candy10
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MIXED SIGNALS? OR OBVIOUS WHAT HE WANTS?
a couple of months ago
that he wants a relationship... in that time i basically said that i don't want one now....im not looking for it..and this isnt the time.... but its not like i said i dont see you that way nothing of that sort..
and we've still continued contact he still calls me i call him etc... etc... but as friends
next thing i know only today...
he says to me that he met up with some other girl who is really interested in him , how shes the one who likes him and that he thinks she's too keen and he doesn't like it... YET... he's seen her a couple of times...and they went on what seemed like a date... to the cinema and then they went to a park..and according to him she was very touchy feely... and everytime she got too close he would try to stop anything from happening... BUT then he said that at one point she ended up kissing him he said he didn't kiss her back or whatever... and that he isn't going to see her again ..even though she's very persistent. and then he says to me she looked so good that he was finding it hard to get away from her ...and i just thought to myself its bad enough what you're telling me in the first place yet you have to add on those extra details about how great she looked?
what i dont understand is why is it that not too long ago he's declaring that he's "losing it over me" wants to meet me up and see what happens..and then he goes out and meets with this girl knowing that she really likes him...allows her to kiss him but then doesn't want to go any further with her or see her again EVEN THOUGH SHE APPARENTLY LOOKS HOT..it just doesn't make any sense... and then at the same time he's always asking me to keep in touch with him and talks to me so seriously about marriage and the future and absolutely everything thats on his mind. :/
that he wants a relationship... in that time i basically said that i don't want one now....im not looking for it..and this isnt the time.... but its not like i said i dont see you that way nothing of that sort..
and we've still continued contact he still calls me i call him etc... etc... but as friends
next thing i know only today...
he says to me that he met up with some other girl who is really interested in him , how shes the one who likes him and that he thinks she's too keen and he doesn't like it... YET... he's seen her a couple of times...and they went on what seemed like a date... to the cinema and then they went to a park..and according to him she was very touchy feely... and everytime she got too close he would try to stop anything from happening... BUT then he said that at one point she ended up kissing him he said he didn't kiss her back or whatever... and that he isn't going to see her again ..even though she's very persistent. and then he says to me she looked so good that he was finding it hard to get away from her ...and i just thought to myself its bad enough what you're telling me in the first place yet you have to add on those extra details about how great she looked?
what i dont understand is why is it that not too long ago he's declaring that he's "losing it over me" wants to meet me up and see what happens..and then he goes out and meets with this girl knowing that she really likes him...allows her to kiss him but then doesn't want to go any further with her or see her again EVEN THOUGH SHE APPARENTLY LOOKS HOT..it just doesn't make any sense... and then at the same time he's always asking me to keep in touch with him and talks to me so seriously about marriage and the future and absolutely everything thats on his mind. :/
THIS HAPPENED A WEEK AFTER.. THE PREVIOUS SCENARIO :
iv got some updates... maybe i should not have brought up the girl again but i did..
i just asked how is your girl?
he goes im not talking to her anymore and then he said by the way she is not my girl
shes just a friend, and then i said yes a friend with some benefits (seeing as they did stuff together )lol...he said ii did not do anything with her
next thing i know... i message him sayin u know what its nothing to do with me what you do with that girl..its your business... then out of knowhere he starts saying so much to me,,,
he said do u want to be my fwb? i said what? :O he said is that a yes.. i just said ur joking lol
and i said depends wht u mean and he goes .. it wud b nice..think about it
i said well if thats what ur looking for im sure u have plenty of girls u kno who wud b interested...
and then he goes i dont want them i want you :O :O
like what is that all about? y is he flirting / joking around with me like that ..because in all the years i'v known him we hardly do the flirting thing..and hes rarely said stuff lik tht to me b4 :O :s :/
and especially straight after telling me about his date :s
iv got some updates... maybe i should not have brought up the girl again but i did..
i just asked how is your girl?
he goes im not talking to her anymore and then he said by the way she is not my girl
shes just a friend, and then i said yes a friend with some benefits (seeing as they did stuff together )lol...he said ii did not do anything with her
next thing i know... i message him sayin u know what its nothing to do with me what you do with that girl..its your business... then out of knowhere he starts saying so much to me,,,
he said do u want to be my fwb? i said what? :O he said is that a yes.. i just said ur joking lol
and i said depends wht u mean and he goes .. it wud b nice..think about it
i said well if thats what ur looking for im sure u have plenty of girls u kno who wud b interested...
and then he goes i dont want them i want you :O :O
like what is that all about? y is he flirting / joking around with me like that ..because in all the years i'v known him we hardly do the flirting thing..and hes rarely said stuff lik tht to me b4 :O :s :/
and especially straight after telling me about his date :s
AND THIS HAPPENED A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO :
and he told me about yet another girl... but this time she wasnt a friend he met her randomly working at a bank..and they started talking a lot... she said she was a nice person etc...he also told me that the girl told him he owes her a coffee and dessert... so that obviously means them meeting up at a coffee shop..or goin on a lunch date or something.. :roll: :roll: :roll:
so who knows whats going to happen there...then he made some comment about how it would be funny if she ended up being his future wife...because of the way that they met so randomly... :roll: :roll:
its comments like that which confuse me... because one second he completely showss he likes only me... and the next second he's making the odd comment about someoneelsee
and then what happened at the end of the conversation and it came completely out of the blue...
he says you know what.. you are one of the sweetest and nicest people i'v ever known
and you're different to the other girls that i've met.. i think its sweet the way you talk and the way you're voice soundss
:shock: :shock: i was surprised as he's never complimented me in that way ever
but this is what i don't understand... he makes "wife" comments about other people..and makes it sound like he hasn't found the one in me..and is still on the search
and then he'll confuse me by saying what he said...and acting like i'm the only person he adores in this way
and he told me about yet another girl... but this time she wasnt a friend he met her randomly working at a bank..and they started talking a lot... she said she was a nice person etc...he also told me that the girl told him he owes her a coffee and dessert... so that obviously means them meeting up at a coffee shop..or goin on a lunch date or something.. :roll: :roll: :roll:
so who knows whats going to happen there...then he made some comment about how it would be funny if she ended up being his future wife...because of the way that they met so randomly... :roll: :roll:
its comments like that which confuse me... because one second he completely showss he likes only me... and the next second he's making the odd comment about someoneelsee
and then what happened at the end of the conversation and it came completely out of the blue...
he says you know what.. you are one of the sweetest and nicest people i'v ever known
and you're different to the other girls that i've met.. i think its sweet the way you talk and the way you're voice soundss
:shock: :shock: i was surprised as he's never complimented me in that way ever
but this is what i don't understand... he makes "wife" comments about other people..and makes it sound like he hasn't found the one in me..and is still on the search
and then he'll confuse me by saying what he said...and acting like i'm the only person he adores in this way
this happened a couple of months back
Me and this guy have been friends for a couple of years, but thats all it's ever been, however he's always talked to me like we are more than friends. Recently he has said indirect things like i want a relationship now, i want to find a girl and settle down etc etc.. but its all indirect nothing where he has said with you etc etc.
Anyway in the last couple of weeks he has tried calling me but i havn't had the time to speak to him or anything, i havn't returned his calls, i'v been quite busy.. so after a few times of ringing me he text messaged me (this is very unusual for him he NEVER messages me), but i assumed its because i hadn't called him back or nothing.
he txt me and told me to listen to a song and tell him what i think, so i was thinking thats unusual again..because he's never bothered enough to message me normall about music lol.. so then i listened to the song and i was like :O.. is he trying to tell me something. to me the words practically described our situation.
the words are as follows:
i've known you for a long long time, i never thought that we would find, what we are holding in our hands, lately i've been thinking i should make you mine, been thinking that we should define what we are, you know i like to be in control but recently i don't know what to do i'm losing it over you,
we both feel the same, and i can't play this game any longer
girl i think about you all of the time, wondering how im going to make you mine,so many things ive been wanting to say, held in my heart for a day like today, i want to hold you till the light fades away..
those were the main words of the song
so after he messaged me asking me to tell him what i think... i said i would listen to it later.... and then that very same day he did ring me again... before i'd even messaged him anything back about it..because i was confusedd.. as to whether he was trying to tell me something... or whether i was thinking to much in to it
so i rang him back a few days later.... and he didnt mention it again ... so i thought i would... i said refering to the song... its not your normal type of song that you like (i didn't wanna be too obvious).. i was just trying to find out his reasons for asking me to listen to it.. and he said not really...BUT I REALLY LIKE THE WORDS....i said ok kool.. and that was it end of.... he didnt even ask me my opinion of it or anything more...
This was what he hinted to me
Me and this guy have been friends for a couple of years, but thats all it's ever been, however he's always talked to me like we are more than friends. Recently he has said indirect things like i want a relationship now, i want to find a girl and settle down etc etc.. but its all indirect nothing where he has said with you etc etc.
Anyway in the last couple of weeks he has tried calling me but i havn't had the time to speak to him or anything, i havn't returned his calls, i'v been quite busy.. so after a few times of ringing me he text messaged me (this is very unusual for him he NEVER messages me), but i assumed its because i hadn't called him back or nothing.
he txt me and told me to listen to a song and tell him what i think, so i was thinking thats unusual again..because he's never bothered enough to message me normall about music lol.. so then i listened to the song and i was like :O.. is he trying to tell me something. to me the words practically described our situation.
the words are as follows:
i've known you for a long long time, i never thought that we would find, what we are holding in our hands, lately i've been thinking i should make you mine, been thinking that we should define what we are, you know i like to be in control but recently i don't know what to do i'm losing it over you,
we both feel the same, and i can't play this game any longer
girl i think about you all of the time, wondering how im going to make you mine,so many things ive been wanting to say, held in my heart for a day like today, i want to hold you till the light fades away..
those were the main words of the song
so after he messaged me asking me to tell him what i think... i said i would listen to it later.... and then that very same day he did ring me again... before i'd even messaged him anything back about it..because i was confusedd.. as to whether he was trying to tell me something... or whether i was thinking to much in to it
so i rang him back a few days later.... and he didnt mention it again ... so i thought i would... i said refering to the song... its not your normal type of song that you like (i didn't wanna be too obvious).. i was just trying to find out his reasons for asking me to listen to it.. and he said not really...BUT I REALLY LIKE THE WORDS....i said ok kool.. and that was it end of.... he didnt even ask me my opinion of it or anything more...
This was what he hinted to me
a couple of months ago
that he wants a relationship... in that time i basically said that i don't want one now....im not looking for it..and this isnt the time.... but its not like i said i dont see you that way nothing of that sort..
and we've still continued contact he still calls me i call him etc... etc... but as friends
next thing i know only today...
he says to me that he met up with some other girl who is really interested in him , how shes the one who likes him and that he thinks she's too keen and he doesn't like it... YET... he's seen her a couple of times...and they went on what seemed like a date... to the cinema and then they went to a park..and according to him she was very touchy feely... and everytime she got too close he would try to stop anything from happening... BUT then he said that at one point she ended up kissing him he said he didn't kiss her back or whatever... and that he isn't going to see her again ..even though she's very persistent. and then he says to me she looked so good that he was finding it hard to get away from her ...and i just thought to myself its bad enough what you're telling me in the first place yet you have to add on those extra details about how great she looked?
what i dont understand is why is it that not too long ago he's declaring that he's "losing it over me" wants to meet me up and see what happens..and then he goes out and meets with this girl knowing that she really likes him...allows her to kiss him but then doesn't want to go any further with her or see her again EVEN THOUGH SHE APPARENTLY LOOKS HOT..it just doesn't make any sense... and then at the same time he's always asking me to keep in touch with him and talks to me so seriously about marriage and the future and absolutely everything thats on his mind. :/
that he wants a relationship... in that time i basically said that i don't want one now....im not looking for it..and this isnt the time.... but its not like i said i dont see you that way nothing of that sort..
and we've still continued contact he still calls me i call him etc... etc... but as friends
next thing i know only today...
he says to me that he met up with some other girl who is really interested in him , how shes the one who likes him and that he thinks she's too keen and he doesn't like it... YET... he's seen her a couple of times...and they went on what seemed like a date... to the cinema and then they went to a park..and according to him she was very touchy feely... and everytime she got too close he would try to stop anything from happening... BUT then he said that at one point she ended up kissing him he said he didn't kiss her back or whatever... and that he isn't going to see her again ..even though she's very persistent. and then he says to me she looked so good that he was finding it hard to get away from her ...and i just thought to myself its bad enough what you're telling me in the first place yet you have to add on those extra details about how great she looked?
what i dont understand is why is it that not too long ago he's declaring that he's "losing it over me" wants to meet me up and see what happens..and then he goes out and meets with this girl knowing that she really likes him...allows her to kiss him but then doesn't want to go any further with her or see her again EVEN THOUGH SHE APPARENTLY LOOKS HOT..it just doesn't make any sense... and then at the same time he's always asking me to keep in touch with him and talks to me so seriously about marriage and the future and absolutely everything thats on his mind. :/
You come back every 3months with this same story lol.
LOOLL SORRY EVERYONE..
DXP DOES NOT LET ME POST MY FULL MESSAGE IT SEEMS...Im POSTING ANOTHER UPDATE
but i re post the previous messages so that you can all read it together...and it makes more sense
so what happened
following the song thing
ONLY a couple of months ago
that he wants a relationship... in that time i basically said that i don't want one now....im not looking for it..and this isnt the time.... but its not like i said i dont see you that way nothing of that sort..
and we've still continued contact he still calls me i call him etc... etc... but as friends
next thing i know only today...
he says to me that he met up with some other girl who is really interested in him , how shes the one who likes him and that he thinks she's too keen and he doesn't like it... YET... he's seen her a couple of times...and they went on what seemed like a date... to the cinema and then they went to a park..and according to him she was very touchy feely... and everytime she got too close he would try to stop anything from happening... BUT then he said that at one point she ended up kissing him he said he didn't kiss her back or whatever... and that he isn't going to see her again ..even though she's very persistent. and then he says to me she looked so good that he was finding it hard to get away from her ...and i just thought to myself its bad enough what you're telling me in the first place yet you have to add on those extra details about how great she looked?
what i dont understand is why is it that not too long ago he's declaring that he's "losing it over me" wants to meet me up and see what happens..and then he goes out and meets with this girl knowing that she really likes him...allows her to kiss him but then doesn't want to go any further with her or see her again EVEN THOUGH SHE APPARENTLY LOOKS HOT..it just doesn't make any sense... and then at the same time he's always asking me to keep in touch with him and talks to me so seriously about marriage and the future and absolutely everything thats on his mind. :/
DXP DOES NOT LET ME POST MY FULL MESSAGE IT SEEMS...Im POSTING ANOTHER UPDATE
but i re post the previous messages so that you can all read it together...and it makes more sense
so what happened
following the song thing
ONLY a couple of months ago
that he wants a relationship... in that time i basically said that i don't want one now....im not looking for it..and this isnt the time.... but its not like i said i dont see you that way nothing of that sort..
and we've still continued contact he still calls me i call him etc... etc... but as friends
next thing i know only today...
he says to me that he met up with some other girl who is really interested in him , how shes the one who likes him and that he thinks she's too keen and he doesn't like it... YET... he's seen her a couple of times...and they went on what seemed like a date... to the cinema and then they went to a park..and according to him she was very touchy feely... and everytime she got too close he would try to stop anything from happening... BUT then he said that at one point she ended up kissing him he said he didn't kiss her back or whatever... and that he isn't going to see her again ..even though she's very persistent. and then he says to me she looked so good that he was finding it hard to get away from her ...and i just thought to myself its bad enough what you're telling me in the first place yet you have to add on those extra details about how great she looked?
what i dont understand is why is it that not too long ago he's declaring that he's "losing it over me" wants to meet me up and see what happens..and then he goes out and meets with this girl knowing that she really likes him...allows her to kiss him but then doesn't want to go any further with her or see her again EVEN THOUGH SHE APPARENTLY LOOKS HOT..it just doesn't make any sense... and then at the same time he's always asking me to keep in touch with him and talks to me so seriously about marriage and the future and absolutely everything thats on his mind. :/
THIS HAPPENED A WEEK AFTER.. THE PREVIOUS SCENARIO :
maybe i should not have brought up the girl again but i did..
i just asked how is your girl?
he goes im not talking to her anymore and then he said by the way she is not my girl
shes just a friend, and then i said yes a friend with some benefits (seeing as they did stuff together )lol...he said ii did not do anything with her
next thing i know... i message him sayin u know what its nothing to do with me what you do with that girl..its your business... then out of knowhere he starts saying so much to me,,,
he said do u want to be my fwb? i said what? :O he said is that a yes.. i just said ur joking lol
and i said depends wht u mean and he goes .. it wud b nice..think about it
i said well if thats what ur looking for im sure u have plenty of girls u kno who wud b interested...
and then he goes i dont want them i want you :O :O
like what is that all about? y is he flirting / joking around with me like that ..because in all the years i'v known him we hardly do the flirting thing..and hes rarely said stuff lik tht to me b4 :O :s :/
and especially straight after telling me about his date :s
maybe i should not have brought up the girl again but i did..
i just asked how is your girl?
he goes im not talking to her anymore and then he said by the way she is not my girl
shes just a friend, and then i said yes a friend with some benefits (seeing as they did stuff together )lol...he said ii did not do anything with her
next thing i know... i message him sayin u know what its nothing to do with me what you do with that girl..its your business... then out of knowhere he starts saying so much to me,,,
he said do u want to be my fwb? i said what? :O he said is that a yes.. i just said ur joking lol
and i said depends wht u mean and he goes .. it wud b nice..think about it
i said well if thats what ur looking for im sure u have plenty of girls u kno who wud b interested...
and then he goes i dont want them i want you :O :O
like what is that all about? y is he flirting / joking around with me like that ..because in all the years i'v known him we hardly do the flirting thing..and hes rarely said stuff lik tht to me b4 :O :s :/
and especially straight after telling me about his date :s
AND THIS HAPPENED A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO :
and he told me about yet another girl... but this time she wasnt a friend he met her randomly working at a bank..and they started talking a lot... she said she was a nice person etc...he also told me that the girl told him he owes her a coffee and dessert... so that obviously means them meeting up at a coffee shop..or goin on a lunch date or something.. :roll: :roll: :roll:
so who knows whats going to happen there...then he made some comment about how it would be funny if she ended up being his future wife...because of the way that they met so randomly... :roll: :roll:
its comments like that which confuse me... because one second he completely showss he likes only me... and the next second he's making the odd comment about someoneelsee
and then what happened at the end of the conversation and it came completely out of the blue...
he says you know what.. you are one of the sweetest and nicest people i'v ever known
and you're different to the other girls that i've met.. i think its sweet the way you talk and the way you're voice soundss
:shock: :shock: i was surprised as he's never complimented me in that way ever
but this is what i don't understand... he makes "wife" comments about other people..and makes it sound like he hasn't found the one in me..and is still on the search
and then he'll confuse me by saying what he said...and acting like i'm the only person he adores in this way
and he told me about yet another girl... but this time she wasnt a friend he met her randomly working at a bank..and they started talking a lot... she said she was a nice person etc...he also told me that the girl told him he owes her a coffee and dessert... so that obviously means them meeting up at a coffee shop..or goin on a lunch date or something.. :roll: :roll: :roll:
so who knows whats going to happen there...then he made some comment about how it would be funny if she ended up being his future wife...because of the way that they met so randomly... :roll: :roll:
its comments like that which confuse me... because one second he completely showss he likes only me... and the next second he's making the odd comment about someoneelsee
and then what happened at the end of the conversation and it came completely out of the blue...
he says you know what.. you are one of the sweetest and nicest people i'v ever known
and you're different to the other girls that i've met.. i think its sweet the way you talk and the way you're voice soundss
:shock: :shock: i was surprised as he's never complimented me in that way ever
but this is what i don't understand... he makes "wife" comments about other people..and makes it sound like he hasn't found the one in me..and is still on the search
and then he'll confuse me by saying what he said...and acting like i'm the only person he adores in this way
and as you all know he has been carrying this on for at least a year now.
Posted by FoxGlove
I'm going to vote 'yes' -- he's into you. His unusual, unprecedented behavior is the giveaway. Now, if you're into him -- return his dang calls! lol
LOOOL read what happened a couple of daysss agoo... with him telling me about yet anotherr CHICKKK
thatsss what i don't get and mean by mixed signalsss
Posted by cowpuncher
None of that later stuff matters, my instructions still stand.
lol let me read what you wrote!!
Posted by cowpuncher
My advice:
This always ends up the same way, with a woman unhappy that the Cap guy doesn't communicate enough and closes off... the Cap just being clueless about what his next move should be or what you really think... and everybody just does this circular dance and it ends up fizzling out with everybody feeling bad about it.
IMHO... march right over to his place asap and jump his bones. I don't mean any casual little afternoon/early evening dalliance either, you go ride him hard til he thinks his name is Silver and he whinnies for a bag of grain and checks himself for horse shoes. Go all out, make porn stars look like a bunch of uptight Virgo accountants who just ran out of bleach. Whip him, beat him, talk dirty, spank his ass, and tell him it's all because he's a bad bad little billy goat.
Why? Because if you've been here before with the same exact issue, and we gave you all the normal advice, that apparently didn't work. THIS is the polar opposite of our usual Cap board advice, so I'm kinda curious and wondering if this might not work out for you.
I can't emphasize it enough: Put on a show. If his Granny lives next door, or in the spare room, I want her old deaf ears to hear it, and the old gal to stroke out in shame... no room for modesty or sensitivity here. IF Mr. Cap doesn't take that bait, at least make sure that he's going to run around the rest of his life telling every single other woman he ever sleeps with about you like you are the deepest, darkest, wildest chapter of his sex life and make them feel like they'll never measure up. (Kinda like how I like spelling my initials out in hickeys on a gal, but that only lasts a week or so, whereas this will scar that guy's relationships for life if he has the temerity to refuse to play ball with you here).
You have your orders, please do report back with results~!
OMG THIS MESSAGE MADE ME LAUGH OUT LOUD SOOO MUCHH
THANKS BUT IT'S A LITTLE TOOO OUT OF MA COMFORT ZONE HAHAHHAAAAAAAAAA
Posted by cowpuncherPosted by candy10
THANKS BUT IT'S A LITTLE TOOO OUT OF MA COMFORT ZONE HAHAHHAAAAAAAAAA
Nothing ventured nothing gained... *shrug* If all the normal Cap advice hasn't worked, that's all I've got left!click to expand
ALL I NEED TO KNOW REALLY IS... DOES THIS GUY LIKE ME...IS HE IN LOVE....
DOES HE JUST SEE ME AS A MATE... OR A BACK UP OR OPTION IF ALL ELSE FAILSSS
WHAT DO YOU THINK—?
I GET CONFUSED WITH HIM SEEMING TO BRING UP A NEW GIRL EVRY FEW WEEKS OR SO
WHICH MAKES ME THINK HE'S ON THE LOOKOUT FOR SOMEONE ELSE
AND HES NOT REALLY INTERESTED!!!
this happened a couple of months back
Me and this guy have been friends for a couple of years, but thats all it's ever been, however he's always talked to me like we are more than friends. Recently he has said indirect things like i want a relationship now, i want to find a girl and settle down etc etc.. but its all indirect nothing where he has said with you etc etc.
Anyway in the last couple of weeks he has tried calling me but i havn't had the time to speak to him or anything, i havn't returned his calls, i'v been quite busy.. so after a few times of ringing me he text messaged me (this is very unusual for him he NEVER messages me), but i assumed its because i hadn't called him back or nothing.
he txt me and told me to listen to a song and tell him what i think, so i was thinking thats unusual again..because he's never bothered enough to message me normall about music lol.. so then i listened to the song and i was like :O.. is he trying to tell me something. to me the words practically described our situation.
the words are as follows:
i've known you for a long long time, i never thought that we would find, what we are holding in our hands, lately i've been thinking i should make you mine, been thinking that we should define what we are, you know i like to be in control but recently i don't know what to do i'm losing it over you,
we both feel the same, and i can't play this game any longer
girl i think about you all of the time, wondering how im going to make you mine,so many things ive been wanting to say, held in my heart for a day like today, i want to hold you till the light fades away..
those were the main words of the song
so after he messaged me asking me to tell him what i think... i said i would listen to it later.... and then that very same day he did ring me again... before i'd even messaged him anything back about it..because i was confusedd.. as to whether he was trying to tell me something... or whether i was thinking to much in to it
so i rang him back a few days later.... and he didnt mention it again ... so i thought i would... i said refering to the song... its not your normal type of song that you like (i didn't wanna be too obvious).. i was just trying to find out his reasons for asking me to listen to it.. and he said not really...BUT I REALLY LIKE THE WORDS....i said ok kool.. and that was it end of.... he didnt even ask me my opinion of it or anything more...
This was what he hinted to me ONL
Me and this guy have been friends for a couple of years, but thats all it's ever been, however he's always talked to me like we are more than friends. Recently he has said indirect things like i want a relationship now, i want to find a girl and settle down etc etc.. but its all indirect nothing where he has said with you etc etc.
Anyway in the last couple of weeks he has tried calling me but i havn't had the time to speak to him or anything, i havn't returned his calls, i'v been quite busy.. so after a few times of ringing me he text messaged me (this is very unusual for him he NEVER messages me), but i assumed its because i hadn't called him back or nothing.
he txt me and told me to listen to a song and tell him what i think, so i was thinking thats unusual again..because he's never bothered enough to message me normall about music lol.. so then i listened to the song and i was like :O.. is he trying to tell me something. to me the words practically described our situation.
the words are as follows:
i've known you for a long long time, i never thought that we would find, what we are holding in our hands, lately i've been thinking i should make you mine, been thinking that we should define what we are, you know i like to be in control but recently i don't know what to do i'm losing it over you,
we both feel the same, and i can't play this game any longer
girl i think about you all of the time, wondering how im going to make you mine,so many things ive been wanting to say, held in my heart for a day like today, i want to hold you till the light fades away..
those were the main words of the song
so after he messaged me asking me to tell him what i think... i said i would listen to it later.... and then that very same day he did ring me again... before i'd even messaged him anything back about it..because i was confusedd.. as to whether he was trying to tell me something... or whether i was thinking to much in to it
so i rang him back a few days later.... and he didnt mention it again ... so i thought i would... i said refering to the song... its not your normal type of song that you like (i didn't wanna be too obvious).. i was just trying to find out his reasons for asking me to listen to it.. and he said not really...BUT I REALLY LIKE THE WORDS....i said ok kool.. and that was it end of.... he didnt even ask me my opinion of it or anything more...
This was what he hinted to me ONL
ONLY a couple of months ago
that he wants a relationship... in that time i basically said that i don't want one now....im not looking for it..and this isnt the time.... but its not like i said i dont see you that way nothing of that sort..
and we've still continued contact he still calls me i call him etc... etc... but as friends
next thing i know only today...
he says to me that he met up with some other girl who is really interested in him , how shes the one who likes him and that he thinks she's too keen and he doesn't like it... YET... he's seen her a couple of times...and they went on what seemed like a date... to the cinema and then they went to a park..and according to him she was very touchy feely... and everytime she got too close he would try to stop anything from happening... BUT then he said that at one point she ended up kissing him he said he didn't kiss her back or whatever... and that he isn't going to see her again ..even though she's very persistent. and then he says to me she looked so good that he was finding it hard to get away from her ...and i just thought to myself its bad enough what you're telling me in the first place yet you have to add on those extra details about how great she looked?
what i dont understand is why is it that not too long ago he's declaring that he's "losing it over me" wants to meet me up and see what happens..and then he goes out and meets with this girl knowing that she really likes him...allows her to kiss him but then doesn't want to go any further with her or see her again EVEN THOUGH SHE APPARENTLY LOOKS HOT..it just doesn't make any sense... and then at the same time he's always asking me to keep in touch with him and talks to me so seriously about marriage and the future and absolutely everything thats on his mind. :/
that he wants a relationship... in that time i basically said that i don't want one now....im not looking for it..and this isnt the time.... but its not like i said i dont see you that way nothing of that sort..
and we've still continued contact he still calls me i call him etc... etc... but as friends
next thing i know only today...
he says to me that he met up with some other girl who is really interested in him , how shes the one who likes him and that he thinks she's too keen and he doesn't like it... YET... he's seen her a couple of times...and they went on what seemed like a date... to the cinema and then they went to a park..and according to him she was very touchy feely... and everytime she got too close he would try to stop anything from happening... BUT then he said that at one point she ended up kissing him he said he didn't kiss her back or whatever... and that he isn't going to see her again ..even though she's very persistent. and then he says to me she looked so good that he was finding it hard to get away from her ...and i just thought to myself its bad enough what you're telling me in the first place yet you have to add on those extra details about how great she looked?
what i dont understand is why is it that not too long ago he's declaring that he's "losing it over me" wants to meet me up and see what happens..and then he goes out and meets with this girl knowing that she really likes him...allows her to kiss him but then doesn't want to go any further with her or see her again EVEN THOUGH SHE APPARENTLY LOOKS HOT..it just doesn't make any sense... and then at the same time he's always asking me to keep in touch with him and talks to me so seriously about marriage and the future and absolutely everything thats on his mind. :/
THIS HAPPENED A WEEK AFTER.. THE PREVIOUS SCENARIO :
iv got some updates... maybe i should not have brought up the girl again but i did..
i just asked how is your girl?
he goes im not talking to her anymore and then he said by the way she is not my girl
shes just a friend, and then i said yes a friend with some benefits (seeing as they did stuff together )lol...he said ii did not do anything with her
next thing i know... i message him sayin u know what its nothing to do with me what you do with that girl..its your business... then out of knowhere he starts saying so much to me,,,
he said do u want to be my fwb? i said what? :O he said is that a yes.. i just said ur joking lol
and i said depends wht u mean and he goes .. it wud b nice..think about it
i said well if thats what ur looking for im sure u have plenty of girls u kno who wud b interested...
and then he goes i dont want them i want you :O :O
like what is that all about? y is he flirting / joking around with me like that ..because in all the years i'v known him we hardly do the flirting thing..and hes rarely said stuff lik tht to me b4 :O :s :/
and especially straight after telling me about his date :s
iv got some updates... maybe i should not have brought up the girl again but i did..
i just asked how is your girl?
he goes im not talking to her anymore and then he said by the way she is not my girl
shes just a friend, and then i said yes a friend with some benefits (seeing as they did stuff together )lol...he said ii did not do anything with her
next thing i know... i message him sayin u know what its nothing to do with me what you do with that girl..its your business... then out of knowhere he starts saying so much to me,,,
he said do u want to be my fwb? i said what? :O he said is that a yes.. i just said ur joking lol
and i said depends wht u mean and he goes .. it wud b nice..think about it
i said well if thats what ur looking for im sure u have plenty of girls u kno who wud b interested...
and then he goes i dont want them i want you :O :O
like what is that all about? y is he flirting / joking around with me like that ..because in all the years i'v known him we hardly do the flirting thing..and hes rarely said stuff lik tht to me b4 :O :s :/
and especially straight after telling me about his date :s
AND THIS HAPPENED A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO :
and he told me about yet another girl... but this time she wasnt a friend he met her randomly working at a bank..and they started talking a lot... she said she was a nice person etc...he also told me that the girl told him he owes her a coffee and dessert... so that obviously means them meeting up at a coffee shop..or goin on a lunch date or something.. :roll: :roll: :roll:
so who knows whats going to happen there...then he made some comment about how it would be funny if she ended up being his future wife...because of the way that they met so randomly... :roll: :roll:
its comments like that which confuse me... because one second he completely showss he likes only me... and the next second he's making the odd comment about someoneelsee
and then what happened at the end of the conversation and it came completely out of the blue...
he says you know what.. you are one of the sweetest and nicest people i'v ever known
and you're different to the other girls that i've met.. i think its sweet the way you talk and the way you're voice soundss
:shock: :shock: i was surprised as he's never complimented me in that way ever
but this is what i don't understand... he makes "wife" comments about other people..and makes it sound like he hasn't found the one in me..and is still on the search
and then he'll confuse me by saying what he said...and acting like i'm the only person he adores in this way
and he told me about yet another girl... but this time she wasnt a friend he met her randomly working at a bank..and they started talking a lot... she said she was a nice person etc...he also told me that the girl told him he owes her a coffee and dessert... so that obviously means them meeting up at a coffee shop..or goin on a lunch date or something.. :roll: :roll: :roll:
so who knows whats going to happen there...then he made some comment about how it would be funny if she ended up being his future wife...because of the way that they met so randomly... :roll: :roll:
its comments like that which confuse me... because one second he completely showss he likes only me... and the next second he's making the odd comment about someoneelsee
and then what happened at the end of the conversation and it came completely out of the blue...
he says you know what.. you are one of the sweetest and nicest people i'v ever known
and you're different to the other girls that i've met.. i think its sweet the way you talk and the way you're voice soundss
:shock: :shock: i was surprised as he's never complimented me in that way ever
but this is what i don't understand... he makes "wife" comments about other people..and makes it sound like he hasn't found the one in me..and is still on the search
and then he'll confuse me by saying what he said...and acting like i'm the only person he adores in this way
He likes you
You don't want a relationship
He is telling you the things about other girls hoping you'll realize you don't want to lose him
?
Sounds stressful for both of you. Are you young?
You don't want a relationship
He is telling you the things about other girls hoping you'll realize you don't want to lose him
?
Sounds stressful for both of you. Are you young?
Oh gosh this is so f*cking childish!
This whole thing is a big huge cluster f*ck...The next time he gets all romantic on you just ask him what he means when he says this or does that, just be candid and open with him or this nonsense can go on forever.
This whole thing is a big huge cluster f*ck...The next time he gets all romantic on you just ask him what he means when he says this or does that, just be candid and open with him or this nonsense can go on forever.
Mixed signals = gtfo.
You want to be strung along, so shut the hell up and keep it to yourself. You clearly don't want to listen to anything anyone tells you and frankly, nobody wants to help at this rate.
You want to be strung along, so shut the hell up and keep it to yourself. You clearly don't want to listen to anything anyone tells you and frankly, nobody wants to help at this rate.
Posted by cowpuncherPosted by WoundedLeoPosted by cowpuncher
IMHO... march right over to his place asap and jump his bones. I don't mean any casual little afternoon/early evening dalliance either, you go ride him hard til he thinks his name is Silver and he whinnies for a bag of grain and checks himself for horse shoes. Go all out, make porn stars look like a bunch of uptight Virgo accountants who just ran out of bleach. Whip him, beat him, talk dirty, spank his ass, and tell him it's all because he's a bad bad little billy goat.
You have your orders, please do report back with results~!
ROFL! I LOVE THIS ADVICE! Giddy up Silver 😄
Hey, it could work on me? *shrug* :pclick to expand
Seriously would this work or would the capi just want OP as a fwb after she's carried out the above task—
Posted by LouLore
He likes you
You don't want a relationship
He is telling you the things about other girls hoping you'll realize you don't want to lose him
?
Sounds stressful for both of you. Are you young?
i think that he likes me at one point.. but then when he went out with that girl... sat in the park and allowed her to sit on his lap and kiss him..and didnt back ooff..and then came and told me about it..it made me think well actually do ui really like me that much? it was not that long before that you're using a song to imply u want something with me and then that happenss
and then the girl he met while at his bank.. telling me that he saw potential in her... what am i supposed to think
It's obvious. He's interested and has been for a while.
He's single, he's supposed to date other women, if he's not dropping those women to be with you and only you then he's not that into you, least not enough to stop dating other girls (in your face) so forget him romantically and go out on a nice date with someone else, stop worrying about him and his mixed messages (mixed messages mean he's not ready to settle down with you or anyone for that matter) when he finds her (the one) he'll stop the mixed signals, the mixed messages stop because he's firm in his conviction that he's found the one so with that being said let him play that "mixed messages" game all by himself and while he's doing that he'll have to watch you date other men all while you're happy and enjoying your own life, if the fear of losing you to another guy doesn't stop the mixed messages nothing will.
Look he's shown clear & obvious interest in him & you've made it clear that going to the next level (i.e. a relationship) wasn't something you wanted to do
So he's trying to move on & find other girls b/c he's finally in those stages as a man where he's ready for committment
You identified yourself as "just a friend" so why are you so suprised that he's treating you like...well just a friend?
Sure he may have added those extra details about the other girls to make you a tad bit jealous but 9 times out of 10, that's how guys talk when they're venting about meeting girls. You're just extra sensitive to what's going on so you took it personal instead of for what it was in that he was talking to you as he would anyone whose just a 'friend.'
He wants to be fwb with you b/c he realized that going for the kill (jumping from just friends to relationship) wasn't gonna work so he's kinda doing what some girls do when they'd prefer to have some of you since they can't have all of you
If you're not trying to go to that level (relationship) with him then you have no right to make him feel guilty or even care that much about anything he's doing with other girls.
He probably got tight lipped about the song b/c you didn't have the reaction he was looking for when you 1st saw it. So now he's being passive/aggressive b/c YOU are!
Just be direct. Just be honest. Quit with all the indirect/passive-aggressive crap b/c you're both adults who should be able to talk this kinda stuff out. Don't tell him you just wanna be friends & then when he makes it as such, then turn around & act all confused when he's treating you like "just a friend"
Don't be selfish. If you don't want him or are "too busy" that's fine but let him go like you'd want him to do if you were in his shoes.
So he's trying to move on & find other girls b/c he's finally in those stages as a man where he's ready for committment
You identified yourself as "just a friend" so why are you so suprised that he's treating you like...well just a friend?
Sure he may have added those extra details about the other girls to make you a tad bit jealous but 9 times out of 10, that's how guys talk when they're venting about meeting girls. You're just extra sensitive to what's going on so you took it personal instead of for what it was in that he was talking to you as he would anyone whose just a 'friend.'
He wants to be fwb with you b/c he realized that going for the kill (jumping from just friends to relationship) wasn't gonna work so he's kinda doing what some girls do when they'd prefer to have some of you since they can't have all of you
If you're not trying to go to that level (relationship) with him then you have no right to make him feel guilty or even care that much about anything he's doing with other girls.
He probably got tight lipped about the song b/c you didn't have the reaction he was looking for when you 1st saw it. So now he's being passive/aggressive b/c YOU are!
Just be direct. Just be honest. Quit with all the indirect/passive-aggressive crap b/c you're both adults who should be able to talk this kinda stuff out. Don't tell him you just wanna be friends & then when he makes it as such, then turn around & act all confused when he's treating you like "just a friend"
Don't be selfish. If you don't want him or are "too busy" that's fine but let him go like you'd want him to do if you were in his shoes.
Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!
Seems to me, if I read correctly, that you told him you weren't interested. So, he's trying to go out with other people. And friends talk about dating and relationships, so he's trying to be friends with you. OR He's trying to let you know there are other people interested in him to send you a wake up call.
—??
Ask him..."why are you telling me this?"
—??
Ask him..."why are you telling me this?"
You didn't want him, but there are plenty of others that do.
You had plenty of opportunities with this man when he was constantly trying to get you to be his ... you seemed to always find ways to blow him off ... so quit your whining and shut the fuck up.
He wants you to know that other women are interested in him. You didn't want him, but they do.
Posted by Theultra79Posted by candy10Posted by LouLore
He likes you
You don't want a relationship
He is telling you the things about other girls hoping you'll realize you don't want to lose him
?
Sounds stressful for both of you. Are you young?
i think that he likes me at one point.. but then when he went out with that girl... sat in the park and allowed her to sit on his lap and kiss him..and didnt back ooff..and then came and told me about it..it made me think well actually do ui really like me that much? it was not that long before that you're using a song to imply u want something with me and then that happenss
and then the girl he met while at his bank.. telling me that he saw potential in her... what am i supposed to think
Loulore is right. It is very obvious that he wants you. He's only going out with other people because you keep shutting him down. Then he tells you about the other girls which TOTALLY proves how harmless it is. You're trippin. If you really want this guy then let him know. If not, let him know that too because it is clear that he wants you.click to expand
what do you mean by it is harmless because he is tellin me about them? as in if something was really going on with them he wouldnt tell me?
Posted by truecap
He wants you to know that other women are interested in him. You didn't want him, but they do.
why would i care if other people are interested in him? it only annoys me when i have to hear about it lol
Posted by krysrenee7
Look he's shown clear & obvious interest in him & you've made it clear that going to the next level (i.e. a relationship) wasn't something you wanted to do
So he's trying to move on & find other girls b/c he's finally in those stages as a man where he's ready for committment
You identified yourself as "just a friend" so why are you so suprised that he's treating you like...well just a friend?
Sure he may have added those extra details about the other girls to make you a tad bit jealous but 9 times out of 10, that's how guys talk when they're venting about meeting girls. You're just extra sensitive to what's going on so you took it personal instead of for what it was in that he was talking to you as he would anyone whose just a 'friend.'
He wants to be fwb with you b/c he realized that going for the kill (jumping from just friends to relationship) wasn't gonna work so he's kinda doing what some girls do when they'd prefer to have some of you since they can't have all of you
If you're not trying to go to that level (relationship) with him then you have no right to make him feel guilty or even care that much about anything he's doing with other girls.
He probably got tight lipped about the song b/c you didn't have the reaction he was looking for when you 1st saw it. So now he's being passive/aggressive b/c YOU are!
Just be direct. Just be honest. Quit with all the indirect/passive-aggressive crap b/c you're both adults who should be able to talk this kinda stuff out. Don't tell him you just wanna be friends & then when he makes it as such, then turn around & act all confused when he's treating you like "just a friend"
Don't be selfish. If you don't want him or are "too busy" that's fine but let him go like you'd want him to do if you were in his shoes.
ye i guess.. evrything you said is true..
but i couldn't help but feel annoyed/angry, .. when he told me especially about the girl who was apparently all over him and whom he went to the cinema and park with ...
what i'm trying to say is... i understand that you're sayin i shouldn't have those kind of reactions..but at the end of the day..i couldn't prevent it... i didn't show it to him though.. i just listened as a "friend" would..
i'm not saying i expect him to wait for me forever..nothing like that... i just didn't expect that he would try and move on what like a mo
* month after indirectly tellin me that he wants to bein a relationship with me
anyway its also weird that although him and that girl he went to the cinema and then the park with..they kissed or something..well he told me they got close...but then he told me that he isnt interested in her and he doesn't see her like that
:/.. after giving me all those details..thats what he tells me..
strange is what i find that
anyway its also weird that although him and that girl he went to the cinema and then the park with..they kissed or something..well he told me they got close...but then he told me that he isnt interested in her and he doesn't see her like that
:/.. after giving me all those details..thats what he tells me..
strange is what i find that
What Kry said...you are just selfish! My daughter went through that...had someone hanging on for her and she clearly wasn't interested. He did the nicest things that she took for granted...so he moved on and found someone to replace her, tried to make her jealous at first but ended up falling for this girl for real!! Good on him!
Now my daughter regrets not seeing him for the person he is and giving him a chance...she's always on Fb writing status's that I know are for him on how blind she was and if only...
Now my daughter regrets not seeing him for the person he is and giving him a chance...she's always on Fb writing status's that I know are for him on how blind she was and if only...
Posted by Theultra79Posted by candy10Posted by Theultra79Posted by candy10Posted by LouLore
He likes you
You don't want a relationship
He is telling you the things about other girls hoping you'll realize you don't want to lose him
?
Sounds stressful for both of you. Are you young?
i think that he likes me at one point.. but then when he went out with that girl... sat in the park and allowed her to sit on his lap and kiss him..and didnt back ooff..and then came and told me about it..it made me think well actually do ui really like me that much? it was not that long before that you're using a song to imply u want something with me and then that happenss
and then the girl he met while at his bank.. telling me that he saw potential in her... what am i supposed to think
Loulore is right. It is very obvious that he wants you. He's only going out with other people because you keep shutting him down. Then he tells you about the other girls which TOTALLY proves how harmless it is. You're trippin. If you really want this guy then let him know. If not, let him know that too because it is clear that he wants you.
what do you mean by it is harmless because he is tellin me about them? as in if something was really going on with them he wouldnt tell me?
Yes. The ONLY reason a guy ever tells you about another woman is to make you jealous. If he was really interested in a girl, you'd never hear about her.
You've driven him to a point of desperation where he is trying EVERYTHING to get some type of emotional response from you. He keeps trying to figure out how you feel about him. He's even resorted to just offering sex only. if you didn't
like this guy, you wouldn't care about the other girls. So why not just tell him so and stop playing games?click to expand
Thats all i needed to know 😄. I don't tell anyone anything unless i'm completely 100% sure of their intentions etc..i'm not purposely playing games.. this is just the way i am.. i analyse from a distance lol..and try to figure someone out first.
but i couldnt th
i couldnt't see what you're all seeing in an objective way..whilst he was describing his good times with these other people..and can you really blame me
Posted by sweethearts
What Kry said...you are just selfish! My daughter went through that...had someone hanging on for her and she clearly wasn't interested. He did the nicest things that she took for granted...so he moved on and found someone to replace her, tried to make her jealous at first but ended up falling for this girl for real!! Good on him!
Now my daughter regrets not seeing him for the person he is and giving him a chance...she's always on Fb writing status's that I know are for him on how blind she was and if only...
i'm not telling him to his face..these reactions are my private reactions that he does not see hear or know anything about
therefore in his eyes..i'm simply listening to him telling me about these girls..and i'm being like a friend thats it
its not like i said to him you can't speak to or meet up with them..if he is..i can understand why he is doing it
but my initial reactions (kept from him) i could not prevent.. because thats how i felt at the time
No wonder it's hard for women to find a good man ... look at all these women out here fucking with thier heads
Posted by truecap
You didn't want him, but there are plenty of others that do.
true.. the latter part anyway
So, let one of them have him.
Posted by P-Angel
No wonder it's hard for women to find a good man ... look at all these women out here fucking with thier heads
How many rooms are you going to post this same thread?
You're a head-fucker ... that should be obvious to everyone
You're a head-fucker ... that should be obvious to everyone
Posted by WoundedLeo
P-Angel brings new meaning to the expression "on the rag" ! LOL!
completely agree lol
either that or some kind of mental illness
Seems like he's interested but are you? If not then don't leave that door open. If he sent you song lyrics like that then obviously the boy is feeling something. Maybe you should talk to him about it of your confused. But he's interested in you.
Pretty good slogan! lmao!
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Me and this guy have been friends for a couple of years, but thats all it's ever been, however he's always talked to me like we are more than friends. Recently he has said indirect things like i want a relationship now, i want to find a girl and settle down etc etc.. but its all indirect nothing where he has said with you etc etc.
Anyway in the last couple of weeks he has tried calling me but i havn't had the time to speak to him or anything, i havn't returned his calls, i'v been quite busy.. so after a few times of ringing me he text messaged me (this is very unusual for him he NEVER messages me), but i assumed its because i hadn't called him back or nothing.
he txt me and told me to listen to a song and tell him what i think, so i was thinking thats unusual again..because he's never bothered enough to message me normall about music lol.. so then i listened to the song and i was like :O.. is he trying to tell me something. to me the words practically described our situation.
the words are as follows:
i've known you for a long long time, i never thought that we would find, what we are holding in our hands, lately i've been thinking i should make you mine, been thinking that we should define what we are, you know i like to be in control but recently i don't know what to do i'm losing it over you,
we both feel the same, and i can't play this game any longer
girl i think about you all of the time, wondering how im going to make you mine,so many things ive been wanting to say, held in my heart for a day like today, i want to hold you till the light fades away..
those were the main words of the song
so after he messaged me asking me to tell him what i think... i said i would listen to it later.... and then that very same day he did ring me again... before i'd even messaged him anything back about it..because i was confusedd.. as to whether he was trying to tell me something... or whether i was thinking to much in to it
so i rang him back a few days later.... and he didnt mention it again ... so i thought i would... i said refering to the song... its not your normal type of song that you like (i didn't wanna be too obvious).. i was just trying to find out his reasons for asking me to listen to it.. and he said not really...BUT I REALLY LIKE THE WORDS....i said ok kool.. and that was it end of.... he didnt even ask me my opinion of it or anything more...
This was what he hinted to me ONL