Ought, man!

So I've been talking to this guy for a few days, for many hourse. We've had good convo's and so on. And a little bit of video chat. And, you know, he's just another guy. And we talked about meeting. He wants to get to know me, which I'm okay with. We talked about hanging out and making out, nothing serious. But we're not seeing eye to eye because he wants me to 'open up.'
So, okay, a friendship along with sex, I'm good with that. But open up? Open up how? He knows my story! He knows about my ex. He knows about my mistakes. He's okay with all that. He says I'm a great girl. But the intentions we start off with was nothing serious.
Now he's upset with me if I'm guessing right. It's midnight where he is right now and there is a sand storm and so on. I don't know. But he signed off without a bye. That is the one thing that gets to me most. Leaving without a goodbye. I HATE it when anyone does that!
[besides my best friend, but then again we say 'see ya' or 'later' or lol just a 'k' and a wisper 'bye' in an awkward way because we don't really mean bye 'cause it's never really a 'bye' but lmao we're getting off the phone... 😆 moving on..]

Lately I've been thinking of giving him a shot. I mean the whole 'open up' thing, the word 'relationship,' what the heck! Give me some space. Yea, I sound bitter and push and shove, but... I mean, my ex had to convince me to give him a chance, which I did with less fuss, and that happen to be my first relationship. And what did he do? Left without a word after taking my virginity. So, yea, buddy, it's hard for me to open up, and YES I'm scared! So stop asking me why I don't want a relationship. In fact, stop asking and make it happen if you really want something real. Actions do speak louder, do they not?!


So, opinions please?

Im confused why exactly is he mad at you? You have been talking to him only for a few days nd he already knows bout your past relationships and mistakes?

We talked again. Things seem okay.

haha the way we talk, it's like I'm the ass hole guy wanting only sex and he's the one who tells me I'm afraid to even form any sort of relationship. Which... was somewhat true. And I told him.

Can I really believe it when even after offering sex and maybe a casual friendship a guy refuses me if I don't want to also be open to a potential relationship?! If I guy can have the girl for his pleasure with no strings attached would he want to lie and convince her to believe it's real? And for what reason?

And I don't mind him knowing my past. I just like that even knowing what I've done he still calls me a great girl. And beautiful. Which I like, allot! What girl doesn't like being called beautiful ^_^

Anyway, just so I wont loose my head and go crazy because, I guess maybe I would want a relationship, but because I'm not so great with damn emotions I'm so asking for advise here before making a huge mistake. Because, really, I'm tired of scaring men away. More like pushing and twisting and pulling... :/

So, have to stay focused on what's important to ME.
(maybe I'll start making some friends at the campus too lol)