I'd say not. Never stops me considering them, but I always regret it!
I think if you are happy to take on someone with baggage, it says something about what you feel you deserve. (Okay, speaking to myself there, but I think it's true).
I deserve someone who's there for me and who won't keep contaminating the relationship with baggage. Nothing wrong with baggage, mind you - it's how you deal with it. And 'With Baggage' implies someon ain't dealing with it very well...
"I think she meant... men with kids.... not emotional hangups"
Im not into kids that much at this stage either. LOL. I have no desire for kids at this stage of my life. I like animals though. Ill stick to the pet rat Im eventually going to get at some point.
This is so very well said, your insight really touches home. I have so many things to quote out of what you said, that I won't quote any (Otherwise I would have quoted everything lol). I believe it to be true. See so many of my relationship decisions are based on how I viewed my parents relationship and though I like them as separate individuals, I didn't like their relationship and made it clear in my mind, very early that I wouldn't be in such relationship. Anyway ... very well said!
I'd say not. Never stops me considering them, but I always regret it!
I think if you are happy to take on someone with baggage, it says something about what you feel you deserve. (Okay, speaking to myself there, but I think it's true).
I deserve someone who's there for me and who won't keep contaminating the relationship with baggage. Nothing wrong with baggage, mind you - it's how you deal with it. And 'With Baggage' implies someon ain't dealing with it very well...