What’s the general take these days on when to have sex

First meet, definitely 1 night stand or not a keeper and does it differ for men and woman? I think yes.

2nd, 3rd 4th or 5th date or after you’ve discussed compatibility or wants for the future?

Do you think we’re Jumping in the sack too quickly?

I know everyone is different but interested in hearing others take on it

When it feels right for both.

Personally I like to wait. I need to know the person well before I even consider it.

Flip a coin. Then buy plan B.

Posted by Boots1313
Depends on the people.

I've had one night stands, I've had guys I've waiting months with, some after the 2nd date. Depends also on what you are looking for.

I will say most of my long term relationships, we waited a little bit of time before jumping in the sack...but I don't think quickness to do the deed automatically says a long term relationship can't or won't form.

Also from expierence I think a connection is needed to have "good or better sex"

The guy I'm with currently says "sex without love is basically a handjob"

@Boots yes! I’ve noticed long term are generally making them wait a few dates before sex. If I can see potential in someone I’ll make sure we don’t straight away, however, damn it can be soooo hard when it’s a long time between drinks lol

Not only guys Roo! It takes a LOT of self control to stop in the heat of the moment!

For me? ASAP.

Most of my relationships didn't start until after we've had sex, and we basically decide that since we keep having sex, we might as well try going on an actual date. Then it just takes off from there.

So yeah, for me the best way in, is to let me in.

However, I should mention that my most successful relationship was with a girl I dated for about 6 months before we finally had sex. However, this was because it was long distance. We would've fvcked long before that had the relationship been proximal. We had sex the first day we met after those 6 months.

Your a make and I think it’s different from what I’ve seen with make and female. I have loads of single gfs and if they sleep with a guy first night it doesn’t amount to much. Often not even a call or text. They would like a partner so it’s not them that isn’t interested but a lot of men consider them to not be a challenge I guess??

I think there is a danger for some that to believe that if you sleep with them on the first date, you're sleeping with everyone on the first date. That can then lead to a lack of trust.

What is sex? Haven't had it since February 2016 😭

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by EvatheDiva52
What is sex? Haven't had it since February 2016 😭

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

You go girl!

Good to take breaks and reconnect with yourself

Guys don't try sex with me early on even when I let it be known I want too, they always want to wait which I'm happy I'm not viewed as a piece of meat. It also made me realize that a guy that is really into you more than likely is not going to want to rush getting you into bed and instead just allow things to flow naturally and whenever it happens it happens but it won't be the primary reason for their attraction toward you.

New rule for me: No sex until a committed relationship.

It seriously does in this neck of the woods and this day and age...

Girls and Guys screw on the first met, not even on a date! They’re out and meet someone they like and wham bam it’s done and dusted. If a guy even asks you out on a one on one date is different these days. I’m not talking online either. I’m speaking meeting someone randomly that you click with and where from there.

Posted by Lioness18881
First date 🤷

Lol the gif 😂😂😂😂😂

When he tells you he loves you and show it.. then keep his azz waiting at least another month

Posted by Lioness18881

Posted by sweethearts
It seriously does in this neck of the woods and this day and age...

Girls and Guys screw on the first met, not even on a date! They’re out and meet someone they like and wham bam it’s done and dusted. If a guy even asks you out on a one on one date is different these days. I’m not talking online either. I’m speaking meeting someone randomly that you click with and where from there.

Haven't seen you post in a while. I thought you left.

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Hi 👋

I pop in and out to see what’s happening around the boards. So many have gone and it changes the dynamics of the place. Hope you’re well 🙂