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Non invasive proposal
Posted by PossessionSt
Can't askToo obvious
She has to make him ask
Have you ever had a friend?
Posted by PossessionSt
Can't askToo obvious
She has to make him ask
Have you ever had a friend?
That I cared for? No
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You saying it to hurt bunny? Hadnt he suffered enough?
@blackrosee
Posted by Astrology101
If you are into some sports ... easiest way to hang out with boys.
Yeah...what if he is anti-sport and him you want?
Posted by PossessionSt
But it is too obviousWomen ask me to go to cross fit
Some stupid rowing dragon boat thing
I don't accept because it would give the wrong impression
Since when do you care about impression?
Posted by Astrology101
If you are into some sports ... easiest way to hang out with boys.Yeah...what if he is anti-sport and him you want?
What is he into... ?
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Idk. She didn't tell. I tagged her so...
Posted by PossessionSt
But it is too obviousWomen ask me to go to cross fit
Some stupid rowing dragon boat thing
I don't accept because it would give the wrong impression
Since when do you care about impression?
Me all the time
Especially to strangers
Why would you treat someone you don't know very well horribly
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Why would you refuse to go on a boat thing?
Posted by Astrology101
If you are into some sports ... easiest way to hang out with boys.Yeah...what if he is anti-sport and him you want?
What is he into... ?
Idk. She didn't tell. I quoted her so...
Well I mean its easier to do that...
Go for something he might be interested in.
Maybe your friend and him both like books... find some common interests.
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It's @blackroseee here.
Posted by PossessionSt
But it is too obviousWomen ask me to go to cross fit
Some stupid rowing dragon boat thing
I don't accept because it would give the wrong impression
Since when do you care about impression?
Me all the time
Especially to strangers
Why would you treat someone you don't know very well horribly
Why would you refuse to go on a boat thing?
Because if I went that would imply interest and I am not interested in this lady
Wrong signals
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Aren't you gay?
Posted by PossessionSt
But it is too obviousWomen ask me to go to cross fit
Some stupid rowing dragon boat thing
I don't accept because it would give the wrong impression
Since when do you care about impression?
Me all the time
Especially to strangers
Why would you treat someone you don't know very well horribly
Why would you refuse to go on a boat thing?
Because if I went that would imply interest and I am not interested in this lady
Wrong signals
Aren't you gay?
I am
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So how can you send wrong impression that you interested in that lady?
Is she not aware?
I invited my Gem to drinks with me and my friends. Super casual like.
I had asked my friends before if they could take off so I could have him to myself. So they stayed for one drink and then had to leave for 'work'.
Worked like a charm!
Posted by PossessionSt
But it is too obviousWomen ask me to go to cross fit
Some stupid rowing dragon boat thing
I don't accept because it would give the wrong impression
Since when do you care about impression?
Me all the time
Especially to strangers
Why would you treat someone you don't know very well horribly
Why would you refuse to go on a boat thing?
Because if I went that would imply interest and I am not interested in this lady
Wrong signals
Aren't you gay?
I am
So how can you send wrong impression that you interested in that lady?
Is she not aware?
Nope
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Then OFCOURSE you shouldn't.
So we have derailed this thread and no advice for roseee
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and left
after 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
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and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
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Is it still going on?
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
Is it still going on?
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of course. we are married till death do us apart ?
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
Is it still going on?
of course. we are married till death do we apart ?
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Wow! Awesome!
Is he dissapearing sometimes?
You know like a Famous anScorpios Disapearing Act?
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
Is it still going on?
of course. we are married till death do we apart ?
Wow! Awesome!
Is he dissapearing sometimes?
You know like a Famous anScorpios Disapearing Act?
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never. i think he was more occupied with my 'out of sight, out of mind' behavior at times lol
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
Is it still going on?
of course. we are married till death do we apart ?
Wow! Awesome!
Is he dissapearing sometimes?
You know like a Famous anScorpios Disapearing Act?
never. i think he was more occupied with my 'out of sight, out of mind' behavior at times lol
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What are you?
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
Is it still going on?
of course. we are married till death do we apart ?
Wow! Awesome!
Is he dissapearing sometimes?
You know like a Famous anScorpios Disapearing Act?
never. i think he was more occupied with my 'out of sight, out of mind' behavior at times lol
What are you?
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that's a touch question lol. i think i told u before that i am a cap (aqua moon pisces mars). not remotely similar to your lazy husband though i hope lol
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
Is it still going on?
of course. we are married till death do we apart ?
Wow! Awesome!
Is he dissapearing sometimes?
You know like a Famous anScorpios Disapearing Act?
never. i think he was more occupied with my 'out of sight, out of mind' behavior at times lol
What are you?
that's a touch question lol. i think i told u before that i am a cap (aqua moon pisces mars). not remotely similar to your lazy husband though i hope lol
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Now I remember.
Lol
My husband also liked my Scorpio...lol
So it's nuts!!!
What your husbands moon?
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
Is it still going on?
of course. we are married till death do we apart ?
Wow! Awesome!
Is he dissapearing sometimes?
You know like a Famous anScorpios Disapearing Act?
never. i think he was more occupied with my 'out of sight, out of mind' behavior at times lol
What are you?
that's a touch question lol. i think i told u before that i am a cap (aqua moon pisces mars). not remotely similar to your lazy husband though i hope lol
Now I remember.
Lol
My husband also liked my Scorpio...lol
So it's nuts!!!
What your husbands moon?
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virgo. i have never even dated anyone without virgo sun or moon or venus. what a curse lol except my scorpopoo of course lol
Idk..if I were to make any plan, I always only make 'em with a group of ppl even if I like (and wanna meet) only one guy among them ?
Posted by iCloud9
when i first met scorp, even though it was love at first sight, i was not ready for anything. i asked for his business card (lol, can't escape the capricorn nature u know), stared into his soul and said i'm gonna very busy for a while and left it at that. he said he didn't want to leave while sitting next to me and leftafter 3+ months, he asked a friends' friend whether he could email me and i was so happy to get his email lol. i said that's do lunch with our mutual friends! they didn't show up of course lol
...and...
and i told him 'let's be friends first' and the drama began lol ❤️
Is it still going on?
of course. we are married till death do we apart ?
Wow! Awesome!
Is he dissapearing sometimes?
You know like a Famous anScorpios Disapearing Act?
never. i think he was more occupied with my 'out of sight, out of mind' behavior at times lol
What are you?
that's a touch question lol. i think i told u before that i am a cap (aqua moon pisces mars). not remotely similar to your lazy husband though i hope lol
Now I remember.
Lol
My husband also liked my Scorpio...lol
So it's nuts!!!
What your husbands moon?
virgo. i have never even dated anyone without virgo sun or moon or venus. what a curse lol except my scorpopoo of course lol
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Young lady like this young man.
She wants to ask him on a date.
I say don't treat it as a date, treat it as a friendly hangout.
Of course she is nervous.
We need suggestions on HOW TO ask a person to hang out so they wouldn't be scared by 'dating vibe'?
First think comes to my mind:
I am hungry. Let's grab something quick. (While he is thinking)...
Are you hungry?
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I think he will see no trap. And guys almost always hungry, right?
Please share your ideas.
Guys most welcome.