I was watching the ID channel

Which is one of my fave channels. It was a story about a married man that was having an affair for 2 years & the homewrecker had his baby. Husband told wife, wife ends up wanting to stay for the sake of her family but only if her husband tells his putana that he will no longer be seeing her..Husband tells the putana it's over , putana kills wife.. 3 kids are left with no mom.. I see these kinda stories all the time on tv & IRL .. What's so fascinating about a married man to these desperate women ? I know it takes two to tango but more & more women are going after married men..Sorry ladies, but it's the truth! There's so many other men that aren't married, that don't have kids & are marriage material.. No matter if the guy is aggressively throwing himself at u & is the hottest thing on earth - he's taken! But some women are turned on by a taken man smh

I watch that channel too ...like the thrill .

I agree with you ..but when someone astray then he /she is only responsible not the third party. But i agree why choose a taken man/woman ?

Posted by cap..
I watch that channel too ...like the thrill .

I agree with you ..but when someone astray then he /she is only responsible not the third party. But i agree why choose a taken man/woman ?

I understand not everyone has the same turn ons, likes the same things -everyone is different.. But I know women who are only attracted to married men . Wth ? I can never understand that & im one of the most understanding ppl out here lol

Posted by yupvirgoo
*cringe

I've met women like these before.

And they can be really aggressive.

Their seduction skills are on fleek, you won't notice you've been cornered and they will literally grab you down there. The best escape plan is to pretend to go with the flow then tell them you left something somewhere then immediately run off and not come back.

Then you just pretend nothing happened the next day.

If they bring it up smile and insist that: "Oh I knew you're just joking, you're so funny you." *fake chuckles

Hhaha that's a good way to get outta being cornered.. I guess it really arouses some women to do these type of things.. I don't like to share so I don't know how being with a married man can make a person feel good about themselves lol

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Posted by cap..
I watch that channel too ...like the thrill .

I agree with you ..but when someone astray then he /she is only responsible not the third party. But i agree why choose a taken man/woman ?

I understand not everyone has the same turn ons, likes the same things -everyone is different.. But I know women who are only attracted to married men . Wth ? I can never understand that & im one of the most understanding ppl out here lol

But have you asked them why?

I have a feeling that if I ask women like that such a question, they would take it as an invitation.

*cringe

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Yes, I've asked them why .. One said she gets a rush from it , sneaking around & the other one openly admitted she has insecurity issues . At least she admitted that lol

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I feel u my Taurus friend

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Posted by SofiaV87
Which is one of my fave channels. It was a story about a married man that was having an affair for 2 years & the homewrecker had his baby. Husband told wife, wife ends up wanting to stay for the sake of her family but only if her husband tells his putana that he will no longer be seeing her..Husband tells the putana it's over , putana kills wife.. 3 kids are left with no mom.. I see these kinda stories all the time on tv & IRL .. What's so fascinating about a married man to these desperate women ? I know it takes two to tango but more & more women are going after married men..Sorry ladies, but it's the truth! There's so many other men that aren't married, that don't have kids & are marriage material.. No matter if the guy is aggressively throwing himself at u & is the hottest thing on earth - he's taken! But some women are turned on by a taken man smh

I see the homewrecker thing go both ways.

At my old workplace this girl had an affair with this married dude.

But karma comes back around. Now she has trust issues and doesn't ever want to marry

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Oh yea , it def goes both ways.. I just happen to see more women going after married men them men going after a married woman.. Maybe it's the area I live in

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Posted by cap..
I watch that channel too ...like the thrill .

I agree with you ..but when someone astray then he /she is only responsible not the third party. But i agree why choose a taken man/woman ?

I understand not everyone has the same turn ons, likes the same things -everyone is different.. But I know women who are only attracted to married men . Wth ? I can never understand that & im one of the most understanding ppl out here lol

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I've speculated that the impetus to do such a thing is partially instinctual. Like nearly every other species in the animal kingdom, humans are looking for a competent and compatible partner. For a woman, a competent male partner is someone who can commit to her and provides the life style (financial) security that she needs (I think, first and foremost), as well as the emotional availability that she wants.

A married man tends to check all of these boxes. Statistically, a married man is well-educated; he's responsible; he has an income; and, most importantly, he can commit. If women’s most cliché complaint about dating men is that they resist settling down, it figures that they would be attracted to a man who has signed up for a legally binding romance.

I honestly think this is a big reason why some women are drawn to married men. It's hard for me to believe that a single woman doesn't, on some level, take notice of a taken man. Here is a guy who can take care of himself and his partner and has dedicated himself to one person for the rest of his life. What woman wouldn't instinctively find that even slightly attractive?

However, this instinct theory of mine is one that I think only excuses the initial attraction on the part of the woman. The attraction for most ladies is fleeting, after which moral reasoning takes over and prevents them from acting on that attraction. Besides, most women know not to pursue a married man because to do so with the idea in mind that "oh, here is a man who can be committed to a woman for the long haul" is quite self-defeating. If he's willing to abandon his current partner for his female suitor, then he doesn't actually possess that so-admired committal trait, does he? 😆

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Posted by cap..
I watch that channel too ...like the thrill .

I agree with you ..but when someone astray then he /she is only responsible not the third party. But i agree why choose a taken man/woman ?

I understand not everyone has the same turn ons, likes the same things -everyone is different.. But I know women who are only attracted to married men . Wth ? I can never understand that & im one of the most understanding ppl out here lol

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True . Different people have different turn ons .

I think they do not filter relationship status and just go after what they want.

The other category could be those who want no strings attached who better could do that than married ones.

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Posted by SofiaV87

Posted by cap..
I watch that channel too ...like the thrill .

I agree with you ..but when someone astray then he /she is only responsible not the third party. But i agree why choose a taken man/woman ?

I understand not everyone has the same turn ons, likes the same things -everyone is different.. But I know women who are only attracted to married men . Wth ? I can never understand that & im one of the most understanding ppl out here lol

But have you asked them why?

I have a feeling that if I ask women like that such a question, they would take it as an invitation.

*cringe

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haha yeah you never know....they may take it as invitation. Other than that i dont think they will be honest .No one wants to admit confused morals (if i may use the term).

I have come across guys like that who can take even courtesy as invitation . Strange

Posted by SofiaV87
Which is one of my fave channels. It was a story about a married man that was having an affair for 2 years & the homewrecker had his baby. Husband told wife, wife ends up wanting to stay for the sake of her family but only if her husband tells his putana that he will no longer be seeing her..Husband tells the putana it's over , putana kills wife.. 3 kids are left with no mom.. I see these kinda stories all the time on tv & IRL .. What's so fascinating about a married man to these desperate women ? I know it takes two to tango but more & more women are going after married men..Sorry ladies, but it's the truth! There's so many other men that aren't married, that don't have kids & are marriage material.. No matter if the guy is aggressively throwing himself at u & is the hottest thing on earth - he's taken! But some women are turned on by a taken man smh

Hey sexy I am not married.

Posted by SofiaV87
Which is one of my fave channels. It was a story about a married man that was having an affair for 2 years & the homewrecker had his baby. Husband told wife, wife ends up wanting to stay for the sake of her family but only if her husband tells his putana that he will no longer be seeing her..Husband tells the putana it's over , putana kills wife.. 3 kids are left with no mom.. I see these kinda stories all the time on tv & IRL .. What's so fascinating about a married man to these desperate women ? I know it takes two to tango but more & more women are going after married men..Sorry ladies, but it's the truth! There's so many other men that aren't married, that don't have kids & are marriage material.. No matter if the guy is aggressively throwing himself at u & is the hottest thing on earth - he's taken! But some women are turned on by a taken man smh

I think it can be a self esteem issue. The woman thinks that getting the man to cheat proves that she is better than the wife.

I can think of one more thing. May be some people get a kick out being chosen over someone else. Makes them feel better . May be they feel that they are loved and other is just an obligation

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Posted by SofiaV87
Which is one of my fave channels. It was a story about a married man that was having an affair for 2 years & the homewrecker had his baby. Husband told wife, wife ends up wanting to stay for the sake of her family but only if her husband tells his putana that he will no longer be seeing her..Husband tells the putana it's over , putana kills wife.. 3 kids are left with no mom.. I see these kinda stories all the time on tv & IRL .. What's so fascinating about a married man to these desperate women ? I know it takes two to tango but more & more women are going after married men..Sorry ladies, but it's the truth! There's so many other men that aren't married, that don't have kids & are marriage material.. No matter if the guy is aggressively throwing himself at u & is the hottest thing on earth - he's taken! But some women are turned on by a taken man smh

I think it can be a self esteem issue. The woman thinks that getting the man to cheat proves that she is better than the wife.

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wow i just said that. Exactly my point

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Posted by SofiaV87

Posted by cap..
I watch that channel too ...like the thrill .

I agree with you ..but when someone astray then he /she is only responsible not the third party. But i agree why choose a taken man/woman ?

I understand not everyone has the same turn ons, likes the same things -everyone is different.. But I know women who are only attracted to married men . Wth ? I can never understand that & im one of the most understanding ppl out here lol

True . Different people have different turn ons .

I think they do not filter relationship status and just go after what they want.

The other category could be those who want no strings attached who better could do that than married ones.

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Yea married ones & single guys that just want to bang away with no strings attached .. There's plenty of them too hahaha

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Posted by SofiaV87
Which is one of my fave channels. It was a story about a married man that was having an affair for 2 years & the homewrecker had his baby. Husband told wife, wife ends up wanting to stay for the sake of her family but only if her husband tells his putana that he will no longer be seeing her..Husband tells the putana it's over , putana kills wife.. 3 kids are left with no mom.. I see these kinda stories all the time on tv & IRL .. What's so fascinating about a married man to these desperate women ? I know it takes two to tango but more & more women are going after married men..Sorry ladies, but it's the truth! There's so many other men that aren't married, that don't have kids & are marriage material.. No matter if the guy is aggressively throwing himself at u & is the hottest thing on earth - he's taken! But some women are turned on by a taken man smh

Hey sexy I am not married.

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Lol

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by SofiaV87
Which is one of my fave channels. It was a story about a married man that was having an affair for 2 years & the homewrecker had his baby. Husband told wife, wife ends up wanting to stay for the sake of her family but only if her husband tells his putana that he will no longer be seeing her..Husband tells the putana it's over , putana kills wife.. 3 kids are left with no mom.. I see these kinda stories all the time on tv & IRL .. What's so fascinating about a married man to these desperate women ? I know it takes two to tango but more & more women are going after married men..Sorry ladies, but it's the truth! There's so many other men that aren't married, that don't have kids & are marriage material.. No matter if the guy is aggressively throwing himself at u & is the hottest thing on earth - he's taken! But some women are turned on by a taken man smh

I think it can be a self esteem issue. The woman thinks that getting the man to cheat proves that she is better than the wife.

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Yea I agree.. I wouldn't feel better, I would feel guilty, terrible & dirty lol