The magic 30

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by enfant_terrible on Wednesday, April 4, 2012 and has 7 replies.

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Lately I've found myself strongly drawn to women in their early 30s. I'm 26 myself, so it's maybe not that strange. But do you feel that people of a certain age are just right for you, like emotionally, socially... and where they are in their lives? The magic 30 always seems to intuitively understand me and I them.

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As well all know ... a woman in her dirty thirties is accelerating into her sexual peak, climbing higher and naughtier with each orgasm, which yearns to happen every hour.

Certainly THAT fact plays no part

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Yes, I believe it's the emotional maturity, the sense that they are not always on the run, so to speak. They are simply just there and comfortable with it. I'm not talking about what they do but more like how they are. I also find that there is a certain physical beauty, or "glow" that comes with that particular age.

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@enfant_terrible
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@CapGal:

Excuse me but I'm 26, hardly a "little boy" to a woman in her early 30's. Why do you assume it must be some sort of sophomoric sexual fantasy when a guy gets along well with women a few years his senior? I've been through the same treatment in here before when I expressed my feelings about that married Scorpio co-worker, b. 1982: everyone just jumped to the conclusion that I was only after to get some nookie when in fact it was her personality that caught my attention.

Though looking at my new avi, even I have a hard time taking myself seriousely. I'll have to do something about that. lol

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Posted by 25thDecan
Older women tend to SEEM as if they're more honest about sex being a sure thing if they're attracted. Not that it will be but seeing as how it's the USUAL goal(is what it is man...lol) and couple that with some aren't as fickle as women under 27(ie...their "type" is a hollywood douchebag of SOME particular look but what they date is a process of learning and illogical bad choices LOL) then WALA. Your nose sniffs attraction over immediate games and you smell perfumes the younger ones have yet to take their time to find out whether they exist or not. don't sweat it. Seek them out. If they seem more compatible...date them. Sleep with them. One of them just MAY BE someone you've been destined share your life with if you believe that sort of thing.

And on the "taking you seriously part": don't sweat that...EVER. if you hear that from a woman, use this response with a small laugh and smile: "ok". Then..kepp it moving. Run from women/people like that and don't dwell on it. You're NOT a profile of resume's and cliche' phrases that should "make sense" to anyone but you. Happy hunting!

Sidenote: Sweet bacon bits on an ice cream SUNDAE! SyntheticAnesthetic your avi is...delicious...

Why, thank you good sir 😉

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People get whipped by Saturn by 30.. it's the ticket to real adulthood..
Their mindsets change, sometimes overnight (in a span of a few months), it must be refreshing to date someone who knows where they are going in life.. sort of like tranference of a little magic.