@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts
What's wrong with men nowadays?
Understanding Men's Behavior in Modern Relationships
Many men fear emotional intimacy and commitment, leading to inconsistent behavior such as disappearing after expressing love. This reflects changes in traditional masculinity and emotional expression, often driven by fear of vulnerability. Recognizing these patterns can help women better understand men's actions and foster healthier connections.
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I've been so busy the last two days that I've hardly thought about men. And you know what, it feels so amazing to not give two shits!
Posted by tiziani
Consider the source though.
I don't see you o'gratest having steady relashionships btw.
So? Afraid to get hurt? Or too lazy to court? And fine without sex...
Argue please...
Posted by tiziani
Consider the source though.I don't see you o'gratest having steady relashionships btw.
So? Afraid to get hurt? Or too lazy to court? And fine without sex...
Argue please...
I'm good in that area. I certainly don't have any unstable relationships (shrugs)
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And no stable?
Posted by Arielle83
Yep they come on strong.Get feelings
Say I love you
Then run
Come back later when they feel in control again.
And fall out of control in a week to run again...must have pretty strong legs!
Posted by tiziani
Consider the source though.I don't see you o'gratest having steady relashionships btw.
So? Afraid to get hurt? Or too lazy to court? And fine without sex...
Argue please...
I'm good in that area. I certainly don't have any unstable relationships (shrugs)
And no stable?
Yes, no problems in that area.
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That IS a problem! Huge! What is it - lazinest? Or just dontcarism? 🙂
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Women don't like that.
They became so independent, so masculine, so "don't need you", we finally figured out, maybe we're better off if YOU chase US.
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And how is your chasee life going?
Posted by tiziani
Consider the source though.I don't see you o'gratest having steady relashionships btw.
So? Afraid to get hurt? Or too lazy to court? And fine without sex...
Argue please...
I'm good in that area. I certainly don't have any unstable relationships (shrugs)
And no stable?
Yes, no problems in that area.
That IS a problem! Huge! What is it - lazinest? Or just dontcarism? 🙂
Lol you must be bored. I'm good.
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Keep kidding yourself...
Posted by youngali
i think everyone is afraid of getting hurt, some just guard themselves differently from others.
For man to be afraid is unnatural!
How about step over it and be a man?
And what about expecting mediocre sex as if it was a good thing?
And how is your chasee life going?
If I had to compare my chasee, I would compare it to a SHIP.
It is at its safest in the harbor, but that's not what it was built for.
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Lol
So is it normal?
NO!
Posted by Arielle83
What makes a guy come back is my question?
There was an answer. He exhausted all contacts from his black book and it's yoir turn again...but he won't stay...he is afraid.
??
Posted by youngali
i think everyone is afraid of getting hurt, some just guard themselves differently from others.For man to be afraid is unnatural!
How about step over it and be a man?
And what about expecting mediocre sex as if it was a good thing?
men are prideful, so rejection scares some of them... that's totally natural.
i don't know who would be expecting mediocre sex. definitely not me. lol
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You not a man!
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Women don't like that.
They became so independent, so masculine, so "don't need you", we finally figured out, maybe we're better off if YOU chase US.
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Assertive, not masculine......well the ones I know
Posted by starwars
its a new generation thing, you wont understand
Women make it too easy
FWB's
Fuckbuddies
The throw away sex generation
No need for commitment
Posted by nanobyte
Mostly on DXP you are hearing the female perspective.Exactly. Consider the source.
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Lol!! I was wondering if anyone caught that or just ignored.. your first comment ?? n then saw nano saying the same.
Posted by Gemitati
Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
It's the female genders fault ..it used to be survival of the fittest. We started feeling sorry for the assholes. BIG MISTAKE..they bred.
For the future of the species we need to go for the best...
Posted by Capz
they are all scared of cheating wife
I think this is true esp if they been cheated before. So they rather be a player than invest their heart on someone .
Posted by nanobyte
Mostly on DXP you are hearing the female perspective. Women are generally guided by emotions, lack logic, embellish truths, flat out lie, or are otherwise extremely biased. It's just what we are and what we do.The problem with your post though, is that you are taking what these women here say as more than a grain of salt, rather than what it actually is.
If you could hear the men's side of these stories, then your opinion would probably change from "what's wrong with men" to "what's wrong with women"
There's a lot more wrong with women than men these days, imo. I have played the "mediator" role between couples in MANY situations, and I am telling you right now that women are fucking batshit.
Totally agree. We all are a working progress. both men and women. a lot of women show the needy cards and push men totally away... not understanding how to connect to their emotion ... connect to their head... don't know how to connect to men the right way... lose touch with their feminine side etc.... relationships r work and both parties need to work at it. Commitment label or not, the label and title won't guarantee the couples will last... sometimes the non marriage couples are happier. It's not about the label it's about the connection, love, communication, understanding between two people... it's about learning to love without the expectation of anybody.., men r also afraid that if they commit they will lose their freedom, masculine side( coz women r becoming too masculine, and cheating partners.. they r worried their so will turn out to be someone they don't know... she will turn into a nagging girlfriend who take from his life rather than add values etc...., if you show him otherwise, chances of him staying and commmitjng is a lot higher ... )
Posted by Arielle83
What makes a guy come back is my question?Knowing he can rip everything off of her, lay down on her for 10 minutes, and FORGET about life misery.
What if she says no?
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Ouch! He will get hurt! ?
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
"Men act like women"
When have men ever acted differently at all? Aren't men supposed to fear commitment anyways? I don't see the difference.
"Where are the macho men?"
They sleep with multiple women and leave. That's what James Bond does as well. Maybe he once fell in love but only once.
"What happened to courtship?"
It never really happened at all. Society and older people are lying to women.
Back in the old days women weren't allowed to work in many countries, let alone to have a bank account. So men were introduced to women by their friends and families and if the man liked her, he obviously took her out, because he was working and he had the money, he had the power and her phone number. Lots of women maybe didn't even fell for those men but they were told by their families that they were good providers and a good men so they settled for security in the first place. They also didn't have as many opportunities to meet men as they do now. Who knows how many of our grandparents and even parents married out of practical reasons.
Nowadays courtship is just not worth it anymore and too risky for many men. You don't want to take a woman out knowing that she is meeting other guys on tinder or other dating apps as soon as you say goodbye to her after the first date.
Posted by nanobyte
Mostly on DXP you are hearing the female perspective. Women are generally guided by emotions, lack logic, embellish truths, flat out lie, or are otherwise extremely biased. It's just what we are and what we do.The problem with your post though, is that you are taking what these women here say as more than a grain of salt, rather than what it actually is.
If you could hear the men's side of these stories, then your opinion would probably change from "what's wrong with men" to "what's wrong with women"
There's a lot more wrong with women than men these days, imo. I have played the "mediator" role between couples in MANY situations, and I am telling you right now that women are fucking batshit.
There is definitely A LOT wrong with women. I am just addressing men in this post. Because I see that young generation lack of men in power who aren't beating ctap out of women but protecting them and leading the relashionship.
Who are breadwinners and projecting good things on women like sense of security. I see that regardless all the feministic crap women lounging for that strong shoulder to lean on but in reality those shoulders are slipping away as soon as they feeling some pressure on them.
Oops, she is needy and clingy.
Putting of my running shoes. Gone!
And she is lucky if she isn't left with a child in her arms.
And mind you - I used to advocating men because I thought they are blamed for everything when women are smarter, wicker, manipulative etc. and men used to be just being treated unfairly in many cases. Just because they were men!!!
Nowadays I see those flimsy weak 'boys' to the death bed and it makes me
feeling sorry for my daughter. Will she find a MAN? I hope so.
Posted by Astrology101
But @Gemitati aren't there positives to this generation?Women /girls can now choose to live according to their terms..
No need to be dependant on a man
Also, no one is forced to stay in marriages because of financial dependency
Women are free to choose careers.. to actually stand on their own feet... without a lot of patriarchy pushing us around.
We are free to choose who we marry.
I'm not saying everything is good... but I think we've made a lot of progress.
Aren't you happy to be living in these times?
Of course there is tons of good in this generation! My daughter is the one and her surroundings are great!
However let me jump back on my high horse.
See, women having career means kids are raised by strangers. I am battling it in my brain. I had my mother with me, still do. So she did a great grand mothering!
But not everyone is that lucky!
So having full time working parents and flimzy father figure will soon makes us into Amazons and I will be happy to be dead by then! ?
Posted by Astrology101
But @Gemitati aren't there positives to this generation?Women /girls can now choose to live according to their terms..
No need to be dependant on a man
Also, no one is forced to stay in marriages because of financial dependency
Women are free to choose careers.. to actually stand on their own feet... without a lot of patriarchy pushing us around.
We are free to choose who we marry.
I'm not saying everything is good... but I think we've made a lot of progress.
Aren't you happy to be living in these times?
That's true. The problem is that's it been taken so far that it breeds undue entitlement and unrealistic expectations for men that women don't even meet themselves. That's where a great deal of the distrust comes from.
How has it been taken so far?
Entitlement and expectations for men?
Men have always been entitled to everything from the get go. I think its this undue entitlement that women are walking away from...
And if this breeds distrust.. so be it.
Anyone doesn't have to pay dues to anyone... IMO.
Unless you're referring to your grandparent's generation or are in a caste system, it's been that way for awhile. It's the women's choice. There's a difference between not settling and thinking one is entitled to character and ability that you (not you specifically) don't possess. Yes, there's a certain amount of white male privilege that's still in power as there's always been, but that's an extreme minority and not worth citing as a representation of the whole .If you've travelled abroad, you'll notice it's way worse here in the U.S. There's plenty of good men out there, probably way more than good women, yet all we hear is 'There's no good men' and 'they're inadequate in the face of my newfound awesomeness.' If you want more, be more..if you don't and can't, then dont complain especially when you don't embody those characterictics. You can't have it have both ways.
Maybe you need to take your opinions and shove it in your ass.
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....or as some people like to say "shove it up yer jacksie"
😛
Lol
Posted by Astrology101
But @Gemitati aren't there positives to this generation?Women /girls can now choose to live according to their terms..
No need to be dependant on a man
Also, no one is forced to stay in marriages because of financial dependency
Women are free to choose careers.. to actually stand on their own feet... without a lot of patriarchy pushing us around.
We are free to choose who we marry.
I'm not saying everything is good... but I think we've made a lot of progress.
Aren't you happy to be living in these times?
That's true. The problem is that's it been taken so far that it breeds undue entitlement and unrealistic expectations for men that women don't even meet themselves. That's where a great deal of the distrust comes from.
How has it been taken so far?
Entitlement and expectations for men?
Men have always been entitled to everything from the get go. I think its this undue entitlement that women are walking away from...
And if this breeds distrust.. so be it.
Anyone doesn't have to pay dues to anyone... IMO.
Unless you're referring to your grandparent's generation or are in a caste system, it's been that way for awhile. It's the women's choice. There's a difference between not settling and thinking one is entitled to character and ability that you (not you specifically) don't possess. Yes, there's a certain amount of white male privilege that's still in power as there's always been, but that's an extreme minority and not worth citing as a representation of the whole .If you've travelled abroad, you'll notice it's way worse here in the U.S. There's plenty of good men out there, probably way more than good women, yet all we hear is 'There's no good men' and 'they're inadequate in the face of my newfound awesomeness.' If you want more, be more..if you don't and can't, then dont complain especially when you don't embody those characterictics. You can't have it have both ways.
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Definitely there are plenty of good men!
I am just hoping dxp is not a reflection of today's world of men.
Yeah I don't get out much...?
Posted by Astrology101
But @Gemitati aren't there positives to this generation?Women /girls can now choose to live according to their terms..
No need to be dependant on a man
Also, no one is forced to stay in marriages because of financial dependency
Women are free to choose careers.. to actually stand on their own feet... without a lot of patriarchy pushing us around.
We are free to choose who we marry.
I'm not saying everything is good... but I think we've made a lot of progress.
Aren't you happy to be living in these times?
That's true. The problem is that's it been taken so far that it breeds undue entitlement and unrealistic expectations for men that women don't even meet themselves. That's where a great deal of the distrust comes from.
How has it been taken so far?
Entitlement and expectations for men?
Men have always been entitled to everything from the get go. I think its this undue entitlement that women are walking away from...
And if this breeds distrust.. so be it.
Anyone doesn't have to pay dues to anyone... IMO.
Unless you're referring to your grandparent's generation or are in a caste system, it's been that way for awhile. It's the women's choice. There's a difference between not settling and thinking one is entitled to character and ability that you (not you specifically) don't possess. Yes, there's a certain amount of white male privilege that's still in power as there's always been, but that's an extreme minority and not worth citing as a representation of the whole .If you've travelled abroad, you'll notice it's way worse here in the U.S. There's plenty of good men out there, probably way more than good women, yet all we hear is 'There's no good men' and 'they're inadequate in the face of my newfound awesomeness.' If you want more, be more..if you don't and can't, then dont complain especially when you don't embody those characterictics. You can't have it have both ways.
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I disagree. The minority has always had more privilege since the start. You have just been brain washed by your peers and chose to believe the things you think are true. Your peers want you to believe this invisible dark phantom exist, when really it's just an illusion. Then you start stabbing at shadows in the dark, and teach your young to fear these same invisible fantoms that don't exist. Luckily my generation is slowly killing off this false and incorrect state of mind better then any gen thus far.
I truly hope the best for you. I hope you can see life was in your hands this whole time. I hope you can teach your kids that life isn't this fucked up beast you've convinced yourself it is. I just truly hope the best for you, your family, and those their thoughts and actions touch.
Posted by Astrology101
But @Gemitati aren't there positives to this generation?Women /girls can now choose to live according to their terms..
No need to be dependant on a man
Also, no one is forced to stay in marriages because of financial dependency
Women are free to choose careers.. to actually stand on their own feet... without a lot of patriarchy pushing us around.
We are free to choose who we marry.
I'm not saying everything is good... but I think we've made a lot of progress.
Aren't you happy to be living in these times?
That's true. The problem is that's it been taken so far that it breeds undue entitlement and unrealistic expectations for men that women don't even meet themselves. That's where a great deal of the distrust comes from.
How has it been taken so far?
Entitlement and expectations for men?
Men have always been entitled to everything from the get go. I think its this undue entitlement that women are walking away from...
And if this breeds distrust.. so be it.
Anyone doesn't have to pay dues to anyone... IMO.
Unless you're referring to your grandparent's generation or are in a caste system, it's been that way for awhile. It's the women's choice. There's a difference between not settling and thinking one is entitled to character and ability that you (not you specifically) don't possess. Yes, there's a certain amount of white male privilege that's still in power as there's always been, but that's an extreme minority and not worth citing as a representation of the whole .If you've travelled abroad, you'll notice it's way worse here in the U.S. There's plenty of good men out there, probably way more than good women, yet all we hear is 'There's no good men' and 'they're inadequate in the face of my newfound awesomeness.' If you want more, be more..if you don't and can't, then dont complain especially when you don't embody those characterictics. You can't have it have both ways.
I disagree. The minority has always had more privilege since the start. You have just been brain washed by your peers and chose to believe the things you think are true. Your peers want you to believe this invisible dark phantom exist, when really it's just an illusion. Then you start stabbing at shadows in the dark, and teach your young to fear these same invisible fantoms that don't exist. Luckily my generation is slowly killing off this false and incorrect state of mind better then any gen thus far.
I truly hope the best for you. I hope you can see life was in your hands this whole time. I hope you can teach your kids that life isn't this fucked up beast you've convinced yourself it is. I just truly hope the best for you, your family, and those their thoughts and actions touch.
lol I never said it was. Your replies are mostly out of context due to your lack of comprehension. My life is great and I have complete freedom of choice in every aspect so you might want to refer this to yourself where it's more applicable.
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So what's your issue?
Let me guess, it's suddenly disappeared lol
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Just here to read the comments
Get ta hell out of here, reader!
You owe me number of women you left just because...remember? ?
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Just here to read the comments
Get ta hell out of here, reader!
You owe me number of women you left just because...remember? ?
Lol not going anywhere I love reading them comments
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It was a figurative speach.
You know sometimes I speak figuratively (whatever that means)...
Posted by Astrology101
But @Gemitati aren't there positives to this generation?Women /girls can now choose to live according to their terms..
No need to be dependant on a man
Also, no one is forced to stay in marriages because of financial dependency
Women are free to choose careers.. to actually stand on their own feet... without a lot of patriarchy pushing us around.
We are free to choose who we marry.
I'm not saying everything is good... but I think we've made a lot of progress.
Aren't you happy to be living in these times?
That's true. The problem is that's it been taken so far that it breeds undue entitlement and unrealistic expectations for men that women don't even meet themselves. That's where a great deal of the distrust comes from.
How has it been taken so far?
Entitlement and expectations for men?
Men have always been entitled to everything from the get go. I think its this undue entitlement that women are walking away from...
And if this breeds distrust.. so be it.
Anyone doesn't have to pay dues to anyone... IMO.
Unless you're referring to your grandparent's generation or are in a caste system, it's been that way for awhile. It's the women's choice. There's a difference between not settling and thinking one is entitled to character and ability that you (not you specifically) don't possess. Yes, there's a certain amount of white male privilege that's still in power as there's always been, but that's an extreme minority and not worth citing as a representation of the whole .If you've travelled abroad, you'll notice it's way worse here in the U.S. There's plenty of good men out there, probably way more than good women, yet all we hear is 'There's no good men' and 'they're inadequate in the face of my newfound awesomeness.' If you want more, be more..if you don't and can't, then dont complain especially when you don't embody those characterictics. You can't have it have both ways.
Maybe you need to take your opinions and shove it up your ass.
Nah, I'll save it for the butthurt ones. They're the ones that can really use it.
Lol. Butthurt.
Save that and the rest.
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That's just my hot taek ? on not really saying anything different than you..aside from the reaction ☝️?
You're just a shyt stirrer.
You just want some shyt in your life.
That's why your opinions are shyt.
And you need to shove them up your ass.
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Except the shyt stirrer appears to be you here ?. Maybe I do need a little shyt in my life as you would fit the criteria —?
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Stirring sheet isn't a federal offense and not punishable by law! So...you basically have to SUCK IT UP and keep on living hon...?
Posted by Ellygant
Dating would be a lot easier for everyone if we quit fucking around and just admitted it's everyone's fault and no ones at the same time.Men could have more stones.
Women could be more honest.
Men could be more emotionally mature.
Women could be more emotionally mature.
Everyone could learn to take responsibility for their affect on others in social situations instead of playing a losing game of 'who acts like they care less when really we both care.'
That and focusing on relationships as fluid entities rather than a fixed goal would probably help.
But they don't.
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?Did you have to do that? ??
Posted by Astrology101
But @Gemitati aren't there positives to this generation?Women /girls can now choose to live according to their terms..
No need to be dependant on a man
Also, no one is forced to stay in marriages because of financial dependency
Women are free to choose careers.. to actually stand on their own feet... without a lot of patriarchy pushing us around.
We are free to choose who we marry.
I'm not saying everything is good... but I think we've made a lot of progress.
Aren't you happy to be living in these times?
That's true. The problem is that's it been taken so far that it breeds undue entitlement and unrealistic expectations for men that women don't even meet themselves. That's where a great deal of the distrust comes from.
How has it been taken so far?
Entitlement and expectations for men?
Men have always been entitled to everything from the get go. I think its this undue entitlement that women are walking away from...
And if this breeds distrust.. so be it.
Anyone doesn't have to pay dues to anyone... IMO.
Unless you're referring to your grandparent's generation or are in a caste system, it's been that way for awhile. It's the women's choice. There's a difference between not settling and thinking one is entitled to character and ability that you (not you specifically) don't possess. Yes, there's a certain amount of white male privilege that's still in power as there's always been, but that's an extreme minority and not worth citing as a representation of the whole .If you've travelled abroad, you'll notice it's way worse here in the U.S. There's plenty of good men out there, probably way more than good women, yet all we hear is 'There's no good men' and 'they're inadequate in the face of my newfound awesomeness.' If you want more, be more..if you don't and can't, then dont complain especially when you don't embody those characterictics. You can't have it have both ways.
Maybe you need to take your opinions and shove it up your ass.
Nah, I'll save it for the butthurt ones. They're the ones that can really use it.
Lol. Butthurt.
Save that and the rest.
??
That's just my hot taek ? on not really saying anything different than you..aside from the reaction ☝️?
You're just a shyt stirrer.
You just want some shyt in your life.
That's why your opinions are shyt.
And you need to shove them up your ass.
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Except the shyt stirrer appears to be you here ?. Maybe I do need a little shyt in my life as you would fit the criteria —?
Stirring sheet isn't a federal offense and not punishable by law! So...you basically have to SUCK IT UP and keep on living hon...?
I'll manage somehow ?..it's a tough world out there getting bullied on the internet by something called Astrology 101. Hold meh Gemitati ?
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I've just noticed...someone is fighting in MY thread and I am not involved?
?
Outrages disrespect! ?
Posted by Ellygant
Dating would be a lot easier for everyone if we quit fucking around and just admitted it's everyone's fault and no ones at the same time.Men could have more stones.
Women could be more honest.
Men could be more emotionally mature.
Women could be more emotionally mature.
Everyone could learn to take responsibility for their affect on others in social situations instead of playing a losing game of 'who acts like they care less when really we both care.'
That and focusing on relationships as fluid entities rather than a fixed goal would probably help.
But they don't.
?Did you have to do that? ??
It's the truth 😭
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Finally this thread derailed into 'everyone should do right'
NO FKNG NO!!!
it wasn't a question!
Queation was what's wrong with MEN nowadays which had not implies that there is nothing wrong with women...
I was concern about men's feminization.
Only. In this thread
Posted by Ellygant
Dating would be a lot easier for everyone if we quit fucking around and just admitted it's everyone's fault and no ones at the same time.Men could have more stones.
Women could be more honest.
Men could be more emotionally mature.
Women could be more emotionally mature.
Everyone could learn to take responsibility for their affect on others in social situations instead of playing a losing game of 'who acts like they care less when really we both care.'
That and focusing on relationships as fluid entities rather than a fixed goal would probably help.
But they don't.
?Did you have to do that? ??
It's the truth 😭
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Finally this thread derailed into 'everyone should do right'
NO FKNG NO!!!
it wasn't a question!
Queation was what's wrong with MEN nowadays which had not implies that there is nothing wrong with women...
I was concern about men's feminization.
Only. In this thread
Posted by TheSagLady
"I disappear because i was afraid of my feeling" is a nicer sentence for "i think you catch feeling more than I do"Same like "i am commitment phobe" is a nicer sentence than "i want commitment but i dont think i want a commitment with you" ?
Agree. But they return to be scared again...
Posted by Gemitati
Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
You and the 7 people that liked this must have the iQ of bushmen. Nothing what you wrote above makes any sense. The saddest part is it's coming from a degenerate like you. Please go back under your rock. Your better half of life is over and even if any of this stupid post of yours was true, it wouldn't apply to you grandma.
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Nobody cares about your opinion, shmuckazoid!
I don't care how old are you but you definitely haven't lived one good day in your life. Nasty, moronic attitude of yours is reflection of impotent brain and other organs in your body.
Your IQ test results would be 'no IQ detected'...
Though you want to type. No matter what!
Piece of flaming sheet!
Choke on your vomit, nature's miscarriage!
Posted by Gemitati
Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
You and the 7 people that liked this must have the iQ of bushmen. Nothing what you wrote above makes any sense. The saddest part is it's coming from a degenerate like you. Please go back under your rock. Your better half of life is over and even if any of this stupid post of yours was true, it wouldn't apply to you grandma.
Nobody cares about your opinion, shmuckazoid!
I don't care how old are you but you definitely haven't lived one good day in your life. Nasty, moronic attitude of yours is reflection of impotent brain and other organs in your body.
Your IQ test results would be 'no IQ detected'...
Though you want to type. No matter what!
Piece of flaming sheet!
Choke on your vomit, nature's miscarriage!
Aww poor thing got upset. Go back to your bushman, bushwoman. Your OP was nothing short of a mess, lol. You are the last one here to speak on intelligence. Just lolololol
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Aha...chewing your balls? —
Posted by Gemitati
Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
You and the 7 people that liked this must have the iQ of bushmen. Nothing what you wrote above makes any sense. The saddest part is it's coming from a degenerate like you. Please go back under your rock. Your better half of life is over and even if any of this stupid post of yours was true, it wouldn't apply to you grandma.
Nobody cares about your opinion, shmuckazoid!
I don't care how old are you but you definitely haven't lived one good day in your life. Nasty, moronic attitude of yours is reflection of impotent brain and other organs in your body.
Your IQ test results would be 'no IQ detected'...
Though you want to type. No matter what!
Piece of flaming sheet!
Choke on your vomit, nature's miscarriage!
Aww poor thing got upset. Go back to your bushman, bushwoman. Your OP was nothing short of a mess, lol. You are the last one here to speak on intelligence. Just lolololol
Aha...chewing your balls? —
Aha...Chewing your grey-haired pussy?
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One can dream. I wouldn't let you sniff my butt! Well, maybe for a lot of money...
No, I don't think so.
You don't deserve it. Your own balls is the only option so keep up a good chew!
Idiot...
Posted by Gemitati
Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
You and the 7 people that liked this must have the iQ of bushmen. Nothing what you wrote above makes any sense. The saddest part is it's coming from a degenerate like you. Please go back under your rock. Your better half of life is over and even if any of this stupid post of yours was true, it wouldn't apply to you grandma.
Nobody cares about your opinion, shmuckazoid!
I don't care how old are you but you definitely haven't lived one good day in your life. Nasty, moronic attitude of yours is reflection of impotent brain and other organs in your body.
Your IQ test results would be 'no IQ detected'...
Though you want to type. No matter what!
Piece of flaming sheet!
Choke on your vomit, nature's miscarriage!
Aww poor thing got upset. Go back to your bushman, bushwoman. Your OP was nothing short of a mess, lol. You are the last one here to speak on intelligence. Just lolololol
Aha...chewing your balls? —
Aha...Chewing your grey-haired pussy?
One can dream. I wouldn't let you sniff my butt! Well, maybe for a lot of money...
No, I don't think so.
You don't deserve it. Your own balls is the only option so keep up a good chew!
Idiot...
Yeah I'd never want to even see you let alone touch you. You probably smell like a wet dog and cheese.
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Are you an orphan? Must be. Otherwise you would know posting that was stupid.
Or if you have parents - your experience must be based on their poor hygiene.
Otherwise I don't know where you've got this idea.
Posted by TheSagLady
"I disappear because i was afraid of my feeling" is a nicer sentence for "i think you catch feeling more than I do"Same like "i am commitment phobe" is a nicer sentence than "i want commitment but i dont think i want a commitment with you" ?
Agree. But they return to be scared again...
Who's they?
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Clowns!
Posted by Gemitati
Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
You and the 7 people that liked this must have the iQ of bushmen. Nothing what you wrote above makes any sense. The saddest part is it's coming from a degenerate like you. Please go back under your rock. Your better half of life is over and even if any of this stupid post of yours was true, it wouldn't apply to you grandma.
Nobody cares about your opinion, shmuckazoid!
I don't care how old are you but you definitely haven't lived one good day in your life. Nasty, moronic attitude of yours is reflection of impotent brain and other organs in your body.
Your IQ test results would be 'no IQ detected'...
Though you want to type. No matter what!
Piece of flaming sheet!
Choke on your vomit, nature's miscarriage!
Aww poor thing got upset. Go back to your bushman, bushwoman. Your OP was nothing short of a mess, lol. You are the last one here to speak on intelligence. Just lolololol
Aha...chewing your balls? —
Aha...Chewing your grey-haired pussy?
One can dream. I wouldn't let you sniff my butt! Well, maybe for a lot of money...
No, I don't think so.
You don't deserve it. Your own balls is the only option so keep up a good chew!
Idiot...
Yeah I'd never want to even see you let alone touch you. You probably smell like a wet dog and cheese.
Are you an orphan? Must be. Otherwise you would know posting that was stupid.
Or if you have parents - your experience must be based on their poor hygiene.
Otherwise I don't know where you've got this idea.
I think it's that time for your nap and meds. Lol
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So you can't answer my question?
What are you afraid of? Yor past or your present?
Posted by nanobyte
Mostly on DXP you are hearing the female perspective. Women are generally guided by emotions, lack logic, embellish truths, flat out lie, or are otherwise extremely biased. It's just what we are and what we do.The problem with your post though, is that you are taking what these women here say as more than a grain of salt, rather than what it actually is.
If you could hear the men's side of these stories, then your opinion would probably change from "what's wrong with men" to "what's wrong with women"
There's a lot more wrong with women than men these days, imo. I have played the "mediator" role between couples in MANY situations, and I am telling you right now that women are fucking batshit.
Because I see that young generation lack of men in power who aren't beating ctap out of women but protecting them and leading the relashionship.
Who are breadwinners and projecting good things on women like sense of security.
How many men of the younger generations do you actually get to know or interact with though?
I think a lot of this boils down to law of attraction. Look at DXP... what so many of these women attract their whole lives. Men who cheat, beat the shit out of them, get them pregnant and bounce, etc. What kind of energy and vibes are these women putting out to the opposite sex to get stuck with loser man after loser man?
I am genuinely really curious about their boundaries and decision making processes that leads them down these dead ends in their romantic lives.
There are plenty of good men in younger generations. 20-30s. I have dated and been in relationships with several of them and have never ended up with men even remotely like what is discussed here on DXP. To me, what I often read here on this site is just inconceivable and 100% totally avoidable with just some simple common sense.
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I am glad to hear that!
However aren't you the one of these women here who complaining about your love life?
Posted by Gemitati
Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
You and the 7 people that liked this must have the iQ of bushmen. Nothing what you wrote above makes any sense. The saddest part is it's coming from a degenerate like you. Please go back under your rock. Your better half of life is over and even if any of this stupid post of yours was true, it wouldn't apply to you grandma.
Nobody cares about your opinion, shmuckazoid!
I don't care how old are you but you definitely haven't lived one good day in your life. Nasty, moronic attitude of yours is reflection of impotent brain and other organs in your body.
Your IQ test results would be 'no IQ detected'...
Though you want to type. No matter what!
Piece of flaming sheet!
Choke on your vomit, nature's miscarriage!
Aww poor thing got upset. Go back to your bushman, bushwoman. Your OP was nothing short of a mess, lol. You are the last one here to speak on intelligence. Just lolololol
Aha...chewing your balls? —
Aha...Chewing your grey-haired pussy?
One can dream. I wouldn't let you sniff my butt! Well, maybe for a lot of money...
No, I don't think so.
You don't deserve it. Your own balls is the only option so keep up a good chew!
Idiot...
Yeah I'd never want to even see you let alone touch you. You probably smell like a wet dog and cheese.
Are you an orphan? Must be. Otherwise you would know posting that was stupid.
Or if you have parents - your experience must be based on their poor hygiene.
Otherwise I don't know where you've got this idea.
I think it's that time for your nap and meds. Lol
So you can't answer my question?
What are you afraid of? Yor past or your present?
Look at you typing complete sentences now. Your question has no correlation to what I said. Of course I'm no orphan. That was dumb of you to even ask Stuff like that is the norm for you, unfortunately.
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So your parents smell like dog poop and mold?
Posted by Gemitati
Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
You and the 7 people that liked this must have the iQ of bushmen. Nothing what you wrote above makes any sense. The saddest part is it's coming from a degenerate like you. Please go back under your rock. Your better half of life is over and even if any of this stupid post of yours was true, it wouldn't apply to you grandma.
Nobody cares about your opinion, shmuckazoid!
I don't care how old are you but you definitely haven't lived one good day in your life. Nasty, moronic attitude of yours is reflection of impotent brain and other organs in your body.
Your IQ test results would be 'no IQ detected'...
Though you want to type. No matter what!
Piece of flaming sheet!
Choke on your vomit, nature's miscarriage!
Aww poor thing got upset. Go back to your bushman, bushwoman. Your OP was nothing short of a mess, lol. You are the last one here to speak on intelligence. Just lolololol
Aha...chewing your balls? —
Aha...Chewing your grey-haired pussy?
One can dream. I wouldn't let you sniff my butt! Well, maybe for a lot of money...
No, I don't think so.
You don't deserve it. Your own balls is the only option so keep up a good chew!
Idiot...
Yeah I'd never want to even see you let alone touch you. You probably smell like a wet dog and cheese.
Are you an orphan? Must be. Otherwise you would know posting that was stupid.
Or if you have parents - your experience must be based on their poor hygiene.
Otherwise I don't know where you've got this idea.
I think it's that time for your nap and meds. Lol
So you can't answer my question?
What are you afraid of? Yor past or your present?
Look at you typing complete sentences now. Your question has no correlation to what I said. Of course I'm no orphan. That was dumb of you to even ask Stuff like that is the norm for you, unfortunately.
So your parents smell like dog poop and mold?
Nope but I'm sure that's what you smell like. 🙂
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Everything based on your own life experience. You see people and compare to those you know. So buy your parents shower kit. And tell them it's not ok to stink. They might be offended and throw a fit but you've got to be firm and not come too close or they might rip your balls and you will be out of yoir fav chewables.
Posted by nanobyte
Mostly on DXP you are hearing the female perspective. Women are generally guided by emotions, lack logic, embellish truths, flat out lie, or are otherwise extremely biased. It's just what we are and what we do.The problem with your post though, is that you are taking what these women here say as more than a grain of salt, rather than what it actually is.
If you could hear the men's side of these stories, then your opinion would probably change from "what's wrong with men" to "what's wrong with women"
There's a lot more wrong with women than men these days, imo. I have played the "mediator" role between couples in MANY situations, and I am telling you right now that women are fucking batshit.
Because I see that young generation lack of men in power who aren't beating ctap out of women but protecting them and leading the relashionship.
Who are breadwinners and projecting good things on women like sense of security.
How many men of the younger generations do you actually get to know or interact with though?
I think a lot of this boils down to law of attraction. Look at DXP... what so many of these women attract their whole lives. Men who cheat, beat the shit out of them, get them pregnant and bounce, etc. What kind of energy and vibes are these women putting out to the opposite sex to get stuck with loser man after loser man?
I am genuinely really curious about their boundaries and decision making processes that leads them down these dead ends in their romantic lives.
There are plenty of good men in younger generations. 20-30s. I have dated and been in relationships with several of them and have never ended up with men even remotely like what is discussed here on DXP. To me, what I often read here on this site is just inconceivable and 100% totally avoidable with just some simple common sense.
I am glad to hear that!
However aren't you the one of these women here who complaining about your love life?
Uhh no. If you're referring to brianafay's petty fight thread the other night, that's not really serious LOL.
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Not at all. I am not referring to any thread.
I am referring to all of your own posts from far before Brianna's thread.
Posted by Gemitati
Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.
You and the 7 people that liked this must have the iQ of bushmen. Nothing what you wrote above makes any sense. The saddest part is it's coming from a degenerate like you. Please go back under your rock. Your better half of life is over and even if any of this stupid post of yours was true, it wouldn't apply to you grandma.
Nobody cares about your opinion, shmuckazoid!
I don't care how old are you but you definitely haven't lived one good day in your life. Nasty, moronic attitude of yours is reflection of impotent brain and other organs in your body.
Your IQ test results would be 'no IQ detected'...
Though you want to type. No matter what!
Piece of flaming sheet!
Choke on your vomit, nature's miscarriage!
Aww poor thing got upset. Go back to your bushman, bushwoman. Your OP was nothing short of a mess, lol. You are the last one here to speak on intelligence. Just lolololol
Aha...chewing your balls? —
Aha...Chewing your grey-haired pussy?
One can dream. I wouldn't let you sniff my butt! Well, maybe for a lot of money...
No, I don't think so.
You don't deserve it. Your own balls is the only option so keep up a good chew!
Idiot...
Yeah I'd never want to even see you let alone touch you. You probably smell like a wet dog and cheese.
Are you an orphan? Must be. Otherwise you would know posting that was stupid.
Or if you have parents - your experience must be based on their poor hygiene.
Otherwise I don't know where you've got this idea.
I think it's that time for your nap and meds. Lol
So you can't answer my question?
What are you afraid of? Yor past or your present?
Look at you typing complete sentences now. Your question has no correlation to what I said. Of course I'm no orphan. That was dumb of you to even ask Stuff like that is the norm for you, unfortunately.
So your parents smell like dog poop and mold?
Nope but I'm sure that's what you smell like. 🙂
Everything based on your own life experience. You see people and compare to those you know. So buy your parents shower kit. And tell them it's not ok to stink. They might be offended and throw a fit but you've got to be firm and not come too close or they might rip your balls and you will be out of yoir fav chewables.
Nope it doesn't work like that, bushwoman.
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So you had tried and they refused?
I see. Maybe you can set example and start taking showers yourself?
Posted by nanobyte
Mostly on DXP you are hearing the female perspective. Women are generally guided by emotions, lack logic, embellish truths, flat out lie, or are otherwise extremely biased. It's just what we are and what we do.The problem with your post though, is that you are taking what these women here say as more than a grain of salt, rather than what it actually is.
If you could hear the men's side of these stories, then your opinion would probably change from "what's wrong with men" to "what's wrong with women"
There's a lot more wrong with women than men these days, imo. I have played the "mediator" role between couples in MANY situations, and I am telling you right now that women are fucking batshit.
Because I see that young generation lack of men in power who aren't beating ctap out of women but protecting them and leading the relashionship.
Who are breadwinners and projecting good things on women like sense of security.
How many men of the younger generations do you actually get to know or interact with though?
I think a lot of this boils down to law of attraction. Look at DXP... what so many of these women attract their whole lives. Men who cheat, beat the shit out of them, get them pregnant and bounce, etc. What kind of energy and vibes are these women putting out to the opposite sex to get stuck with loser man after loser man?
I am genuinely really curious about their boundaries and decision making processes that leads them down these dead ends in their romantic lives.
There are plenty of good men in younger generations. 20-30s. I have dated and been in relationships with several of them and have never ended up with men even remotely like what is discussed here on DXP. To me, what I often read here on this site is just inconceivable and 100% totally avoidable with just some simple common sense.
I am glad to hear that!
However aren't you the one of these women here who complaining about your love life?
Uhh no. If you're referring to brianafay's petty fight thread the other night, that's not really serious LOL.
Not at all. I am not referring to any thread.
I am referring to all of your own posts from far before Brianna's thread.
Hmm I think you are confusing me with someone else. I am in a LDR and engaged, getting married this year and about to spend the summer in Europe with him. I have spoken out about LDR in relationship forum threads before, if that's what you mean. But regularly complaining about my love life on DXP? Not really, I have been fortunate. 10 days and I get to see him again.
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Gooood! Yes sorry I had mistaken you with someone. Have fun you 2! ?
Posted by starwars
its a new generation thing, you wont understandWomen make it too easy
FWB's
Fuckbuddies
The throw away sex generation
No need for commitment
this is not what i meant i just want to trigger gemitati
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I know
It's what I meant though 😛
Posted by Ellygant
Dating would be a lot easier for everyone if we quit fucking around and just admitted it's everyone's fault and no ones at the same time.Men could have more stones.
Women could be more honest.
Men could be more emotionally mature.
Women could be more emotionally mature.
Everyone could learn to take responsibility for their affect on others in social situations instead of playing a losing game of 'who acts like they care less when really we both care.'
That and focusing on relationships as fluid entities rather than a fixed goal would probably help.
Men could have more stones lol
Some weeks, you get into that zone where you come out with quotables every other post.
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Huh? Feeling dumb again ?
Posted by Gemitati
whatever she saidYou and the 7 people that liked this must have the iQ of bushmen. Nothing what you wrote above makes any sense. The saddest part is it's coming from a degenerate like you. Please go back under your rock. Your better half of life is over and even if any of this stupid post of yours was true, it wouldn't apply to you grandma.
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Smfh. Who cares about IQ when you can survive in nature and go through life without a job ? But hey white antropologists painted the picture of bushmen being simple-minded people and ElTigre is choosing to endorse that pov. Just lol.
Posted by Ellygant
Dating would be a lot easier for everyone if we quit fucking around and just admitted it's everyone's fault and no ones at the same time.Men could have more stones.
Women could be more honest.
Men could be more emotionally mature.
Women could be more emotionally mature.
Everyone could learn to take responsibility for their affect on others in social situations instead of playing a losing game of 'who acts like they care less when really we both care.'
That and focusing on relationships as fluid entities rather than a fixed goal would probably help.
Men could have more stones lol
Some weeks, you get into that zone where you come out with quotables every other post.
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Dumb alert! Again!!!
What quotables? When? Where?
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Just read a few threads and something very similar in each thread from different signs.
Men don't meet women for the reason that sex was too intense and they scared.
They dissapear because they afraid when falling for a women.
They reappear and shortly after dissapearing again though they were so eager to get back together.
They vanished after they say I Love You. Scared of own bravery and gone.
Seems like men afraid of everything. Loving, intimacy, commitment, relationships...
I see men acting like women!
All that women supposed to feel and do - men do nowadays! How sad.
Where are the macho men went?
What happened with court and trying to win the woman no matter what?
Where is the determination, masculinity, man power?
What isn't with 'he doesn't want to see me because sex was better than mediocre?'
Any woman wondering? I do.