AriElla7
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I'd have no problem deleting all of them and it would serve as a good excuse.
I'd wonder why she'd care so much if I turned it in rather than leave it there. So yeah, I guess I'd think it was weird if not highly interesting. The part about there always being an issue over everything is kind of new/different. If it became a thing then maybe something else is up.
I'd wonder why she'd care so much if I turned it in rather than leave it there. So yeah, I guess I'd think it was weird if not highly interesting. The part about there always being an issue over everything is kind of new/different. If it became a thing then maybe something else is up.
Posted by rabidtalkerWhat would you think is up?
I'd have no problem deleting all of them and it would serve as a good excuse.
I'd wonder why she'd care so much if I turned it in rather than leave it there. So yeah, I guess I'd think it was weird if not highly interesting. The part about there always being an issue over everything is kind of new/different. If it became a thing then maybe something else is up.
Posted by AriElla7No, I wouldn't... I don't have anything other than a rarely used
This topic has sorta been done before but I want to add more to it. Would you delete social media accounts for your s/o? Would you delete all of them? Would certain accounts need a valid reason? Would you delete your Twitter? Facebook? Instagram?
Another weird question -
Would you think it's weird if your s/o has an issue with you turning in a lost purse with multiple personal & business credit cards, their insurance card, their govt ID, and $ 300 cash in it? If they tell you to just leave it there for someone else to find, who may not turn it in… Or they actually get annoyed when you tell them you found this and turned it in, and they start lecturing you? Would you agree or get tired of there always being an issue over everything.. Even good Samaritan stuff..
facebook acct that serves me and no one else-- but still it's the
principle of the matter.
I would not give someone a reason to be concerned though...
that's not right.
To the second part: that's a red flag, and I would be very leery of that
person... sounds like a control freak.
Posted by AriElla7Like there was some other problem in the relationship that was bugging her and this was just how she is dealing with it, picking a fight over something not really important instead.Posted by rabidtalkerWhat would you think is up?
I'd have no problem deleting all of them and it would serve as a good excuse.
I'd wonder why she'd care so much if I turned it in rather than leave it there. So yeah, I guess I'd think it was weird if not highly interesting. The part about there always being an issue over everything is kind of new/different. If it became a thing then maybe something else is up.
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Posted by MontgomeryInteresting. Ty. I agree especially since there are different uses for different sites. Like what if your Twitter was only used to follow intellectual/political people who spark your interest on current events and trends? And Instagram was used to market things you sell? How do they have any justification telling you to shut it down, or to manufacture reasons to bug you to death about it? I wonder how someone rationalizes that.Posted by AriElla7No, I wouldn't... I don't have anything other than a rarely used
This topic has sorta been done before but I want to add more to it. Would you delete social media accounts for your s/o? Would you delete all of them? Would certain accounts need a valid reason? Would you delete your Twitter? Facebook? Instagram?
Another weird question -
Would you think it's weird if your s/o has an issue with you turning in a lost purse with multiple personal & business credit cards, their insurance card, their govt ID, and $ 300 cash in it? If they tell you to just leave it there for someone else to find, who may not turn it in… Or they actually get annoyed when you tell them you found this and turned it in, and they start lecturing you? Would you agree or get tired of there always being an issue over everything.. Even good Samaritan stuff..
facebook acct that serves me and no one else-- but still it's the
principle of the matter.
I would not give someone a reason to be concerned though...
that's not right.
To the second part: that's a red flag, and I would be very leery of that
person... sounds like a control freak.
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If I had valid reasons for my social media eg friends, family, business etc not to mention personal interests
And then on top of that I was lectured for doing the right thing- handing in somebody else's valuable property that I'd found...
I'd delete the S/O instead to be perfectly honest.
It all sounds a bit too controlly 😕
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And then on top of that I was lectured for doing the right thing- handing in somebody else's valuable property that I'd found...
I'd delete the S/O instead to be perfectly honest.
It all sounds a bit too controlly 😕
😆
Posted by rabidtalkerIs this him, Ariella? ^^^Posted by AriElla7Like there was some other problem in the relationship that was bugging her and this was just how she is dealing with it, picking a fight over something not really important instead.Posted by rabidtalkerWhat would you think is up?
I'd have no problem deleting all of them and it would serve as a good excuse.
I'd wonder why she'd care so much if I turned it in rather than leave it there. So yeah, I guess I'd think it was weird if not highly interesting. The part about there always being an issue over everything is kind of new/different. If it became a thing then maybe something else is up.
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Posted by AriElla7I would delete Social Media with no problem. As far as the other issue, I would just stop telling them my good deeds. Problem solved. And if he's with me when I do my good deed, then I'll ignore him
This topic has sorta been done before but I want to add more to it. Would you delete social media accounts for your s/o? Would you delete all of them? Would certain accounts need a valid reason? Would you delete your Twitter? Facebook? Instagram?
Another weird question -
Would you think it's weird if your s/o has an issue with you turning in a lost purse with multiple personal & business credit cards, their insurance card, their govt ID, and $ 300 cash in it? If they tell you to just leave it there for someone else to find, who may not turn it in… Or they actually get annoyed when you tell them you found this and turned it in, and they start lecturing you? Would you agree or get tired of there always being an issue over everything.. Even good Samaritan stuff..
Posted by MontgomeryLol noPosted by rabidtalkerIs this him, Ariella? ^^^Posted by AriElla7Like there was some other problem in the relationship that was bugging her and this was just how she is dealing with it, picking a fight over something not really important instead.Posted by rabidtalkerWhat would you think is up?
I'd have no problem deleting all of them and it would serve as a good excuse.
I'd wonder why she'd care so much if I turned it in rather than leave it there. So yeah, I guess I'd think it was weird if not highly interesting. The part about there always being an issue over everything is kind of new/different. If it became a thing then maybe something else is up.
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Posted by LadyTateGood idea on ignoring but it would kinda suck to have to omit knowledge of harmless and charitable activities. As for social media, what if it was business?Posted by AriElla7I would delete Social Media with no problem. As far as the other issue, I would just stop telling them my good deeds. Problem solved. And if he's with me when I do my good deed, then I'll ignore him
This topic has sorta been done before but I want to add more to it. Would you delete social media accounts for your s/o? Would you delete all of them? Would certain accounts need a valid reason? Would you delete your Twitter? Facebook? Instagram?
Another weird question -
Would you think it's weird if your s/o has an issue with you turning in a lost purse with multiple personal & business credit cards, their insurance card, their govt ID, and $ 300 cash in it? If they tell you to just leave it there for someone else to find, who may not turn it in… Or they actually get annoyed when you tell them you found this and turned it in, and they start lecturing you? Would you agree or get tired of there always being an issue over everything.. Even good Samaritan stuff..
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Posted by andstrollbotI could agree if it's a dating site.
i would. especially if you met on one of those sites.
Posted by wagtailLol yeah a bit much maybe.
If I had valid reasons for my social media eg friends, family, business etc not to mention personal interests
And then on top of that I was lectured for doing the right thing- handing in somebody else's valuable property that I'd found...
I'd delete the S/O instead to be perfectly honest.
It all sounds a bit too controlly 😕
😆
I don't think the first bit would work well for a Venusian dominant in the 9th house either. Yikes.
Posted by AriElla7Well my initial reaction was a bit extreme I guess.Posted by wagtailLol yeah a bit much maybe.
If I had valid reasons for my social media eg friends, family, business etc not to mention personal interests
And then on top of that I was lectured for doing the right thing- handing in somebody else's valuable property that I'd found...
I'd delete the S/O instead to be perfectly honest.
It all sounds a bit too controlly 😕
😆
I don't think the first bit would work well for a Venusian dominant in the 9th house either. Yikes.click to expand
It doesn't have to be that final, obviously, I just have little to no patience for things that infringe on my own sovereignty these days #singlelyfe
If I was shacked up with some Adonis that worshipped the ground I walked on and fed me grapes on the couch every evening I'd probably consider shutting down my social media and leaving things where I found them- yesh 😆
FaceBook, Twitter and Instagram are not dating sites.
Just sites with photoshopped pictures, fake lives, drama, and topics with no real depth.
Whether it existed or deleted has no relevancy.
I knew someone who asked his wife to delete her FB account.
He stressed a need for privacy.
She had wedding pictures and photos of their children.
She understood and deleted.
However,
This was just a ploy to let other women think he was "Single."
He deleted his old acct, and created a new one.
She has no idea.
He completely controls and navigates that marriage.
Just sites with photoshopped pictures, fake lives, drama, and topics with no real depth.
Whether it existed or deleted has no relevancy.
I knew someone who asked his wife to delete her FB account.
He stressed a need for privacy.
She had wedding pictures and photos of their children.
She understood and deleted.
However,
This was just a ploy to let other women think he was "Single."
He deleted his old acct, and created a new one.
She has no idea.
He completely controls and navigates that marriage.
Posted by AriElla7But why let him steal ur joy by watering down ur good dead? I had an ex like that. Every time I would give to the homeless or less fortunate he ALWAYS had something to say. But it didn't stop me. When he noticed I wasn't sharing my good deeds with him, he asked and I told him that I was not going to let his Debbie downer take steal my blessings. About a yr later he slowly started giving to the homeless and helping others more.Posted by LadyTateGood idea on ignoring but it would kinda suck to have to omit knowledge of harmless and charitable activities. As for social media, what if it was business?Posted by AriElla7I would delete Social Media with no problem. As far as the other issue, I would just stop telling them my good deeds. Problem solved. And if he's with me when I do my good deed, then I'll ignore him
This topic has sorta been done before but I want to add more to it. Would you delete social media accounts for your s/o? Would you delete all of them? Would certain accounts need a valid reason? Would you delete your Twitter? Facebook? Instagram?
Another weird question -
Would you think it's weird if your s/o has an issue with you turning in a lost purse with multiple personal & business credit cards, their insurance card, their govt ID, and $ 300 cash in it? If they tell you to just leave it there for someone else to find, who may not turn it in… Or they actually get annoyed when you tell them you found this and turned it in, and they start lecturing you? Would you agree or get tired of there always being an issue over everything.. Even good Samaritan stuff..
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For Social Media, if it's for business... He would have to understand. This is the way I help provide so either u deal with it or carry the weight of it all on ur own. I know for my boyfriend, he hates me working. He would be the odd ball to be like ok, close down social media, I'll support the family on my own. Smh.
Posted by SensitiveBluesDamn... I can hardly remember to check the one I had. Lol. Ppl had to text me to tell me they posted on my wall or tagged me in something. Eventually I just deleted it.
Hell no!
Men are liars! My ex had five or more FB accounts
Ya. I'd delete DXP(only social website I'm on) if my husband tells me to.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.
Posted by RumiLsame.
Ya. I'd delete DXP(only social website I'm on) if my husband tells me to.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.
he even tells me be careful of even clicking onto ads, because they might have viruses.
Posted by lisabethur8Lisaaaa! 👋 aww haha 🙂Posted by RumiLsame.
Ya. I'd delete DXP(only social website I'm on) if my husband tells me to.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.
he even tells me be careful of even clicking onto ads, because they might have viruses.
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Are you like me? I too don't understand computer stuff and all ?
Posted by AriElla72nd question....
This topic has sorta been done before but I want to add more to it. Would you delete social media accounts for your s/o? Would you delete all of them? Would certain accounts need a valid reason? Would you delete your Twitter? Facebook? Instagram?
Another weird question -
Would you think it's weird if your s/o has an issue with you turning in a lost purse with multiple personal & business credit cards, their insurance card, their govt ID, and $ 300 cash in it? If they tell you to just leave it there for someone else to find, who may not turn it in… Or they actually get annoyed when you tell them you found this and turned it in, and they start lecturing you? Would you agree or get tired of there always being an issue over everything.. Even good Samaritan stuff..
no I dont think he'd have an issue with that if I turn things in. My husband would like that. Shows good character.
edit - also he would do the same thing. he's really a goody goody guy deep down. with a kind of bad boy appeal.
Posted by RumiLPosted by lisabethur8Lisaaaa! 👋 aww haha 🙂Posted by RumiLsame.
Ya. I'd delete DXP(only social website I'm on) if my husband tells me to.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.
he even tells me be careful of even clicking onto ads, because they might have viruses.
Are you like me? I too don't understand computer stuff and all ?
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I don't either. I suck at it. but it's weird, my ex's are computer geniuses and my husband is very good with it too,
Posted by lisabethur8We attract that which we lack.. 🙂 ..i hope my husband is good with computer!Posted by RumiLPosted by lisabethur8Lisaaaa! 👋 aww haha 🙂Posted by RumiLsame.
Ya. I'd delete DXP(only social website I'm on) if my husband tells me to.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.
he even tells me be careful of even clicking onto ads, because they might have viruses.
Are you like me? I too don't understand computer stuff and all ?
I don't either. I suck at it. but it's weird, my ex's are computer geniuses and my husband is very good with it too,click to expand
Posted by RumiLyeah! it's not my interest, at all, but it is their interest....which is GOOD! because we are heading into technology and the future...and it looks like if you aren't going to be in computers even a little, you are going to suffer (in business that is)Posted by lisabethur8We attract that which we lack.. 🙂 ..i hope my husband is good with computer!Posted by RumiLPosted by lisabethur8Lisaaaa! 👋 aww haha 🙂Posted by RumiLsame.
Ya. I'd delete DXP(only social website I'm on) if my husband tells me to.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.
he even tells me be careful of even clicking onto ads, because they might have viruses.
Are you like me? I too don't understand computer stuff and all ?
I don't either. I suck at it. but it's weird, my ex's are computer geniuses and my husband is very good with it too,
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I hope so too for you!!
they need to help us vulnerable girls. 😛
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by RumiLyeah! it's not my interest, at all, but it is their interest....which is GOOD! because we are heading into technology and the future...and it looks like if you aren't going to be in computers even a little, you are going to suffer (in business that is)Posted by lisabethur8We attract that which we lack.. 🙂 ..i hope my husband is good with computer!Posted by RumiLPosted by lisabethur8Lisaaaa! 👋 aww haha 🙂Posted by RumiLsame.
Ya. I'd delete DXP(only social website I'm on) if my husband tells me to.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.
he even tells me be careful of even clicking onto ads, because they might have viruses.
Are you like me? I too don't understand computer stuff and all ?
I don't either. I suck at it. but it's weird, my ex's are computer geniuses and my husband is very good with it too,
I hope so too for you!!
they need to help us vulnerable girls. 😛click to expand
sooo true. I always feel like my life is difficult:/
Ahh. Not vulnerable.. I mean I get by :p .. I ask father or google what to do. Or call up my friends :/ .. It seems I have no brain cells to understand technology ?
Posted by RumiLDXP is a given toss lol. What if he doesn't have that husband title though?
Ya. I'd delete DXP(only social website I'm on) if my husband tells me to.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.
Posted by AriElla7Not my husband...? Hmm.. I'm not sure. If I see him as husband I will :pPosted by RumiLDXP is a given toss lol. What if he doesn't have that husband title though?
Ya. I'd delete DXP(only social website I'm on) if my husband tells me to.
Why..... because, it's my husband! I'd be busy anyway.. There may be very important things where I'd stubborn so... :p hehe.click to expand
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Would you think it's weird if your s/o has an issue with you turning in a lost purse with multiple personal & business credit cards, their insurance card, their govt ID, and $ 300 cash in it? If they tell you to just leave it there for someone else to find, who may not turn it in… Or they actually get annoyed when you tell them you found this and turned it in, and they start lecturing you? Would you agree or get tired of there always being an issue over everything.. Even good Samaritan stuff..