@Deedee75
13 Years
I spoke to soon.....my perfect guy went cold
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Come on Deedee don't people go cold when life gets to be too much
what's up with everyone reading way too much into other intentions
its the holidays - most stressful most blue time of the year for many people
I think the long distance makes it 1000 times harder.
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
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You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
It's hard for me to focus if my work ain't right
Awww no you jinxed it
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
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Sag sun
But heavy on the scorp placements rising, mars, mercury
Gem moon
He acts more typical scorpio than I do
You're probably being too clingy.
Shut up! He is coming...then we will know.
I honestly would take a cab...if I want not to speak with clingy someone. He might be cheap ass...we don’t know...unless you know cheap ass...lol
I feel like relationships should be like pillows. Comforting
Yesssss! Can’t wait to get to Aries place tomorrow and get cozy with his dog on my body. She is soooo sexy and she humps me all the time.
Never him or his son. Just me...😂😂😂
if he's REALLY into you then there is no such thing as clingy.....
unless of course you are showing up at his work everyday or some other crazy ish haha
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
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Wait! Scorpio who can dissapear forever...4 hours is even time?
What am I missing here?
What if you don’t pick him up?
Just a wild thought for Scorpio recharge...
Where you we’re going after you pick him up?
The bit that is important is when you feel badly, he withholds or goes aggro.
Do you want to deal with this?
Why would you pick up a guy from the airport who is being an asshole? I'd leave his ass there lol. That's me though.
Because...he IS a...SCORPIO dumbass! Lmao
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
Wait! Scorpio who can dissapear forever...4 hours is even time?
What am I missing here?
What if you don’t pick him up?
Just a wild thought for Scorpio recharge...
Where you we’re going after you pick him up?
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To a hotel for a night, then we head in separate directions for work
The bit that is important is when you feel badly, he withholds or goes aggro.
Do you want to deal with this?
Why would you pick up a guy from the airport who is being an asshole? I'd leave his ass there lol. That's me though.
Because...he IS a...SCORPIO dumbass! Lmao
He is a Sag, she is a Scorpio but I will let this one slide Tati lol.
I love it when you call people stupid when you are wrong, it makes me laugh haha.
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I like to be wrong calling people stupid but somehow I’ve never been wrong...🤷♀️
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
Wait! Scorpio who can dissapear forever...4 hours is even time?
What am I missing here?
What if you don’t pick him up?
Just a wild thought for Scorpio recharge...
Where you we’re going after you pick him up?
To a hotel for a night, then we head in separate directions for work
He is being cold to you and you plan to sleep with him right away? My gut tells me this is gonna end so badly.
He got back with a text? What did it say?
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We've been sleeping together for months.
Text said that he didnt get back to me right away because he didn't know what to say. Asked why everything has to be a roller coaster with me.
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
Wait! Scorpio who can dissapear forever...4 hours is even time?
What am I missing here?
What if you don’t pick him up?
Just a wild thought for Scorpio recharge...
Where you we’re going after you pick him up?
To a hotel for a night, then we head in separate directions for work
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I would NEVER consider man who can’t pay for a cab making me pick him up EVEN if I’ve offered...
It’s no man!
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
Wait! Scorpio who can dissapear forever...4 hours is even time?
What am I missing here?
What if you don’t pick him up?
Just a wild thought for Scorpio recharge...
Where you we’re going after you pick him up?
To a hotel for a night, then we head in separate directions for work
I would NEVER consider man who can’t pay for a cab making me pick him up EVEN if I’ve offered...
It’s no man!
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Lmao.
He can afford a cab. I wanted to pick him up
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
Wait! Scorpio who can dissapear forever...4 hours is even time?
What am I missing here?
What if you don’t pick him up?
Just a wild thought for Scorpio recharge...
Where you we’re going after you pick him up?
To a hotel for a night, then we head in separate directions for work
I would NEVER consider man who can’t pay for a cab making me pick him up EVEN if I’ve offered...
It’s no man!
Lmao.
He can afford a cab. I wanted to pick him up
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Because you didn’t know he will be an ass!
Go get him. Cry later...
Dxp all ears...
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
Wait! Scorpio who can dissapear forever...4 hours is even time?
What am I missing here?
What if you don’t pick him up?
Just a wild thought for Scorpio recharge...
Where you we’re going after you pick him up?
To a hotel for a night, then we head in separate directions for work
He is being cold to you and you plan to sleep with him right away? My gut tells me this is gonna end so badly.
He got back with a text? What did it say?
We've been sleeping together for months.
Text said that he didnt get back to me right away because he didn't know what to say. Asked why everything has to be a roller coaster with me.
Ohhh I thought he was just some fresh strange copping attitude haha. My bad.
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Naaah. Reg low ass goof...lmao
Dee, text him and say you can't wait to see him xx
Men sometimes can only handle one thing at a time.....he's under pressure.
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
Wait! Scorpio who can dissapear forever...4 hours is even time?
What am I missing here?
What if you don’t pick him up?
Just a wild thought for Scorpio recharge...
Where you we’re going after you pick him up?
To a hotel for a night, then we head in separate directions for work
He is being cold to you and you plan to sleep with him right away? My gut tells me this is gonna end so badly.
He got back with a text? What did it say?
We've been sleeping together for months.
Text said that he didnt get back to me right away because he didn't know what to say. Asked why everything has to be a roller coaster with me.
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That was an interesting question he asked.
So hes noticed that there has been some drama
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
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The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
4 hours for a Scorpio is a long time.
My condolences
He texted a few minutes ago but you're right, 4 hours is an eternity.
Wait! Scorpio who can dissapear forever...4 hours is even time?
What am I missing here?
What if you don’t pick him up?
Just a wild thought for Scorpio recharge...
Where you we’re going after you pick him up?
To a hotel for a night, then we head in separate directions for work
He is being cold to you and you plan to sleep with him right away? My gut tells me this is gonna end so badly.
He got back with a text? What did it say?
We've been sleeping together for months.
Text said that he didnt get back to me right away because he didn't know what to say. Asked why everything has to be a roller coaster with me.
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This question seems to mean that you are showing tons of insecurities and he sees them. He’s wondering why you’re acting crazy now.
You are set to see him, correct? You seem to be over thinking before his time with you, when you should be looking forward to the visit.
He’s gonna want a fun time. Not a stressful one. You need to take a deep breath and breathe. Think happy thoughts or something and chill out.
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
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No, it's not 4 hours, it's the last 7-10 days.
Anyways.....he is boarding his plane now. Everything is fine and he gave me an oscar for best leading actress in a drama
Anyways.....he is boarding his plane now. Everything is fine and he gave me an oscar for best leading actress in a drama
Did he communicate to you why he's been distant for 7 to 10 days
I Dont LIKE long distance cause I can't keep an eye on a person
never met a sag I'd trust
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Hard to be romantic when he is so busy with work
That was his words
I don't think that he's a cheater. We have a intense connection. He won't find another me
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
No, it's not 4 hours, it's the last 7-10 days.
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That he's been in and out of contact or no contact at all?
He has a plan set and he knows he will see you soon, so maybe he's trying to leave something to talk about. This may be the beginning of him slacking off, which is typical of Sagittarius.
Is he coming in today? Have you got/sent a confirmation text that you're picking him up at whatever time?
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
No, it's not 4 hours, it's the last 7-10 days.
That he's been in and out of contact or no contact at all?
He has a plan set and he knows he will see you soon, so maybe he's trying to leave something to talk about. This may be the beginning of him slacking off, which is typical of Sagittarius.
Is he coming in today? Have you got/sent a confirmation text that you're picking him up at whatever time?
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Yes.
Last night I texted that I was not coming.
This morning he replied that he expects to see me there along with a bunch of cute stuff
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
No, it's not 4 hours, it's the last 7-10 days.
That he's been in and out of contact or no contact at all?
He has a plan set and he knows he will see you soon, so maybe he's trying to leave something to talk about. This may be the beginning of him slacking off, which is typical of Sagittarius.
Is he coming in today? Have you got/sent a confirmation text that you're picking him up at whatever time?
Yes.
Last night I texted that I was not coming.
This morning he replied that he expects to see me there along with a bunch of cute stuff
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You're tripping. You're gonna stress this man out lol
Well at least you know your all set for time with him. And he knows your crazy, but you care! 😛
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
No, it's not 4 hours, it's the last 7-10 days.
That he's been in and out of contact or no contact at all?
He has a plan set and he knows he will see you soon, so maybe he's trying to leave something to talk about. This may be the beginning of him slacking off, which is typical of Sagittarius.
Is he coming in today? Have you got/sent a confirmation text that you're picking him up at whatever time?
Yes.
Last night I texted that I was not coming.
This morning he replied that he expects to see me there along with a bunch of cute stuff
You're tripping. You're gonna stress this man out lol
Well at least you know your all set for time with him. And he knows your crazy, but you care! 😛
https://pics.me.me/thumb_when-you-see-your-dick-appointment-pulling-up-after-you-35718853.png
Lol at that pic .... cracking up 😂
Anyways.....he is boarding his plane now. Everything is fine and he gave me an oscar for best leading actress in a drama
Lmao! This is too cute though! He is probably cracking up over it 😆
When I was in a LDR I was like a mad woman at times .... it brought out the 😈 in me...
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
No, it's not 4 hours, it's the last 7-10 days.
That he's been in and out of contact or no contact at all?
He has a plan set and he knows he will see you soon, so maybe he's trying to leave something to talk about. This may be the beginning of him slacking off, which is typical of Sagittarius.
Is he coming in today? Have you got/sent a confirmation text that you're picking him up at whatever time?
Yes.
Last night I texted that I was not coming.
This morning he replied that he expects to see me there along with a bunch of cute stuff
You're tripping. You're gonna stress this man out lol
Well at least you know your all set for time with him. And he knows your crazy, but you care! 😛
https://pics.me.me/thumb_when-you-see-your-dick-appointment-pulling-up-after-you-35718853.png
lmao this is all women want. Like I know I told you no but I need to know how strong your rapey tendencies are. Joking about the rape part but the sentiments remain.
We just want to see that a man's desire for us is strong than his ego.
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
No, it's not 4 hours, it's the last 7-10 days.
That he's been in and out of contact or no contact at all?
He has a plan set and he knows he will see you soon, so maybe he's trying to leave something to talk about. This may be the beginning of him slacking off, which is typical of Sagittarius.
Is he coming in today? Have you got/sent a confirmation text that you're picking him up at whatever time?
Yes.
Last night I texted that I was not coming.
This morning he replied that he expects to see me there along with a bunch of cute stuff
You're tripping. You're gonna stress this man out lol
Well at least you know your all set for time with him. And he knows your crazy, but you care! 😛
lmao this is all women want. Like I know I told you no but I need to know how strong your rapey tendencies are. Joking about the rape part but the sentiments remain.
We just want to see that a man's desire for us is strong than his ego.
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Men sometimes want this too but my ego is stronger 😭 I never fight for anyone.
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
No, it's not 4 hours, it's the last 7-10 days.
That he's been in and out of contact or no contact at all?
He has a plan set and he knows he will see you soon, so maybe he's trying to leave something to talk about. This may be the beginning of him slacking off, which is typical of Sagittarius.
Is he coming in today? Have you got/sent a confirmation text that you're picking him up at whatever time?
Yes.
Last night I texted that I was not coming.
This morning he replied that he expects to see me there along with a bunch of cute stuff
You're tripping. You're gonna stress this man out lol
Well at least you know your all set for time with him. And he knows your crazy, but you care! 😛
lmao this is all women want. Like I know I told you no but I need to know how strong your rapey tendencies are. Joking about the rape part but the sentiments remain.
We just want to see that a man's desire for us is strong than his ego.
Men sometimes want this too but my ego is stronger 😭 I never fight for anyone.
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If a guy tells me no then I don't fight. I don't know a lot of women who do? I think it's more of a manly trait to keep trying ...
Also it's more of a feminine trait to want that... not a lot of men will tell you no but feel like yes.
You're probably being too clingy.
Probably
I'm not clingy in person but the distance makes me crazy.
Don't sabotage. He is coming tomorrow and you're questioning him the day before. Not a good look
You're right.
I always sabotage. It's like I don't know how to be happy
@saggurl88 any advice
i believe she's dating a SAG
The whole thread was based on him not contacting for 4 hours? And she made plans to pick him up at the airport?
It seems like he’s busy packing, getting his travel stuff together, and everything is set to see her.
I don’t see anything cold about this.
No, it's not 4 hours, it's the last 7-10 days.
That he's been in and out of contact or no contact at all?
He has a plan set and he knows he will see you soon, so maybe he's trying to leave something to talk about. This may be the beginning of him slacking off, which is typical of Sagittarius.
Is he coming in today? Have you got/sent a confirmation text that you're picking him up at whatever time?
Yes.
Last night I texted that I was not coming.
This morning he replied that he expects to see me there along with a bunch of cute stuff
You're tripping. You're gonna stress this man out lol
Well at least you know your all set for time with him. And he knows your crazy, but you care! 😛
lmao this is all women want. Like I know I told you no but I need to know how strong your rapey tendencies are. Joking about the rape part but the sentiments remain.
We just want to see that a man's desire for us is strong than his ego.
Men sometimes want this too but my ego is stronger 😭 I never fight for anyone.
If a guy tells me no then I don't fight. I don't know a lot of women who do? I think it's more of a manly trait to keep trying ...
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Very true! I agree! 🙂
When I was in a LDR I was like a mad woman at times .... it brought out the 😈 in me...
Shit ain't natural!
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Sure ain’t 🥴
Our date is done.
We won't see each other again until January 25.
He is still perfect.
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I'm trying to understand
He is in a tough situation workwise
But he went cold the past week
At first I played cool but mentioned it and he got aggravated
I'm supposed to pick him up at the airport tomorrow but I'm not sure anymore
When I told him that he is acting like he doesn't even want to see me, he just went silent. This was all by text. It's been 4 hours.