Rainbow87
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Libra boyfriend thinks I’m selfish if I don’t loan him money
You feel ashamed posting this story, yet you're well aware of your situation and not seeking advice.
So what are you looking for? Attention? Enablers? A pity party?
I have a feeling this isn't your first time playing martyr.
So what are you looking for? Attention? Enablers? A pity party?
I have a feeling this isn't your first time playing martyr.
Posted by Rainbow87
I know I should’ve dumped my Libra man a long time ago but I’m stupid and I have forgiven him many times since I sincerely love him but I don’t think he loves me at all.
Unfortunately, until you do not take firm decision to break up with this guy (and based on what you have said, it will be extremely hard, he seems like a person to stalk, beg and put on a shit show and you as a Cancer can not detach and help yourself with savior complex), no one can help.
There is a reason this proverb exists: "There is no point in offering a helping hand to someone who wants to drown".
Quit treating your relationship like therapy. It's gross that he uses you, but it's also gross that you keep him around for stupid reasons, such as making you feel wanted, because you're using him as much as he's using you.
He's clearly not relationship material and is only looking for mommy #2. Dude's a mooch. Libra mooches aren't ones to keep around. This type of Libra only sees people as a means to an end for them and everyone serves a purpose in their life. You're nothing but a second caretaker to him.
You admit to taking him back stupidly, but like someone else mentioned, you're asking.... what, exactly? For someone to say "aw poor baby?" I mean really, "Should I be selfish and say no?" Dahell kind of dysfunctional bullshit is that? You need to seek professional help if you think telling someone "no" is being selfish when they're selfishly taking advantage of you.
Grow a pair and ditch the loser. If you had a friend who had a user/loser boyfriend like this, you'd want them to ditch the loser. Why is it different when it's yourself?
He's clearly not relationship material and is only looking for mommy #2. Dude's a mooch. Libra mooches aren't ones to keep around. This type of Libra only sees people as a means to an end for them and everyone serves a purpose in their life. You're nothing but a second caretaker to him.
You admit to taking him back stupidly, but like someone else mentioned, you're asking.... what, exactly? For someone to say "aw poor baby?" I mean really, "Should I be selfish and say no?" Dahell kind of dysfunctional bullshit is that? You need to seek professional help if you think telling someone "no" is being selfish when they're selfishly taking advantage of you.
Grow a pair and ditch the loser. If you had a friend who had a user/loser boyfriend like this, you'd want them to ditch the loser. Why is it different when it's yourself?
You're actually being a doormat for this loser
All I heard was he ain't got no weed money and probably thinks he cant operate with out it.
On one hand, he’s right. Why are you together if you’re not going to be there for the other person. It all feels wrong because he’s a grown ass man asking a woman for money.
Maybe find out why he is so financially strained all the time. Help him make a budget. How much money is he bringing in versus going out.
Where is his money going?
Maybe find out why he is so financially strained all the time. Help him make a budget. How much money is he bringing in versus going out.
Where is his money going?
I used to be in your situation…
I’m a Cancer rising. people lining up to take advantage of me. One man/woman after another always asking me for money. People I know, barely know.
I was getting my hair done one day and this guy walks into the salon, and asks me for money in front of the whole salon. He wasn’t even a bum. But for some reason he was drawn to me. I said no and I could tell he was angry.
There was a sag who asked me for money to pay his phone bill. The night before he told me he loved me. So I was immediately suspicious.
It got to a point where I didn’t care about others feelings and me not being liked by them. I’m going to stick up for myself and I don’t care if it means I will have zero friends. People should enjoy me for me and I shouldn’t have to give them money in order to be liked.
I flat out accused the sag of trying to manipulate me with love to get money and how he wasn’t shyt for it. He apologized and swore up and down that I was misled blah blah blah but guess what, he no longer asks me for money.
Some people will use my caring nurturing nature against me and I have to be cautious of that.
Put your foot down and get to the heart of his financial woes.
Plenty of people hiring so he can pick up an extra shift
I’m a Cancer rising. people lining up to take advantage of me. One man/woman after another always asking me for money. People I know, barely know.
I was getting my hair done one day and this guy walks into the salon, and asks me for money in front of the whole salon. He wasn’t even a bum. But for some reason he was drawn to me. I said no and I could tell he was angry.
There was a sag who asked me for money to pay his phone bill. The night before he told me he loved me. So I was immediately suspicious.
It got to a point where I didn’t care about others feelings and me not being liked by them. I’m going to stick up for myself and I don’t care if it means I will have zero friends. People should enjoy me for me and I shouldn’t have to give them money in order to be liked.
I flat out accused the sag of trying to manipulate me with love to get money and how he wasn’t shyt for it. He apologized and swore up and down that I was misled blah blah blah but guess what, he no longer asks me for money.
Some people will use my caring nurturing nature against me and I have to be cautious of that.
Put your foot down and get to the heart of his financial woes.
Plenty of people hiring so he can pick up an extra shift
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Librasetting777
All I heard was he ain't got no weed money and probably thinks he cant operate with out it.
Typical Libra man. 🚬click to expand
yeah a basic bitch lol
Depends on why he is financially strained.
Does he make less then you (or got his hours and/or pay cut during the pandemic) and the rent and bills are more then his salary can handle? Or is he hiding an onlyfans and online gambling addiction?
If its the first... yes help him. He is your partner and even when things are 50/50 they are never truly 50/50. Sometimes one person picks up the slack. But part of that comes with you both sitting down to come up with a plan to stretch his income or have him contribute in other ways to the household.
If its the second then his priorities aren't right. You've hitched your wagon to a donkey instead of a stallion and he's got 3 lame legs. Gotta pay your rent and bills before anything else, this is just part of adulting. Nobody wants to parent their partner, nothing kills the romance faster.
I'm not going to tell you to dump him over one negative. You should decide that for yourself.
Does he make less then you (or got his hours and/or pay cut during the pandemic) and the rent and bills are more then his salary can handle? Or is he hiding an onlyfans and online gambling addiction?
If its the first... yes help him. He is your partner and even when things are 50/50 they are never truly 50/50. Sometimes one person picks up the slack. But part of that comes with you both sitting down to come up with a plan to stretch his income or have him contribute in other ways to the household.
If its the second then his priorities aren't right. You've hitched your wagon to a donkey instead of a stallion and he's got 3 lame legs. Gotta pay your rent and bills before anything else, this is just part of adulting. Nobody wants to parent their partner, nothing kills the romance faster.
I'm not going to tell you to dump him over one negative. You should decide that for yourself.
Posted by Rainbow87
Hi
I feel so ashamed posting this. I know I should’ve dumped my Libra man a long time ago but I’m stupid and I have forgiven him many times since I sincerely love him but I don’t think he loves me at all.
He is really bad with his finances and the first person he asks for money whenever he’s short is me. We keep our finances separately. I’ve helped him many times and he always pays me back but I’m tired of him never having his own savings and always asking for $ $ $ like I’m an ATM machine.
Since we live together, when the rent was due this past month, he told me to wait 2 weeks because he didn’t had the money ready for the rent. We pay 50/50 of the rent. The electric bill was also due which he pays because I pay for other bills and I had to help him pay that too besides the rent. Just when he finally payed me back, my boyfriend had no shame and asked me again if I could lend him money because he did something stupid and damaged his phone!! Now he has no phone and no money to buy another one. He’s acting offended because I was firm and told him I was not giving him more money.
Just now we were talking and I told him I don’t want him to get into the habit of asking me for money when he should have his own savings. He told me: “then why do I have a partner if I can’t count on you?” According to him, I’m the bad guy of the situation. Is it okay for me to be selfish and not let him take advantage of me? It’s not my fault that his phone doesn’t work and that he doesn’t have money for a new one.
Read your post history. There are plenty of reasons to break up. This is the same guy who insults you and sleeps on the couch right?
After that look into your codependency issues. Fear of being alone and people being displeased with you. Do you value yourself that little?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by LadyNeptune
Depends on why he is financially strained.
Does he make less then you (or got his hours and/or pay cut during the pandemic) and the rent and bills are more then his salary can handle? Or is he hiding an onlyfans and online gambling addiction?
If its the first... yes help him. He is your partner and even when things are 50/50 they are never truly 50/50. Sometimes one person picks up the slack. But part of that comes with you both sitting down to come up with a plan to stretch his income or have him contribute in other ways to the household.
If its the second then his priorities aren't right. You've hitched your wagon to a donkey instead of a stallion and he's got 3 lame legs. Gotta pay your rent and bills before anything else, this is just part of adulting. Nobody wants to parent their partner, nothing kills the romance faster.
I'm not going to tell you to dump him over one negative. You should decide that for yourself.
If he's hung like a donkey no wonder she's still with him.click to expand
gotta weigh the strengths and weaknesses
He has a stable job so there’s no excuse for him not to have money. The problem is that he doesn’t know how to busget and manage it well. He never saves a penny so when there’s an emergency, it seems like I’m his only option since I take care of my money and have my savings. I’ve helped him many times but enough is enough. He has no shame to ask.
Posted by Rainbow87
He has a stable job so there’s no excuse for him not to have money. The problem is that he doesn’t know how to busget and manage it well. He never saves a penny so when there’s an emergency, it seems like I’m his only option since I take care of my money and have my savings. I’ve helped him many times but enough is enough. He has no shame to ask.
I think if he expects you to be his bank and loan him money every month then you can claim bank privilege's of charging him interest and having access to his financials to see what he is spending and where he is spending. Its only fair
He ask what you are there for if not give him money. Well what is he there for if he can’t help u pay for rent, bills, take you out, treat you on dates ect. What is he there for sex?
You want to help give him a flip phone and he start start saving for his own iPhone replacement.
Posted by PlowSeasonPosted by DMV
On one hand, he’s right. Why are you together if you’re not going to be there for the other person. It all feels wrong because he’s a grown ass man asking a woman for money.
Maybe find out why he is so financially strained all the time. Help him make a budget. How much money is he bringing in versus going out.
Where is his money going?
Wait a minute, how isn't he the partner that's not there for her? Fucking your partner over financially every week or month is not being there for them lol. That's really letting them down.click to expand
If you’re in a relationship with someone, you help them out.
If you don’t want to help them out, you leave the relationship.
He is there for her, all she is complaining about is money. He probably feels like he’s picking up the slack in other areas.
Posted by alexscaries
Flip it round if you were asking him to borrow money all the time and you couldn't pay 50% bills would you expect him to stay?
Exactly
I'm pretty sure most cell service companies have those payment plans where you pay an extra $ 25ish per month on your cell bill to pay off a phone. What does he really need the money for?
Posted by Rainbow87
He has a stable job so there’s no excuse for him not to have money. The problem is that he doesn’t know how to busget and manage it well. He never saves a penny so when there’s an emergency, it seems like I’m his only option since I take care of my money and have my savings. I’ve helped him many times but enough is enough. He has no shame to ask.
What does he spend his money on?
i paid for my libra uncle's water bills
and had a libra ex
they have crap control of their finances
and had a libra ex
they have crap control of their finances
He doesn’t tell me specifically how he spends his money. He’s a lot older than me and with sons from a previous relationship! But his sons are not children anymore. The youngest is 18 and the oldest 24. He still supports his sons. The youngest doesn’t work and has a girlfriend. My BF actually gives his son money to take his girlfriend out on dates. I have told him his son should become financially independent but he says he’s too “young” and needs to focus on school. So I’m sure a big part of his money goes to his adult sons. If he wants to continue supporting them that’s fine but he needs to pay his bills and not ask me when he rans out of money.
He has not specifically told me how much he gives his sons monthly. If he’s on a tight budget, his sons are fully capable of working. They could help out.
He has not specifically told me how much he gives his sons monthly. If he’s on a tight budget, his sons are fully capable of working. They could help out.
Are you kidding me—— This guy constantly borrows money from you and you've never asked him what he is doing with his money?? Why not? He stopped sleeping with you 7 months ago and you're still helping him financially? Girl what is wrong with you? He's using you. For all you know he could be spending HIS money on another woman and you're picking up the slack. No, just HELL NO.
Posted by _elle_
11 months ago he started calling you names.
7 months ago he stopped sleeping with you and started sleeping on the couch unless he wanted sex.
Now he is getting upset you don't give him money (These are not loans)
Imo, you are in an abusive toxic relationship and as codependent on him as he is you.
It's time to make a plan to exit this mess.
👀
Posted by Rainbow87
He doesn’t tell me specifically how he spends his money. He’s a lot older than me and with sons from a previous relationship! But his sons are not children anymore. The youngest is 18 and the oldest 24. He still supports his sons. The youngest doesn’t work and has a girlfriend. My BF actually gives his son money to take his girlfriend out on dates. I have told him his son should become financially independent but he says he’s too “young” and needs to focus on school. So I’m sure a big part of his money goes to his adult sons. If he wants to continue supporting them that’s fine but he needs to pay his bills and not ask me when he rans out of money.
He has not specifically told me how much he gives his sons monthly. If he’s on a tight budget, his sons are fully capable of working. They could help out.
Makes sense
Posted by MareInfamePosted by DMVPosted by PlowSeasonPosted by DMV
On one hand, he’s right. Why are you together if you’re not going to be there for the other person. It all feels wrong because he’s a grown ass man asking a woman for money.
Maybe find out why he is so financially strained all the time. Help him make a budget. How much money is he bringing in versus going out.
Where is his money going?
Wait a minute, how isn't he the partner that's not there for her? Fucking your partner over financially every week or month is not being there for them lol. That's really letting them down.
If you’re in a relationship with someone, you help them out.
If you don’t want to help them out, you leave the relationship.
He is there for her, all she is complaining about is money. He probably feels like he’s picking up the slack in other areas.
Depends on what you define as “helping out”. Bc if you define helping out to be an ATM machine at his every whim… then I fully disagree with you.
If helping out means teach him to save money and stop depending on gfriend and done become his ENABLER… then I agree - we should help each other out in relationships 🙃.
Also - not a good idea to assume so much. We really don’t know how he behaves overall.click to expand
Making assumptions is the best part about DXP 🤪
Well you are selfish.
You got into a relationship and expected him to be equal to you in finances and everything, but he clearly doesn’t make enough or have enough to equate to you.
If it was him being the breadwinner, you would call him selfish and feel he didn’t love you if he expected you to pay him back every $ he loaned you. You’d call him cheap.
Don’t date someone who can’t bring the money equal to yours and expect them to keep up.
You pick someone who needs you to be the breadwinner. That’s on you.
Break up with him if you don’t want to provide for him.
You got into a relationship and expected him to be equal to you in finances and everything, but he clearly doesn’t make enough or have enough to equate to you.
If it was him being the breadwinner, you would call him selfish and feel he didn’t love you if he expected you to pay him back every $ he loaned you. You’d call him cheap.
Don’t date someone who can’t bring the money equal to yours and expect them to keep up.
You pick someone who needs you to be the breadwinner. That’s on you.
Break up with him if you don’t want to provide for him.
Posted by Rainbow87
He doesn’t tell me specifically how he spends his money. He’s a lot older than me and with sons from a previous relationship! But his sons are not children anymore. The youngest is 18 and the oldest 24. He still supports his sons. The youngest doesn’t work and has a girlfriend. My BF actually gives his son money to take his girlfriend out on dates. ....
Correction, he give his sons your money....
Posted by alexscariesPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Rainbow87
He doesn’t tell me specifically how he spends his money. He’s a lot older than me and with sons from a previous relationship! But his sons are not children anymore. The youngest is 18 and the oldest 24. He still supports his sons. The youngest doesn’t work and has a girlfriend. My BF actually gives his son money to take his girlfriend out on dates. ....
Correction, he give his sons your money....
24 and still getting pocket money. I had a job at 16 doing weekends, I was at 6th form college in the week and still found time to have a few sherberts (pints of beer, not cocaine) on a weekend. I didn't ask my parents for money as I would feel like a prick. Humility is a virtue.click to expand
I was the same. Worked on weekends and holidays when I was a teenager. My parents never paid for my weekends out or the things I wanted from 16.
So you give him money and then he gives money to his son to go on dates. 😅😳🤣 If he already has a 24 years old son than he's old enough to have his shit together.
Posted by Timone
So you give him money and then he gives money to his son to go on dates. 😅😳🤣 If he already has a 24 years old son than he's old enough to have his shit together.
He’s obviously putting the kids first
Lol 😀
Noooooo scruuuubbssss
i feel like cardinal men tend to look down on someone who paid for their bedsheets and water bills
they can only really respect gold diggers
they can only really respect gold diggers
I don't believe for a minute he is giving his money to his sons. He's giving you a bunch of bullshit. Libra thinks he's clever.
Well, I don’t know what else to say at this point. I think I’m being fair with my boyfriend as far as his financial share. His only payments are half of the rent, the electric bill and groceries. That’s it. I pay the other half of the rent, the rest of the bills and my car, which he sometimes uses because he doesn’t have his own. And I make a little less money than him. It’s not a huge difference but it’s still less.
I know my BF sounds like a loser but he was totally different when I met him. Now he has shown his true colors. As far as his sons, he does spend money on them! One time he’s youngest son stayed with us for a week and every single day he would buy him food from outside. Whatever he desired even though BF was on a tight budget. I don’t think it was necessary to eat out EVERY day when we have food at home. And then he ran out of money and asked me if I could lend him money to buy his precious boy a chicken from some random fast food place. Sometimes all I could do is stay quiet because when I mention that his sons need to be financially independent, he gets pretty defensive. But I will be firm in not lending him more money and I will consider breaking up since his sons are # 1 in his life and he already showed it.
I know my BF sounds like a loser but he was totally different when I met him. Now he has shown his true colors. As far as his sons, he does spend money on them! One time he’s youngest son stayed with us for a week and every single day he would buy him food from outside. Whatever he desired even though BF was on a tight budget. I don’t think it was necessary to eat out EVERY day when we have food at home. And then he ran out of money and asked me if I could lend him money to buy his precious boy a chicken from some random fast food place. Sometimes all I could do is stay quiet because when I mention that his sons need to be financially independent, he gets pretty defensive. But I will be firm in not lending him more money and I will consider breaking up since his sons are # 1 in his life and he already showed it.
Good thing you’re not married.
You can easily was your hands
You can easily was your hands
Posted by _elle_Posted by Rainbow87
Well, I don’t know what else to say at this point. I think I’m being fair with my boyfriend as far as his financial share. His only payments are half of the rent, the electric bill and groceries. That’s it. I pay the other half of the rent, the rest of the bills and my car, which he sometimes uses because he doesn’t have his own. And I make a little less money than him. It’s not a huge difference but it’s still less.
I know my BF sounds like a loser but he was totally different when I met him. Now he has shown his true colors. As far as his sons, he does spend money on them! One time he’s youngest son stayed with us for a week and every single day he would buy him food from outside. Whatever he desired even though BF was on a tight budget. I don’t think it was necessary to eat out EVERY day when we have food at home. And then he ran out of money and asked me if I could lend him money to buy his precious boy a chicken from some random fast food place. Sometimes all I could do is stay quiet because when I mention that his sons need to be financially independent, he gets pretty defensive. But I will be firm in not lending him more money and I will consider breaking up since his sons are # 1 in his life and he already showed it.
This is twisted.
You will consider breaking up with him "because his sons are #1 in his life" but won't consider breaking up with him because he is a verbally and emotionally abusive squatting moocher who is clearly taking advantage of you?
Meh, stay with him. 🙄click to expand
👍
I wouldn’t even go on one date with a bloke that didn’t put his kids first 😐
Posted by Rainbow87
...And I make a little less money than him. It’s not a huge difference but it’s still less.
It just keeps getting better and better....
Posted by DonnaLibra
I don't believe for a minute he is giving his money to his sons. He's giving you a bunch of bullshit. Libra thinks he's clever.
I agree. But the best lies usually have a grain of truth. So when he says he gives money to his 24yr old son to take girls on dates my mind instantly thought, naw he's spending that money taking girls on dates himself.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by DonnaLibra
I don't believe for a minute he is giving his money to his sons. He's giving you a bunch of bullshit. Libra thinks he's clever.
I agree. But the best lies usually have a grain of truth. So when he says he gives money to his 24yr old son to take girls on dates my mind instantly thought, naw he's spending that money taking girls on dates himself.
Would be weird if they were dating the same girl. Especially if she wants to try a threesome. 🥴click to expand
Talk about a great family bonding activity amiright
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DonnaLibra
I don't believe for a minute he is giving his money to his sons. He's giving you a bunch of bullshit. Libra thinks he's clever.
I agree. But the best lies usually have a grain of truth. So when he says he gives money to his 24yr old son to take girls on dates my mind instantly thought, naw he's spending that money taking girls on dates himself.click to expand
Yes that sounds more like what a Libra man would do. They rarely deprive themselves.
Posted by Rainbow87
Well, I don’t know what else to say at this point. I think I’m being fair with my boyfriend as far as his financial share. His only payments are half of the rent, the electric bill and groceries. That’s it. I pay the other half of the rent, the rest of the bills and my car, which he sometimes uses because he doesn’t have his own. And I make a little less money than him. It’s not a huge difference but it’s still less.
I know my BF sounds like a loser but he was totally different when I met him. Now he has shown his true colors. As far as his sons, he does spend money on them! One time he’s youngest son stayed with us for a week and every single day he would buy him food from outside. Whatever he desired even though BF was on a tight budget. I don’t think it was necessary to eat out EVERY day when we have food at home. And then he ran out of money and asked me if I could lend him money to buy his precious boy a chicken from some random fast food place. Sometimes all I could do is stay quiet because when I mention that his sons need to be financially independent, he gets pretty defensive. But I will be firm in not lending him more money and I will consider breaking up since his sons are # 1 in his life and he already showed it.
His kids are supposed to be number #1 in his life at any age.
But yes, I agree, since he has money to spend when he wants to, you should stop lending it to him. Play "broke" so he can be independent, just like you think he should be teaching his sons to be.
So start saying you don't have the money to lend.
How can a father teach his sons anything when he's not that way?
Posted by Rainbow87
Well, I don’t know what else to say at this point. I think I’m being fair with my boyfriend as far as his financial share. His only payments are half of the rent, the electric bill and groceries. That’s it. I pay the other half of the rent, the rest of the bills and my car, which he sometimes uses because he doesn’t have his own. And I make a little less money than him. It’s not a huge difference but it’s still less.
I know my BF sounds like a loser but he was totally different when I met him. Now he has shown his true colors. As far as his sons, he does spend money on them! One time he’s youngest son stayed with us for a week and every single day he would buy him food from outside. Whatever he desired even though BF was on a tight budget. I don’t think it was necessary to eat out EVERY day when we have food at home. And then he ran out of money and asked me if I could lend him money to buy his precious boy a chicken from some random fast food place. Sometimes all I could do is stay quiet because when I mention that his sons need to be financially independent, he gets pretty defensive. But I will be firm in not lending him more money and I will consider breaking up since his sons are # 1 in his life and he already showed it.
Libras are usually very generous towards the people they love. I mean he's generous towards his sons but then go to you for money. He's just using you.
You said he was different in the beginning. Well could be that he was infatuated with you at that point but he's not anymore which is why he changed.
The person he is now is the person he really is. I don't want to hurt your feelings but sometimes it's better to accept the truth than keep going on with some unrealistic expectations that the other person will change back to how they were before. He won't I can tell you that. 100% sure he won't.
Posted by DonnaLibra
Are you kidding me—— This guy constantly borrows money from you and you've never asked him what he is doing with his money?? Why not? He stopped sleeping with you 7 months ago and you're still helping him financially? Girl what is wrong with you? He's using you. For all you know he could be spending HIS money on another woman and you're picking up the slack. No, just HELL NO.
Finally someone with sense.
Have you ever asked him for money?
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What do they think of women who use obscene language? Libras, are such women OK, or bleh, or what for you?
Or vice versa? I'm just wondering how they choose their partners..
I have been friends with a Libra man for over 10 years. He is in a band and we first met by him just comming over and striking up a conversation with me and telling me how beautiful I was. I told him I was married. But we hit it off as friends and exchang
I am a 25 year old Virgo female and he is 33.
He’s absolutely gorgeous and we have SO many things in common we could talk for hours. We have the same life goals and interests - we agree on pretty much everything. I also share the exact same birthday wit
So I have been seeing this Libra guy for over a year. Weirdly enough after all the initial drama of standing my ground with him, he has come to respect me. He says he love me and he is the second Libra man I have ever taken serious but I am finding Libras
So, this guy and I have known each other for 2/3 years but went on our first date 6 months ago. We instantly clicked, had a great physical / emotional connection but soon after, he became distant at the fear that if we got together, something bad would
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Im finding hard to tell if this Libra guy likes me or he’s just being friendly.
I read here that they flirt a lot with everyone not only with people they are attracted to.
He does things that most guys would do when they like a girl, but because of his
what you think about our compatibility with them?
Hey everyone ! I'm new here I though I might find answers here !
So I'm a scorpio girl and I met a libra male in september. As soon as we met we match really well and we used kiss a lot and laugh a lot.
Since then we see each other every week end with ou
So I have an issue with my Libra man. We have our ups and downs in our relationship. Sometimes we don't agree on some things but my Libra guy seems attracted to open minded girls who cheat. He tells me he wants me to flirt with guys and talk to them more.
I have been doing libra for about 5/6 years now I have met him in school and we had really kicked it off when we had summer break we were good friends fast forward to now I initiated a conversation with him a few days ago and we FaceTime and messages are
My first Libra I dated for 4 years extremely faithful and loving towards me but he was a total mess with other people. He would play people and start drama like crazy. I had enough and left him. However, he was always truthful and loving and spent a ton o
A friend of mine are having a debate about libra men and id like to draw out the libra guys here on this forum.
Choosing between the two archetypes (we put a bunch of different scenarios together to create
Them)
Domestic, stable marriage but predict
I feel so ashamed posting this. I know I should’ve dumped my Libra man a long time ago but I’m stupid and I have forgiven him many times since I sincerely love him but I don’t think he loves me at all.
He is really bad with his finances and the first person he asks for money whenever he’s short is me. We keep our finances separately. I’ve helped him many times and he always pays me back but I’m tired of him never having his own savings and always asking for $ $ $ like I’m an ATM machine.
Since we live together, when the rent was due this past month, he told me to wait 2 weeks because he didn’t had the money ready for the rent. We pay 50/50 of the rent. The electric bill was also due which he pays because I pay for other bills and I had to help him pay that too besides the rent. Just when he finally payed me back, my boyfriend had no shame and asked me again if I could lend him money because he did something stupid and damaged his phone!! Now he has no phone and no money to buy another one. He’s acting offended because I was firm and told him I was not giving him more money.
Just now we were talking and I told him I don’t want him to get into the habit of asking me for money when he should have his own savings. He told me: “then why do I have a partner if I can’t count on you?” According to him, I’m the bad guy of the situation. Is it okay for me to be selfish and not let him take advantage of me? It’s not my fault that his phone doesn’t work and that he doesn’t have money for a new one.