@SaggLaidie
9 Years
Scared of losing Gemini man
Posted by SaggLaidie
He's a Gemini I'm a Sagittarius, we've been talking for the past few months. I do not know much about Geminis he's my first. From what I understand they like their space, as do I. He went poof for a little over a week and fibbed about why. That bothered me, I would've rather he not give me an explanation or just be honest. It was no big deal to me but I didn't see the point in lying. This in turn made me feel like he was looking for an out with me. I said this to him and his feelings were hurt and now we're not talking. I feel terrible that I hurt him and that I made an assumption like that. I have left him alone and plan to, but I'm scared that he will never forgive me. And I'm not sure how to even approach him. We connected immediately and enjoy our time together, I know I do and he seems to as well. I don't want to lose what we could have, but am afraid I have bombed it.
As long as you own up to your mistakes you should be fine. Gemini men ALWAYS come back, and they intellectualize their emotions. He'll sort out the situation in his head & return with a game plan. He'll also act brand new. The white lie he told probably was just that. Sag women are just as hard to tie down so he probably feels the same way as you.
Give him a few days then contact him. Id say about 4 days is OK.
Actually.. how long has it been since you spoke?
Posted by nats
Give him a few days then contact him. Id say about 4 days is OK.Actually.. how long has it been since you spoke?
This occurred about 4 days ago
You shouldn't be the one scared of losing him. He should be the one scared of losing YOU.
Dating a few months and he exhibits this fuck boi behavior, it's not looking good.
You tried to make him feel guilty ..... solely because you being insecure.
It came back to bite you in the ass.
what goes around comes around.
Next time, try being mature about it, rather than suspicious and throwing shit up in his face.
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He's a Gemini I'm a Sagittarius, we've been talking for the past few months. I do not know much about Geminis he's my first. From what I understand they like their space, as do I. He went poof for a little over a week and fibbed about why. That bothered me, I would've rather he not give me an explanation or just be honest. It was no big deal to me but I didn't see the point in lying. This in turn made me feel like he was looking for an out with me. I said this to him and his feelings were hurt and now we're not talking. I feel terrible that I hurt him and that I made an assumption like that. I have left him alone and plan to, but I'm scared that he will never forgive me. And I'm not sure how to even approach him. We connected immediately and enjoy our time together, I know I do and he seems to as well. I don't want to lose what we could have, but am afraid I have bombed it.