Past Soul Connections

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Hi all,

So the other day I was on a 3rd date with someone I've been talking to.

Anyways, while we were taking a break from playing pool, I was sitting down beside him with my arm around his listing to him talk. I looked down at our arms intertwined together and had a moment of Deja Vu.

That same night when we were sitting in my car I again had gotten Deja Vu, but it wasnt as strong as the first time.

I've read that deja vu while with someone usually means there was a past life connection and the souls have met again. Does anyone know more information on this?

For some reason, I am always drawn to brown hair with blue eyes as well as Jewish men. Though I havent ever dated a Jewish man, I had always been attracted to them. Anyways, the guy i have been talking to has Orthodox Jewish in him (not full) and has the color combo I have always been interested in - OK, with that said...I'm really wondering if he is a past soul connection, does it make sense that I'm naturally attracted to brown/blue and Jewish men...?

Anyone else experience this before or know of someone who is a past soul connection?

Thanks,

Milani

Also, no negative responses please. Just trying to get some feedback on this topic. Thanks!
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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
I have sun/moon trine and sun opposite moon, sun conjunct northnode with someone that 3 psychics said was my soulmate.

Although the ran from the connection.
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Dang, they punked out! Soul ties usually come back full circle, they can run if they want to. Would you give it another shot if they came back?

Mine was venus trine venus, venus conj pluto, sun conj ascendant, merc trine merc, 2 of his personal planets in my 12th. Super strong connection, but I was the one who punked out 😐 lol
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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
I have sun/moon trine and sun opposite moon, sun conjunct northnode with someone that 3 psychics said was my soulmate.

Although the ran from the connection.
Dang, they punked out! Soul ties usually come back full circle, they can run if they want to. Would you give it another shot if they came back?

Mine was venus trine venus, venus conj pluto, sun conj ascendant, merc trine merc, 2 of his personal planets in my 12th. Super strong connection, but I was the one who punked out 😐 lol


My Venus in his 7th, his Venus conj my mars and sun, our sun trine Pluto double whammy, his mars in my 5th. You think this stuff is significant?
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Ooo venus conj mars sounds sexy. You never did answer if you would try again with this person..?

When I read about those aspects and 12th house overlays, it confirmed what I was feeling. Then there's your soulmate aspects backed up by 3 diff psychics. I mean it can't be pure coincidence, but really can't say for sure.

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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
I have sun/moon trine and sun opposite moon, sun conjunct northnode with someone that 3 psychics said was my soulmate.

Although the ran from the connection.
Dang, they punked out! Soul ties usually come back full circle, they can run if they want to. Would you give it another shot if they came back?

Mine was venus trine venus, venus conj pluto, sun conj ascendant, merc trine merc, 2 of his personal planets in my 12th. Super strong connection, but I was the one who punked out 😐 lol


Why did you punk out?

Are you going to go back?
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Ugh those are good questions. There wasn't enough transparency for me and I gave it a 2nd chance already, so the answer is I don't know lol

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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
I have sun/moon trine and sun opposite moon, sun conjunct northnode with someone that 3 psychics said was my soulmate.

Although the ran from the connection.
Dang, they punked out! Soul ties usually come back full circle, they can run if they want to. Would you give it another shot if they came back?

Mine was venus trine venus, venus conj pluto, sun conj ascendant, merc trine merc, 2 of his personal planets in my 12th. Super strong connection, but I was the one who punked out 😐 lol


Why did you punk out?

Are you going to go back?
Ugh those are good questions. There wasn't enough transparency for me and I gave it a 2nd chance already, so the answer is I don't know lol


What made you go back?

What made you run?

How long did it take you to go back?

We have nothing in 12th.

His moon trine my Venus, sun conj Chiron double whammy
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Chiron contacts could mean fated/past life connections too. You're supposed to learn from and heal each other. I read it's not a forever type of aspect though.

I left because he downplayed certain things, omitted information, while I was willing to divulge my deepest darkest. It took him a few weeks to contact me again.

Went back for some clarity and honesty, hoping we could pick up where we left off. But he was even more closed off than before, so I was like nah.



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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
I have sun/moon trine and sun opposite moon, sun conjunct northnode with someone that 3 psychics said was my soulmate.

Although the ran from the connection.
Dang, they punked out! Soul ties usually come back full circle, they can run if they want to. Would you give it another shot if they came back?

Mine was venus trine venus, venus conj pluto, sun conj ascendant, merc trine merc, 2 of his personal planets in my 12th. Super strong connection, but I was the one who punked out 😐 lol


My Venus in his 7th, his Venus conj my mars and sun, our sun trine Pluto double whammy, his mars in my 5th. You think this stuff is significant?
Ooo venus conj mars sounds sexy. You never did answer if you would try again with this person..?

When I read about those aspects and 12th house overlays, it confirmed what I was feeling. Then there's your soulmate aspects backed up by 3 diff psychics. I mean it can't be pure coincidence, but really can't say for sure.




I think I would. I have to check out the 12th house thing
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Any idea why he left?
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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
I have sun/moon trine and sun opposite moon, sun conjunct northnode with someone that 3 psychics said was my soulmate.

Although the ran from the connection.
Dang, they punked out! Soul ties usually come back full circle, they can run if they want to. Would you give it another shot if they came back?

Mine was venus trine venus, venus conj pluto, sun conj ascendant, merc trine merc, 2 of his personal planets in my 12th. Super strong connection, but I was the one who punked out 😐 lol


Why did you punk out?

Are you going to go back?
Ugh those are good questions. There wasn't enough transparency for me and I gave it a 2nd chance already, so the answer is I don't know lol


What made you go back?

What made you run?

How long did it take you to go back?

We have nothing in 12th.

His moon trine my Venus, sun conj Chiron double whammy
Chiron contacts could mean fated/past life connections too. You're supposed to learn from and heal each other. I read it's not a forever type of aspect though.

I left because he downplayed certain things, omitted information, while I was willing to divulge my deepest darkest. It took him a few weeks to contact me again.

Went back for some clarity and honesty, hoping we could pick up where we left off. But he was even more closed off than before, so I was like nah.




But u were the runner? And when u went back he was closed off?
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Crazy right? I didn't want to walk away, it was super hard to make that choice twice. Being vulnerable and open when they're closed off gives away too much power, so self preservation won.

Is it possible for both to have runner qualities? That would be interesting lol
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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
I have sun/moon trine and sun opposite moon, sun conjunct northnode with someone that 3 psychics said was my soulmate.

Although the ran from the connection.
Dang, they punked out! Soul ties usually come back full circle, they can run if they want to. Would you give it another shot if they came back?

Mine was venus trine venus, venus conj pluto, sun conj ascendant, merc trine merc, 2 of his personal planets in my 12th. Super strong connection, but I was the one who punked out 😐 lol


My Venus in his 7th, his Venus conj my mars and sun, our sun trine Pluto double whammy, his mars in my 5th. You think this stuff is significant?
Ooo venus conj mars sounds sexy. You never did answer if you would try again with this person..?

When I read about those aspects and 12th house overlays, it confirmed what I was feeling. Then there's your soulmate aspects backed up by 3 diff psychics. I mean it can't be pure coincidence, but really can't say for sure.




I think I would. I have to check out the 12th house thing


Any idea why he left?


Well he had a gf and we met at a beach party and it was so weird we were drawn to each other. I've seen him around the last 5 yrs. he asked me to go home with him. I said I just wanted to talk with him and not hook up. He told me he had a gf next day and he was gunna break up with her. Didn't hear from him for weeks then saw him on the freeway so I msg him. He's in counselling cuz his ex was abusive. Anyways things went so fast with us. He told me he loved me on 12 diff occasions then would take it back next day. Then said he's scared to admit he's falling for me. Said he has things to work on and he has guilt over his ex. I'm not contacting him. It's been 3 weeks and he lives 200 m down the road
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Oh my gosh, that's too much! It must be torture living so close to him, but you're doing the right thing by no contact.

He has so much baggage and in such a deep hole. The cycle of abuse is hard to break or he would've broken up with his girl instead of lying and cheating. I don't see how he'd be able to pursue anything healthy with you. At least not right now. There's a lesson in there somewhere girl, wish I knew what it was to tell you 😢
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Maybe your lesson is to figure out why you attract unhealthy people. How to develop self control and not give in easily to shallow words and promises. How to guard your heart and love yourself better.

From what you just wrote, he's manipulative and is/has been taking advantage of your want to love and be loved. He only misses you when he sees you, disappears when he gets what he wants. He's not ready to get out of the sh*t cycle, but maybe you are..?

Hope this doesn't offend. I've had to break a few sh*t cycles myself.

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Maybe your lesson is to figure out why you attract unhealthy people. How to develop self control and not give in easily to shallow words and promises. How to guard your heart and love yourself better.

From what you just wrote, he's manipulative and is/has been taking advantage of your want to love and be loved. He only misses you when he sees you, disappears when he gets what he wants. He's not ready to get out of the sh*t cycle, but maybe you are..?

Hope this doesn't offend. I've had to break a few sh*t cycles myself.

@Arielle83
Yep!! Honestly he did make me realise I'm over that type of game.

I went and saw a chakra healer and she did a self protection cleanse and to teach me to say no and use my intuition
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Girl, yass! I'm all for self growth.

I like how we hijacked Milani's thread. She's probably like will these two shut up hehe. My bad @MilaniKisses

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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
What do you think of this chart?

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I cant read charts very well but it has venus conjuct AC 😄

Sigh. I am obsessed with this person at the moment.



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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
What do you think of this chart?

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I cant read charts very well but it has venus conjuct AC 😄

Sigh. I am obsessed with this person at the moment.



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Can't read them well either, I just google everything lol

His venus falls in your 6th house. Did you guys meet at work? It also conj your descendant + opposes your ascendant which is very good for attraction and even marriage. He pretty much has all the qualities you look for in a partner.

Your saturn conj his mc + his mars conj your mc, again, signifies a professional relationship. Are you his superior at work? That mars conj could make him ambitious and even compete for your position. Or it could simply mean that financial matters are important to the both of you.

Then there's his pluto in your 12th. A very intense and passionate bond that will be extremely difficult to break. It's like a ride it till the wheels fall off type of aspect. Lessons dealing with communication, mind games, power struggles, and assertiveness can be brought to the surface.

Another is your pluto opposing his sun, very transformative and powerful. It could explain the possessive and obsessive feelings, but I'll let you read up on this when you get a chance.

You guys actually have A LOT of karmic connections. It's understandable why you feel so strongly about him as you do.
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If his Venus conjunction sun are they obsessed with sun?
Sun-venus deals more with romance and attraction. I think pluto aspecting personal planets or any planet is the one to look at for obsession.


We both have Pluto trine sun double whammy
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The trine is more easy going, great sexual connection, and no topics are off limit. There is some dependency, possessiveness, and power struggles.. because pluto. But if the energy is used for good, it can be empowering for the both of you.
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If his Venus conjunction sun are they obsessed with sun?
Sun-venus deals more with romance and attraction. I think pluto aspecting personal planets or any planet is the one to look at for obsession.


We both have Pluto trine sun double whammy
The trine is more easy going, great sexual connection, and no topics are off limit. There is some dependency, possessiveness, and power struggles.. because pluto. But if the energy is used for good, it can be empowering for the both of you.


Ya a part of me thinks the connection was just too intense for two ppl getting out of long term toxic relationships. Haven't talked in 3 weeks.
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Yea, you're both dealing with some heavy stuff. He's doing you a favor not hitting you up, that's how I choose to look at it.
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Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi all,

So the other day I was on a 3rd date with someone I've been talking to.

Anyways, while we were taking a break from playing pool, I was sitting down beside him with my arm around his listing to him talk. I looked down at our arms intertwined together and had a moment of Deja Vu.

That same night when we were sitting in my car I again had gotten Deja Vu, but it wasnt as strong as the first time.

I've read that deja vu while with someone usually means there was a past life connection and the souls have met again. Does anyone know more information on this?

For some reason, I am always drawn to brown hair with blue eyes as well as Jewish men. Though I havent ever dated a Jewish man, I had always been attracted to them. Anyways, the guy i have been talking to has Orthodox Jewish in him (not full) and has the color combo I have always been interested in - OK, with that said...I'm really wondering if he is a past soul connection, does it make sense that I'm naturally attracted to brown/blue and Jewish men...?

Anyone else experience this before or know of someone who is a past soul connection?

Thanks,

Milani

Also, no negative responses please. Just trying to get some feedback on this topic. Thanks!
i am pretty sure I had a past soul connection but I never experienced Deja Vu.

IM curious, what did the Deja Vu actually feel like? Was it like typical Deja Vu when you feel like you had a moment that has happened before or was it more intense?
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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
I have sun/moon trine and sun opposite moon, sun conjunct northnode with someone that 3 psychics said was my soulmate.

Although the ran from the connection.
Dang, they punked out! Soul ties usually come back full circle, they can run if they want to. Would you give it another shot if they came back?

Mine was venus trine venus, venus conj pluto, sun conj ascendant, merc trine merc, 2 of his personal planets in my 12th. Super strong connection, but I was the one who punked out 😐 lol

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I was the the constant runner of a soul tie. It was like I could see the end where it included myself getting hurt and it was too intense so I kept running, running. But then it hit me finally where It too me over a year to figure it all out, let go of the regret, and learn from that attraction. At this point I'm good, but I do have a fear of running into this guy again. Haven't seen him in a year. I think it was a huge learning experience and catalyst for my life and id like to leave it all in the past and move forward to hopefully find a more healthy relationship.
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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
I have sun/moon trine and sun opposite moon, sun conjunct northnode with someone that 3 psychics said was my soulmate.

Although the ran from the connection.
Dang, they punked out! Soul ties usually come back full circle, they can run if they want to. Would you give it another shot if they came back?

Mine was venus trine venus, venus conj pluto, sun conj ascendant, merc trine merc, 2 of his personal planets in my 12th. Super strong connection, but I was the one who punked out 😐 lol


I was the the constant runner of a soul tie. It was like I could see the end where it included myself getting hurt and it was too intense so I kept running, running. But then it hit me finally where It too me over a year to figure it all out, let go of the regret, and learn from that attraction. At this point I'm good, but I do have a fear of running into this guy again. Haven't seen him in a year. I think it was a huge learning experience and catalyst for my life and id like to leave it all in the past and move forward to hopefully find a more healthy relationship.
Never understood the runners Perspectivd ?

What did u figure out n learn

N what's the fear about running into him
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every time I saw him it was like a jolt to where it was too much intense feeling inside me. I felt very attracted but It felt wrong. I felt very drawn, but uncomfortable. Like something was telling me this is wrong. So I ran.

Recently over talking it over I think a lot of my feelings stemmed from fear. So probably due to this fear, I did not allow myself to even have the possibility of experiencing love. So that,I regret. But I must be true to my feelings and if it felt wrong or toxic, running was all I could do.

Part of me did not feel worthy (maybe also why I ran). All in all, I learned to love and truly accept myself for the first time in my life. I learned about communication. About boundaries. It also bring me to a point where I looked at my life overall and realized I needed to fix a lot in all parts of my life.

Also, I learned that timing really is everything.

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If my tf told me this all would be forgiven

So don't fear running into them

Because once removing their own fear n ego

They very much loved u

I felt my tf feared didn't understand why

Felt unworthy of a love this pure that had been offored.

Said he could hurt any women never me! So I got protecting me from himself?

If he learned the lesson u described then maybe I can find peace

Thank you for answering
fear and ego did rule me for sure.

You're welcome. Yes, I would say don't take it personal. Its usually about the connection or something going on with the other person that they are not able to stay.
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oh, and I fear running into him to have intense feelings to where I cannot control myself. Of going back to where I was. Of not trusting myself. Of still putting him on this so called pedestal. I don't really know. Its just too intense I guess
What is wrong with feeling this way for another!!' Lol

I'm Scorpio so it's a must I feel this with my partner or I'll feel like I'm settling

I could tell for him

As a man he didn't like feeling out of control

Or that I could have power over him

I'd never use it against him

Infact free will let him go many times ecause i New he had lesson to learn

Sure enough when we met up he learned the lesson I felt he needed or was seeking

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As a fellow scorpio, I get it! lol. But this was beyond. It was too much. I am also super sensitive so being with him was like having all sense alerted to where most times I was with him I felt on edge or something. Like I could not even be myself. And we are both scorpios. He must be the stronger one or possibly he didn't feel all of what I felt.

If you feel it right, you can send your tf a message of reassurance. That is something I would have appreciated. Sometimes I felt like a crazy person and wonder if I was the only one.

I thought this guy was my tf at first, but looking back I think it was something else. Still significant.
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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
What do you think of this chart?

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I cant read charts very well but it has venus conjuct AC 😄

Sigh. I am obsessed with this person at the moment.




Can't read them well either, I just google everything lol

His venus falls in your 6th house. Did you guys meet at work? It also conj your descendant + opposes your ascendant which is very good for attraction and even marriage. He pretty much has all the qualities you look for in a partner.

Your saturn conj his mc + his mars conj your mc, again, signifies a professional relationship. Are you his superior at work? That mars conj could make him ambitious and even compete for your position. Or it could simply mean that financial matters are important to the both of you.

Then there's his pluto in your 12th. A very intense and passionate bond that will be extremely difficult to break. It's like a ride it till the wheels fall off type of aspect. Lessons dealing with communication, mind games, power struggles, and assertiveness can be brought to the surface.

Another is your pluto opposing his sun, very transformative and powerful. It could explain the possessive and obsessive feelings, but I'll let you read up on this when you get a chance.

You guys actually have A LOT of karmic connections. It's understandable why you feel so strongly about him as you do.
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Thank you so much for such detailed response :-)

We don't work together no, but we travel to and from work together on the train. We met about a year ago and I would say in the last month or two have become much closer, but its been within the last two weeks that I find I am constantly thinking about him. It's gotten to the point where we need to make sure we now travel on the same train together, we walk to our offices together. Sigh.

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I know this isn't the astrology board, buuut one way you can tell is through a synastry chart. See if you have any sun-moon aspects, venus-venus aspects, connections to the north/south nodes, or any conjunctions to the AC/DC MC/IC axis.

I think if your planets (or his) fall in the others 12th house, it could mean you have met in a previous life or have unfinished business. 12th house and synastry is so scary to me though lol Hope this helps.
What do you think of this chart?

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I cant read charts very well but it has venus conjuct AC 😄

Sigh. I am obsessed with this person at the moment.




Can't read them well either, I just google everything lol

His venus falls in your 6th house. Did you guys meet at work? It also conj your descendant + opposes your ascendant which is very good for attraction and even marriage. He pretty much has all the qualities you look for in a partner.

Your saturn conj his mc + his mars conj your mc, again, signifies a professional relationship. Are you his superior at work? That mars conj could make him ambitious and even compete for your position. Or it could simply mean that financial matters are important to the both of you.

Then there's his pluto in your 12th. A very intense and passionate bond that will be extremely difficult to break. It's like a ride it till the wheels fall off type of aspect. Lessons dealing with communication, mind games, power struggles, and assertiveness can be brought to the surface.

Another is your pluto opposing his sun, very transformative and powerful. It could explain the possessive and obsessive feelings, but I'll let you read up on this when you get a chance.

You guys actually have A LOT of karmic connections. It's understandable why you feel so strongly about him as you do.
Thank you so much for such detailed response :-)

We don't work together no, but we travel to and from work together on the train. We met about a year ago and I would say in the last month or two have become much closer, but its been within the last two weeks that I find I am constantly thinking about him. It's gotten to the point where we need to make sure we now travel on the same train together, we walk to our offices together. Sigh.

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You're welcome. That was my first time trying to read someone else's synastry chart, so I got a little excited 😄

Glad to hear you guys aren't working together. I was over here like oh my gosh, he's going to steal her job!! lol

But train rides together everyday is so romantic, what's stopping you guys from taking it to the next level?
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So he texted me last night asking how I'm doing.

Told me he's going travelling in a week.

He told me he's been drunk for two weeks straight.

Sounds like he's still running.

I saw 11:11 last night right after I stopped texting him.

Think that means I'll meet my tf soon
Dang, so how are you feeling after all that? Any mention of the girlfriend?


So I went to a party last night and he was there. When I was seeing him I had a dream with him making out with this chick.

At the party he was with the same chick. Every time he looked at me he was making out with her.

I had a feeling he'd be there and he was. I wasn't really paying attention but why the fuck he kept making out with her in my vicinity looked real needy and weird.

I was dancing with all his mates anyways. They didn't care

So ya total premonition.

Why he looking at me and kissing her?

It made me lsugh
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Lol I CANNOT with the both of you. Stop showing up to places you know he'll be at lol