The Moment You Know...

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KidAmnesiac
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4 Years

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That you have reached the point of no return as far as staying committed to the idea of never being in a relationship again.

I'm witnessing so much monkey-branching or cheating through women I know or confessions on tik-tok regarding doing those actions.

Then I saw a video of a police officer doing a routine traffic stop on a dude. And finds his wife in the passenger's seat of the guy's car. According to the guy, they met through tinder and had been on a few dates. I believe the guys genuine shock when he found out she was married.

Before I get dragged for saying the following - yes, I know NOT ALL WOMEN are like this, but enough are unfortunately. The advent of social and dating apps like instagram and bumble make it easier for a girl to start setting up her plan b for being single- whether it's a potential f-buddy, boyfriend or her sidepiece for cheating.

I mean why bother with committing to a relationship when your girlfriend is one swipe away from finding your replacement on tinder or instagram if she gets bored? Thankfully I've never been married or had kids. At this point I would rather have a rotation of f-buddies vs committing and then getting either left or cheated on.

Since I already know Im gonna get the "men do it too!" defense. I am aware of that. HOWEVER.... it's usually the Chads who are the top 10% of men. Average guys struggle more on dating apps. I also place blame on parents for not educating their kids that some people are not meant to be monogamous. And that is ok if they aren't. Provided they are upfront about it, and pursue people who are like-minded as well.

I think we would have a less toxic dating environment if we were accepting of people who have a non-monogamous life style . Otherwise you end up with bitter p---ks like me who are starting to think committed relationships are a complete scam.