I think my boyfriend needs therapy but he refuses to go

My boyfriend keeps getting mad over stupid things. It has gotten to the point that I feel nervous of saying something or doing something wrong that might get him mad.

Just yesterday he asked me to forgive him because he got mad at me and was moody for 2 days straight. I forgave him and today he started another stupid fight again.

I already mentioned to him that maybe we could try going to therapy because I need someone to give feedback on his attitude problems since he won't recognize he's wrong. He says he doesn't need therapy and refuses to go. He recognizes he has anger issues but says he can fix them himself, which I don't see hapenning.

So if I can't help him and he doesn't want to see help what else is there to do? I love him and I know he could get better but I'm getting tired of his behavior.

What would you do?

What sign is he, so we can judge him and tell you what his issue is?! 😁

If he won't go for help, you either tolerate him the way he is or decide to live without him

I was with more than one bloke who needed therapy.....none of them went, whereas I did. None of them were on the road to self improvement...

Posted by Mesquite

Because he's probably on his best behavior right now, it's only going to get worse once he gets more comfortable with time.

You have to decide whether you're willing to put up with this long-term or not.

This

OP, why don't you just dump him if he's not trying to meet you halfway. Are you that desperate for him.

He's a Libra. But he keeps asking me to forgive him just to make the same mistakes over and over again.

So that's why I feel he has some issues going on. Maybe he's frustrated deep inside for some reason.

I really wished I could help him because I love him but if he's not willing to help himself get better I don't think I have a future with him.

Oh he's a Libra, then it sounds like a passive aggressively way to end the ship. I'm sure he has some backup plan in que. Let us know how it turns out.

Men don’t talk about their feelings. Duh.

Posted by pinkbird03

Men don’t talk about their feelings. Duh.

They do! They just articulate them differently then us.

Posted by SlipperySlope

Women have no idea how male minds work but keep on thinking we need some therapy talking about our feelings bullshit meanwhile the more y'all push your lavender scented candle nonsense on us the male suicide the rate keeps going up.

He probably just needs feed more and a good run around outside or someshit, buy a log splitter axe and a big ole pile of whole firewood rounds for him to get stuck into. Then he'll talk to you.

Yeah buy the dude with anger issues an axe, that’ll end well 😅😂 🔪

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by pinkbird03

Men don’t talk about their feelings. Duh.

They do! They just articulate them differently then us.

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True..

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by pinkbird03

Men don’t talk about their feelings. Duh.

They do! They just articulate them differently then us.

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I know nothing about that 😂