Promiscuous women are winning?

I meant to say whores are winning, but since I knew it would be beeped out... Anywho. I always hear men say how they admire a woman who values herself. A woman who is strong and has morals. Yet they always chase a woman who fucks around. If this woman fucks outside of a relationship, he is placed on a pedestal. "I don't find her attractive." "She is not cute.", but yet you still have sex with her. Wtf.

Posted by starlover
....speaks volumes about some men doesn't it?

show them a woman who is willing and in they go!

not all men of course
not all men

just making sure i am not lumping everyone together

Yes, not all men.

It's nothing more than an easy lay. I compare it to people buying things in the store than doing it the time consuming way, from scratch. Like buying a nice clean fish instead of catching one yourself.

Women that dont sleep around are quite difficult to impress imo. It takes quite some time for them to get to that point where they feel comfortable enough to take it to the next level.

Primal urges, mating instinct, the birds and the bees and all that

Posted by xy
"90% of all birds are monogamous"

Maybe it's because they all look the same...well according to human eyes. I really wonder if they could tell who's hot or not. I have zebra finches, a boy & girl. The boy finch is so loving, which makes me think she must be really hot or pretty. They still look the same though, except the boy has prettier patterns on his body & a brighter beak.

It's not fair also that most boy birds are prettier than the girl birds.

Posted by Wynter
It's not fair also that most boy birds are prettier than the girl birds.

lol I know right. Plus the males are so vain. Mine likes to check himself out on the mirror more than the girl. He even kisses or pecks his own image, maybe out of narcissism or he thinks there's a new handsome fella to compete with lol.

Posted by xy
Fineee.

"Those birds that pair for a season are referred to as monogamous pairs. Monogamy is one male bird with one female bird through a single nesting cycle.

The pair may stay together raising a single brood and then change partners for a second brood in the same season. Still they are considered monogamous."

Funny, my mom says the same thing WC.

that they look the same? There's clearly no competition there with all those bony legs everywhere

Posted by tiziani
The less you pay attention to them, the more room you make for other people to come into your life. I stopped paying attention to women who liked drama and my whole world changed. Maybe if you do the same for these men, you'll start seeing a whole new picture.

Hmmmm.....

Posted by xy
Boy birds are prettier

Lol

Yeah. Hence my birds names are Plain Jane & James Dean lol. Jane & James in short. She'd peck me to death if she knew 😛

Why they gotta be whores?

Posted by Arielle83
I'm still wondering what the prize is that these whores are winning?

It's a saying that has been going around. Meaning these are the type of women that men choose to marry or have kids by. Most of the woman who have values are looked down on. While the one gives it up easy or does what a man tells her to do, gets praised for it. This is what the saying is. If you google "hoes are winning" it will pop up. I've been hearing this saying for a while.

Posted by Arielle83
If you believe the ultimate prize is a man to marry, well maybe you should reprioritize your life.

I don't believe anything. It's a saying. It has nothing to do with MY life. Smh. Google it.

Posted by starlover
....speaks volumes about some men doesn't it?

show them a woman who is willing and in they go!

not all men of course
not all men

just making sure i am not lumping everyone together

Hey now, it's not just the men 🙂

Women seem to be going off with the player boys as well. It's just this instant gratification that humans want now. The men want an easy lay they don't have to work at and women end up falling for the players because they are flattered by their empty promises of relationships and love when the two have barely been dating.

It's tough finding good ones now of both gender, but when you do you better hold on 🙂

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by Arielle83
I'm still wondering what the prize is that these whores are winning?

It's a saying that has been going around. Meaning these are the type of women that men choose to marry or have kids by. Most of the woman who have values are looked down on. While the one gives it up easy or does what a man tells her to do, gets praised for it. This is what the saying is. If you google "hoes are winning" it will pop up. I've been hearing this saying for a while.

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Did you mean: Hoes be winning

This... (guy perspective)

And This.. (woman's perspective)

http://singleislandgal.wordpress.com/2012/09/20/hoes-stay-winning-while-good-girls-do-nothing/

Posted by Arielle83
then why bring it up if it isnt an issue in your life?
Hoes in my neck of the woods get used and tossed aside. They arent 4 marriage. Especially wen they try to get prego by a random to get the 5 grand baby bonus.
That's why we have hoe houses. Nobody wants to hook up with a psycho slut.

Exactly. The way you see it, is the way I see it. In today and a day, a lot of guys want to hook up with a psycho slut. People post a lot of different topics on this website, it doesn't mean that it pertaining to anything their lives.

Anything in*

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by starlover
....speaks volumes about some men doesn't it?

show them a woman who is willing and in they go!

not all men of course
not all men

just making sure i am not lumping everyone together

Hey now, it's not just the men 🙂

Women seem to be going off with the player boys as well. It's just this instant gratification that humans want now. The men want an easy lay they don't have to work at and women end up falling for the players because they are flattered by their empty promises of relationships and love when the two have barely been dating.

It's tough finding good ones now of both gender, but when you do you better hold on 🙂

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Exactly.

Posted by Noreallynow Yet they always chase a woman who fucks around. If this woman fucks outside of a relationship, he is placed on a pedestal. "I don't find her attractive." "She is not cute.", but yet you still have sex with her. Wtf.

Look at the positive side...kleenex are being saved and replaced with cumdumpsters.

All you tree huggers out there should appreciate the ho more. 😉

Posted by LetltB

Posted by Noreallynow Yet they always chase a woman who fucks around. If this woman fucks outside of a relationship, he is placed on a pedestal. "I don't find her attractive." "She is not cute.", but yet you still have sex with her. Wtf.

Look at the positive side...kleenex are being saved and replaced with cumdumpsters.

All you tree huggers out there should appreciate the ho more. 😉

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Lol 🙂

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by Arielle83
So in other words, these chicks do get the short end of the stick. No one wants a hoe. I've never heard of this hoes are winning thing. They aren't. Men marry women who know what they want and don't act out of desperation.

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I understand what you're saying. My views are the same as yours, but I'm telling you. Men marry hoes now. She can have no morals. Sleep around with his friends and he would still marry her. All men aren't like this, but some are like like this. I was raised in the generation where a hoe is a hoe, you fuck her and move on. Now, you have men who jump into relationships with them. They fuck a hoe, keep a hoe. It seems like this is not true, but it's being done. You don't have to have self worth or morals nowadays. Not even a little respect for yourself. Where have you ever heard of a man marrying a woman that his best friend had sex with? This has happened. Smh. That's sad. Wtf is this world coming to.

Posted by Noreallynow
I meant to say whores are winning, but since I knew it would be beeped out... Anywho. I always hear men say how they admire a woman who values herself. A woman who is strong and has morals. Yet they always chase a woman who fucks around. If this woman fucks outside of a relationship, he is placed on a pedestal. "I don't find her attractive." "She is not cute.", but yet you still have sex with her. Wtf.

Daddy used to tell me 'girls like that get a lot of dates, but they don't get long term relationships or offers of marriage'.

Posted by happykitsune

That's what passes for kinky? Damn, no wonder people get bored in the bedroom and start cheating. *smh*

Yeah, no creativity. :/

Posted by Noreallynow
I meant to say whores are winning, but since I knew it would be beeped out... Anywho. I always hear men say how they admire a woman who values herself. A woman who is strong and has morals. Yet they always chase a woman who fucks around. If this woman fucks outside of a relationship, he is placed on a pedestal. "I don't find her attractive." "She is not cute.", but yet you still have sex with her. Wtf.

Mind blowing, isn't it?

It's like that infamous thread awhile back where someone pointed out that guys will talk/think badly of a chick who puts out for him, but continues to sleep with her, all while talking shit.

Or that he doesn't respect her because of her morals, or lack thereof, but gladly will take the goods, all while looking down upon her.

Absolutely baffling, tbh. I witnessed something like this from someone I know. He made himself look like the biggest asshole, but was absolutely unaware of how bad it made HIM look.

"She's dumb, she talks too much, I'm dropping that shit." *runs off to sleep with her for another 3-4 months*

But you have to keep in mind, women like that are NOT winning. They don't necessarily GET the guy, since he just keeps her around for sex. There's a good chance he doesn't treat her well, view her with much respect, etc. They're actually losing, if you think about it.

And if a guy is more interested in chasing after a woman like that, why would you fret about trying to get his attention? He's clearly a shallow idiot interested in contracting some STDs. Dude's not exactly relationship material himself.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Noreallynow
I meant to say whores are winning, but since I knew it would be beeped out... Anywho. I always hear men say how they admire a woman who values herself. A woman who is strong and has morals. Yet they always chase a woman who fucks around. If this woman fucks outside of a relationship, he is placed on a pedestal. "I don't find her attractive." "She is not cute.", but yet you still have sex with her. Wtf.

Mind blowing, isn't it?

It's like that infamous thread awhile back where someone pointed out that guys will talk/think badly of a chick who puts out for him, but continues to sleep with her, all while talking shit.

Or that he doesn't respect her because of her morals, or lack thereof, but gladly will take the goods, all while looking down upon her.

Absolutely baffling, tbh. I witnessed something like this from someone I know. He made himself look like the biggest asshole, but was absolutely unaware of how bad it made HIM look.

"She's dumb, she talks too much, I'm dropping that shit." *runs off to sleep with her for another 3-4 months*

But you have to keep in mind, women like that are NOT winning. They don't necessarily GET the guy, since he just keeps her around for sex. There's a good chance he doesn't treat her well, view her with much respect, etc. They're actually losing, if you think about it.

And if a guy is more interested in chasing after a woman like that, why would you fret about trying to get his attention? He's clearly a shallow idiot interested in contracting some STDs. Dude's not exactly relationship material himself.

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True.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Noreallynow
I meant to say whores are winning, but since I knew it would be beeped out... Anywho. I always hear men say how they admire a woman who values herself. A woman who is strong and has morals. Yet they always chase a woman who fucks around. If this woman fucks outside of a relationship, he is placed on a pedestal. "I don't find her attractive." "She is not cute.", but yet you still have sex with her. Wtf.

Mind blowing, isn't it?

It's like that infamous thread awhile back where someone pointed out that guys will talk/think badly of a chick who puts out for him, but continues to sleep with her, all while talking shit.

Or that he doesn't respect her because of her morals, or lack thereof, but gladly will take the goods, all while looking down upon her.

Absolutely baffling, tbh. I witnessed something like this from someone I know. He made himself look like the biggest asshole, but was absolutely unaware of how bad it made HIM look.

"She's dumb, she talks too much, I'm dropping that shit." *runs off to sleep with her for another 3-4 months*

But you have to keep in mind, women like that are NOT winning. They don't necessarily GET the guy, since he just keeps her around for sex. There's a good chance he doesn't treat her well, view her with much respect, etc. They're actually losing, if you think about it.

And if a guy is more interested in chasing after a woman like that, why would you fret about trying to get his attention? He's clearly a shallow idiot interested in contracting some STDs. Dude's not exactly relationship material himself.

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Exactly right. And who wants to have a guy like that?...women who don't respect themselves.

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by rockyroadicecream

And if a guy is more interested in chasing after a woman like that, why would you fret about trying to get his attention? He's clearly a shallow idiot interested in contracting some STDs. Dude's not exactly relationship material himself.

Exactly right. And who wants to have a guy like that?...women who don't respect themselves.

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Right? Pay attention to how he speaks about women and how he treats the ones in his life. If he's doing cracked out shit like this, dude is NOT relationship material worthy. Sure, hook up if you choose, but keep it at that. Girls can judge a guy and use him how she likes, too. It's actually kinda lol worthy when guys like this are treated how they treat others. Some may not notice because they're that detached, but others do, and they do NOT like being treated how they treat you.

Posted by fishinamaize
sorry but

yeah, promiscuous women are totally winning. so are promiscuous men.

whores as in, prostitutes? probably not, since many of them are essentially slaves to the sex trade. but promiscuous people are absolutely winning.

How?

Posted by fishinamaize

By casting stones and referring to them as "whores" you are not making yourself a winner, you are making yourself an anti-feminist.

and, if you choose to not be promiscuous because you think men will "value" you more, you're not going to win. you're going to remain a mind slave to the patriarchy.

Marry me.