When you mom wants you to marry rich

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Faiyaz on Wednesday, July 13, 2016 and has 49 replies.

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@AQ0206
10 Years

Posted by Faiyaz
Hahaha. She gets so disappointed I'm single.

I'm divorced and my mom is ready for grandchildren. I'm 30 years old and uninterested in even dating men right now. GL, mom! Better go talk to your other children.

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by AQ0206
Posted by Faiyaz
Hahaha. She gets so disappointed I'm single.

I'm divorced and my mom is ready for grandchildren. I'm 30 years old and uninterested in even dating men right now. GL, mom! Better go talk to your other children.

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Lol

So yeah. I feel like I was supposed to be married by now.

By her standards.

2 kids deep.

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by AQ0206
Posted by Faiyaz
Hahaha. She gets so disappointed I'm single.

I'm divorced and my mom is ready for grandchildren. I'm 30 years old and uninterested in even dating men right now. GL, mom! Better go talk to your other children.

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Siblings fuck things up. They set a "standard" but in my family they just pray I don't end up knifed in a ditch. Argh

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

I remember being only a kid and my grandmother and mother telling me over and over how I should be selective of kids I would play with cuz they're not on my level.

I am the greatest disappointment on that side of the family. I love it.

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by Damnata
I remember being only a kid and my grandmother and mother telling me over and over how I should be selective of kids I would play with cuz they're not on my level.

I am the greatest disappointment on that side of the family. I love it.

Are you still a wild disappointing little thing or no?

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by AriesLove
No don't listen to your mom follow the rest of these women in the feminist movement. Start off as FWB and work your way up in 20 years to long term commitment. If things aren't progressing stick it out you really have no where to go anyway. It's not like you are married. You just move to the room across the hall.

Make sure whoever you choose has 3 or 4 kids already so you can buy his kids shoes, socks and plan birthday parties. Nobody can say you're wrong, because you don't plan on being a wife anyway.

You know it's all about respect, security and standards these days.

? Um fuck no

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by Damnata
I remember being only a kid and my grandmother and mother telling me over and over how I should be selective of kids I would play with cuz they're not on my level.

I am the greatest disappointment on that side of the family. I love it.

It seems like our upbringing keeps showing up, even when we are alone.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Faiyaz
Posted by Damnata
I remember being only a kid and my grandmother and mother telling me over and over how I should be selective of kids I would play with cuz they're not on my level.

I am the greatest disappointment on that side of the family. I love it.

It seems like our upbringing keeps showing up, even when we are alone.

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You'd think after so many years they'd give up but no. Both fixed suns.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by quarius_xy
Posted by Damnata
Posted by Faiyaz
Posted by Damnata
I remember being only a kid and my grandmother and mother telling me over and over how I should be selective of kids I would play with cuz they're not on my level.

I am the greatest disappointment on that side of the family. I love it.

It seems like our upbringing keeps showing up, even when we are alone.

You'd think after so many years they'd give up but no. Both fixed suns.

Do we have anything in common ?

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We're mutable?

Chart wise? I don't remember yours...don't think you ever posted it.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Damnata
I remember being only a kid and my grandmother and mother telling me over and over how I should be selective of kids I would play with cuz they're not on my level.

I am the greatest disappointment on that side of the family. I love it.

i'm not a disappointment in any side of the family. but your mother/grandmother sayings sound like my own. and they weren't fixed suns.

for them, it's dominant CARDINAL.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

but there's WISDOM in what they say....

because of incompatibilities.

you will end up fighting others because you don't "get" eachother.

that's why astrologers are always so, "Don't get with that, don't get with this..."

it seems that astrologers are the philosophers.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Damnata
I remember being only a kid and my grandmother and mother telling me over and over how I should be selective of kids I would play with cuz they're not on my level.

I am the greatest disappointment on that side of the family. I love it.

i'm not a disappointment in any side of the family. but your mother/grandmother sayings sound like my own. and they weren't fixed suns.

for them, it's dominant CARDINAL.

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Further proof us mutables are too cool for school.

It's the dominant and cardinal people!

I don't think this relates to astrology whatsoever though....that was their way in life so it makes sense they'd advocate that.

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@RumiL
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Mom is a Sag. She doesn't really care. She just wants a fun loving, cute, SANE son in law.

Sometimes I feel I should marry someone with Sag heavy or Leo heavy chart.. They both will have much fun.

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@livictori
12 Years500+ Posts

My Scorpio mom not only instructed me to marry rich but also white. So that I can have "beautiful biracial" children. She instructed me to keep my stomach flat and my boobs high. My Leo dad would try to deprogram me when I got home (he took me from her when I was 3; she was abusive). She refused to attend spelling bees, high school graduation or any academic achievement of mine. She is a money hungry lunatic and I haven't spoken to her in years. She destroyed my darker younger sister mentally and emotionally

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by Damnata
I remember being only a kid and my grandmother and mother telling me over and over how I should be selective of kids I would play with cuz they're not on my level.

I am the greatest disappointment on that side of the family. I love it.

Thank you.

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
She doesnt think much of you and doesnt think you can survive life

Hahaha. Wrong.

She thinks too highly of me. Knows I'll survive with or without. She thinks I'm lonely, I thought I was too but no.

She doesn't understand why a person like me is alone.

I don't know what to tell her.

Thanks for the response.

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by starlover
Posted by livictori
My Scorpio mom not only instructed me to marry rich but also white. So that I can have "beautiful biracial" children. She instructed me to keep my stomach flat and my boobs high. My Leo dad would try to deprogram me when I got home (he took me from her when I was 3; she was abusive). She refused to attend spelling bees, high school graduation or any academic achievement of mine. She is a money hungry lunatic and I haven't spoken to her in years. She destroyed my darker younger sister mentally and emotionally

She sounds vile

😢

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Very much so.

My situation is not a vile mother, but a co dependant one. She's seen me happy in relationships that lasted years. She said I need to find someone rich to afford all the things I want.

I told her,i need to adjust my sails for the winds I'll naviagte once I reach them

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by AQ0206
Posted by Faiyaz
Hahaha. She gets so disappointed I'm single.

I'm divorced and my mom is ready for grandchildren. I'm 30 years old and uninterested in even dating men right now. GL, mom! Better go talk to your other children.

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LOL

Do you ever think about it? Cause I dont. im on a 5 year rule

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by starlover
Posted by livictori
My Scorpio mom not only instructed me to marry rich but also white. So that I can have "beautiful biracial" children. She instructed me to keep my stomach flat and my boobs high. My Leo dad would try to deprogram me when I got home (he took me from her when I was 3; she was abusive). She refused to attend spelling bees, high school graduation or any academic achievement of mine. She is a money hungry lunatic and I haven't spoken to her in years. She destroyed my darker younger sister mentally and emotionally

She sounds vile

😢

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😢

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@atearth
13 Years

"When you mom wants you to marry rich"

Surely the parent would want their offspring to be a selfmade rich before getting married?

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by andstrollbot
Posted by Faiyaz
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mutables need to marry rich. fixed need to marry someone that can tolerate them. cardinals need to marry someone they can boss around.

What if all 3 are even in my chart?

go with sun sign

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Cmon dude. That's not hoe astrology works.

I choose moon. But have been unsuccessful ... so maybe you have a point.

Another sag?

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@venusianone
10 Years

Yeah but if Im dying of cancer and I need 300.000 euros (girl in my town) I cant really make it with no money. Sorry. 😢

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@Faiyaz
10 Years

Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by venusianone
Yeah, that's why poor people are miserable......

sick, and poor health, no medical insurance, teeth falling out, no shoes, barely any clothes, starving most of the time...

yup.

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Poor people are never poor .

Medical insurance is only a saftey net. Care is cheeper on a need basis. Despite taxes.

Other countries harbor starving children, but in America, we do too. Not food like other countries. But experience. "Hand your kid your phone" "occupy them"

Life is being creative . In being outside.

I think @starlover meant, life is what you make it.

Do those who have the least give the most?

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