked me. Mind u, we weren’t even friends on FB prior too our trip. I feel like he blocked me so I couldn’t tag him in our pics... a.m. I over thinking it? Should I even be mad because I am extremely pissed?! I feel slighted by that? Am I tripping? My trust issues are starting to resurface and I feel like he’s trying to hide something.

sorry - seems like it's about time for that discussion

Idk how to even start that conversation without coming off aggressive.

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that facebook thing is strange - and you need that sorted out - ask him why - and if he is involved with another woman

Posted by tctao

Posted by PatuniaBroussard

Posted by tctao

Posted by PatuniaBroussard
So I met this man about a yr ago online. We chatted for a few days and had an instant connection. We decided to hangout and see if we really vibe together and we most definitely did. Our first date, we slept together and we’ve been inseparable ever since. We live about 2 hours away from each other and both work crazy hours but he makes sure he comes visit me and my kids as often as he can. Never longer than 2 weeks before we see each other. We’re pretty much dating without the commitment. So fast fwd to the beginning of last month. He and I took a vacation together. We get back and I told him I’ll be posting our pic on FB and asked if that was ok. He was fine with it but he blocked me. Mind u, we weren’t even friends on FB prior too our trip. I feel like he blocked me so I couldn’t tag him in our pics... a.m. I over thinking it? Should I even be mad because I am extremely pissed?! I feel slighted by that? Am I tripping? My trust issues are starting to resurface and I feel like he’s trying to hide something.

sorry - seems like it's about time for that discussion

Idk how to even start that conversation without coming off aggressive.

that facebook thing is strange - and you need that sorted out - ask him why - and if he is involved with another woman

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It def is because he knows I don’t get on FB often and we weren’t even friends on FB for me to be able to tag him in any of the pics. Social media isn’t that big of a deal for me for him to block me as if I’d be lurking on his page. But I’ll gather the strength to have that conversation with him.

The thought of him being involved with another woman was the first thought that ran across my mind but I dismissed it because when he’s here, I’ll answe his phone and he doesn’t try to hide it. He doesn’t even have a lock on it. I’ve picked up his phone and font thru his pics to find the pics of myself to send to myself and I’ve never ran across another woman’s pic out side of his family. But then again... men these days, he may have an app with secret hidden folder. And he’ll he probably puts her on call reject when he spends the week with me and my kids. Smh... u never know these days. Dating 2018 sucks!

Posted by tctao

Posted by PatuniaBroussard

Posted by tctao

Posted by PatuniaBroussard
So I met this man about a yr ago online. We chatted for a few days and had an instant connection. We decided to hangout and see if we really vibe together and we most definitely did. Our first date, we slept together and we’ve been inseparable ever since. We live about 2 hours away from each other and both work crazy hours but he makes sure he comes visit me and my kids as often as he can. Never longer than 2 weeks before we see each other. We’re pretty much dating without the commitment. So fast fwd to the beginning of last month. He and I took a vacation together. We get back and I told him I’ll be posting our pic on FB and asked if that was ok. He was fine with it but he blocked me. Mind u, we weren’t even friends on FB prior too our trip. I feel like he blocked me so I couldn’t tag him in our pics... a.m. I over thinking it? Should I even be mad because I am extremely pissed?! I feel slighted by that? Am I tripping? My trust issues are starting to resurface and I feel like he’s trying to hide something.

sorry - seems like it's about time for that discussion

Idk how to even start that conversation without coming off aggressive.

that facebook thing is strange - and you need that sorted out - ask him why - and if he is involved with another woman

click to expand

It def is because he knows I don’t get on FB often and we weren’t even friends on FB for me to be able to tag him in any of the pics. Social media isn’t that big of a deal for me for him to block me as if I’d be lurking on his page. But I’ll gather the strength to have that conversation with him.

The thought of him being involved with another woman was the first thought that ran across my mind but I dismissed it because when he’s here, I’ll answe his phone and he doesn’t try to hide it. He doesn’t even have a lock on it. I’ve picked up his phone and font thru his pics to find the pics of myself to send to myself and I’ve never ran across another woman’s pic out side of his family. But then again... men these days, he may have an app with secret hidden folder. And he’ll he probably puts her on call reject when he spends the week with me and my kids. Smh... u never know these days. Dating 2018 sucks!

"We’re pretty much dating without the commitment."

No you're not. You're his woman when he is away from his main chick.