There's no "I" in "LOVE"

I am both surprised and not surprised that too many people never realize this.

I won't name people, but here two people in particular have amused me greatly with their ignorance. One is an Aries, another is a Cancer/Leo cusper. They're having a real hard time understanding that it is very possible to be attracted to one's personality more than their outward exterior to the point where they would like to get intimate with that person.

Then again those two aren't exactly the finest specimens of their respective signs. Arieses aren't known for their emotional depth & altruistic nature, and Cancers are too preoccupied in their bubblewrapped world to pay attention to someone else's needs.

I may be abrasive & blunt but if I genuinely care for you, you will get 100% of the best in me. My Virgo boy found that out first hand. Whenever he needed to talk, I was always there for him regardless of the time of day. He told me flat out from day 1 that he's not interested in anything other than a strictly platonic friendship. I respected his wishes and I meant it 100% . So whenever he called me up in the AM hours of the night wanting to talk, he knew I had no expectations of him. My support was available because that's who I am.

Over the years we grew closer, and evidently his point of view shifted over time. I came clean about loving him more than I've ever loved anyone in this world, and he was not repelled by it like I thought he'd be. Because after 4 years of knowing each other, he learned there's far more to this gay boy than just a nice ass & a 24/7craving for furious zug-zug with a demigod like him. I am for real, and so is my unconditional everything.

And that's something he appreciates. Offering to sleep with me was 100% his idea. I never suggested it, I never asked for it. It all came from him. Going through with it or otherwise wouldn't have made any difference to me. I'm still there for him 100% and whatever he needs I'll provide without hesitation because that's how I treat the man I love. Intimacy is just his way of expressing gratitude. I guess I'm lucky that he's such a beautiful boy on the inside as well, that he knows how to appreciate what I bring to the table.

I suppose with my Pluto in Scorpio, understanding others comes naturally to me, but it doesn't mean it's something you can't teach yourself. You just have to resist the urge to make everything always about YOU. There's no "I" in "LOVE". Truly loving someone is being willing to put his/her needs AHEAD of yours, and sometimes it's doing things for their benefit even if it hurts YOU.

Now, of course if the guy/girl is a dickhead, he/she is definitely not deserving of being loved like that. Giving Jethro my all does NOT mean that he's allowed to walk all over me. He has never taken advantage of me, but I wouldn't let him if he tried.

Point is: putting yourself in the other person's shoes and looking at yourself objectively through their eyes will show you a lot that you didn't know about yourself or did not want to know about yourself. Then maybe we'd get a lot less whiny brats moaning about "he doesn't treat me right" or "she's a bitch for cheating on me".

Sometimes that kind of thing happens because the partner is simply an ungrateful shit, but sometimes it's down to what YOU have done wrong. Being too selfish and not giving enough is often at the top of reasons for cheating. Give, to receive. I'm living proof of that.

So until next time, take care of yourself.......and each other.

Posted by Seraphlight
I thought it was spelt live.

.......no surprise there.

There's no "i" in a lot of words though :/

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I am both surprised and not surprised that too many people never realize this.

I won't name people, but here two people in particular have amused me greatly with their ignorance. One is an Aries, another is a Cancer/Leo cusper. They're having a real hard time understanding that it is very possible to be attracted to one's personality more than their outward exterior to the point where they would like to get intimate with that person.

Then again those two aren't exactly the finest specimens of their respective signs. Arieses aren't known for their emotional depth & altruistic nature, and Cancers are too preoccupied in their bubblewrapped world to pay attention to someone else's needs.

I may be abrasive & blunt but if I genuinely care for you, you will get 100% of the best in me. My Virgo boy found that out first hand. Whenever he needed to talk, I was always there for him regardless of the time of day. He told me flat out from day 1 that he's not interested in anything other than a strictly platonic friendship. I respected his wishes and I meant it 100% . So whenever he called me up in the AM hours of the night wanting to talk, he knew I had no expectations of him. My support was available because that's who I am.

Over the years we grew closer, and evidently his point of view shifted over time. I came clean about loving him more than I've ever loved anyone in this world, and he was not repelled by it like I thought he'd be. Because after 4 years of knowing each other, he learned there's far more to this gay boy than just a nice ass & a 24/7craving for furious zug-zug with a demigod like him. I am for real, and so is my unconditional everything.

And that's something he appreciates. Offering to sleep with me was 100% his idea. I never suggested it, I never asked for it. It all came from him. Going through with it or otherwise wouldn't have made any difference to me. I'm still there for him 100% and whatever he needs I'll provide without hesitation because that's how I treat the man I love. Intimacy is just his way of expressing gratitude. I guess I'm lucky that he's such a beautiful boy on the inside as well, that he knows how to appreciate what I bring to the table.

I suppose with my Pluto in Scorpio, understanding others comes naturally to me, but it doesn't mean it's something you can't teach yourself. You just have to resist the urge to make everything always about YOU. There's no "I" in "LOVE". Truly loving someone is being willing to put his/her needs AHEAD of yours, and sometimes it's doing things for their benefit even if it hurts YOU.

Now, of course if the guy/girl is a dickhead, he/she is definitely not deserving of being loved like that. Giving Jethro my all does NOT mean that he's allowed to walk all over me. He has never taken advantage of me, but I wouldn't let him if he tried.

Point is: putting yourself in the other person's shoes and looking at yourself objectively through their eyes will show you a lot that you didn't know about yourself or did not want to know about yourself. Then maybe we'd get a lot less whiny brats moaning about "he doesn't treat me right" or "she's a bitch for cheating on me".

Sometimes that kind of thing happens because the partner is simply an ungrateful shit, but sometimes it's down to what YOU have done wrong. Being too selfish and not giving enough is often at the top of reasons for cheating. Give, to receive. I'm living proof of that.

So until next time, take care of yourself.......and each other.

That dedication is rare. It's not taught and is hard to explain. There's a reason why most people build defenses and create obstacles originating from their own paranoia.

I'm a believer in sacrificing all, when you deem it's worth it. Until then, be smart and chose wisely. For when you find someone to love like this you go all in, like driving off a Pier.

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Posted by Scorpio84
The reason i atracted a compromised cancer into me and she unleashed her dark side too ;_;

Dude you're the one who took advantage of her when she was lonely coz your brother wasn't around.

You "comforted" her with your penis.

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Oh fuck no! That was him? I forgot about that.

Dumbass bug brought it on himself.

Posted by Andalusia
There's no "i" in a lot of words though :/

Lmao

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Posted by Seraphlight
I thought it was spelt live.

.......no surprise there.

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Why did you come up with this post like it's not obvious?

And for people who don't get it yet - they will if God willing or they might never...

Then it is total waste of time on them.

They never will...

So enjoy having it. I know I do😉

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Posted by Seraphlight
I thought it was spelt live.

.......no surprise there.

Why did you come up with this post like it's not obvious?

And for people who don't get it yet - they will if God willing or they might never...

Then it is total waste of time on them.

They never will...

So enjoy having it. I know I do😉

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This might be the only time I agree with you lol

Well said! ??

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Posted by Seraphlight
I thought it was spelt live.

.......no surprise there.

Why did you come up with this post like it's not obvious?

And for people who don't get it yet - they will if God willing or they might never...

Then it is total waste of time on them.

They never will...

So enjoy having it. I know I do😉

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After having tasted Heaven on my birthday, I was uber-inspired and hoped I could enlighten someone else. It was a momentary lapse of judgement in which I underestimated people's capacity for STUPID.

Posted by Lunabee

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I am both surprised and not surprised that too many people never realize this.

I won't name people, but here two people in particular have amused me greatly with their ignorance. One is an Aries, another is a Cancer/Leo cusper. They're having a real hard time understanding that it is very possible to be attracted to one's personality more than their outward exterior to the point where they would like to get intimate with that person.

Then again those two aren't exactly the finest specimens of their respective signs. Arieses aren't known for their emotional depth & altruistic nature, and Cancers are too preoccupied in their bubblewrapped world to pay attention to someone else's needs.

I may be abrasive & blunt but if I genuinely care for you, you will get 100% of the best in me. My Virgo boy found that out first hand. Whenever he needed to talk, I was always there for him regardless of the time of day. He told me flat out from day 1 that he's not interested in anything other than a strictly platonic friendship. I respected his wishes and I meant it 100% . So whenever he called me up in the AM hours of the night wanting to talk, he knew I had no expectations of him. My support was available because that's who I am.

Over the years we grew closer, and evidently his point of view shifted over time. I came clean about loving him more than I've ever loved anyone in this world, and he was not repelled by it like I thought he'd be. Because after 4 years of knowing each other, he learned there's far more to this gay boy than just a nice ass & a 24/7craving for furious zug-zug with a demigod like him. I am for real, and so is my unconditional everything.

And that's something he appreciates. Offering to sleep with me was 100% his idea. I never suggested it, I never asked for it. It all came from him. Going through with it or otherwise wouldn't have made any difference to me. I'm still there for him 100% and whatever he needs I'll provide without hesitation because that's how I treat the man I love. Intimacy is just his way of expressing gratitude. I guess I'm lucky that he's such a beautiful boy on the inside as well, that he knows how to appreciate what I bring to the table.

I suppose with my Pluto in Scorpio, understanding others comes naturally to me, but it doesn't mean it's something you can't teach yourself. You just have to resist the urge to make everything always about YOU. There's no "I" in "LOVE". Truly loving someone is being willing to put his/her needs AHEAD of yours, and sometimes it's doing things for their benefit even if it hurts YOU.

Now, of course if the guy/girl is a dickhead, he/she is definitely not deserving of being loved like that. Giving Jethro my all does NOT mean that he's allowed to walk all over me. He has never taken advantage of me, but I wouldn't let him if he tried.

Point is: putting yourself in the other person's shoes and looking at yourself objectively through their eyes will show you a lot that you didn't know about yourself or did not want to know about yourself. Then maybe we'd get a lot less whiny brats moaning about "he doesn't treat me right" or "she's a bitch for cheating on me".

Sometimes that kind of thing happens because the partner is simply an ungrateful shit, but sometimes it's down to what YOU have done wrong. Being too selfish and not giving enough is often at the top of reasons for cheating. Give, to receive. I'm living proof of that.

So until next time, take care of yourself.......and each other.

That dedication is rare. It's not taught and is hard to explain. There's a reason why most people build defenses and create obstacles originating from their own paranoia.

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Heh what can I tell ya, they don't make them like me anymore. But LMFAO scrolling down to read your reply, the only thing I see above it is the Jerry Springer pic.

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Posted by Lunabee

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I am both surprised and not surprised that too many people never realize this.

I won't name people, but here two people in particular have amused me greatly with their ignorance. One is an Aries, another is a Cancer/Leo cusper. They're having a real hard time understanding that it is very possible to be attracted to one's personality more than their outward exterior to the point where they would like to get intimate with that person.

Then again those two aren't exactly the finest specimens of their respective signs. Arieses aren't known for their emotional depth & altruistic nature, and Cancers are too preoccupied in their bubblewrapped world to pay attention to someone else's needs.

I may be abrasive & blunt but if I genuinely care for you, you will get 100% of the best in me. My Virgo boy found that out first hand. Whenever he needed to talk, I was always there for him regardless of the time of day. He told me flat out from day 1 that he's not interested in anything other than a strictly platonic friendship. I respected his wishes and I meant it 100% . So whenever he called me up in the AM hours of the night wanting to talk, he knew I had no expectations of him. My support was available because that's who I am.

Over the years we grew closer, and evidently his point of view shifted over time. I came clean about loving him more than I've ever loved anyone in this world, and he was not repelled by it like I thought he'd be. Because after 4 years of knowing each other, he learned there's far more to this gay boy than just a nice ass & a 24/7craving for furious zug-zug with a demigod like him. I am for real, and so is my unconditional everything.

And that's something he appreciates. Offering to sleep with me was 100% his idea. I never suggested it, I never asked for it. It all came from him. Going through with it or otherwise wouldn't have made any difference to me. I'm still there for him 100% and whatever he needs I'll provide without hesitation because that's how I treat the man I love. Intimacy is just his way of expressing gratitude. I guess I'm lucky that he's such a beautiful boy on the inside as well, that he knows how to appreciate what I bring to the table.

I suppose with my Pluto in Scorpio, understanding others comes naturally to me, but it doesn't mean it's something you can't teach yourself. You just have to resist the urge to make everything always about YOU. There's no "I" in "LOVE". Truly loving someone is being willing to put his/her needs AHEAD of yours, and sometimes it's doing things for their benefit even if it hurts YOU.

Now, of course if the guy/girl is a dickhead, he/she is definitely not deserving of being loved like that. Giving Jethro my all does NOT mean that he's allowed to walk all over me. He has never taken advantage of me, but I wouldn't let him if he tried.

Point is: putting yourself in the other person's shoes and looking at yourself objectively through their eyes will show you a lot that you didn't know about yourself or did not want to know about yourself. Then maybe we'd get a lot less whiny brats moaning about "he doesn't treat me right" or "she's a bitch for cheating on me".

Sometimes that kind of thing happens because the partner is simply an ungrateful shit, but sometimes it's down to what YOU have done wrong. Being too selfish and not giving enough is often at the top of reasons for cheating. Give, to receive. I'm living proof of that.

So until next time, take care of yourself.......and each other.

That dedication is rare. It's not taught and is hard to explain. There's a reason why most people build defenses and create obstacles originating from their own paranoia.

Heh what can I tell ya, they don't make them like me anymore. But LMFAO scrolling down to read your reply, the only thing I see above it is the Jerry Springer pic.

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How perfect is that advertisement over my message. lol. Kismit.

Posted by rekt
what about when he has a girlfriend? married to a woman? with kids?

If/when that happens, he will never see me or hear from me ever again. To him I'd be dead all but literally.

I've made that part clear to him multiple times. He HATES that topic.

Love is for pussies

The only I in love comes from self love. Maybe there are two kinds.

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Posted by rekt
what about when he has a girlfriend? married to a woman? with kids?

If/when that happens, he will never see me or hear from me ever again. To him I'd be dead all but literally.

I've made that part clear to him multiple times. He HATES that topic.

which is you being selfish. you can love someone and be their friend even when they have a partner. the thing is moreso that you want to possess him not really love him. because if you loved him you'd want to see him happy. you wouldn't want to chain him to a sexuality that is unnatural to him just to keep him around.

you talk about what a great friend you are. when really you're not. you're only around until he starts to live his life. then you're gonna bail on him. and the truth is you may be keeping him from living his life because he doesn't want to lose you. hell you even manipulated him into getting sexual with you so you wouldn't leave. what does that say about you?

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I'm not Gandhi, I have my limits. I said it before and I'll say it again: I'm madly in love but I'm not the ultimate self-sacrifice machine.

I have not attached any strings to him. He's the one calling the shots & dictating the pace. We're just enjoying whatever this is while it lasts. When he decides that we should go back to being 100% platonic friends like we used to be up until a few months ago, I'll fully accept it and abide by it. And I'll still be there for him 100% like I've always been.

As for how he feels, I have no control over his feelings. It's all coming from him. I haven't cast any spell or anything. It's all his doing. He's gonna have to figure it out & decide for himself, the way I have figured out my own feelings. Free will, look it up.

But at some stage I have to take care of myself. Seeing him with someone else would more or less kill me, which is why I couldn't stick around to watch it. I've had a breakdown once before, I don't want another one. I wouldn't survive it.

Having said that, I'm always amused to see you literally attacking me whenever I mention Jethro. Don't know what your deal is and frankly I couldn't give a toss. Wouldn't surprise me one bit if you were wishing you were me in this instance. But having a go at me and talking out of your ass about me manipulating anyone into a sexual encounter isn't gonna solve your own problems. I'm not obliged to explain myself to you any further.

So learn to read next time because I'm speaking in plain english. Then visit a therapist & take the rest of the spinsters who "don't get it" with you.

Posted by SassyKiwi
Love is for pussies

.......so says the one with the manliest dog in the world as his/her avatar.

Good going there, sport.

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Posted by SassyKiwi
Love is for pussies

.......so says the one with the manliest dog in the world as his/her avatar.

Good going there, sport.

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Yes I am a little boy from the village of Nonthaburi. Bitch u tryna underestimate ppl who got cuter avi than u

Posted by SassyKiwi

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Posted by SassyKiwi
Love is for pussies

.......so says the one with the manliest dog in the world as his/her avatar.

Good going there, sport.

Yes I am a little boy from the village of Nonthaburi. Bitch u tryna underestimate ppl who got cuter avi than u

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Nonthaburi is in Thailand, not New Zealand, so your nickname is pointless.

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Posted by SassyKiwi

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Posted by SassyKiwi
Love is for pussies

.......so says the one with the manliest dog in the world as his/her avatar.

Good going there, sport.

Yes I am a little boy from the village of Nonthaburi. Bitch u tryna underestimate ppl who got cuter avi than u

Nonthaburi is in Thailand, not New Zealand, so your nickname is pointless.

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Dude I was joking.

I never claimed to be this:



Or this:



I am this:



You misinterpreted the intentions for my username.

Posted by MadMarchRam

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Posted by Seraphlight
I thought it was spelt live.

.......no surprise there.

Why did you come up with this post like it's not obvious?

And for people who don't get it yet - they will if God willing or they might never...

Then it is total waste of time on them.

They never will...

So enjoy having it. I know I do😉

This might be the only time I agree with you lol

Well said! ??

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They all come around and then I have to dump some...too many I can't handle.

I actually can but I don't want to!

It's just one of me!

Who ARE you anyway?

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Posted by Gemitati

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Posted by Seraphlight
I thought it was spelt live.

.......no surprise there.

Why did you come up with this post like it's not obvious?

And for people who don't get it yet - they will if God willing or they might never...

Then it is total waste of time on them.

They never will...

So enjoy having it. I know I do😉

After having tasted Heaven on my birthday, I was uber-inspired and hoped I could enlighten someone else. It was a momentary lapse of judgement in which I underestimated people's capacity for STUPID.

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You homos are weird!

Well...you are homos...so...you ARE weird...

Love ya! Not that it'll make you love me but just trying to be...niiice!

"Dude you're the one who took advantage of her when she was lonely coz your brother wasn't around.

You "comforted" her with your penis. "

lol

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by _Dazed

"Dude you're the one who took advantage of her when she was lonely coz your brother wasn't around.

You "comforted" her with your penis. "

lol

HES is Nelson?

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No. I just thought it was funny.