first gay relationship exp

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by CreepyPants on Sunday, August 26, 2012 and has 10 replies.

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@CreepyPants
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for those who are ...

1. women
2. lesbian or bi
3. currently has or has had a legitimate gay relationship
4. willing to share

...what was it like beginning your first relationship?

were you nervous? shy? overwhelmed with the feeling of inexperience?

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14 Years

it was intense electrifying

nervous by the connection as im always aloft but i got sucked in she was a scorp leo asc ahhh

i was experience with women before but not in a committed relationship having such strong emotions were scary yet intoxicating. loved every bit of it.

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a couple of my gfs who are bi have said similar things about their experiences.

sounds amazing... thanks for sharing jhene. i've not been in a committed relationship with a woman, but i've had my share of experiences and crushes.

women are scary when you're crushing. i completely empathize with guys. lol

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@Jhene
14 Years

haha lol yea its a deep connection is amazingly intense scary beautiful wonderful when everything is good but when its bad wow its bad

thank you

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Posted by CreepyPants
for those who are ...

1. women
2. lesbian or bi
3. currently has or has had a legitimate gay relationship
4. willing to share

...what was it like beginning your first relationship?

were you nervous? shy? overwhelmed with the feeling of inexperience?

I'm just entering my first lady/lady fwb arrangement now. I am nervous! I am well skilled in the art of men, but women are completely new to me! I find them sweeter to flirt with first off, texts everyday are undestandable (coming from a women a woman who has ben schooled in not texting men unless completely necessary!
It's just the intimacy I am nervous about... any advice? It's my first lady. She is more experienced than me and is full on bi.

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Not me, at all.

There's no doubt about having sex with a female, done it lots of times, for my man's pleasure ... but, I have no desire in any way to have a relationship with a woman.

There's no way I could deal with their sobby neediness.

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
What's your story?....***Grabs Lotion****...🙂

shit like this is why i'd imagine most lesbians aren't going to really respond to this thread. 😛

You know, I never got what was so appealing about this for men and still don't to this very day...

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I have no idea either, considering men don't have kitties or tits so why is it thrilling to watch what you can't even experience?

I would think it would be more exciting for a guy to watch his partner blow a another man ... at least he would know how that feels, and as he watches the guy go from meaty anticipation to each hardening phase of tingling rushes as she takes his balls in hand and using them and her fingers to pump the base of his rod as she works him to a frenzy, to seeing the look in the guys face to know his balls are drawing up as his ejaculation sits on the brink of glorious rapture ... at least the guy would know how that feels, and could relate. Now THAT would seem like it should be more pleasing.

Guys like that are clueless, I suppose, in that they think that to watch lesbians means he would get two birds .. when in reality, a lesbian wouldn't even be muff diving her squeeze with a dude in the room.