Help I think I might be getting myself four husbands

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by SassyKiwi on Wednesday, June 21, 2017 and has 108 replies.

Understanding Polyandry and Family Dynamics

Polyandry is a relationship structure where a woman has multiple husbands, often with strong loyalty and openness among partners. It is a rare but recognized form of non-monogamous relationship that emphasizes honesty and family bonds. If you're curious about this lifestyle, learning about its social and emotional aspects can help you understand its dynamics better.

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Okay so for the past few days I've been entertaining polyandry in my head for fun (or so I thought)... It's cute right, a woman having multiple faithful husbands? All the adoration and the attention a woman could ever want! Then I ended up meeting this guy who was in one before his wife passed away a few years ago. The 4 husbands she left behind are currently dating as a package and are looking for someone lol.. I just happened to be super interested in understanding their family dynamics. I was just so intrigued. There is just so much loyalty, honesty, and openness. Like how can you not want to be part of that. I think I'm setting myself up for a date with them ? Wtf am I doing oh god hahha

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Posted by SassyKiwi
Okay so for the past few days I've been entertaining polyandry in my head for fun (or so I thought)... It's cute right, a woman having multiple faithful husbands? All the adoration and the attention a woman could ever want! Then I ended up meeting this guy who was in one before his wife passed away a few years ago. The 4 husbands she left behind are currently dating as a package and are looking for someone lol.. I just happened to be super interested in understanding their family dynamics. I was just so intrigued. There is just so much loyalty, honesty, and openness. Like how can you not want to be part of that. I think I'm setting myself up for a date with them ? Wtf am I doing oh god hahha

daaayymmmm - keep us posted lol

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Posted by SassyKiwi
Okay so for the past few days I've been entertaining polyandry in my head for fun (or so I thought)... It's cute right, a woman having multiple faithful husbands? All the adoration and the attention a woman could ever want! Then I ended up meeting this guy who was in one before his wife passed away a few years ago. The 4 husbands she left behind are currently dating as a package and are looking for someone lol.. I just happened to be super interested in understanding their family dynamics. I was just so intrigued. There is just so much loyalty, honesty, and openness. Like how can you not want to be part of that. I think I'm setting myself up for a date with them ? Wtf am I doing oh god hahha

All I can think of is groupen sex!

Poor sassy kitty! ?

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Go for it

Men have been doing it for years......why shouldn't women?

Exactly ?

It's so crazy though. The husbands are like a family. The guy I met was the first husband. He was like can I send a picture of you to the rest of them. They are extremely considerate of each other. They have two kids, first one being the first husband's and the second one's they don't know and won't get a paternity test on because they want to stay unbias. It's all so cute tbh. Idk why I find it all so cute omg

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Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by MyStarsShine
Go for it

Men have been doing it for years......why shouldn't women?

Exactly ?

It's so crazy though. The husbands are like a family. The guy I met was the first husband. He was like can I send a picture of you to the rest of them. They are extremely considerate of each other. They have two kids, first one being the first husband's and the second one's they don't know and won't get a paternity test on because they want to stay unbias. It's all so cute tbh. Idk why I find it all so cute omg

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Do you have to look after the kids as well as having sex with the four guys

Hope your energy is good ? 😛

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Posted by LadyNeptune
How does the sex work?

Do you rotate individually through each dude and have three nights rest? Or is it an orgy every night?

Technically you could accommodate at least 3 of them in each hole and then put your hands to good use on the 4th. That way you can all cum together.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
How do you explain it too the neighbors or when the kids have sleepovers with their friends?

This is my husband and these are the 3 uncles that live with us....

Or if all consummate one after the other, you can create like a super mega child with the IQ and strength of 4 dads.

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Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by MyStarsShine
One of my fantasies is twin men lol.......

So I'm not the only one... 😈

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That, if it was a marriage, could be classed as fraternal polyandry, otherwise known as adelphic polyandry.

But, from what I've read, in societies that allow that, the men have the control, as you can imagine. This needs to be changed, lol.

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aw come on - there always has to be one that hogs the puzz and then the others get mad - they'd have to be unicorns to be able to live harmoniously in such a situation

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Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by MyStarsShine
One of my fantasies is twin men lol.......

So I'm not the only one... 😈

That, if it was a marriage, could be classed as fraternal polyandry, otherwise known as adelphic polyandry.

But, from what I've read, in societies that allow that, the men have the control, as you can imagine. This needs to be changed, lol.

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I wasn't thinking of marrying them but that's a great idea. If you got annoyed at one of your husbands, you could go to another one...And conversely you wouldn't have to worry about being physically "neglected". Brilliant idea! Let's move to India.

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Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by MyStarsShine
One of my fantasies is twin men lol.......

So I'm not the only one... 😈

That, if it was a marriage, could be classed as fraternal polyandry, otherwise known as adelphic polyandry.

But, from what I've read, in societies that allow that, the men have the control, as you can imagine. This needs to be changed, lol.

I wasn't thinking of marrying them but that's a great idea. If you got annoyed at one of your husbands, you could go to another one...And conversely you wouldn't have to worry about being physically "neglected". Brilliant idea! Let's move to India.

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Sounds good to me. lol

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Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by MyStarsShine
One of my fantasies is twin men lol.......

So I'm not the only one... 😈

That, if it was a marriage, could be classed as fraternal polyandry, otherwise known as adelphic polyandry.

But, from what I've read, in societies that allow that, the men have the control, as you can imagine. This needs to be changed, lol.

I wasn't thinking of marrying them but that's a great idea. If you got annoyed at one of your husbands, you could go to another one...And conversely you wouldn't have to worry about being physically "neglected". Brilliant idea! Let's move to India.

Sounds good to me. lol

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Let's go lady!

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Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by MyStarsShine
One of my fantasies is twin men lol.......

So I'm not the only one... 😈

That, if it was a marriage, could be classed as fraternal polyandry, otherwise known as adelphic polyandry.

But, from what I've read, in societies that allow that, the men have the control, as you can imagine. This needs to be changed, lol.

I wasn't thinking of marrying them but that's a great idea. If you got annoyed at one of your husbands, you could go to another one...And conversely you wouldn't have to worry about being physically "neglected". Brilliant idea! Let's move to India.

Sounds good to me. lol

Let's go lady!

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Getting my passport ready!

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Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by MyStarsShine
One of my fantasies is twin men lol.......

So I'm not the only one... 😈

That, if it was a marriage, could be classed as fraternal polyandry, otherwise known as adelphic polyandry.

But, from what I've read, in societies that allow that, the men have the control, as you can imagine. This needs to be changed, lol.

I wasn't thinking of marrying them but that's a great idea. If you got annoyed at one of your husbands, you could go to another one...And conversely you wouldn't have to worry about being physically "neglected". Brilliant idea! Let's move to India.

Sounds good to me. lol

Let's go lady!

Getting my passport ready!

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Yes! @MyStarsShine, are we picking you up on the way?

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Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by MyStarsShine
One of my fantasies is twin men lol.......

So I'm not the only one... 😈

That, if it was a marriage, could be classed as fraternal polyandry, otherwise known as adelphic polyandry.

But, from what I've read, in societies that allow that, the men have the control, as you can imagine. This needs to be changed, lol.

I wasn't thinking of marrying them but that's a great idea. If you got annoyed at one of your husbands, you could go to another one...And conversely you wouldn't have to worry about being physically "neglected". Brilliant idea! Let's move to India.

Sounds good to me. lol

Let's go lady!

Getting my passport ready!

Yes! @MyStarsShine, are we picking you up on the way?

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How many blokes to I get to myself ?

Lol

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Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by MyStarsShine
Go for it

Men have been doing it for years......why shouldn't women?

Exactly ?

It's so crazy though. The husbands are like a family. The guy I met was the first husband. He was like can I send a picture of you to the rest of them. They are extremely considerate of each other. They have two kids, first one being the first husband's and the second one's they don't know and won't get a paternity test on because they want to stay unbias. It's all so cute tbh. Idk why I find it all so cute omg

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And the men are sleeping with each other?

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by CopperDove

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by MyStarsShine
One of my fantasies is twin men lol.......

So I'm not the only one... 😈

That, if it was a marriage, could be classed as fraternal polyandry, otherwise known as adelphic polyandry.

But, from what I've read, in societies that allow that, the men have the control, as you can imagine. This needs to be changed, lol.

I wasn't thinking of marrying them but that's a great idea. If you got annoyed at one of your husbands, you could go to another one...And conversely you wouldn't have to worry about being physically "neglected". Brilliant idea! Let's move to India.

Sounds good to me. lol

Let's go lady!

Getting my passport ready!

Yes! @MyStarsShine, are we picking you up on the way?

How many blokes to I get to myself ?

Lol

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As many as you can handle...

Are you ready for nirvana?

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by MyStarsShine
Go for it

Men have been doing it for years......why shouldn't women?

Exactly ?

It's so crazy though. The husbands are like a family. The guy I met was the first husband. He was like can I send a picture of you to the rest of them. They are extremely considerate of each other. They have two kids, first one being the first husband's and the second one's they don't know and won't get a paternity test on because they want to stay unbias. It's all so cute tbh. Idk why I find it all so cute omg

And the men are sleeping with each other?

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No, they are not. They're straight. They were also open to their wife sleeping outside the four men because they believed it was within her rights to do so. Idk if they're like possessed or something but clearly that chick did a number on them. I'm learning she was pretty wild and ruthless. It's probably just a fetish thing. I'm honestly too innocent for all this idk man curiosity lands you with weird things

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Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by SassyKiwi
Okay so for the past few days I've been entertaining polyandry in my head for fun (or so I thought)... It's cute right, a woman having multiple faithful husbands? All the adoration and the attention a woman could ever want! Then I ended up meeting this guy who was in one before his wife passed away a few years ago. The 4 husbands she left behind are currently dating as a package and are looking for someone lol.. I just happened to be super interested in understanding their family dynamics. I was just so intrigued. There is just so much loyalty, honesty, and openness. Like how can you not want to be part of that. I think I'm setting myself up for a date with them ? Wtf am I doing oh god hahha

Aqua women.

SMH.

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@Reincarnation

Did you propose to your mermaid yet?

How would you like to have four wives? 😛

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Go for it

Men have been doing it for years......why shouldn't women?

Well, in theory I suppose a woman can "do it too", but sometime I think we take things a little too far.

4 Ds on rotation? They would need to be equally fulfilled, sexually satisfied and emotionally content within the marriage---as anyone should be if they committed to this type of union. They may all want their own children, with certain expectations that come along with that. I would think that would be hard physically, mentally and emotionally for one woman to manage. Of course I am only referring to the birth/labour/initial child rearing (e.g. breast feeding).

If a woman can handle all of that I say cool.

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Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by SassyKiwi
Okay so for the past few days I've been entertaining polyandry in my head for fun (or so I thought)... It's cute right, a woman having multiple faithful husbands? All the adoration and the attention a woman could ever want! Then I ended up meeting this guy who was in one before his wife passed away a few years ago. The 4 husbands she left behind are currently dating as a package and are looking for someone lol.. I just happened to be super interested in understanding their family dynamics. I was just so intrigued. There is just so much loyalty, honesty, and openness. Like how can you not want to be part of that. I think I'm setting myself up for a date with them ? Wtf am I doing oh god hahha

Aqua women.

SMH.

@Reincarnation

Did you propose to your mermaid yet?

How would you like to have four wives? 😛

Lol.

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Yes.....No?

🙂

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